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Would you / have you walked out on a meet
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope, but in the early days of being back here, I foolishly replied to a hotel meet request on a status. I noticed the man was bi and I flagged up the fact I wasn't.
Still, I was invited along and sure enough, there they were. And as I naively didn't suspect, the woman was more interested in me playing with the man. The carrot dangled was if I played the guy, I could have her.
The guy kept saying 'it'll be fine, it will feel really good'. I said no, and that was me shown the door in fairly quick order
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a hotel meet where I was staying for other reasons and just wanted the ground to open up and swallow me!! Fortunately he was finished pretty quick but wasn't quick enough for me! I always meet socially now to make sure there's a connection and plan a play meet another day if all ok. I've had a few socials where getting conversation out of them was like trying to get blood out of a stone but quickly drank up and made my excuses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But as a direct answer to the OP's question, I would do it, but only if the chemistry was extraordinarily bad. I'd feel really bad if things have gotten that far and then I realised it wasn't working at all and would struggle to potentially knock/offend/upset someone like that.
Chances are, though, it would be me being walked out on. Haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I would. ... But I make Damn sure that doesn't happen as I don't have time to waste meeting people that aren't compatible  "
 I've learnt not to meet unless I chat and get to know them for ages first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've learnt not to meet unless I chat and get to know them for ages first. "
I do this too for this reason, get to know if it's worth taking time out to meet. Got to have banter! Risks you being called a time waster though by impatient people! |
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not left as generally I'm accommodating but have asked one to leave, photo's were not accurate n he was too quiet for me. Felt terrible at the time but know if I'd gone ahead it woulda put me off swinging altogether. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep.....he was a tidy looking guy in his pics but when i met him in person and he opened his mouth his teeth were like something you'd see on Jezza. I managed half a cup of tea then made some shamefully pathetic excuse about having a bad stomach and needing to go to tesco for tablets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've learnt not to meet unless I chat and get to know them for ages first.
I do this too for this reason, get to know if it's worth taking time out to meet. Got to have banter! Risks you being called a time waster though by impatient people!"
Banter is all well and good,I can chat for ages until I meet,its not until you are face to face and in a position sexually that you'll really know if you click |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've learnt not to meet unless I chat and get to know them for ages first.
I do this too for this reason, get to know if it's worth taking time out to meet. Got to have banter! Risks you being called a time waster though by impatient people!
Banter is all well and good,I can chat for ages until I meet,its not until you are face to face and in a position sexually that you'll really know if you click"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes and Yes...
I've also asked a couple of people to leave.... one was fine, the other one went a bit psycho "
Baseball bat handy luckily psycho only happened to me on a social meet I sat there thinking this is one cunt then thought fk it told him I was leaving he was lucky as he started shouting the drink was not over his head |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the sex was so bad would you or have you walked out "
I wouldn't walk out. I would just try to spice things up and be creative by trying different things to do.
To be honest a conversation should be had where you discuss what makes the other person tick. It is then up to you to see if you're capable of meeting their expectations before a meet happens.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've learnt not to meet unless I chat and get to know them for ages first.
I do this too for this reason, get to know if it's worth taking time out to meet. Got to have banter! Risks you being called a time waster though by impatient people!
Banter is all well and good,I can chat for ages until I meet,its not until you are face to face and in a position sexually that you'll really know if you click
I have body confidence issues and will always ask for a social meet first. If they're not happy with this, then I don't meet. "
You have legs to die for  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've learnt not to meet unless I chat and get to know them for ages first.
I do this too for this reason, get to know if it's worth taking time out to meet. Got to have banter! Risks you being called a time waster though by impatient people!
Banter is all well and good,I can chat for ages until I meet,its not until you are face to face and in a position sexually that you'll really know if you click"
I never meet until a fair few messages have been passed, and gauged some 'connection'. However on one occasion, I did have to ask a man to leave. He kept trying something sexually, and I said no three times. Luckily he left with no hesitation. |
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I had a meet where we had had good banter by text and talk. Chemistry was good when we met. Got naked and he didn't shut up with a running commentary. When he said he wanted to put a baby in my belly I politely asked him to stop and leave. Fortunately he did but did ask a few times if we could try again as he was doing so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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yes I have
If a guys not ticking my boxes I will encourage him to do things the way I like it, if he don't take my advice I will and have leave
I wont just lay there for someone else's pleasure, if its not mutual pleasure what's the point, if I was doing something a way a guy didn't like I would hope he would tell me also |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've learnt not to meet unless I chat and get to know them for ages first.
I do this too for this reason, get to know if it's worth taking time out to meet. Got to have banter! Risks you being called a time waster though by impatient people!
Banter is all well and good,I can chat for ages until I meet,its not until you are face to face and in a position sexually that you'll really know if you click"
I disagree.....I think you can tell a lot from chatting to someone.... |
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By *layerzCouple
over a year ago
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"yes, i have!"
Hi Maria, Tony and Tracy (Gran Canaria)here.... How are you, hope you're good - remember the ice???
Can understand why anyone would walk out on a meet - if the chemistry ain't there it's just not worth it.
Nice to see you're alive and kickin' |
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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago
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"no i just looked at the clock and hoped he didnt take too long."
Thanks for that and I'll try and be quicker next time!
Answer to the OP. Never walked out but there's a couple where I won't be going back for desserts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've learnt not to meet unless I chat and get to know them for ages first.
I do this too for this reason, get to know if it's worth taking time out to meet. Got to have banter! Risks you being called a time waster though by impatient people!
Banter is all well and good,I can chat for ages until I meet,its not until you are face to face and in a position sexually that you'll really know if you click
I have body confidence issues and will always ask for a social meet first. If they're not happy with this, then I don't meet.
You have legs to die for "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes and have even stayed awake all night because the other party were pissed and then thrown them out the next morning ....... big learning curve is this  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've learnt not to meet unless I chat and get to know them for ages first.
I do this too for this reason, get to know if it's worth taking time out to meet. Got to have banter! Risks you being called a time waster though by impatient people!
Banter is all well and good,I can chat for ages until I meet,its not until you are face to face and in a position sexually that you'll really know if you click
I disagree.....I think you can tell a lot from chatting to someone...."
surely you could never know if someone was good in bed by talking?
you can get on with someone great that don't mean they are goods sexually |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the sex was so bad would you or have you walked out
At what point would you decide that it wasn't going to get any better?"
that's actually a very good question |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I normally stay the night in a hotel with the guy, but there have been occasions where the guy has either ran out of stamina or snores that loud, I'd rather live near Heathrow  , so I have gone home to the comfort of my own bed.  |
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I've learnt not to meet unless I chat and get to know them for ages first.
I do this too for this reason, get to know if it's worth taking time out to meet. Got to have banter! Risks you being called a time waster though by impatient people!
Banter is all well and good,I can chat for ages until I meet,its not until you are face to face and in a position sexually that you'll really know if you click
I disagree.....I think you can tell a lot from chatting to someone....
surely you could never know if someone was good in bed by talking?
you can get on with someone great that don't mean they are goods sexually"
No but you can tell if you're on the same wavelength and if you have good communication, that is half the battle. |
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I've learnt not to meet unless I chat and get to know them for ages first.
I do this too for this reason, get to know if it's worth taking time out to meet. Got to have banter! Risks you being called a time waster though by impatient people!
Banter is all well and good,I can chat for ages until I meet,its not until you are face to face and in a position sexually that you'll really know if you click
I disagree.....I think you can tell a lot from chatting to someone....
surely you could never know if someone was good in bed by talking?
you can get on with someone great that don't mean they are goods sexually"
Exactly. Even great verifications don't mean they will suit you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've learnt not to meet unless I chat and get to know them for ages first.
I do this too for this reason, get to know if it's worth taking time out to meet. Got to have banter! Risks you being called a time waster though by impatient people!
Banter is all well and good,I can chat for ages until I meet,its not until you are face to face and in a position sexually that you'll really know if you click
I disagree.....I think you can tell a lot from chatting to someone....
surely you could never know if someone was good in bed by talking?
you can get on with someone great that don't mean they are goods sexually"
Depends what you talk about  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the sex was so bad would you or have you walked out
At what point would you decide that it wasn't going to get any better?
that's actually a very good question"
When they've rolled over and gone to sleep leaving you utterly frustrated... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I've learnt not to meet unless I chat and get to know them for ages first.
I do this too for this reason, get to know if it's worth taking time out to meet. Got to have banter! Risks you being called a time waster though by impatient people!
Banter is all well and good,I can chat for ages until I meet,its not until you are face to face and in a position sexually that you'll really know if you click
I disagree.....I think you can tell a lot from chatting to someone....
surely you could never know if someone was good in bed by talking?
you can get on with someone great that don't mean they are goods sexually
Exactly. Even great verifications don't mean they will suit you."
Yes i had noticed. |
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I've learnt not to meet unless I chat and get to know them for ages first.
I do this too for this reason, get to know if it's worth taking time out to meet. Got to have banter! Risks you being called a time waster though by impatient people!
Banter is all well and good,I can chat for ages until I meet,its not until you are face to face and in a position sexually that you'll really know if you click
I disagree.....I think you can tell a lot from chatting to someone....
surely you could never know if someone was good in bed by talking?
you can get on with someone great that don't mean they are goods sexually
Exactly. Even great verifications don't mean they will suit you.
Yes i had noticed."
You too huh!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If the sex was so bad would you or have you walked out "
Never got as far as 'sex'
His place was disgusting! . .
Nice flat , my arse!
More like a squat!
This guy had been verified too . . More than once . . Yuk! Yuk!! Yuk!!
Not on this site i should add |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"yes I have
If a guys not ticking my boxes I will encourage him to do things the way I like it, if he don't take my advice I will and have leave
I wont just lay there for someone else's pleasure, if its not mutual pleasure what's the point, if I was doing something a way a guy didn't like I would hope he would tell me also"
totally agree but the look of shock was a picture I had to suppress a fit of the giggles makes me evil ( not ) |
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I have once - squalid flat, asbo tag on her ankle, not like their photos... and should have done a second time at a club. Here the feel was all wrong and the more I tried to turn things round the worse it got... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I did last night the hisband thought he wanted his wife pleased by another man we some money into a nice room i met at nice restaurant hung out in the hotel room finally went down on her after taking her panties off ate her for almost an hour and she sucked my cock four about three minutes he never got hard went over sat on the bed i knew it was over had to tell him thank you im sorry it didnt work out its not everyones cup of tea amd bowed out gracefully as i could they were nice people she wanted it he didnt too bad but what else could i do i did the right thing i think |
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"I did last night the hisband thought he wanted his wife pleased by another man we some money into a nice room i met at nice restaurant hung out in the hotel room finally went down on her after taking her panties off ate her for almost an hour and she sucked my cock four about three minutes he never got hard went over sat on the bed i knew it was over had to tell him thank you im sorry it didnt work out its not everyones cup of tea amd bowed out gracefully as i could they were nice people she wanted it he didnt too bad but what else could i do i did the right thing i think "
Not taking the pis mate but can you fill in the missing words please? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had a meet once x it was awful, I wish i had the bottle then to of said no enough we are going.. it was really an awful experience. . But wouldn't hesitate now if it ever happened again with another meet.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the talking in messages is to determine if there is a connection and that they aren't psycho's. Until the nitty gritty starts u can only hope they are compatible |
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