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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello everyone. How are we? Thanks for taking the time to click on the link and read this post. I'm in need of a bit of advice. Here's the story.
I've started meeting this girl regularly, and the sex is mind-blowing. She's getting over her ex boyfriend who was apparently boring in bed, so she's trying all sorts of things with me in the bedroom.
This weekend, she's coming to stay in mine, and she wants to try anal. She's a little nervous, and I don't want to hurt her at all. I'm just seeing if anyone had any hints of tips for the night?
I've got candles and wine, so she wont be tightly wound. I've got lube at the ready too. Anything else I've forgotten?
Anything else I should know about?
Thanks for taking the time. xx |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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I've got candles and wine, so she wont be tightly wound. I've got lube at the ready too. Anything else I've forgotten?
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I wouldn't recommend candles or a wine bottle up her jacksey if she's new to it...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lost and lots of fore play first...gently introduce her to the feeling of having her arse played with first, a bit of rimming, then maybe a finger, see how she enjoys it, don't just jump cock first  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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I've got candles and wine, so she wont be tightly wound. I've got lube at the ready too. Anything else I've forgotten?
I wouldn't recommend candles or a wine bottle up her jacksey if she's new to it... "
Thanks... I'm now wiping squash off my laptop, just spluttered reading that. 
Let her take it at her own pace. Some positions are better than others. Lots of lube, and time, be gentle. And stop if she says no. |
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Most people head straight to doggy for anal, avoid thatvposition, it shortens the anal passage and can hurt a lot more.
Let her go on top, slightly up straight as opposed to lying on top of you (my preferred position for anal), or spooning. |
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Help her relax.... lots of lube.... take your time... lots of lube.... go gentle.... lots of lube.... and if she says No, or Stop then stop. If she isn't ready for it this time there will always be another time if she is still keen on it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Take it easy. It may not happen the first time of trying. As others have said, lots of foreplay and lube. Let her gage on the speed of insertion. By going at her speed, she knows when she's relaxed enough to take more.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More seriously- loads of foreplay and lube. If you keep still and she moves on to you then she is completely in control and can take it at her own pace."
I would totally agree with Jezabel getting her to ease herself onto your cock is the best introduction to the pleasures of anal sex.
I hope you both love it. It can very nice when done nice and sensually. Jim
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I've got candles and wine, so she wont be tightly wound. I've got lube at the ready too. Anything else I've forgotten?
I wouldn't recommend candles or a wine bottle up her jacksey if she's new to it... "
I don't know I reckon she'd think that was a great night!
There's no way she'd dump him for being boring if he did that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What positions are better?"
Depends on her body realy but a good one is what we call the lazy she lies on her back you lie to the side of her your leg over her body  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would personally get her up on her hands and knees for grip and control.
Take your time going in, once you hopefully see and feel her shunt back and forth at her own rythum, then you will know how far to go.
I would suggest only when she picks up speed you do the same, ask her if she is ok until you both connect and enjoy it.
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"Just names. Descriptions. What's with the negativity? I'm asking for help."
I dont see anyone being negative. If you read the replies people have been offering the advice that you asked for. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm sorry if I sounded like I was having a go at anyone. It was the "ffs pal...you want diagrams?" comment that warranted that reaction out of me. Thanks to everyone who has offered help. I appreciate it all. Wish me luck for Saturday night, eh? Haha. |
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By *emguyMan
over a year ago
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buddy as they say lots of foreplay...lots of lube..spoon her and let her edge on..the first inch and maybe the next couple but let her dictate the pace of pentration, and then if you get slowly rocking keep adding some lube to your length..it helps believe me ! good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most people head straight to doggy for anal, avoid thatvposition, it shortens the anal passage and can hurt a lot more.
Let her go on top, slightly up straight as opposed to lying on top of you (my preferred position for anal), or spooning."
there speaketh a wise woman  |
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By *D40Couple
over a year ago
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Spoon & lube and while your sliding it in very slowly and gently reach round (lord i hope you have long arms) and rub her clit nice like....
Man i used to love anal with an ex, he had long arms & knew when to go at it hammer and tongs and when to start off slow  |
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