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By *lit King OP Man
over a year ago
south lakes |
Thank god I'm a big boy & can handle the initial embarrassment of some out of his head, d*unk bloke telling me in a public bar he's seen me on here. He's embarrassing himself already & I said "I love sex & it's a free country" but has it happened to anyone else?
I think it's a fear we all have but a rarity to actually happen.
What would you do? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have seen a few people around that are on here not by meeting just in passing 
I would never even mention it to them or anyone else as its none of mine or anyone elses business.
But you get ass holes in all walks of life and especially when they get some booz in them and start showing off.
I worked with a bloke who was into swinging with his now ex and they went to the office quite a lot.
He was always very open with it all and just said if anyone does not like it then feck em!! but you would always get the odd bloke trying to stire it up with snied comments here and there! he just laughed if off!!  |
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By *lit King OP Man
over a year ago
south lakes |
Everyone I've met is discrete
Seen people in public I recognise but would only nod or day hello if we'd met or chatted but always with discretion. I'm not ashamed of the lifestyle do happy to show my face. It must be hard for some though who have public jobs or roles I guess.
Booze & behaviour. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met a guy in currys and he came over to me and called me by my first name took me a while to realise i had chatted to him on here was a bit embarrassed at first but arranged a meet for next day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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1 guy, spotted me in the city on a night out but didnt approach out of politness, then he saw me waiting outside the theater that xmas waiting for my son and his dad to come out the panto. He tapped me on the sholder that time and had a nice chat.
Thats a good spot,
Bad spot, 1 of the women from townhouse was in the cue behind me in asda lol I was like "dont say anything" in my head haha
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was out with my mate when a group of squaddies came in, one said to her, hey I've seen you on fab swingers, you had your tits and pussy on cam. I could of died for her and I've never hidden my profile so fast ever. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Twice I've had people message me on here to say they had seen me out and about with my kids saying where etc and they both said they didn't say hello as I was with kids ....which I'm thankfull for .I'm not sure what I would have done if they spoke in front of kids . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not yet - but it did go through my mind a couple of weeks ago - bumped into someone and knew them from somewhere- after a quick chat was from one of the kids past activities - suppose the more you mingle on here the more likely you are to be recognised - wearing a floppy hat and shades when shopping from now on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have seen someone who works in the same building as me, she seems such a quiet individual as well lol"
It's always the quiet ones you have to watch! I've mentioned before that I had my profile outed at work, only one person spoke to me though rather than about me and she was on the site too with her fella, so shows what a small world fab is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have seen someone who works in the same building as me, she seems such a quiet individual as well lol
It's always the quiet ones you have to watch! I've mentioned before that I had my profile outed at work, only one person spoke to me though rather than about me and she was on the site too with her fella, so shows what a small world fab is"
Are you one of the quiet ones then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have seen someone who works in the same building as me, she seems such a quiet individual as well lol
It's always the quiet ones you have to watch! I've mentioned before that I had my profile outed at work, only one person spoke to me though rather than about me and she was on the site too with her fella, so shows what a small world fab is
Are you one of the quiet ones then "
I'm led to believe many were surprised! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get recognised from here all the time. Doesn't bother me one jot. I'm single and i dont have any pics on my profile that i'm embarassed by so it's no big deal.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We've had people on here try to approach us saying they saw us wherever at what time but they've always been completely wrong.
Never had it happen in public though. "
they just wish they had seen you |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
If I'm in glam mode, then I'm used to it. I've been recognised in pubs in Leeds, in clubs in Milton Keynes and when out dogging, I've had people ask if I'm Tina Titz off of the net.
If I were in dram mode, I think I'd give them a ruddy medal  |
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I've had it in a branch of Morrison's, by a guy who'd been to one of my GBs. He did know I was single but I found it rather strange.
Another time I was in a Manchester bar with someone I had a couples profile with and a couple at the said you're "***** and *****" aren't you?" The bar is one that's well know for it's TGirls and my then partner was a TGirl. We were working on pulling a woman to take her back to my place and my other half was talking to her.
We started to chat and next thing I noticed that the female half of the couple had my cock out and was playing with it as we stood at the bar with a fairly natural reaction on my part.. Luckily the clientele of the bar are fairly are fairly open minded and I am a fairly well known by the staff down there. Sadly it never came to it's natural conclusion as we were interrupted by someone with them who wanted their help and my other half announced that she and the woman were ready to go home. The evening had a happy ending with the three of us having fun. However I would love to meet up with that couple again |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
"Thank god I'm a big boy & can handle the initial embarrassment of some out of his head, d*unk bloke telling me in a public bar he's seen me on here. He's embarrassing himself already & I said "I love sex & it's a free country" but has it happened to anyone else?
I think it's a fear we all have but a rarity to actually happen.
What would you do?"
"Yes, that's right and I bet I get more meets than you do"
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"Why are you on fabswingers looking for local men?" |
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By *lit King OP Man
over a year ago
south lakes |
"Thank god I'm a big boy & can handle the initial embarrassment of some out of his head, d*unk bloke telling me in a public bar he's seen me on here. He's embarrassing himself already & I said "I love sex & it's a free country" but has it happened to anyone else?
I think it's a fear we all have but a rarity to actually happen.
What would you do?
"Yes, that's right and I bet I get more meets than you do"
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"Why are you on fabswingers looking for local men?""
 nice one! |
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By *mallerMan
over a year ago
aberdeenshire |
"Omg, thats one of my nightmare scenarios. Before the ground opened up & swallowed me , my face would be a belisha beacon. .   "
Easy enough to spot as she had face pics on profile....i aint that brave yet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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lol I been meeting a guy who claimed was single then him and a woman walked into my workplace!!! lol turns out his wife is my work colleague never seen anyone delete account so quick!!!
so ive had fun with workmates hubby GREAT how do I keep that quiet lol |
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I'd never feel that embarrassed or worried as I'm single and pretty open about my life. Lots of people who know me well, (and some who know me less well) know I swing. Plus I always think, well how would you know unless you were into it too, they might well be less willing to be public than me |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
I had someone ask me that in tesco locally.
Not great when I had my son with me - some people do need to remember some manners. Funniest thing was he sent me a message asking me to play meet as we'd met socially, and could I also verify him as genuine... my reply on line was less polite than the one in front of my son. |
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"I had someone ask me that in tesco locally.
Not great when I had my son with me - some people do need to remember some manners. Funniest thing was he sent me a message asking me to play meet as we'd met socially, and could I also verify him as genuine... my reply on line was less polite than the one in front of my son. "
That is one real idiot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Was shopping in our local tesco when I noticed one of my FB, she quickly got her phone and text to say that her hubby was not a cuck and he knew nothing about our meets. Kind of taken the thrill away now thought I had a regular cuck couple |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"I had someone ask me that in tesco locally.
Not great when I had my son with me - some people do need to remember some manners. Funniest thing was he sent me a message asking me to play meet as we'd met socially, and could I also verify him as genuine... my reply on line was less polite than the one in front of my son.
That is one real idiot."
Yes, he didn't see what my issue was either.  Thankfully, the block list isn't number limited |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had someone ask me that in tesco locally.
Not great when I had my son with me - some people do need to remember some manners. Funniest thing was he sent me a message asking me to play meet as we'd met socially, and could I also verify him as genuine... my reply on line was less polite than the one in front of my son. "
sorry didn't pinch your reply and only just noted your tesco reply |
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I was seen on my local bus....when i disputed this, he was adamant it was me....when asked to describe me. He described my profile pictures very well but at the time i had bright purple hair.....he said he would say hello next time he sees me.....feel sorry for my doppelgänger |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire) |
"There is a girl in the pub who I really wanna fuck. She has a boyfriend but I might just beat him up and drag her back to my cave. Is this wrong?"
erm not at all sure what this has to do with the OP...
but yes, wrong.  |
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"Yes, met someone who is on here in the gay villiage in Manchester. She was a TS and we had previously swapped messages. We got off abd had a nice time"
If you're out in the Village I think it's pretty much all bets off That place, especially my favourite bar is pretty much Sodom and Gomorrah, most things go. It's close run thing whether I've had my cock sucked more in a certain pubs toilets or my bed, (and the last 24 hours at home it's been 3 times at home). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being open about our lifestyle meant we never had that fear hanging over us.
However that didn't mean we'd be indiscreet to anyone we saw from the site and we've seen one or two.
XXXX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It hasn't happened to me but I have recognised people in my local area. I think it'll be rude to approach someone in that manner, yes its good to be at ease with who you are and what you like but privacy is privacy. That's why my face is only seen by "friends". I'll only become friends with those that are local, once I've met them.
Otherwise, well I'm not likely to bump into anyone from elsewhere.
xSx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've (Jase) have tattooed a few swingers in our studio. They tend to ask questions in a roundabout way to find out if we are swingers. I usually just ask them out straight once I know what they're getting at....even played with a few |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had messages asking if I was in a certain place at a particular time, they've recognised my tattoo. Also had 1 saying that he saw me in the local shop. Didn't want to approach me as I was with an older woman ( my mum) but that it brought back memories as last time he saw me I saw bent over his bed. Lol xx |
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By *ob55Man
over a year ago
PE13 |
"Met a guy in currys and he came over to me and called me by my first name took me a while to realise i had chatted to him on here was a bit embarrassed at first but arranged a meet for next day "
pity it wasn't in Comet, he'd have loads of free time to meet now |
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"I've found my brother in law on here! Met past meets in Tesco and had guys message on POF 'makes a change to see you with clothes on'!!"
I think that the " POF" must be pretty common... Obviously only happens if I have sent photos here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So a lot if swingers shop at Tesco. "
I was just thinking that - think I might change my shopping habits!
I've never bumped into anyone from here so far, but if someone I don't know gives me a smile when I'm out I wonder if they've seen me playing at a club. I tend to get so into what I'm doing and who I'm with, most of the time I don't even realise there's an audience. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
I work on a very large site (around 10k folk work there), I've had messages saying folk have seen me in the canteen, or bodding round various buildings (specially when I have my hair different colours). I once was introduced to a guy in my old department and I chatted to him for a while and came home to a message off him on Fab! I've no problem with anyone saying hiya to me if I've met them or not, but I'd expect them not to mention Fab if I was in company |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive bumped into a few people who live nearby and always usually exchanged pleasantries but wouldnt dream of mentioning FAB especially as i was with my children on a few ocassions !!
Plus i work at an airport and one or two people have actually pulled me up and asked if it was me thats on here , but always very discreetly which i didnt mind .
My embarrassing moment was bumping into a woman from the school queue in a club !! |
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