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Coming across someone you know
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over a year ago
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"I have now come across a profile on here who I know... I'm very tempted to send a message... Only problem is there good friends of the parents.... "
When there are so many people to play with on here why complicate your life. The odds are they wouldn't want to play anyway. |
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over a year ago
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"I have just uploaded my first public picture of my face and I'm terrified in case someone see's me!"
Be afraid....it seems most of the world and his mother are on this site  |
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"I have just uploaded my first public picture of my face and I'm terrified in case someone see's me!"
well it isn't there yet, If you are terrified take it off and only send it to prospective meets, trust me the pictures you have are just fine although I will just nip back and check  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks for the cote of confidence!"
Its extraordinary,if you were to believe all the forum threads about coming across profiles of friends,family,neighbours,workmates,mums up the school,people in the post office,delivery man at the door.....everyone is on here |
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"I have just uploaded my first public picture of my face and I'm terrified in case someone see's me!
Why? Are you a vicar or something like that?"
I know that you're very comfortable with being open with everyone but not all of us have that luxury, parents, friends, jobs etc stand in the way of being completely open. Also its quite natural for a young guy to have doubts. He doesn't need to be a vicar to feel cautious or concerned about being seen |
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"I have just uploaded my first public picture of my face and I'm terrified in case someone see's me!
Why? Are you a vicar or something like that?
I know that you're very comfortable with being open with everyone but not all of us have that luxury, parents, friends, jobs etc stand in the way of being completely open. Also its quite natural for a young guy to have doubts. He doesn't need to be a vicar to feel cautious or concerned about being seen"
We'll send me a message and I'll send you some more! |
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"I have just uploaded my first public picture of my face and I'm terrified in case someone see's me!
Why? Are you a vicar or something like that?
I know that you're very comfortable with being open with everyone but not all of us have that luxury, parents, friends, jobs etc stand in the way of being completely open. Also its quite natural for a young guy to have doubts. He doesn't need to be a vicar to feel cautious or concerned about being seen"
I have several jobs working lots of different people, kids in their early twenties, neighbours etc, none of them really give a shit. As my next door neighbour said recently 'I don't care about anyone else's individual preferences as long as it doesn't cause me problems.' I don't walk around with a T-Shirt that says 'I'm a swinger' however who gives a shit these days? As long as people go around acting like swinging is something to be ashamed of it will be something to be ashamed of. These days who cares if someone is gay, 20 years ago people did care, now it's seen as perfectly normal, it's only because gay men and women stood up and said I'm gay that it's taken as normal. Swingers need to do the same thing, there have been lots of comments on here about people meeting others in the 'real world.' I think that there are a lot more of us out there than many of us realise |
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"Respect their privacy the same way you would wish someone would respect yours "
Exactly !
Good advice he wouldn't like it if they recognised him and spilled the beans to his parents lol we've recognised loads and kept it to ourselves x they prob recognise us too lol xxx  |
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