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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Every time I come on here it amazes me how liberal we all are in your sexual interests . So many people like to swap partners or explore there bi side or sleep with strangers. Yet in my day to day life I know no one who openly admits to this. We all seem accepting as long as it's private. Just wondered why this is ? |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
If you fancy announcing on facebook that you are (falsely, as you are straight) coming out as bi, try it and then let us know if you can think of any reason why people don't need to know things.  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"Every time I come on here it amazes me how liberal we all are in your sexual interests . So many people like to swap partners or explore there bi side or sleep with strangers. Yet in my day to day life I know no one who openly admits to this. We all seem accepting as long as it's private. Just wondered why this is ?"
Its bad enough being judged as a harlot for leaving my husband when I had a child... the fact he was cheating on me just meant I wasn't trying hard enough.... so to admit I am bi, and enjoy sex would have me about chased out of the village.
Sadly, more people are narrow minded and judgmental, and til that changes my private life stays private.
Besides, you don't see straight people having to announce they like other straight people, and that they only do "vanilla" sex openly.
Some things are meant to stay private - in my eyes, thats your sexual activities and preference, your voting/politics and religion. all very personal IMHO |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
South West London / Surrey |
"Every time I come on here it amazes me how liberal we all are in your sexual interests . So many people like to swap partners or explore there bi side or sleep with strangers. Yet in my day to day life I know no one who openly admits to this. We all seem accepting as long as it's private. Just wondered why this is ?"
People excepting on here, haven't you read some of the forums comments..  
I will admit to keeping my sex life private, have never been one to broadcast it even before we started swinging. I like having a side that most people have no clue about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Every time I come on here it amazes me how liberal we all are in your sexual interests . So many people like to swap partners or explore there bi side or sleep with strangers. Yet in my day to day life I know no one who openly admits to this. We all seem accepting as long as it's private. Just wondered why this is ?"
Because it's private... |
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I was in an LGBT meeting the other week and this question came up, well sort of. Why are people not openly bi or gay within the workplace. All sorts of answers came up, work mates not accepting, fear of bullying and harassment etc. For me it was simple, my sex life is my private life, why the hell should I discuss who I have sex with? |
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It is easy in a place such as fab that is accepting but there are dangers and risks in public life. Gay people had the same until recently and still suffer risks and fears, albeit perhaps a bit less. Thankfully life for most of us the world is a more tolerant place. Witch hunts happen and bullying is not fun. Enjoy the freedom and confidence on fab. Speak up for others, where you can, to help the world become a fairer place. |
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"Every time I come on here it amazes me how liberal we all are in your sexual interests . So many people like to swap partners or explore there bi side or sleep with strangers. Yet in my day to day life I know no one who openly admits to this. We all seem accepting as long as it's private. Just wondered why this is ?"
You don't read the forums much then! Liberal?!!  Explore their bi side?!! The "straight" ones do you mean?!! 
You've answered your own question! Funnily enough some people like to keep their "private" life "private!" |
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