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best way to sus out the fakes ?
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I find that placing them in a darkened room then shining a bright light in their eyes does the trick, failing that the old ducking stool method is handy...the problem is the genuine ones tend to sink  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"arrange to meet at a club and insist on a phone chat before you arrange this usually sends the fakes into quietness.
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Had one earlier told them we only meet at clubs for the first meets and then total silence |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Block non verified members, reverse image search any pics and arrange a social meet or phone chat. If they keep stalling for time or making excuses just move on. |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"Cant beat a bit of common sense. If it looks too good to be true - it usually is...
.....usually  "
Ive been surprised a couple of times in all fairness. Ahhh, those were the days...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The site rules don't let us spread the usernames of fakes in open forum or on status', but nothing to stop you talking to your friends. The word soon gets out. Trouble is, the fakes can just use another name and e-mail to come back. If a fake is confirmed,could the site block an isp address instead? |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
North of The Wall - youll need your vest |
"The site rules don't let us spread the usernames of fakes in open forum or on status', but nothing to stop you talking to your friends. The word soon gets out. Trouble is, the fakes can just use another name and e-mail to come back. If a fake is confirmed,could the site block an isp address instead?"
If you genuinely think a profile is fake you can report it and Admin will review.
The problem is that some people cry 'fake' every time they dont get a reply to a message, or get a 'no thanks' or see a pic somewhere else on the internet, or...or... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone...I keep getting taken for a ride and nit in a good way !
How do youtell the fakes "
An early phone call or a chat on cam is always the best way or we think so. |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
hiding from cock pics. |
My process works for me...
If we fit each other's preferences we cam as soon as possible, just faces for a few mins to see if we have an attraction to one another- if that's all cool a social meet for a drink, then if we have chemistry the next meet can be whatever we like.
If they can't cam for whatever reason then I just can't take it further.
I know this wouldn't work for everyone but it's my way to keep safe and find the occasional person that there is a connection with for us both.
I also attend clubs and socials so get to meet people in the flesh too.
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By *od!Man
over a year ago
Coventry |
Can't travel can't accom no pics and no veris generally does the trick ... Although look for different hair colours and different times pics have been added etc most are sad single guys wanting a cheap thrill while the wife is at work and she has no clue her hubby has posted those "private pics" they took during a fun d*unken night are now all over the net  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"easy, arrange a meet, if they dont turn up, chances are they are fake  "
Or chances are they'll block you, not ever message you again or delete their profile at the mere mention of a meeting!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Can't travel can't accom no pics and no veris generally does the trick ... Although look for different hair colours and different times pics have been added etc most are sad single guys wanting a cheap thrill while the wife is at work and she has no clue her hubby has posted those "private pics" they took during a fun d*unken night are now all over the net "
how many sad single guys have a wife? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyone...I keep getting taken for a ride and nit in a good way !
How do youtell the fakes "
Catfish tactics. - reverse Google image search is a good place to start. |
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By *od!Man
over a year ago
Coventry |
"Can't travel can't accom no pics and no veris generally does the trick ... Although look for different hair colours and different times pics have been added etc most are sad single guys wanting a cheap thrill while the wife is at work and she has no clue her hubby has posted those "private pics" they took during a fun d*unken night are now all over the net how many sad single guys have a wife?"
More than you'd think ... A lot use this site like a free porn site etc or to play away from the Mrs ... It's too easy these days in relationships to blur the lines between acceptable and cheating hence so many fakes that bottle meeting but get their kicks from arranging them |
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By *od!Man
over a year ago
Coventry |
"Single as in Fab context...not maritally.
Most maritally single guys are far from sad. In fact I couldnt see sad with the Hubbel telescope !!"
sad in the sense of why not be open enough to talk to your partner about your desires and see what she says ... Make conversations into fantasy etc and see what happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Single as in Fab context...not maritally.
Most maritally single guys are far from sad. In fact I couldnt see sad with the Hubbel telescope !! sad in the sense of why not be open enough to talk to your partner about your desires and see what she says ... Make conversations into fantasy etc and see what happens "
I am not really here... I am a distant echo...
Am I fake? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fakes to me tend to be people that are on the site over a year and have no verifications
Also when you give them your number they wont call (havent you heard about witholding your number)
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I've been here over a year and have no verifications, this doesn't make me a fake, I've had 9 meets all with unverified members so we cant verify each other
Fakes? just insist on a phone call also ask for an address and then ask for a post code if it takes forever its because they're checking it out , if they can tell you straight away, its a good sign
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"Fakes to me tend to be people that are on the site over a year and have no verifications
Also when you give them your number they wont call (havent you heard about witholding your number)
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just because someone hasn't got veri's doesn't mean they are fake.
people who won't chat on phone are a definite chance of being fake tho. |
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"Fakes to me tend to be people that are on the site over a year and have no verifications
Also when you give them your number they wont call (havent you heard about witholding your number)
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just because someone hasn't got veri's doesn't mean they are fake.
people who won't chat on phone are a definite chance of being fake tho. |
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