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By *D40 OP Couple
over a year ago
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Can i ask if any of you have people you swing with on a regular basis?
I've not got any intentions of finding playmates locally for regular fun. Not sure why except i don't like the idea...maybe it's an insecurity thing? I don't know...
Do any of you have regulars that you meet up with & if so does it work, if not why?
Julie x |
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over a year ago
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Regular repeat meets with a select few is great, it gets better as you learn more about each other, build trust & can push the limits a little more, be a little more adventurous. Xx |
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We've met a couple of guys more than once and one guy a few times before having to sack him.
We would like to have a couple of regular guys but find that some lack after manners meets or misinterpret the situation, and their role in it, after the initial meet.
But yes, right guy and right time, yes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have friends that I meet with regularly, as we get to know each other, the sex gets better and better and there's no first meet nerves. Prefer not to get involved with one offs, everyone knows where they stand. Isn't that 'swinging' |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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I used to see the same couples/women on a regular basis. For the most, it was taken as it was, and that was good times. Some did get a bit too clingy which put me off but that was only after seeing them a good few times...
I have cut it back as it was essentially taking up way too much time and costing too much in travel, but it did mean, you could get to know what each liked and there was less of a 'first meet' feel to it... still great excitement though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have one regular girl, we've met once a week for the last 5 years and it just gets better as we know what works for eachother and there are no awkward inhibitions but any more often than that and it wouldnt be as good somehow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regular repeat meets with a select few is great, it gets better as you learn more about each other, build trust & can push the limits a little more, be a little more adventurous. Xx"
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"I think it's over familiarisation/clinginess that puts me off regular meets tbh..
Maybe we will meet someone we would like to have fun with more than once...."
Being clingy shouldn't be an issue, we're all on fab so everyone should understand it's not an exclusive thing
I've got 2 women I see semi regularly but still go to clubs and occasional one offs as well
There are definite advantages to regular meets in that you do learn about each other's bodies and limits and that does improve the sex, but one offs can have that thrill and excitement
Having a mixture is a good balance I find |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Regular repeat meets with a select few is great, it gets better as you learn more about each other, build trust & can push the limits a little more, be a little more adventurous. Xx"
Definitely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i prefer to meet someone only once, or twice because the times i have met someone three times or more i have regreted it, they have started to get on my nerves maybe because i met them thinking it was a case of better the devil you know and i didnt realy like them very much in the first place.
just thought it would be easier than meeting someone new. |
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"Regular repeat meets with a select few is great, it gets better as you learn more about each other, build trust & can push the limits a little more, be a little more adventurous. Xx
Definitely "
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I have a mix of very long and shorter term fbs. The secret is in finding the right people, and they dont have to be on your doorstep. Find your own rules and boundaries and learn as you go. Or just steer clear if it is not your thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have 3 guys i see regularly and then a few abroad who i see a few times a year but i'm always on the lookout for someone new  . I'm not really a fan of one night stands. Not had many of them but the ones i had were meh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Can i ask if any of you have people you swing with on a regular basis?
I've not got any intentions of finding playmates locally for regular fun. Not sure why except i don't like the idea...maybe it's an insecurity thing? I don't know...
Do any of you have regulars that you meet up with & if so does it work, if not why?
Julie x"
We made a 'rule' when we started this that we wont play with the same person more than once (although we still keep in touch with people and socialize with a few) We decided on that because friends of ours had played with the same guy a couple of times both of which had gone really well, but then on the third time he started getting a little 'too' comfortable and cocky, doing things like trying to play with fem when the male half was out of the room and acting like he owned the place. We're sure that he was just a one off but we learnt from their experience. |
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"I think it's over familiarisation/clinginess that puts me off regular meets tbh..
Maybe we will meet someone we would like to have fun with more than once...."
When I was meeting other couples as part of a couple we did meet some of them regularly but we found the more familiar with each other we became, the worse the sex got and in the end was even uncomfortable. Maybe it would have been different with single men?  |
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"Regular repeat meets with a select few is great, it gets better as you learn more about each other, build trust & can push the limits a little more, be a little more adventurous. Xx"
Agreed. We find it easier if we want to try something new to us or vice versa. Always happy to help a friend in need.  x |
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