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over a year ago
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Depends on how prevelant it is. I dont mind the odd bit of shorthand or text speak, but if entire profiles or messages are written in it then I tend to move on ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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It wouldn't put me off meeting that's for sure. English is my second language and I try to check my spelling as best I can. I make typos just like anyone else does but text speak and lazy English does get on my nerves sometimes/ I'd never comment on it if someone messaged me though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't say it makes you a snob at all. You are looking for a specific type of person, same as anyone else is.
Good spelling, hair colour, body type- doesn't matter what it is, it's what you want. You should never justify to anyone what you want. x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To be fair it's more the poor spelling rather than text speak.....text speak is the world we live in. But we don't think there is any excuse for poor spelling, seeing as most devices have predictive text |
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"Depends on how prevelant it is. I dont mind the odd bit of shorthand or text speak, but if entire profiles or messages are written in it then I tend to move on "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few spelling mistakes shouldn't put you off someone (if it's the kind of person that would be put off, wouldn't want to know them anyway) also, its obvious that someone people have real problems and shouldn't be judged on that. |
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"Depends on how prevelant it is. I dont mind the odd bit of shorthand or text speak, but if entire profiles or messages are written in it then I tend to move on "
Prevalent*
Just saying. ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"Depends on how prevelant it is. I dont mind the odd bit of shorthand or text speak, but if entire profiles or messages are written in it then I tend to move on
Ooh hark at you with your big words "
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"Depends on how prevelant it is. I dont mind the odd bit of shorthand or text speak, but if entire profiles or messages are written in it then I tend to move on
Prevalent*
Just saying. "
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"To be fair it's more the poor spelling rather than text speak.....text speak is the world we live in. But we don't think there is any excuse for poor spelling, seeing as most devices have predictive text"
And people who use English as a second language? I think I prefer poor spelling to text speak. As far as I'm concerned, poor spelling can't really be helped in some cases, and I think that someone being judged negatively for trying to spell isn't really right. Text talk, however, is a choice. You're choosing to cut corners and therefore be lazy with your words. Obviously things like "brb", "atm" or "tbh" are just standards in this culture but sometimes it's genuinely just as quick to add an extra "h" into "what", isn't it? |
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"We were just wondering if poor spelling and text speak on profiles puts you off from meeting? Or are we just word snobs? Lol"
Absolutely agree. Instant and total turn off for ourselves, either in profile or messages received. |
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"To be fair it's more the poor spelling rather than text speak.....text speak is the world we live in. But we don't think there is any excuse for poor spelling, seeing as most devices have predictive text
And people who use English as a second language? I think I prefer poor spelling to text speak. As far as I'm concerned, poor spelling can't really be helped in some cases, and I think that someone being judged negatively for trying to spell isn't really right. Text talk, however, is a choice. You're choosing to cut corners and therefore be lazy with your words. Obviously things like "brb", "atm" or "tbh" are just standards in this culture but sometimes it's genuinely just as quick to add an extra "h" into "what", isn't it?"
What what what?? |
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"It wouldn't put me off meeting that's for sure. English is my second language and I try to check my spelling as best I can. I make typos just like anyone else does but text speak and lazy English does get on my nerves sometimes/ I'd never comment on it if someone messaged me though. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"To be fair it's more the poor spelling rather than text speak.....text speak is the world we live in. But we don't think there is any excuse for poor spelling, seeing as most devices have predictive text
And people who use English as a second language? I think I prefer poor spelling to text speak. As far as I'm concerned, poor spelling can't really be helped in some cases, and I think that someone being judged negatively for trying to spell isn't really right. Text talk, however, is a choice. You're choosing to cut corners and therefore be lazy with your words. Obviously things like "brb", "atm" or "tbh" are just standards in this culture but sometimes it's genuinely just as quick to add an extra "h" into "what", isn't it?"
That's what I meant about text speak. ...don't mind lol,tbh,lmao and things like that. Hate it when they miss letters out of words, that is just down right lazy |
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"To be fair it's more the poor spelling rather than text speak.....text speak is the world we live in. But we don't think there is any excuse for poor spelling, seeing as most devices have predictive text
And people who use English as a second language? I think I prefer poor spelling to text speak. As far as I'm concerned, poor spelling can't really be helped in some cases, and I think that someone being judged negatively for trying to spell isn't really right. Text talk, however, is a choice. You're choosing to cut corners and therefore be lazy with your words. Obviously things like "brb", "atm" or "tbh" are just standards in this culture but sometimes it's genuinely just as quick to add an extra "h" into "what", isn't it?
That's what I meant about text speak. ...don't mind lol,tbh,lmao and things like that. Hate it when they miss letters out of words, that is just down right lazy"
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"To be fair it's more the poor spelling rather than text speak.....text speak is the world we live in. But we don't think there is any excuse for poor spelling, seeing as most devices have predictive text"
What about people who are dyslexic? Laptops don't have predictive text... well mine doesn't anyways! My OH has problems with spelling and often mixes up 'our' and 'are' and things like that. That has nothing to do with his conversational skills or the kind of person he is. As someone else said, if that's how you judge people then THAT would put me off meeting you.
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"long as I can understand it I don't mind
Same with me.
However, I put on my profile that I am French so people reading it don't think that it's poor spelling or English
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Your English is a lot better than some native speakers! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't much care so long as I can understand it.
Obviously what and how people write is an indication as to whether I'd like to meet them.
There are often comments on here that I'd like to read but either they make no sense or require too much effort. I don't bother with those. |
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"long as I can understand it I don't mind
Same with me.
However, I put on my profile that I am French so people reading it don't think that it's poor spelling or English
Your English is a lot better than some native speakers!"
Thanks... Am glad that the 20 mins it takes me to write a post are not a waste of time lol ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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After finding that phone keypads are not the best for spelling, I can forgive bad spelling. I can't stand text speak, I just delete any message that is written in it. |
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We can all make spelling mistakes, if a word comes up underlined in red and I don't immediately recognise the mistake I'll spell check it. We can all make mistakes in grammar too, personally I try not to, but it can happen. I can understand that some people are dyslexic, (why's it such a difficult word to spell). However plainly 'lazy' English, lets of text speak and lack of capitals does speak of less than appreciable effort on the part of someone writing an email or profile. How much effort will they put into a meet? |
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"How much effort will they put into a meet?
Depends how much writing you'll be asking them to do "
Having just looked at your profile and photos I'll settle for a time, date, preferred location of meet and a contact number![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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i think it is interesting that people always keen to profess the word preference.... but when that "preference" relates to good spelling or to not liking text speak.. all hell breaks lose....
me personally.... if I have to go and reason something three times to understand it, then normally any positive feeling I had has gone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I hate it. Any text talk or shortened words irritate me. All I see are lazy people and I can do with lazy idle people. If a jobs worth doing, it's worth doing well. That what my mum taught me and it's what I go by even now. So. Text talk (delete).
Shortened words (delete)
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"I hate it. Any text talk or shortened words irritate me. All I see are lazy people and I can do with lazy idle people. If a jobs worth doing, it's worth doing well. That what my mum taught me and it's what I go by even now. So. Text talk (delete).
Shortened words (delete)
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Language is an evolving thing. You shortened "it is" just now, purely because English has evolved and shortened it to make life easier, same with every other language, so I don't really think you can blame people for speaking the vernacular language of the internet, which is going to evolve in just the same way as spoken language will. |
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And looke that thou reporte his name weel."
And see that thou report his name correctly."
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's one of my rules. Hate the text speak but i've found mostly it's because people are just lazy. If you're too lazy to learn your native language i don't want to find out how lazy you are in person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Text speak is irritating but I think that's a generational thing
Bad spelling and grammar is tolerable, if it is interesting.
It just upsets me to think of all the country's in the world where people have got to pay or have very little education, which it is free here and squandered by so many.
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"We were just wondering if poor spelling and text speak on profiles puts you off from meeting? Or are we just word snobs? Lol"
I'm looking to meet men over 45. If they only use text speak they won't be for me, I just move on to the next profile. |
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By *acymarkMan
over a year ago
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I really don't like text speak and poor grammar. I don't consider myself a word snob, but it doesn't take much effort to write well and use apostrophes where necessary. I do make decisions about whether to contact someone based on the profile content. It takes all sorts! |
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Grammar has evolved for a very good reason. The entire meaning of a message can be changed by using punctuation incorrectly. What is the point in writing something that sounds right in your head but when someone else reads it they get an entirely different message? If the commas and full stops, apostrophes and hyphens etc. are in the wrong place all sorts of mayhem can ensue! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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I think the English language is sexy - I get so much joy in reading a profile that piques my creative interest. Poor spelling and text speak just detract from the impression I am building of the person. |
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"text speak dont bother us, not reading some ones profile bothers us. Its just lazy if cant read what people have wrote then not worth a meet"
Hope you are not taking the mickey here with your grammar? |
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Their profile is a window into their world. If their writing style or content does not work for you then best move on.
In my opinion, at best, poor spelling, grammar and text speak indicate laziness, and at worst intellectual incompatibility.
Please do not babble on about dyslexia. I have that and consequently take time to check my written messages before posting. |
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"I hate it. Any text talk or shortened words irritate me. All I see are lazy people and I can do with lazy idle people. If a jobs worth doing, it's worth doing well. That what my mum taught me and it's what I go by even now. So. Text talk (delete).
Shortened words (delete)
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Language is an evolving thing. You shortened "it is" just now, purely because English has evolved and shortened it to make life easier, same with every other language, so I don't really think you can blame people for speaking the vernacular language of the internet, which is going to evolve in just the same way as spoken language will."
I am well aware language is evolving, but that does not mean that gramma has to be changed. Words are added to the English language but there is no need at all for the lazy ness of text talk on here. It irritates me about people and is a massive turn off. Which is not what you want on a site like this! |
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Text speak isn't necessarily symbolic of laziness or poor language skills - lots of studies show the opposite to be true.
I think it's usually possible to get an idea of a personality and intelligence by how somebody writes (in whatever format) and as ever, plenty of those criticising grammar above are in glass houses with many a crack.
If you want to speak from a high horse, check you're on one in the first place. |
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"Text speak isn't necessarily symbolic of laziness or poor language skills - lots of studies show the opposite to be true.
I think it's usually possible to get an idea of a personality and intelligence by how somebody writes (in whatever format) and as ever, plenty of those criticising grammar above are in glass houses with many a crack.
If you want to speak from a high horse, check you're on one in the first place."
Text speak evolved from the need for text messages to be kept short to avoid paying for multiple texts when one could do. Fab however is a web site and we are not charged by the word; yet!
I will accept intelligent people use text speak in phone texts but my perception (I evoke Fab cliché No. 1) is they do not in forums and profiles. It is just the way I see it.
Which studies support your case? I would be interested to read them and perhaps change my point if _iew.
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"Text speak isn't necessarily symbolic of laziness or poor language skills - lots of studies show the opposite to be true.
I think it's usually possible to get an idea of a personality and intelligence by how somebody writes (in whatever format) and as ever, plenty of those criticising grammar above are in glass houses with many a crack.
If you want to speak from a high horse, check you're on one in the first place."
Text speak evolved from the need for text messages to be kept short to avoid paying for multiple texts when one could do. Fab however is a web site and we are not charged by the word; yet!
I will accept intelligent people use text speak in phone texts but my perception (I evoke Fab cliché No. 1) is they do not in forums and profiles. It is just the way I see it.
Which studies support your case? I would be interested to read them and perhaps change my point if _iew.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Google 'text speak literacy' that should give you plenty.
Abbreviated speech was used long before mobile phones.
It's now integrated into all sorts of communication and makes complete sense to use it (appropriately) on an informal medium such as this website - which many access using a phone.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I myself suck at spelling i hate it in not stupid at all i just cant spell, and my grammar is apalling at school English was the subject i hated the most. When in talking on here i try and spell correctly and in full English but to any of my friends its txt and slang it all depends on what kind of impressions you want to give people pore spelling is not a turn off for me but that's because i suck at it also |
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I don't mind bad spelling or people using text speech.
I know i often spell words wrong but it doesn't mean i am lazy or lack brain power, its because i am dyslexic and i can check what i have spelt over and over again and even use a spell checker and i still can't tell what's spelt right and what's spelt wrong
I am educated and i take plenty of time giving pleasure when meeting people so anyone that judges me because of my spelling etc will be the one losing out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Their profile is a window into their world. If their writing style or content does not work for you then best move on.
In my opinion, at best, poor spelling, grammar and text speak indicate laziness, and at worst intellectual incompatibility.
Please do not babble on about dyslexia. I have that and consequently take time to check my written messages before posting. "
Well then, you more than anyone else should understand that mixing words up and problems with spelling does not make you intellectually inferior to anyone else. |
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"Their profile is a window into their world. If their writing style or content does not work for you then best move on.
In my opinion, at best, poor spelling, grammar and text speak indicate laziness, and at worst intellectual incompatibility.
Please do not babble on about dyslexia. I have that and consequently take time to check my written messages before posting.
Well then, you more than anyone else should understand that mixing words up and problems with spelling does not make you intellectually inferior to anyone else."
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"Their profile is a window into their world. If their writing style or content does not work for you then best move on.
In my opinion, at best, poor spelling, grammar and text speak indicate laziness, and at worst intellectual incompatibility.
Please do not babble on about dyslexia. I have that and consequently take time to check my written messages before posting. "
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"We were just wondering if poor spelling and text speak on profiles puts you off from meeting? Or are we just word snobs? Lol"
Some people can't help it but saying that you do think that conversation with someone who uses it is going to be hard work so think twice. |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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"We were just wondering if poor spelling and text speak on profiles puts you off from meeting? Or are we just word snobs? Lol"
No it puts me off too. I hate messages that are badly spelt with a lot of lol's after & in between.
A swinging friend of mine won't even respond to a message that has incorrect grammar etc...
Different strokes..... |
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"To be fair it's more the poor spelling rather than text speak.....text speak is the world we live in. But we don't think there is any excuse for poor spelling, seeing as most devices have predictive text
What about people who are dyslexic? Laptops don't have predictive text... well mine doesn't anyways! My OH has problems with spelling and often mixes up 'our' and 'are' and things like that. That has nothing to do with his conversational skills or the kind of person he is. As someone else said, if that's how you judge people then THAT would put me off meeting you.
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Totaly agree reading through this thread it tends to make me think people always shorten things even when speaking so ill ask now is there anyone on here that does not like text speak or words shorterned that wont shorten words in speak in real world
For example say i will i do etc instead of i'd understand.
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""I cdn'uolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg: the pweor of the hmuan mnid. Aoccdrnig to a rseearch taem at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn't mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoatnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit a porbelm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe.
"Amzanig huh? Yaeh and you awlyas thguoht slpeling was ipmorantt." "
LOL, very clever, I only wish I would have done that myself.
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By (user no longer on site)
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We think the worst profiles to "try" to read are the ones with no full stops. It gets rather annoying having to read each line 2 or 3 times just to find out where the last sentence stops & the next one starts. "Trying" to make sense of it can be hard work. If people can't even be bothered to use "understandable" punctuation, which, after school, should come as second nature, what else can't they be bothered to do... turn up? Wash properly? So we can't be bothered to read it & move on. |
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""I cdn'uolt blveiee taht I cluod aulaclty uesdnatnrd waht I was rdanieg: the pweor of the hmuan mnid. Aoccdrnig to a rseearch taem at Cmabrigde Uinervtisy, it deosn't mttaer in waht oredr the ltteers in a wrod are, the olny iprmoatnt tihng is taht the frist and lsat ltteer be in the rghit pclae. The rset can be a taotl mses and you can sitll raed it wouthit a porbelm. Tihs is bcuseae the huamn mnid deos not raed ervey lteter by istlef, but the wrod as a wlohe.
"Amzanig huh? Yaeh and you awlyas thguoht slpeling was ipmorantt." "
Brill can read that perfectly |
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over a year ago
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I use 'text speak' in the chat rooms because it's a faster way of communicating with people. However, on the forum and e-mail, I would write 'normally'. Nevertheless, providing I could understand the 'text speak', it would not bother me if they used it in the forum and e-mail. LOL, it's just a quick way of communicating with people. ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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over a year ago
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"We were just wondering if poor spelling and text speak on profiles puts you off from meeting? Or are we just word snobs? Lol"
It's more often than not the choice of words in a messages I receive, rather than the punctuation that turns me off. |
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"We were just wondering if poor spelling and text speak on profiles puts you off from meeting? Or are we just word snobs? Lol"
I guess we must be snobs. Text speak will virtually ensure a total lack of interest from us - ok for a text but nothing else.
Extremely poor grammar or spelling is not going to provoke a good response either.
Yes we have heard of dyslexia but frankly unless we are aware the person writing is a sufferer we will assume they are simply unintelligent.
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"We were just wondering if poor spelling and text speak on profiles puts you off from meeting? Or are we just word snobs? Lol
I guess we must be snobs. Text speak will virtually ensure a total lack of interest from us - ok for a text but nothing else.
Extremely poor grammar or spelling is not going to provoke a good response either.
Yes we have heard of dyslexia but frankly unless we are aware the person writing is a sufferer we will assume they are simply unintelligent.
" So if you met people in the flesh, club for example.Chemistry was there, attraction etc ... All have a brilliant night. Then they give you a verification, with a word spelt wrong or bad spelling and grammar... Maybe a bit of txt speak in there too..Would you think they were unintelligent and have no more contact? My point being, how ever someone chooses to communicate , they could be totaly different in he flesh, even the most articulate can lack in manners, common sence and respect! ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Pls cld the sxy ppl tht cn read & wr1te in dffrnt frmts c0ntact me thn. Cos am not 2 fussy
Lol bût 90+ lng ting butt nver say nver lov te picts tho vry sxy "
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over a year ago
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"We were just wondering if poor spelling and text speak on profiles puts you off from meeting? Or are we just word snobs? Lol"
Text talk will often put me off but purely because I struggle to understand most of it.
I'm far from perfect, my spelling , grammar and punctuation are not great at all. If someone chooses not to meet/contact us because of it, oh well! Certainly not going to lose any sleep over it.
No it doesn't put us off others, as long as we get the general gist of what they are trying to say.
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"We were just wondering if poor spelling and text speak on profiles puts you off from meeting? Or are we just word snobs? Lol
I guess we must be snobs. Text speak will virtually ensure a total lack of interest from us - ok for a text but nothing else.
Extremely poor grammar or spelling is not going to provoke a good response either.
Yes we have heard of dyslexia but frankly unless we are aware the person writing is a sufferer we will assume they are simply unintelligent.
So if you met people in the flesh, club for example.Chemistry was there, attraction etc ... All have a brilliant night. Then they give you a verification, with a word spelt wrong or bad spelling and grammar... Maybe a bit of txt speak in there too..Would you think they were unintelligent and have no more contact? My point being, how ever someone chooses to communicate , they could be totaly different in he flesh, even the most articulate can lack in manners, common sence and respect! "
True but its a bit like posting the ugliest photo of yourself that you possess. In the flesh you might be totally different.
Sending a message or a photo to someone on fab is a form of advertising. Make the most of that first contact because you might never get another chance.
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"True but its a bit like posting the ugliest photo of yourself that you possess. In the flesh you might be totally different.
Sending a message or a photo to someone on fab is a form of advertising. Make the most of that first contact because you might never get another chance.
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I do agree with this, first impressions etc. but it can also work the other way - messages with overly flowery language or that are too formal can be off putting too. |
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"Google 'text speak literacy' that should give you plenty.
Abbreviated speech was used long before mobile phones.
It's now integrated into all sorts of communication and makes complete sense to use it (appropriately) on an informal medium such as this website - which many access using a phone.
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I looked it up. Basically it was saying in writing tests students who regularly used text speech did not score worse than those who did not. The key point was they did not use text speech in the tests.
Abbreviated written speech followed oral speech hence "it is" becomes "it's" because it is easier to say. It is not necessarily easier to write though. Text speech like "How r u m8?" And "AFAIK OK " Is not from the same root.
Its use in profiles indicates something about the person to me and some others. That however is not your opinion and i support your right to think that. ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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"Google 'text speak literacy' that should give you plenty.
Abbreviated speech was used long before mobile phones.
It's now integrated into all sorts of communication and makes complete sense to use it (appropriately) on an informal medium such as this website - which many access using a phone.
I looked it up. Basically it was saying in writing tests students who regularly used text speech did not score worse than those who did not. The key point was they did not use text speech in the tests.
Abbreviated written speech followed oral speech hence "it is" becomes "it's" because it is easier to say. It is not necessarily easier to write though. Text speech like "How r u m8?" And "AFAIK OK " Is not from the same root.
Its use in profiles indicates something about the person to me and some others. That however is not your opinion and i support your right to think that. "
There's more than one!
There is evidence that the use of abbreviated language requires a high level of literacy (additional decoding) - that assumes of course that texting is not the only language they understand (and for some I think it is!).
I agree that the use of it can sometimes be a message in itself, but personally I think the appropriate use of it is fine. Keeping in mind that for some the use of language is a tool for filtering out those they don't wish to communicate with - evidence of this is with most teenagers
It isn't true that the way we write follows from how we speak. In fact the way we speak has changed considerably more than how we write. OMG is now said aloud - it started as a written abbreviation. |
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"We were just wondering if poor spelling and text speak on profiles puts you off from meeting? Or are we just word snobs? Lol
I guess we must be snobs. Text speak will virtually ensure a total lack of interest from us - ok for a text but nothing else.
Extremely poor grammar or spelling is not going to provoke a good response either.
Yes we have heard of dyslexia but frankly unless we are aware the person writing is a sufferer we will assume they are simply unintelligent.
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I did not think intelligence was a requirement someone needed to have in order the have casual sex.
You are not going to make a life long commitment to the person so what does it matter if they are unintelligent? |
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I did not think intelligence was a requirement someone needed to have in order the have casual sex.
You are not going to make a life long commitment to the person so what does it matter if they are unintelligent?"
Strangely (not!)we actually prefer to have sex with people we like & whose company we enjoy.
If we do not actually enjoy a persons company why would we want to have sex with them?
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"I did not think intelligence was a requirement someone needed to have in order the have casual sex.
You are not going to make a life long commitment to the person so what does it matter if they are unintelligent?
Strangely (not!)we actually prefer to have sex with people we like & whose company we enjoy.
If we do not actually enjoy a persons company why would we want to have sex with them?
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What does someone's personality have to do with their ability to spell?
When you are in someone's company you are talking rather than writing. Therefore, their ability to articulate themselves vocally is far more important than their ability to articulate themselves in writing.
Just because someone can not spell properly does not imply that they can not talk properly. |
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"I did not think intelligence was a requirement someone needed to have in order the have casual sex.
You are not going to make a life long commitment to the person so what does it matter if they are unintelligent?
Strangely (not!)we actually prefer to have sex with people we like & whose company we enjoy.
If we do not actually enjoy a persons company why would we want to have sex with them?
What does someone's personality have to do with their ability to spell?
When you are in someone's company you are talking rather than writing. Therefore, their ability to articulate themselves vocally is far more important than their ability to articulate themselves in writing.
Just because someone can not spell properly does not imply that they can not talk properly."
That's the whole point! They are not in our company - they are writing & that is the basis on which they are judged. |
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"We were just wondering if poor spelling and text speak on profiles puts you off from meeting? Or are we just word snobs? Lol"
Not at all I personally h8 (lol) text speck and and slang, bad spelling on the other hand I don't mind so much ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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This seems like a no brainer to me.
I have not seen anyone who actively objects to a polite well written, properly spelt message.
On the other hand plenty are not impressed with text speak messages, poor grammar & dodgy spelling.
The obvious conclusion must be to increase your chances by taking a few extra minutes to check for typos & spelling mistakes. |
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