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Girls: please give your honest opinion on bi guys...
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a bi guy, I often find that girls have a reaction to that fact which I don't always understand. I never feel comfortable to ask but I'd like to understand even if it won't change their reactions. I know people's opinion vary, but it'll be good to hear anyone's honest opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I _ove bi guys. I find two guys together very horny and generally enjoy people who have a wide sense of sexual adventure and like to push boundaries!
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
I don't have an issue with a man being bi - the fantasy I have failed to fulfill is me and two bi men.
The only issue is the usual one - it depends on the man and if they appeal to me and me to them.
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
Maybe I'm a hypocrite then - bi guys do nothing for me - 2 men playing together wouldn't turn me on.
I've watched it in the past, and to be honest, it left me disinterested (and never played with either)
I don't play with bi men for many reasons, and I do ask and check. |
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"I don't have an issue with a man being bi - the fantasy I have failed to fulfill is me and two bi men.
The only issue is the usual one - it depends on the man and if they appeal to me and me to them.
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 in total agreement with all of this |
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By *issB1970Woman
over a year ago
Subterranean |
Lets face it we're all a little bit sordid & depraved in some way or we wouldnt be here. If a guy wants the best of both worlds then why should it affect the way we see them? Guys love bi women so why should it be different if a guy is fond of some cock fun?
Just my personal opinion, for what its worth
Miss B x
PS I _ove bi guys   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe I'm a hypocrite then - bi guys do nothing for me - 2 men playing together wouldn't turn me on.
I've watched it in the past, and to be honest, it left me disinterested (and never played with either)
I don't play with bi men for many reasons, and I do ask and check."
I don't think you're a hypocrite. You like what and who you like. No need to justify anything to anyone.
Saying bi men and bi women are the same thing is ridiculous. It's the same as saying a straight woman should like women... because straight men and straight women are the same...!
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I don't play with bi guys.
Some men don't play with me.
It wouldn't cross my mind to ask why or for them to justify their decision. I recognise I won't appeal to everyone so spend my time with those of a shared interest rather than waste my limited time wondering why some men are put off by my size, ethnicity, age, sexuality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't choose to meet bi guys....can't really say why, there isn't a specific reason. I think it might be because in my head they would be constantly comparing me to a guy or something like that. I'd never do a mmf either with bi guys as I'm greedy & like all the attention on me, I don't want to be sat in the corner with a book whilst they are enjoying each other. |
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"I don't choose to meet bi guys....can't really say why, there isn't a specific reason. I think it might be because in my head they would be constantly comparing me to a guy or something like that. I'd never do a mmf either with bi guys as I'm greedy & like all the attention on me, I don't want to be sat in the corner with a book whilst they are enjoying each other."
I can promise you that's never happened anywhere that I've been playing |
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"Had a single fem message me back once saying she don't meet bi guys as she has a teenage son. I'm bi not a rapist. Some people eh?"
What you don't want to 'convert' every teenage boy you meet, how strange  |
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"Maybe I'm a hypocrite then - bi guys do nothing for me - 2 men playing together wouldn't turn me on.
I've watched it in the past, and to be honest, it left me disinterested (and never played with either)
I don't play with bi men for many reasons, and I do ask and check."
Same here. There are numerous previous posts that asked the same question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most guys want to see women playing with other women. And my guy does just that, I joke when we had a mmff that we girls would play till they did. It was the best night ever and I loved watching. It's not a thing we look for in the male but if it happens I love it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I _ove bi guys, how could I not, I'm married to a very curious one lol. It definitely opens your choices but can make it more difficult to find couples to meet especially as we are both greedy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe I'm a hypocrite then - bi guys do nothing for me - 2 men playing together wouldn't turn me on.
I've watched it in the past, and to be honest, it left me disinterested (and never played with either)
I don't play with bi men for many reasons, and I do ask and check."
same 2 guys does nothing for me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I _ove bi guys.
What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf. "
Why not?
I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I _ove bi guys.
What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf.
Why not?
I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing "
Call yourself what you like.... I get rather aroused to be dominated like you describe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I _ove bi guys.
What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf.
Why not?
I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing "
Every now and then you read something that raises your temperature a little and sets your heart racing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I _ove bi guys.
What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf.
Why not?
I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing
Every now and then you read something that raises your temperature a little and sets your heart racing "
That's what I thought. I was imagining I was right there  |
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"I _ove bi guys.
What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf.
Why not?
I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing "
They don't like liars or those not comfortable with their own sexuality perhap?!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I _ove bi guys.
What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf.
Why not?
I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing
They don't like liars or those not comfortable with their own sexuality perhap?!!"
I'm neither lying nor uncomfortable with my sexuality.
And with regards to those who put straight, it's understandable. This site is hard for single guys and many don't want to put off single women.
And most who look for bi guys are happy I think to meet a guy that says straight on the profile, as long as they explain to them that they are happy with guys.
I don't see a problem and I completely understand why guys will do that. Each to their own but in my view calling a guy a "liar" because he isn't open about is sexuality is like calling a gay guy - who is comfortable with himself - a liar simply cos he feels his life is easier whilst he hasn't come out. |
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"I _ove bi guys.
What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf.
Why not?
I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing
They don't like liars or those not comfortable with their own sexuality perhap?!!
I'm neither lying nor uncomfortable with my sexuality.
And with regards to those who put straight, it's understandable. This site is hard for single guys and many don't want to put off single women.
And most who look for bi guys are happy I think to meet a guy that says straight on the profile, as long as they explain to them that they are happy with guys.
I don't see a problem and I completely understand why guys will do that. Each to their own but in my view calling a guy a "liar" because he isn't open about is sexuality is like calling a gay guy - who is comfortable with himself - a liar simply cos he feels his life is easier whilst he hasn't come out."
Note the question mark. You asked "why not?" hence my suggestions as to why: it was a general comment not personal, you've chosen to make it so.
If a person finds themselves on an adult site seeking hedonistic pleasure and unable to actually state what they want among fellow deviants then I think they are lying to themselves and uncomfortable with their sexuality.
NONE of us will ever have universal appeal so why people don't "market" themselves to find what they want instead of trying to be all things to all men is something that puzzles me: but hey ho, it's all good! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I _ove bi guys.
What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf.
Why not?
I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing
They don't like liars or those not comfortable with their own sexuality perhap?!!
I'm neither lying nor uncomfortable with my sexuality.
And with regards to those who put straight, it's understandable. This site is hard for single guys and many don't want to put off single women.
And most who look for bi guys are happy I think to meet a guy that says straight on the profile, as long as they explain to them that they are happy with guys.
I don't see a problem and I completely understand why guys will do that. Each to their own but in my view calling a guy a "liar" because he isn't open about is sexuality is like calling a gay guy - who is comfortable with himself - a liar simply cos he feels his life is easier whilst he hasn't come out.
Note the question mark. You asked "why not?" hence my suggestions as to why: it was a general comment not personal, you've chosen to make it so.
If a person finds themselves on an adult site seeking hedonistic pleasure and unable to actually state what they want among fellow deviants then I think they are lying to themselves and uncomfortable with their sexuality.
NONE of us will ever have universal appeal so why people don't "market" themselves to find what they want instead of trying to be all things to all men is something that puzzles me: but hey ho, it's all good!"
The why not was rhetorical, but that doesn't come across lol
I don't say you don't have a valid point of view, it's just that I see it differently. I don't think it means they are uncomfortable with it, simple fact is it will put some women off so they hedge bets.
Your opinion is as equally valid and true as mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I _ove bi guys.
What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf.
Why not?
I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing "
you like bi guys ...but your straight.....  |
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"I _ove bi guys.
What I don't like are guys who say they're straight on their profile then ask to join a bi mmf.
Why not?
I like bi guys, but I'm straight. I don't do it because I'm curious, or I'm attracted to men. I do it because it turns me on to be a bit different once in a while. And whilst I don't find guys that attractive, I do love a guy I know is hot to other women, on his knees, sucking my cock. And that's an ego thing you like bi guys ...but your straight..... "
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Straight, bi, gay - the reality is there's much more a spectrum of sexualities. It's not a rigid choice of three.
If you consider yourself primarily attracted to women and only very occasionally play bi for the thrill of it, then it surely makes more sense to identify as straight than bi?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Straight, bi, gay - the reality is there's much more a spectrum of sexualities. It's not a rigid choice of three.
If you consider yourself primarily attracted to women and only very occasionally play bi for the thrill of it, then it surely makes more sense to identify as straight than bi?
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no....it makes you bi...a straight guy has no interest in the same sex....getting really silly this now...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Straight, bi, gay - the reality is there's much more a spectrum of sexualities. It's not a rigid choice of three.
If you consider yourself primarily attracted to women and only very occasionally play bi for the thrill of it, then it surely makes more sense to identify as straight than bi?
no....it makes you bi...a straight guy has no interest in the same sex....getting really silly this now......"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What do you reckon the word straight actually means?"
I call myself straight because I don't want to attract gay and bi women. I'm a little bit wibbly though because a couple of times I've dared to touch a woman,just for the hell of it. When I go to lunch with her I don't fantasise about her sexually |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Straight, bi, gay - the reality is there's much more a spectrum of sexualities. It's not a rigid choice of three.
If you consider yourself primarily attracted to women and only very occasionally play bi for the thrill of it, then it surely makes more sense to identify as straight than bi?
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I'd say so. If you're not looking for guys no need to put bi. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a bi guy, I often find that girls have a reaction to that fact which I don't always understand. I never feel comfortable to ask but I'd like to understand even if it won't change their reactions. I know people's opinion vary, but it'll be good to hear anyone's honest opinion."
No problem with them at all, at all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep. I would have no issues saying otherwise at all. I'm straight. I consider that to be bi I need to have some sort of physical attraction.
I don't have one for men. I find nothing sexual about the way they look. I find the circumstances and situations sexual. There's a very big difference |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Straight, bi, gay - the reality is there's much more a spectrum of sexualities. It's not a rigid choice of three.
If you consider yourself primarily attracted to women and only very occasionally play bi for the thrill of it, then it surely makes more sense to identify as straight than bi?
no....it makes you bi...a straight guy has no interest in the same sex....getting really silly this now......"
Well occasionally I tinker with cars, but I'm not a mechanic! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My bisexuality is merely a bedroom definition. when in a sexual scene i will have full sex with men. i dont find men attractive aesthetically or otherwise. to me a man is just a cock. women on the other hand i find attractive for many reasons. i need to find two bi women with strap-ons. i would die happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs likes all the attention on her in a mmf but just because a guy is bi doesn't mean that they can't control there self as we haven't had any problems so far.
As long as Mrs finds a guy attractive it doesn't bother us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep. I would have no issues saying otherwise at all. I'm straight. I consider that to be bi I need to have some sort of physical attraction.
I don't have one for men. I find nothing sexual about the way they look. I find the circumstances and situations sexual. There's a very big difference "
the only difference is in YOUR head....your in denial.. |
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By *not69Man
over a year ago
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"Yep. I would have no issues saying otherwise at all. I'm straight. I consider that to be bi I need to have some sort of physical attraction.
I don't have one for men. I find nothing sexual about the way they look. I find the circumstances and situations sexual. There's a very big difference "
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"Straight, bi, gay - the reality is there's much more a spectrum of sexualities. It's not a rigid choice of three.
If you consider yourself primarily attracted to women and only very occasionally play bi for the thrill of it, then it surely makes more sense to identify as straight than bi?
no....it makes you bi...a straight guy has no interest in the same sex....getting really silly this now......"
Yeah, it's getting really silly that people insist that sexuality is so black and white.
It's a spectrum. It's not a choice of three rigid boundaries. |
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most guys i meet clam to be straight as they dont want to put off the girls on here..i think generally women dont like bi guys ..despite previous posts .they dont want cock thats been up another guys arse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"most guys i meet clam to be straight as they dont want to put off the girls on here..i think generally women dont like bi guys ..despite previous posts .they dont want cock thats been up another guys arse "
Even though it could have been up a woman's arse too |
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I've been playing as a bi guy for a number of years now but I used to advertise as straight through fear of diminishing an already small chance of getting a meet as one of that plethora of single guys on here. Then it dawned on me that if you can't be honest on here of all places then you're completely fucked and not in a good way!
Each to their own, it doesn't really bother me now when people decide not to meet me because I'm bi, it does however open your eyes to how few people read profiles as I'm often a fair few messages down the line before my bisexuality is noticed. Hey ho. |
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"most guys i meet clam to be straight as they dont want to put off the girls on here..i think generally women dont like bi guys ..despite previous posts .they dont want cock thats been up another guys arse
Even though it could have been up a woman's arse too "
It's daft how many people think anal only happens between men!
And not all gay men even practice anal sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"most guys i meet clam to be straight as they dont want to put off the girls on here..i think generally women dont like bi guys ..despite previous posts .they dont want cock thats been up another guys arse
Even though it could have been up a woman's arse too
It's daft how many people think anal only happens between men!
And not all gay men even practice anal sex. "
Women take facefuls of semen which can infect through the eyes during gang bangs and bukkake events. Noone knows how careful anyone is during sex |
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"most guys i meet clam to be straight as they dont want to put off the girls on here..i think generally women dont like bi guys ..despite previous posts .they dont want cock thats been up another guys arse "
All though I have fucked plenty of TGirls I tend to be more into having my cock sucked. TGirls are normally so good at cock sucking |
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By *ona29Woman
over a year ago
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I love _ove bi guys,it is big turn on for me to see a guy been fucked and he fucks me mmf hot. The ones who don't like bi guy's forget but there are some of us who like/_ove bi guys be happy and enjoy life. Mona xxxx |
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i'll admit i have straight on my profile, although i fantasize about being bisexual.
maybe bi-curious, with a m/f couple, it dosent mean i want to put my cock up my your arse or i want a cock up mine!
maybe a bit of touching or maybe oral would sort my fantasy's , but each to there own.
im just being honest!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I _ove bi guys. I love straight guys. I basically just love guys. And if there's two cocks and me involved and they like to play with each other too then I think I may have hit the jackpot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont care if a man is bi im just not interested in watching sex between 2 men. It does nothing for me. That doesn't mean I wouldn't meet a bi man. The fact that he's bi is not a turn on or turn off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"most guys i meet clam to be straight as they dont want to put off the girls on here..i think generally women dont like bi guys ..despite previous posts .they dont want cock thats been up another guys arse
Even though it could have been up a woman's arse too
It's daft how many people think anal only happens between men!
And not all gay men even practice anal sex.
Women take facefuls of semen which can infect through the eyes during gang bangs and bukkake events. Noone knows how careful anyone is during sex "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"most guys i meet clam to be straight as they dont want to put off the girls on here..i think generally women dont like bi guys ..despite previous posts .they dont want cock thats been up another guys arse
Even though it could have been up a woman's arse too "
My question exactly.. So are you saying it's ok to have been up a women's arse (that has probably been seen to a lot more) than a guys arse??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Straight, bi, gay - the reality is there's much more a spectrum of sexualities. It's not a rigid choice of three.
If you consider yourself primarily attracted to women and only very occasionally play bi for the thrill of it, then it surely makes more sense to identify as straight than bi?
no....it makes you bi...a straight guy has no interest in the same sex....getting really silly this now......
Yeah, it's getting really silly that people insist that sexuality is so black and white.
It's a spectrum. It's not a choice of three rigid boundaries."
it is...though not in your and many others heads...words have meanings for a reason...you can't just twist them to what you WANT them to mean...try googling 'Hetersexual'...i guarantee it will tell you everything you DON'T want to hear..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love meeting bi couples or girls that _ove bi guys unfortunatley they seem very scarce in the East Midlands esp derby notts way.nice to see there is some on here not put off.i suppose it comes down to whatever floats your boat.good job we aren't all the same |
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