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Traditional Dinner Date
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello All,
Now I know this is probably not plenty of fish but are there any lovely ladies on here who would enjoy a nice no strings meal out, a traditional dinner date for want of a better description.
Before I get a rant about how this is a sex site and I should try other sites, I would like to add that I would prefer an evening with a lady who is like minded in her sexual preferences and therefore we could have a good laugh about things.
Please feel free to drop me a msg if this interests you, all distances considered as I regularly travel with work.
Gareth |
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We do this with couples sometimes, it's nice to enjoy a drink or once you know people better a meal where you can relax, flirt and talk about anything with no pressure to have sex every time. Hope you find someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I would and so happily go out for a night out and a drink with guys but a dinner date?...i see nothing sexy about sat opposite a guy im trying to impressed filling my face, food and dates don't go together on my opinion, who wants to sit looking at that  |
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"I would and so happily go out for a night out and a drink with guys but a dinner date?...i see nothing sexy about sat opposite a guy im trying to impressed filling my face, food and dates don't go together on my opinion, who wants to sit looking at that "
That's interesting. I associate dates WITH food, vive la difference! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Dinner with a man is nice if sex isn't happening after. I don't like eating before sex and you can enjoy the food and company without worrying about what will happen after |
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"Dinner with a man is nice if sex isn't happening after. I don't like eating before sex and you can enjoy the food and company without worrying about what will happen after"
Dinner with a couple is nice of you aren't wearing a corset. A and I have never laughed so much as last summer when we went for a meal with a couple, had a great evening but stupidly I wore a corset. As the dinner slowly filled me up I became more and more uncomfortable and on the way home A had to quickly pull in to a layby and unlace me before I expired!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would and so happily go out for a night out and a drink with guys but a dinner date?...i see nothing sexy about sat opposite a guy im trying to impressed filling my face, food and dates don't go together on my opinion, who wants to sit looking at that "
Maybe try using the cutlery instead of your hands, and don't lick the plate next time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would and so happily go out for a night out and a drink with guys but a dinner date?...i see nothing sexy about sat opposite a guy im trying to impressed filling my face, food and dates don't go together on my opinion, who wants to sit looking at that
Maybe try using the cutlery instead of your hands, and don't lick the plate next time "
bloody hell you'll be telling me to sit on a chair next |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'd happily take you up on this, I'd actually like to meet some for traditional dates with in this site as they would also understand the fun side of "the lifestyle" too.
Hope you fine your dinner date x |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
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"I'd happily take you up on this, I'd actually like to meet some for traditional dates with in this site as they would also understand the fun side of "the lifestyle" too.
Hope you fine your dinner date x"
Exactly! Swingers can 'date' too!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Dinner with a man is nice if sex isn't happening after. I don't like eating before sex and you can enjoy the food and company without worrying about what will happen after
Dinner with a couple is nice of you aren't wearing a corset. A and I have never laughed so much as last summer when we went for a meal with a couple, had a great evening but stupidly I wore a corset. As the dinner slowly filled me up I became more and more uncomfortable and on the way home A had to quickly pull in to a layby and unlace me before I expired! "
You have to wear your expandable trousers |
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I don't think your being unrealistic at all in what you're looking for!
Plenty of women enjoy being treated like a lady before the fun really kicks off!
In a beautiful city like Chester too! Sounds lovely! |
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"I would and so happily go out for a night out and a drink with guys but a dinner date?...i see nothing sexy about sat opposite a guy im trying to impressed filling my face, food and dates don't go together on my opinion, who wants to sit looking at that "
This! I have a real problem eating in front of people I find attractive. Also, as a picky eater I find eating out more of an embarrassment than anything else  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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just spending time with someone, dinner date or just a social meet with no expectations of the night ending with sex ..is a real turn on, which can lead to good friends sexy playmates |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have done this several times and it is a nice relaxed way to meet someone new. Better if it ends in a bit of fun but that possibility must be on the menu beforehand to avoid an awkward moment later on. Personally I dislike meeting in noisy bars full of d*unk people half my age and dinner is a more civilised option. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd happily take you up on this, I'd actually like to meet some for traditional dates with in this site as they would also understand the fun side of "the lifestyle" too.
Hope you fine your dinner date x
Exactly! Swingers can 'date' too!! "
Agreed it's all about being in like minded company x |
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Thanks for bringing this up as I've often wondered about this also. I'm also on PoF and Badoo, and occasionally see the same person's profile pic on here too! I wonder which option would be the most successful? |
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Last time I took up an offer like this, during the meal I slipped off my knickers (tie-sides are soooo useful) and passed them to the guy across the table. He seemed quite appreciative, but must of been a bit surprised because he dropped his napkin and had to go scrabbling on the floor to find it.
Janet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Last time I took up an offer like this, during the meal I slipped off my knickers (tie-sides are soooo useful) and passed them to the guy across the table. He seemed quite appreciative, but must of been a bit surprised because he dropped his napkin and had to go scrabbling on the floor to find it.
Janet"
Janet, maybe he was checking what was on the sweet menu. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Last time I took up an offer like this, during the meal I slipped off my knickers (tie-sides are soooo useful) and passed them to the guy across the table. He seemed quite appreciative, but must of been a bit surprised because he dropped his napkin and had to go scrabbling on the floor to find it.
Janet"
I'd imagine it took ages to find those napkins can be buggers to get hold of x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i (mr) like the idea of meeting a couple an goin for a meal an a drink chatting an seeing if we all click. for us its not just the sex its meeting nice like minded people. |
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Think I should explore this option more. I'm on pof but not had great success there.
I'm awkward, I'd like to date but having come to swinging via being single for years and coming out as bi, I'm looking for a date that can handle all that. |
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By *avindaWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't think your being unrealistic at all in what you're looking for!
Plenty of women enjoy being treated like a lady before the fun really kicks off!
In a beautiful city like Chester too! Sounds lovely! "
Its a great thing to do, especially as the friendship builds. It all adds to getting to know the person and, as previously said, the swinging side of your life can be freely discussed. Good company is always good and anything else is a bonus.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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All my meets have started with a dinner date first. I'm not looking to have sex with just anyone for the sake of it (I'm not a man ffs!), I have to like them and spending an hour or two having uninhibited conversation usually decides whether we meet again. It also says something about the other person, that they are prepared to spend some time in a social situation with no promises of sex, i.e. I'm not just a set of boobs and vagina, I have a brain too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would and so happily go out for a night out and a drink with guys but a dinner date?...i see nothing sexy about sat opposite a guy im trying to impressed filling my face, food and dates don't go together on my opinion, who wants to sit looking at that
That's interesting. I associate dates WITH food, vive la difference!"
Me too! any guy who wants to meet me has to take me out. Chatting over dinner slows the evening down and gives you the chance to talk and get to know the guy. Ho hum! Different strokes. |
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