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That golden first Verification!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I cant explain how great i feel now ive had that first verification (im even happier that the veirifier is as fantastic, sexy and gorgeous as she is!) And now im hoping people will see that and the floodgates will open lol!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly though, you dont really need veris. Nothing changes once you've got a few, with the exception that in the eyes of the Disapproval Gnomes, you will have gone from not having enough to having too many lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly though, you dont really need veris. Nothing changes once you've got a few, with the exception that in the eyes of the Disapproval Gnomes, you will have gone from not having enough to having too many lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly though, you dont really need veris. Nothing changes once you've got a few, with the exception that in the eyes of the Disapproval Gnomes, you will have gone from not having enough to having too many lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is having to many a bad thing for a single male or female ?
I personally see it as that the they must be likable friendly & most of all discreet which is very important because that's our biggest fear with singles.
They may have nothing to hide & could blab if they live local to us but we do play away from home with ease.
My question is can couples have to many verifications ??? I've never really looked at how many people couples have met just read to see if they have been positive
Genuine question
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"Is having to many a bad thing for a single male or female ?
I personally see it as that the they must be likable friendly & most of all discreet which is very important because that's our biggest fear with singles.
They may have nothing to hide & could blab if they live local to us but we do play away from home with ease.
My question is can couples have to many verifications ??? I've never really looked at how many people couples have met just read to see if they have been positive
Genuine question
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Well when I look to meet someone I'm only bothered if they have no verification but if they have some I'm not too fussed how many they have |
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"I cant explain how great i feel now ive had that first verification (im even happier that the veirifier is as fantastic, sexy and gorgeous as she is!) And now im hoping people will see that and the floodgates will open lol!
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I wish veris from members who have left still remained. My first one was awesome. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is having to many a bad thing for a single male or female ?
I personally see it as that the they must be likable friendly & most of all discreet which is very important because that's our biggest fear with singles.
They may have nothing to hide & could blab if they live local to us but we do play away from home with ease.
My question is can couples have to many verifications ??? I've never really looked at how many people couples have met just read to see if they have been positive
Genuine question
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Lots of people have on their profiles that they "don't want to shag their way theough the site". They clearly don't understand what swinging is. They won't meet people with more than say 4 veri's. Weird but true. |
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"Is having to many a bad thing for a single male or female ?
I personally see it as that the they must be likable friendly & most of all discreet which is very important because that's our biggest fear with singles.
They may have nothing to hide & could blab if they live local to us but we do play away from home with ease.
My question is can couples have to many verifications ??? I've never really looked at how many people couples have met just read to see if they have been positive
Genuine question
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A negative verification? No such thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Er, you do realise that most people totally discount webcam veri's for single guys don't you?"
A webcam veri to me just means you have been on cam nothing else. In fact if someone has only webcam veri's it makes me more suspicious they won't meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Congratulations, I think it's helps having some, but having veris is not the be all and end all, we've had some terrific times and either haven't mentioned fab or they are not on here or we've forgotten there usernames, but all in all I suppose your first does feel important |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Er, you do realise that most people totally discount webcam veri's for single guys don't you?
A webcam veri to me just means you have been on cam nothing else. In fact if someone has only webcam veri's it makes me more suspicious they won't meet."
No its because they dont meet thats why. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just dont get pissed off and delete the account - when you come back got to go through it all again - maybe the thrill of the first might be worth that tho |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks eveyone, i knew that some people would be fairly sceptical about me but i also understand their reasons why due to the ammount of fake profiles on here.
I know its going to be a long process to gain trust and establish myself as a genuine single male on here.and i accept that patience is the key and chances will be few. But i am genuinely looking for meets so when the opportunitues do arise il grab them with both hands and EVENTUALLY prove myself to the doubters!
and become a huge success on here and the inspiration/ envy of all single males who step foot in the swinging world.....
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Congrats to you. I must admit its easier to fly a kite indoors tjan get verified on here. I've given up just think those who wont meet without them are loosing out. Have fun mate thats what its all about. |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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"Congrats to you. I must admit its easier to fly a kite indoors tjan get verified on here. I've given up just think those who wont meet without them are loosing out. Have fun mate thats what its all about. "
Sorry, that's just not true. Find a social event, turn up, introduce yourself, sorted.
No social events nearby? Either travel, or organise one.
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Did social in local area and club met loads of people and had a great time. Not one gave veried. It may be they only give when they receive. To be honest though I just don't care either way. Verified only means people are being polite in my view.
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"Is having to many a bad thing for a single male or female ?
I personally see it as that the they must be likable friendly & most of all discreet which is very important because that's our biggest fear with singles.
They may have nothing to hide & could blab if they live local to us but we do play away from home with ease.
My question is can couples have to many verifications ??? I've never really looked at how many people couples have met just read to see if they have been positive
Genuine question
Lots of people have on their profiles that they "don't want to shag their way theough the site". They clearly don't understand what swinging is. They won't meet people with more than say 4 veri's. Weird but true. "
Which is ridiculous if toy attend socials abs receive 4 or more veri s in one evening! |
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"Did social in local area and club met loads of people and had a great time. Not one gave veried. It may be they only give when they receive. To be honest though I just don't care either way. Verified only means people are being polite in my view.
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Did you actually ask them to verify you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Honestly though, you dont really need veris. Nothing changes once you've got a few, with the exception that in the eyes of the Disapproval Gnomes, you will have gone from not having enough to having too many lol"
exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is having to many a bad thing for a single male or female ?
I personally see it as that the they must be likable friendly & most of all discreet which is very important because that's our biggest fear with singles.
They may have nothing to hide & could blab if they live local to us but we do play away from home with ease.
My question is can couples have to many verifications ??? I've never really looked at how many people couples have met just read to see if they have been positive
Genuine question
A negative verification? No such thing."
No we only mention the good bits not their bad points. |
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