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do women not want toy boys any more ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess the definition of a toy boy is flexible.
Having been thoroughly disappointed a couple of times by very young guys (18-24) we now stick to over 25. In fact preferably over 30! |
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Was gonna add, the term toy boy is not a term I would use. And I feel the actual age of a person, is not always a reflection of a lack of maturity! At all!!!
I (mrs) don't activly seek any age person! If we all get on and click then that is a start. Having said that I have limits to just how low i would go! Lol ... Are many activly seeking ' toy boys' get searching! Enjoy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Experience over age wins every time ......also when the young guys message they seem to think they are doing you a huge favour offering to be your toyboy ......youth isn't everything |
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"Experience over age wins every time ......also when the young guys message they seem to think they are doing you a huge favour offering to be your toyboy ......youth isn't everything "
what age young guys tho? Is a 'toy boy' not just a man who is younger than the woman? ( ie a 40 year old woman with a 35 year old man) Do you think that there are young men who can also have experience ... In many things, life, sex etc .. Just a querie as the subject interests me from others perspectives |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Experience over age wins every time ......also when the young guys message they seem to think they are doing you a huge favour offering to be your toyboy ......youth isn't everything what age young guys tho? Is a 'toy boy' not just a man who is younger than the woman? ( ie a 40 year old woman with a 35 year old man) Do you think that there are young men who can also have experience ... In many things, life, sex etc .. Just a querie as the subject interests me from others perspectives "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"want men and not boys who are clueless about sex
Says the 22 year old girl  "
i'm not looking for anything, that is an observation I've seen in the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have messages from men barely five years younger than me calling me a cougar and asking if I would like a toyboy! That is sad I hope I'm not asking men a couple if years older than me to be my sugar daddy in a few years  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have messages from men barely five years younger than me calling me a cougar and asking if I would like a toyboy! That is sad I hope I'm not asking men a couple if years older than me to be my sugar daddy in a few years "
I am sure if you decided to meet again you would have the pick of the bunch older or younger. |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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I enjoy meeting younger men and would do so a lot more if it wasn't for the fact they think they want an older women but when they meet me they get that look on their face that tells me I was not the sort of older woman they have in mind.
I can see disappointed men any time thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"want men and not boys who are clueless about sex"
ha exactly! Im clueless ill b3 honest!! But got to learn somewhere and i cant get chance to learn hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always see these threads and always see women posting about wanting guys with experience/ knowing what they are doing.
Ok ive only been with a few girls but that doesnt mean i havent had a fair amount of sex...ok not as much as an older man but I wouldn't say that means I don't know what I am doing. But everyone can think as they please I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always see these threads and always see women posting about wanting guys with experience/ knowing what they are doing.
Ok ive only been with a few girls but that doesnt mean i havent had a fair amount of sex...ok not as much as an older man but I wouldn't say that means I don't know what I am doing. But everyone can think as they please I suppose"
They are however going by the experience(s) they have had with young lads/ladies, the experience also of exchanging messages and of course the thought that a young lad of say 20 won't have much experience other than d*unken nights out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I enjoy meeting younger men and would do so a lot more if it wasn't for the fact they think they want an older women but when they meet me they get that look on their face that tells me I was not the sort of older woman they have in mind.
I can see disappointed men any time thanks."
I don't understand why . Personally I think you are sexy..but hey each to their own..maybe I could change that opinion of yours lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always see these threads and always see women posting about wanting guys with experience/ knowing what they are doing.
Ok ive only been with a few girls but that doesnt mean i havent had a fair amount of sex...ok not as much as an older man but I wouldn't say that means I don't know what I am doing. But everyone can think as they please I suppose
They are however going by the experience(s) they have had with young lads/ladies, the experience also of exchanging messages and of course the thought that a young lad of say 20 won't have much experience other than d*unken nights out"
Until last year I had been in 2 long term relationships (both over 2 years) yes the experiences where with young girls ie the same age as me but in such long relationships you still explore you still learn I don't think it is fair to claim that younger guys are going to be clueless or be just boys or need teaching ok I may have things to learn still but who doesn't everyone has different experiences and therefor everyone learns different things at different times that doesnt mean they are inexperienced imo |
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"I always see these threads and always see women posting about wanting guys with experience/ knowing what they are doing.
Ok ive only been with a few girls but that doesnt mean i havent had a fair amount of sex...ok not as much as an older man but I wouldn't say that means I don't know what I am doing. But everyone can think as they please I suppose
They are however going by the experience(s) they have had with young lads/ladies, the experience also of exchanging messages and of course the thought that a young lad of say 20 won't have much experience other than d*unken nights out
Until last year I had been in 2 long term relationships (both over 2 years) yes the experiences where with young girls ie the same age as me but in such long relationships you still explore you still learn I don't think it is fair to claim that younger guys are going to be clueless or be just boys or need teaching ok I may have things to learn still but who doesn't everyone has different experiences and therefor everyone learns different things at different times that doesnt mean they are inexperienced imo"
Exactly, it all depends on the individual. I was with my first love for three years and he was a wonderful lover even at 19. Conversely I've met men in their late 40's that seemed to have no awareness whatsoever of what I was feeling!
The converse is also true, there are older men who are very fit and young men who have no staying power at all.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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some of the much younger men i have met havnt been good at foreplay, they make up for it by having very hard cocks and usualy look nice, they may cum quicker but i prefer that to someone who takes too long. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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My wife wanted a toy boy, the reason for coming on this site. After several let downs meeting guys in their 20's we gave up. They talk nice and say the right things but when it comes down to it it just, well lets just say it wasnt what we expected performance wise. Shame but there you go. |
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Hmmm, need to voice my opinion on this one. First the label "toy boy" makes the fella seem immature and unexperienced, and while a lot of young guys are 1 night standers (not giving them much time to explore) there is the other side to young guys who have been in a relationship for a while... You learn how to please. So I can see the disappointments flooding with guys who use the site to get laid... But don't let that ruin it for all young guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sam is often chatting and a guy will say that he loves an older woman .....she's 34!!!!..... Then checks his age to see he's a young 20 something....we both find it funny that's she's referred to as an older woman as 34 is no age at all.....says me at 55 |
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I love younger guys but also guys nearer my own age, not really into older. Experience varies. My ex h had fucked around a lot but lacked skill. All he'd done was straight fucks and getting blow jobs. My ex fiancé who I was with for 2 years, was amazing. Willing to try just about anything. We were virgins when we met but with help from the joy of sex and similar we tried loads and got a good idea of what we each liked. Have met him since for fun occasionally.
My first meet was 25 and we both had a great time. So I'm very happy to meet younger guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i like younger guys. Men my age bore me. Plus i like to 'pay it forward' sexually. If i can get them to stop doing the bad stuff and get better at the good stuff then we have one more cute young guy who's good in bed in the world!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i like younger guys. Men my age bore me. Plus i like to 'pay it forward' sexually. If i can get them to stop doing the bad stuff and get better at the good stuff then we have one more cute young guy who's good in bed in the world! "
So men your own age bore you because they already good in bed. They should take it as a compliment |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i like younger guys. Men my age bore me. Plus i like to 'pay it forward' sexually. If i can get them to stop doing the bad stuff and get better at the good stuff then we have one more cute young guy who's good in bed in the world!
So men your own age bore you because they already good in bed. They should take it as a compliment "
That's not what i said but it's telling that you took it that way.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i like younger guys. Men my age bore me. Plus i like to 'pay it forward' sexually. If i can get them to stop doing the bad stuff and get better at the good stuff then we have one more cute young guy who's good in bed in the world!
So men your own age bore you because they already good in bed. They should take it as a compliment "
Also, you're under 30 so you are classed as a younger guy.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love the look of a fit young guy, I find them intimidating though, I get loads of mail from young guys that I think pwahhhh yes please but I say no thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i think its strange how woman are replyin by saying they do like younger good lookin guys. but when it comes to it we contact a few couples and all we get is sorry your too young.
its like sep room swap, you all brag you dont do it,thats not swinging. but in reality i bet you do lol |
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"i think its strange how woman are replyin by saying they do like younger good lookin guys. but when it comes to it we contact a few couples and all we get is sorry your too young.
its like sep room swap, you all brag you dont do it,thats not swinging. but in reality i bet you do lol"
Look at my veri's, all younger than myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i think its strange how woman are replyin by saying they do like younger good lookin guys. but when it comes to it we contact a few couples and all we get is sorry your too young.
its like sep room swap, you all brag you dont do it,thats not swinging. but in reality i bet you do lol
Look at my veri's, all younger than myself"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i think its strange how woman are replyin by saying they do like younger good lookin guys. but when it comes to it we contact a few couples and all we get is sorry your too young.
its like sep room swap, you all brag you dont do it,thats not swinging. but in reality i bet you do lol"
Maybe because they mean they like those their own age that look younger than their actual age or whilst they like the look of young people, they just don't want and are not interested in meeting them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I love the look of a fit young guy, I find them intimidating though, I get loads of mail from young guys that I think pwahhhh yes please but I say no thanks "
You shouldnt feel intimidated by fit young men though, im 52 and some of the nicest men i have met or had messages from were much younger men.
i feel more intimidated by older men most of the time. |
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No need to be intimidated. I send v honest photos so whoever I'm meeting knows what to expect otherwise just a waste of time for us both. If they didn't fancy me at least a little they wouldn't be there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No need to be intimidated. I send v honest photos so whoever I'm meeting knows what to expect otherwise just a waste of time for us both. If they didn't fancy me at least a little they wouldn't be there. "
its not always about what they think if you thought it can be about how you feel about yourself, no matter how many times a guy mails me.and tells me in gorgeous and just what he's looking for if i look at his pics and he's young and toned all i think is there is no way im getting my saggy bits out next to that ripped body even though i would love to get my hands on him the fact his good body would make mine look even worse puts me off, even if it don't him
if that makes sense |
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I used to feel like that. Before I came on fab I hadn't had a fuck for years due to it. Then I thought 'sod it! Just go for it' met a guy off another site, he was 25, totally had no problem with how i looked. Gave me a really good seeing to which I desperately needed and have me back the confidence my ex took. |
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I've had a very good looking 29 year old flirting with me - outwith the site - my issue is his age.. I usually prefer older but I'm very very tempted tho! Do I take it further or let it tail off due to his age??  |
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"I've had a very good looking 29 year old flirting with me - outwith the site - my issue is his age.. I usually prefer older but I'm very very tempted tho! Do I take it further or let it tail off due to his age?? "
Good Lord you're only 40!
We met a nice guy of 32 a couple of times and I was 55 or 56 at the time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to feel like that. Before I came on fab I hadn't had a fuck for years due to it. Then I thought 'sod it! Just go for it' met a guy off another site, he was 25, totally had no problem with how i looked. Gave me a really good seeing to which I desperately needed and have me back the confidence my ex took. "
I met a 25 yr old because he kept pushing to meet and I wanted to say I've tried it but I just couldn't and wouldn't meet him for sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think I'm worried incase he's not 'all that' in bed... I'd be mortified for him and myself! Was your 32 year old experienced? "
As a woman who only meets 20-somethings i can tell you most of them are not all that when you meet them. However i find guys this age are totally open to being told what's good and what's not. They're willing and eager to learn. Plus i love the hot bodies! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always see these threads and always see women posting about wanting guys with experience/ knowing what they are doing.
Ok ive only been with a few girls but that doesnt mean i havent had a fair amount of sex...ok not as much as an older man but I wouldn't say that means I don't know what I am doing. But everyone can think as they please I suppose
They are however going by the experience(s) they have had with young lads/ladies, the experience also of exchanging messages and of course the thought that a young lad of say 20 won't have much experience other than d*unken nights out
Until last year I had been in 2 long term relationships (both over 2 years) yes the experiences where with young girls ie the same age as me but in such long relationships you still explore you still learn I don't think it is fair to claim that younger guys are going to be clueless or be just boys or need teaching ok I may have things to learn still but who doesn't everyone has different experiences and therefor everyone learns different things at different times that doesnt mean they are inexperienced imo
Exactly, it all depends on the individual. I was with my first love for three years and he was a wonderful lover even at 19. Conversely I've met men in their late 40's that seemed to have no awareness whatsoever of what I was feeling!
The converse is also true, there are older men who are very fit and young men who have no staying power at all.
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Thanks Frisky_Mare. I don't need to post that now
Like everything, it's preference and doesn't apply to all younger/older guys. If I like you, I like you and if I don't, then I don't. A guy can be a dick or dreadful in bed at any age!
Had several great experiences with younger guys Also met a 44 year old guy on here a few times and was thoroughly disappointed and confused why the other women gave him the best verifications ever. Pity, as outside of bed everything was so good. I went against my better judgement and gave him another try but concluded that the women who verified him were either d*unk, sexually deprived/never had good sex or he paid them for the veris
I like a younger man  No idea what "officially" constitutes being a toyboy though  |
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"I always see these threads and always see women posting about wanting guys with experience/ knowing what they are doing.
Ok ive only been with a few girls but that doesnt mean i havent had a fair amount of sex...ok not as much as an older man but I wouldn't say that means I don't know what I am doing. But everyone can think as they please I suppose
They are however going by the experience(s) they have had with young lads/ladies, the experience also of exchanging messages and of course the thought that a young lad of say 20 won't have much experience other than d*unken nights out
Until last year I had been in 2 long term relationships (both over 2 years) yes the experiences where with young girls ie the same age as me but in such long relationships you still explore you still learn I don't think it is fair to claim that younger guys are going to be clueless or be just boys or need teaching ok I may have things to learn still but who doesn't everyone has different experiences and therefor everyone learns different things at different times that doesnt mean they are inexperienced imo
Exactly, it all depends on the individual. I was with my first love for three years and he was a wonderful lover even at 19. Conversely I've met men in their late 40's that seemed to have no awareness whatsoever of what I was feeling!
The converse is also true, there are older men who are very fit and young men who have no staying power at all.
Thanks Frisky_Mare. I don't need to post that now
Like everything, it's preference and doesn't apply to all younger/older guys. If I like you, I like you and if I don't, then I don't. A guy can be a dick or dreadful in bed at any age!
Had several great experiences with younger guys Also met a 44 year old guy on here a few times and was thoroughly disappointed and confused why the other women gave him the best verifications ever. Pity, as outside of bed everything was so good. I went against my better judgement and gave him another try but concluded that the women who verified him were either d*unk, sexually deprived/never had good sex or he paid them for the veris
I like a younger man No idea what "officially" constitutes being a toyboy though "
Yes i have met men who i thought werent that good and been a bit disapointed who had verifications saying how good they were too, can totaly relate to what you are saying. |
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