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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Copied my answer from the other thread..
Depends on if I liked them, the first time round... 
Sometimes for whatever reason you lose contact with people."
I agree with that but i think if they were that interested then they would have contacted you before even to just say hi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Common decency cost nowt unless he's been in a coma for the last 4 years!! He's no excuse for not even dropping by to say hi and ask how your doing.
Sounds to me like a wham bam thankyou next! And he's run out of resource's lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Common decency cost nowt unless he's been in a coma for the last 4 years!! He's no excuse for not even dropping by to say hi and ask how your doing.
Sounds to me like a wham bam thankyou next! And he's run out of resource's lol "
Yes thats what i was thinking too.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Common decency cost nowt unless he's been in a coma for the last 4 years!! He's no excuse for not even dropping by to say hi and ask how your doing.
Sounds to me like a wham bam thankyou next! And he's run out of resource's lol
Yes thats what i was thinking too. "
Plenty more fish int see there's no shortage of dudes on hear that's for sure haha good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Common decency cost nowt unless he's been in a coma for the last 4 years!! He's no excuse for not even dropping by to say hi and ask how your doing.
Sounds to me like a wham bam thankyou next! And he's run out of resource's lol "
I partly agree with this but there could be a perfectly reasonable explanation, perhaps he has been in an exclusive relationship and not been meeting.
If that isn't the case then, no, I would tell them to sling their hook.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If he'd left the site for a relationship, or even just a break from the scene then possibly... If his luck with meets had just dried up and he was just after an up to date veri then probably not! To be honest though it would probably all come down to how fit he was and how good the sex had been when we had met...I may have principals but I do enjoy a good hard shag with a fitty too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If i liked them yes, this is a swinging site, i don't expect people to stay in touch with me, they have a life and if meeting me again for a few years does not fit into their life so be it, maybe he's been in a relationship that's now ended so he's catching up, if you liked them the first time why not meet them again? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If he'd left the site for a relationship, or even just a break from the scene then possibly... If his luck with meets had just dried up and he was just after an up to date veri then probably not! To be honest though it would probably all come down to how fit he was and how good the sex had been when we had met...I may have principals but I do enjoy a good hard shag with a fitty too "
This!! As have met people after leaving this site and others for a relationship in the past, then come back swinging etc and its all about if you liked them in the first place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's all just speculation he may be a genuine guy who's been out of the lifestyle for a while for moral honest reasons who knows
Orrrrrr he could be a giant douche haha |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Copied my answer from the other thread..
Depends on if I liked them, the first time round...
Sometimes for whatever reason you lose contact with people.
I agree with that but i think if they were that interested then they would have contacted you before even to just say hi."
I see what you are saying but then you could of easily have contacted them too to say hi, if you wanted to meet again.
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"If i liked them yes, this is a swinging site, i don't expect people to stay in touch with me, they have a life and if meeting me again for a few years does not fit into their life so be it, maybe he's been in a relationship that's now ended so he's catching up, if you liked them the first time why not meet them again?"
You put it far better than me NN.
This |
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By (user no longer on site)
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This goes both ways doesn't it? If that person hasn't contacted you in four years, then clearly you made no effort either. There must be a reason why neither of you bothered with each other. Unless they had done something bad I don't see why or why not to meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If i liked them yes, this is a swinging site, i don't expect people to stay in touch with me, they have a life and if meeting me again for a few years does not fit into their life so be it, maybe he's been in a relationship that's now ended so he's catching up, if you liked them the first time why not meet them again?"
Absolutely...a fuck does not an obligation make...If I fancied fucking them again, I'd base my decision on that only... |
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"If i liked them yes, this is a swinging site, i don't expect people to stay in touch with me, they have a life and if meeting me again for a few years does not fit into their life so be it, maybe he's been in a relationship that's now ended so he's catching up, if you liked them the first time why not meet them again?"
Exactly. This is all about having a bit of sexy fun, nothing more, so why not? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Common decency cost nowt unless he's been in a coma for the last 4 years!! He's no excuse for not even dropping by to say hi and ask how your doing.
Sounds to me like a wham bam thankyou next! And he's run out of resource's lol
Yes thats what i was thinking too.
Plenty more fish int see there's no shortage of dudes on hear that's for sure haha good luck "
Takes 2 to tango....why is it the responsibility of the man to keep in touch?
I've met men years apart if I liked them enough. |
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