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"Go for it!....what on earth could possibly go wrong? "..... except a few missing teeth and broken ribs he may inflict on you when he finds out. Stick to swinging and stop eyeing a friends wife.. it could be dangerous | |||
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"Don't do it another one here who's had a relationship destroyed by a husband and best mate. It's not nice " That's EX Husband | |||
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"Next time you are with them, point out the window and shout 'What the fuck was that!', while your mate is distracted show his wife your penis. If she smiles and winks, it's game on bro!" pmsl !!! | |||
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Wouldn't the right thing be to tell his friend this is what she's putting out? I am being devil's advocate to a degree...but it is also confusing that one minute everyone's agreed that the thought of cheating is the same as cheating and the next it's the bloke's fault for taking advantage of that situation. | |||
"Surely this relates to the cheating thread we had recently. Isn't it pretty clear that she is looking to cheat? Maybe she isn't...but this is what the OP is saying she's putting out. If so isn't the relationship already over...and the OP would only be helping things along? I'm not advocating cheating....I'm just puzzled as to why all the onus is on the OP as being a potential marriage breaker when it seems to me that it's her who's looking to do the wrecking
Wouldn't the right thing be to tell his friend this is what she's putting out? I am being devil's advocate to a degree...but it is also confusing that one minute everyone's agreed that the thought of cheating is the same as cheating and the next it's the bloke's fault for taking advantage of that situation."Its not his best friend, he's just a friend. So i say you can't go telling him that his wife is putting out. Because rightly she will deny it, the hubby will agree with her that your just making things up to get into her knickers. And you will fail the Jeremy Kyle lie detector test. So i say leave them to it, she will shag someone else and get caught. And you will be the find upstanding man you are who would never shag a mates wife  | |||
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"She is hot he drinks alot.and it would be fun with out strings normaly i hve no problem but enjoying the chase and flirting" there are strings, lots of them | |||
"Here's a different view of it. Some years ago I had a local village pub that I used to go in. My very best friend and his wife used to go in there too. Her best friend was married to one of the regulars in the pub, I knew him as you do in a village pub. He spent most of his spare time in the pub, his wife was mostly left at home apart from when he used her as a driver. She was 29, he was some years older and had no sexual interest in her whatsoever. One night when he came home from work and she was lying on the sofa, wearing a Basque, skimpy knickers, suspenders, stockings and heels. He came into the lounge, went in the kitchen for a can of lager and sat down on a chair to watch the telly. She had spoken many time to my friend's wife about her problems with him and my friend's wife and her decided that she needed to have an affair. The question was who with? My mate's Mrs suggested why not Mick, he'd probably be up for it? My mate had the the task of telling me about the situation , I knew who she was, thought she was gorgeous and so said yes. We started to see each other over the course of a month when he was at work, he was a copper and on shifts. It was pretty much kissing, cuddling and talking. She then left him, moving in with a friend from work. At the time I was looking after my sister's house and dogs some miles from her marital home while she was on holiday. The evening of the day she left him she came to see me and we ended up in bed. We stayed together for the next week or so while my sister was away, looking for a place to live. We got a flat and moved in together. Nine months later she was divorced, we were married and three months later my daughter was born. Fourteen months after that ny son was born, she'd really wanted children and that wouldn't have happened if she'd stayed with him. We were together for over thirteen and a half years before we split, the split wasn't a good time but now we're good friends. The kids are in their twenties with good degrees and futures. She recently remarried for the fifth time, (I was number three), he seems like a decent chap, (the fourth was a total knobhead and I think she made the mistake of getting together on the rebound). So there you go, not all affairs end up in misery and broken teeth. I feel sorry for the woman, she sounds like she's in a similar position to my ex before she met me, why shouldn't she have a sex life. Her husband of the time would probably have described me as a mate from the pub. " I have always held (inc when I discovered my ex was cheating) that it takes 3 ppl to make an affair... The cheating partner who should either resolve the outstanding issues or leave The 'other woman/man' who has no business going near someone they know is in a committed relationship The non-cheating partner who's not putting enough effort into their relationship. Was I hurt? Yes was I partially to blame? Yes I knew I was no longer on love but stayed out of convenience Ex n her (there were actually two hers at one point) are now married with kids, my daughter stays with them at holidays, ex already up to no good with her best friend. What's that about men who marry their mistresses? They create a vacancy. | |||
"Here's a different view of it. Some years ago I had a local village pub that I used to go in. My very best friend and his wife used to go in there too. Her best friend was married to one of the regulars in the pub, I knew him as you do in a village pub. He spent most of his spare time in the pub, his wife was mostly left at home apart from when he used her as a driver. She was 29, he was some years older and had no sexual interest in her whatsoever. One night when he came home from work and she was lying on the sofa, wearing a Basque, skimpy knickers, suspenders, stockings and heels. He came into the lounge, went in the kitchen for a can of lager and sat down on a chair to watch the telly. She had spoken many time to my friend's wife about her problems with him and my friend's wife and her decided that she needed to have an affair. The question was who with? My mate's Mrs suggested why not Mick, he'd probably be up for it? My mate had the the task of telling me about the situation , I knew who she was, thought she was gorgeous and so said yes. We started to see each other over the course of a month when he was at work, he was a copper and on shifts. It was pretty much kissing, cuddling and talking. She then left him, moving in with a friend from work. At the time I was looking after my sister's house and dogs some miles from her marital home while she was on holiday. The evening of the day she left him she came to see me and we ended up in bed. We stayed together for the next week or so while my sister was away, looking for a place to live. We got a flat and moved in together. Nine months later she was divorced, we were married and three months later my daughter was born. Fourteen months after that ny son was born, she'd really wanted children and that wouldn't have happened if she'd stayed with him. We were together for over thirteen and a half years before we split, the split wasn't a good time but now we're good friends. The kids are in their twenties with good degrees and futures. She recently remarried for the fifth time, (I was number three), he seems like a decent chap, (the fourth was a total knobhead and I think she made the mistake of getting together on the rebound). So there you go, not all affairs end up in misery and broken teeth. I feel sorry for the woman, she sounds like she's in a similar position to my ex before she met me, why shouldn't she have a sex life. Her husband of the time would probably have described me as a mate from the pub. I have always held (inc when I discovered my ex was cheating) that it takes 3 ppl to make an affair... The cheating partner who should either resolve the outstanding issues or leave The 'other woman/man' who has no business going near someone they know is in a committed relationship The non-cheating partner who's not putting enough effort into their relationship. Was I hurt? Yes was I partially to blame? Yes I knew I was no longer on love but stayed out of convenience Ex n her (there were actually two hers at one point) are now married with kids, my daughter stays with them at holidays, ex already up to no good with her best friend. What's that about men who marry their mistresses? They create a vacancy. " I completely agree with you, if everything was ok there wouldn't be the need to look or be tempted enough to cheat . | |||
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"temptation is a woman's weapon and a mans excuse! " Tell me you don't believe that......please  | |||
"theres an old joke that sums this up MY WIFE RAN OFF WITH MY BEST FRIEND I REALLY MISS HIM !!!"  | |||
"My friends wife is always telling me how horny she is and he has no interest .she also caught me eyeing her up and smileing should i help her with her needs and he is not my best buddy just a guy im friends with?" you never heard that expression don't shit on your own door step  | |||
"Here's a different view of it. Some years ago I had a local village pub that I used to go in. My very best friend and his wife used to go in there too. Her best friend was married to one of the regulars in the pub, I knew him as you do in a village pub. He spent most of his spare time in the pub, his wife was mostly left at home apart from when he used her as a driver. She was 29, he was some years older and had no sexual interest in her whatsoever. One night when he came home from work and she was lying on the sofa, wearing a Basque, skimpy knickers, suspenders, stockings and heels. He came into the lounge, went in the kitchen for a can of lager and sat down on a chair to watch the telly. She had spoken many time to my friend's wife about her problems with him and my friend's wife and her decided that she needed to have an affair. The question was who with? My mate's Mrs suggested why not Mick, he'd probably be up for it? My mate had the the task of telling me about the situation , I knew who she was, thought she was gorgeous and so said yes. We started to see each other over the course of a month when he was at work, he was a copper and on shifts. It was pretty much kissing, cuddling and talking. She then left him, moving in with a friend from work. At the time I was looking after my sister's house and dogs some miles from her marital home while she was on holiday. The evening of the day she left him she came to see me and we ended up in bed. We stayed together for the next week or so while my sister was away, looking for a place to live. We got a flat and moved in together. Nine months later she was divorced, we were married and three months later my daughter was born. Fourteen months after that ny son was born, she'd really wanted children and that wouldn't have happened if she'd stayed with him. We were together for over thirteen and a half years before we split, the split wasn't a good time but now we're good friends. The kids are in their twenties with good degrees and futures. She recently remarried for the fifth time, (I was number three), he seems like a decent chap, (the fourth was a total knobhead and I think she made the mistake of getting together on the rebound). So there you go, not all affairs end up in misery and broken teeth. I feel sorry for the woman, she sounds like she's in a similar position to my ex before she met me, why shouldn't she have a sex life. Her husband of the time would probably have described me as a mate from the pub. I have always held (inc when I discovered my ex was cheating) that it takes 3 ppl to make an affair... The cheating partner who should either resolve the outstanding issues or leave The 'other woman/man' who has no business going near someone they know is in a committed relationship The non-cheating partner who's not putting enough effort into their relationship. Was I hurt? Yes was I partially to blame? Yes I knew I was no longer on love but stayed out of convenience Ex n her (there were actually two hers at one point) are now married with kids, my daughter stays with them at holidays, ex already up to no good with her best friend. What's that about men who marry their mistresses? They create a vacancy. I completely agree with you, if everything was ok there wouldn't be the need to look or be tempted enough to cheat ." As said earlier when there's an affair there are usually three people who are the cause of it. I was happily married for years but something that often does, we settled into a sex life that was 'routine.' The point came when we had a BBQ and I heard her saying to a guest, 'Michael and I are more best friends than lovers,' that was was the problem. I wanted us to spice things up but no interest, she loved me giving her oral, however would she give it to me? Eventually I decided to do something about it, but what? Should I have an affair, that would mean getting into a relationship which to my mind would mean being unfaithful to the woman I loved. My solution, see escorts, whatever pleasures I wanted, (a beautiful woman in lingerie who'd give me blow jobs in an enthusiastic manner) and know there was no emotional involvement. Therefore to my simple male mind logic I wasn't being unfaithful. This worked for a while until I met one lady who I got on with really well. We ended up being lovers, (you know that's happened when she stops charging you). It went on for a year until my Mrs found out, consequence divorce and lots of shit went down. As I said earlier, me and the ex now get on great but what a shame we let it happen. | |||
"You know you shouldn't, but let's be honest, it's hard to say no "Not that hard to say no. | |||
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"My friends wife is always telling me how horny she is and he has no interest .she also caught me eyeing her up and smileing should i help her with her needs and he is not my best buddy just a guy im friends with?" Go for it my friend sounds like a gold mine | |||
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"Go for it!....what on earth could possibly go wrong? " | |||
"Here's a different view of it. Some years ago I had a local village pub that I used to go in. My very best friend and his wife used to go in there too. Her best friend was married to one of the regulars in the pub, I knew him as you do in a village pub. He spent most of his spare time in the pub, his wife was mostly left at home apart from when he used her as a driver. She was 29, he was some years older and had no sexual interest in her whatsoever. One night when he came home from work and she was lying on the sofa, wearing a Basque, skimpy knickers, suspenders, stockings and heels. He came into the lounge, went in the kitchen for a can of lager and sat down on a chair to watch the telly. She had spoken many time to my friend's wife about her problems with him and my friend's wife and her decided that she needed to have an affair. The question was who with? My mate's Mrs suggested why not Mick, he'd probably be up for it? My mate had the the task of telling me about the situation , I knew who she was, thought she was gorgeous and so said yes. We started to see each other over the course of a month when he was at work, he was a copper and on shifts. It was pretty much kissing, cuddling and talking. She then left him, moving in with a friend from work. At the time I was looking after my sister's house and dogs some miles from her marital home while she was on holiday. The evening of the day she left him she came to see me and we ended up in bed. We stayed together for the next week or so while my sister was away, looking for a place to live. We got a flat and moved in together. Nine months later she was divorced, we were married and three months later my daughter was born. Fourteen months after that ny son was born, she'd really wanted children and that wouldn't have happened if she'd stayed with him. We were together for over thirteen and a half years before we split, the split wasn't a good time but now we're good friends. The kids are in their twenties with good degrees and futures. She recently remarried for the fifth time, (I was number three), he seems like a decent chap, (the fourth was a total knobhead and I think she made the mistake of getting together on the rebound). So there you go, not all affairs end up in misery and broken teeth. I feel sorry for the woman, she sounds like she's in a similar position to my ex before she met me, why shouldn't she have a sex life. Her husband of the time would probably have described me as a mate from the pub. " | |||
"My friends wife is always telling me how horny she is and he has no interest .she also caught me eyeing her up and smileing should i help her with her needs and he is not my best buddy just a guy im friends with?" go for it and give it to her , if you dont then some one else will,  | |||
