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WHY do I struggle

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Is it just me or is this hard?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

you were here before, did you struggle then ?

are you doing anything different ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You say you had lots of fun before on here so do what you did then.

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By *adybee77Woman over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

"Is it just me or is this hard? "

I don't know... I can't see it.

Its only as hard as you make it. If you reply solely on fab to meet then it likely will be more difficult - single guys make up the majority of folk on fab.

Don't forget there is a real world out there too

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By *tirling DarkCouple over a year ago

Stirling

On site two weeks and really haven't put much effort into writing your profile, is it any wonder that you are struggling?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yea I met some nice people but no1 New for a while now.

Any advice?

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By *iewMan over a year ago
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Angus & Findhorn

"Yea I met some nice people but no1 New for a while now.

Any advice? "

keep positive.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Effort in, reward out.

Patience,

Personality,

Sell yourself,

Are you sure you're doing your best to attract potential playmates?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I will take all these comments on board,

Thank you guys.

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By *ilmiss75Woman over a year ago

Thornton

I find it hard sometimes and I'm a single fem.

I put it down to my different reasons. I can't accom coz I'm a parent and I can't travel far as I don't drive... And that is just 2!! Lol

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By *dventuroususCouple over a year ago

sunderland

You cant accommodate, will go against you, and as has been said, you say you had lots of fun before, do what you were doing then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yea the accom situation is not good

And yea I am I just don't seem to attract anyone new which is something I'd like

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By *dventuroususCouple over a year ago

sunderland

"Yea the accom situation is not good

And yea I am I just don't seem to attract anyone new which is something I'd like "

maybe a simple explanation as to why you cant accommodate on your profile will help on that front, as many link that to cheating, just a bit advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok yea that's some good advice

thank you.

I will do that straight away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your profile consists of two sentences. Put yourself in the shoes of a lady (uncomfortable as that may be!) Would you be interested?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So you are meeting people just not anyone new? Or you're not meeting anyone.

You profile & pics are very generic & uninspiring. You profile is the same as 95% of the other single male profiles & you have put more in this thread then you have on there.

Your profile is your shop window. If you read your profile would you want to meet you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes it's hard. People do struggle here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yea I met some nice people but no1 New for a while now.

Any advice? "

Patients mate.

You can't just expect everything yesterday.

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By *eddonistikMan over a year ago