I'm sure a fair number of men harbour the desire to be cuckolded which is fine but I get irritated when contacted by men who claim that they would love to be cuckolded....but that it turns out to just a sheer fantasy,and, while claiming that their wife or girlfriend also wants this, have never even asked them about it...
I'm getting to see the wannabe signals now, and have met three genuine cuckolds on here, but find the fantasy variety time-wasting...and irritating. |
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Well yes but there a lot of couples who choose not to post verifications for any number of good reasons, so, while it does help to filter out the phonies, it's by no means certain to.
It happens less now as I tend to recognise the symptoms of the guy (and it's only the guy) getting into graphic detail fairly early on in the conversation, and getting more and more carried away, and then I just stop the chat altogether, but in my early days on the site I did get taken in more than once... |
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"Well yes but there a lot of couples who choose not to post verifications for any number of good reasons, so, while it does help to filter out the phonies, it's by no means certain to.
It happens less now as I tend to recognise the symptoms of the guy (and it's only the guy) getting into graphic detail fairly early on in the conversation, and getting more and more carried away, and then I just stop the chat altogether, but in my early days on the site I did get taken in more than once..."
you dont have to display veri, but if veried it shows with tick so if they had a tiuc then they would be verified, as to cuckold i guess "define it" moght be a question bruno loves seeing kitten with a guy but would not enjoy being "humiliated" whilst it was happening  |
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You're right, it does cover a range of types from plain watching, which is a very mild form and which hardly warrants the word cuckold but falls into that general area, to deprivation and denial, a prohibition to join in even though the cuckold is naked erect and wants to take part. There is another active thread on here at the moment about "cuckold denial" that explores this theme, and it is an intriguing psychology and it is interesting to practise as the "bull" in the threesome in this situation.
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over a year ago
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"I'm sure a fair number of men harbour the desire to be cuckolded which is fine but I get irritated when contacted by men who claim that they would love to be cuckolded....but that it turns out to just a sheer fantasy,and, while claiming that their wife or girlfriend also wants this, have never even asked them about it...
I'm getting to see the wannabe signals now, and have met three genuine cuckolds on here, but find the fantasy variety time-wasting...and irritating. "
I know what you mean, I had some person asking me find roufies to put in wife's drink if we we met, cause she would need some convincing.
What a looser and creep, regardless I blocked that person. |
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"I'm sure a fair number of men harbour the desire to be cuckolded which is fine but I get irritated when contacted by men who claim that they would love to be cuckolded....but that it turns out to just a sheer fantasy,and, while claiming that their wife or girlfriend also wants this, have never even asked them about it...
I'm getting to see the wannabe signals now, and have met three genuine cuckolds on here, but find the fantasy variety time-wasting...and irritating.
I know what you mean, I had some person asking me find roufies to put in wife's drink if we we met, cause she would need some convincing.
What a looser and creep, regardless I blocked that person."
That is an example of the fantasisit at work. As soon as I read the phrase "She will need some convincing" or something like that, then I know the lady partner is not on board with any of this, and that it's all in his head and most likely to stay there.
Genuine cuckold couples that I have met respond and communicate in a totally different and open manner which I've now come to recognise, so I waste far less time nowadays. |
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Surely most cuck couples started out as wannabes at some point.
It took us a couple of years of fantasising before the right opportunity came our way.
Sadly finding the right guy is the most difficult part of the lifestyle. |
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"Surely most cuck couples started out as wannabes at some point.
It took us a couple of years of fantasising before the right opportunity came our way.
Sadly finding the right guy is the most difficult part of the lifestyle."
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"Surely most cuck couples started out as wannabes at some point.
It took us a couple of years of fantasising before the right opportunity came our way.
Sadly finding the right guy is the most difficult part of the lifestyle."
I quite appreciate that summoning up courage to take those first steps in cuckolding may take time which is absolutely fine. I can totally understand that, but I'm really talking about those guys who have not shared their cuckold fantasies with their partners, who contact other guys, seemingly claiming that both of them are on board with the cuckolding idea. |
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I quite appreciate that summoning up courage to take those first steps in cuckolding may take time which is absolutely fine. I can totally understand that, but I'm really talking about those guys who have not shared their cuckold fantasies with their partners, who contact other guys, seemingly claiming that both of them are on board with the cuckolding idea."
What you describe could be a married guy slowly coming to terms with new sexual feelings, feelings that may seem very peculiar to most people. Given time, and plenty of web stimulation he'll either decide to forget the idea or confide in his wife, she will either love the idea, hate the idea or most likely come around to the idea eventually after a long while.
As a single guy it may be unfortunate to get caught-up during these early stages before the couple are really ready but this situation isn't unique to cuckolding. Any venture into a new sexuality be it BDSM, water sports, bisexuality, gangbangs etc, will usually be a slow process. And most would say that's probably the best way.
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I quite appreciate that summoning up courage to take those first steps in cuckolding may take time which is absolutely fine. I can totally understand that, but I'm really talking about those guys who have not shared their cuckold fantasies with their partners, who contact other guys, seemingly claiming that both of them are on board with the cuckolding idea.
What you describe could be a married guy slowly coming to terms with new sexual feelings, feelings that may seem very peculiar to most people. Given time, and plenty of web stimulation he'll either decide to forget the idea or confide in his wife, she will either love the idea, hate the idea or most likely come around to the idea eventually after a long while.
As a single guy it may be unfortunate to get caught-up during these early stages before the couple are really ready but this situation isn't unique to cuckolding. Any venture into a new sexuality be it BDSM, water sports, bisexuality, gangbangs etc, will usually be a slow process. And most would say that's probably the best way.
I couldn't agree more with the notion that it can sometimes take a long time to come to terms with new avenues of sexuality, and that it is necessarily and rightly a long drawn-out process and have no problem with that, having coaxed two couples into their first forays into the swinging scene. In both cases the guy was keen to set things going and set the ball rolling, but, the key point is that the female partner was aware of what was going on, and did want this to happen but was just a little shy.
That is no problem.
Where I have had a problem and do find galling is the case where the guy has no intention ever of informing his wife or partner, is just indulging his own private fantasy, and that can take a while to detect.
Anyway I am more tuned nowadays through some of these bad time-wasting experiences to the clues and hallmarks of the pure fantasist.
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over a year ago
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"I'm sure a fair number of men harbour the desire to be cuckolded which is fine but I get irritated when contacted by men who claim that they would love to be cuckolded....but that it turns out to just a sheer fantasy,and, while claiming that their wife or girlfriend also wants this, have never even asked them about it...
I'm getting to see the wannabe signals now, and have met three genuine cuckolds on here, but find the fantasy variety time-wasting...and irritating.
I know what you mean, I had some person asking me find roufies to put in wife's drink if we we met, cause she would need some convincing.
What a looser and creep, regardless I blocked that person."
I think they should be reported to admin. That's disgusting! J |
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"I'm sure a fair number of men harbour the desire to be cuckolded which is fine but I get irritated when contacted by men who claim that they would love to be cuckolded....but that it turns out to just a sheer fantasy,and, while claiming that their wife or girlfriend also wants this, have never even asked them about it...
I'm getting to see the wannabe signals now, and have met three genuine cuckolds on here, but find the fantasy variety time-wasting...and irritating.
I know what you mean, I had some person asking me find roufies to put in wife's drink if we we met, cause she would need some convincing.
What a looser and creep, regardless I blocked that person. I think they should be reported to admin. That's disgusting! J "
That is wrong and should be reported but is hardly much to do with cuckolding |
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