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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Anybody ever pretended they'd left something in their car and done a runner cos they didn't fancy the person/ people they had met when it got to the shall we go and play stage ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn't be so insensitive or rude......
Would rather just say outright that we're not feeling the spark so we'll enjoy a drink, a natter then go our separate ways. Just because we don't fancy someone doesn't mean we can't be social for a couple of hours. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never - always start with a social on the understanding that if we get on, and ALL parties want to play, then we will play on the first date x
A babysitter did have to ring unexpectedly once though  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I should make it clear that it was a couple I'd met and it was in the days of meeting from 'the Loot' so socials were not really done then so much. Mobile phones have made things much better and we can see many pictures now before meeting .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've always just told them they are not for me, you may feel you are saving their feeling but doing a runner must make you feel far worse
you need to man up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Met a guy in a local pub who said he wanted to come back to mine. I went to the toilet, came back out, he'd gone but his half consumed drink was still there so assumed he went to the loo also. A few minutes later, the barman said he'd driven off. I was so embarrassed. Not sure why he felt the need to be so childish but that's life. I would never do that to someone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Ive done it before. I said I was going to he car for a condom and drove. As fast as I could!
That's very grown up of you
Well the pic she sent was from about 10 years ago."
Is that the one that said she was a size 12 but when you met her you realised it was only her feet that were a size 12 ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like others have said social meet always first. if I'm playing on my own with a couple then it's social meet only first time, play date to be arranged later. When play as a couple with my fb then it's social meet and play if all agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always meet socially with couples first. Then we decide together if they are for us or not.
Had a few meetings now, always nice people which is reassuring about our 'vetting' but not always had the spark so had to say. Would never just leave, we are not that rude or that cowardly.
Guys are different. Mr T arranges those meets and I don't want to know anyone.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, no need to be mean. I can be quite mechanical about sex anyway so as long as they were clean and a nice person id do it anyway. I can even enjoy the lack of anxiety you get when your with super hot ladies. I would let a person i didn't really fancy do things i would never let someone i really fancied do. |
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"No, no need to be mean. I can be quite mechanical about sex anyway so as long as they were clean and a nice person id do it anyway. I can even enjoy the lack of anxiety you get when your with super hot ladies. I would let a person i didn't really fancy do things i would never let someone i really fancied do."
Your honesty is to be applauded and I suspect that quite a lot of men think the same. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had to say once or twice, damn i've just had a phone call from the school while i was on the way here....
It's worse in a club, when a guy asks to play and i don't feel that 'spark'.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, no need to be mean. I can be quite mechanical about sex anyway so as long as they were clean and a nice person id do it anyway. I can even enjoy the lack of anxiety you get when your with super hot ladies. I would let a person i didn't really fancy do things i would never let someone i really fancied do."
sorry but I'm intrigued as to what you would let a woman you don't fancy do that you wouldn't let a woman you did fancy do
ok i admit it in just nosey |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, no need to be mean. I can be quite mechanical about sex anyway so as long as they were clean and a nice person id do it anyway. I can even enjoy the lack of anxiety you get when your with super hot ladies. I would let a person i didn't really fancy do things i would never let someone i really fancied do.
sorry but I'm intrigued as to what you would let a woman you don't fancy do that you wouldn't let a woman you did fancy do
ok i admit it in just nosey "
Must be his washing / hoovering |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say one must grow up in any case..running away from a meet?..pretty pathetic in my eyes(even if a social wasnt planned!)."
i agree, if someone has taken the time and effort to meet you the very least they deserve is a simple no thank you, not for you to do a bunk and leave them waiting around 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have felt that in a meet but I didn't play that much so let the other guys play and just had bjs but I still played as she wanted bigger cocks as the guys where quite small but I'm smallish too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say one must grow up in any case..running away from a meet?..pretty pathetic in my eyes(even if a social wasnt planned!).
That's only because I tripped you up "
and jumped on my cock |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I'd say one must grow up in any case..running away from a meet?..pretty pathetic in my eyes(even if a social wasnt planned!).
That's only because I tripped you up
and jumped on my cock"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say one must grow up in any case..running away from a meet?..pretty pathetic in my eyes(even if a social wasnt planned!).
That's only because I tripped you up
and jumped on my cock
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I mean sat on my cock ffs... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel more self conscious with beautiful people so id generally be more permissive with less beautiful people. If they were stupidly hot i wouldn't even approach and would be very reluctant to shoe my body. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel more self conscious with beautiful people so id generally be more permissive with less beautiful people. If they were stupidly hot i wouldn't even approach and would be very reluctant to shoe my body."
in that case id stick to the mingers sounds like you have better sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel more self conscious with beautiful people so id generally be more permissive with less beautiful people. If they were stupidly hot i wouldn't even approach and would be very reluctant to shoe my body.
in that case id stick to the mingers sounds like you have better sex "
nobody mentioned mingers. Why would i fuck a minger? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, we always have a social only meet to avoid that happening.
 How must the person feel??!! Always a social first.
Ditto "
I tried to run away from u in london..u bloody found me again..or was it edinburgh.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel more self conscious with beautiful people so id generally be more permissive with less beautiful people. If they were stupidly hot i wouldn't even approach and would be very reluctant to shoe my body.
in that case id stick to the mingers sounds like you have better sex
nobody mentioned mingers. Why would i fuck a minger? "
IT WAS A JOKE
really some people on here are so serious i give up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That quite alright you can have a fabulous shag with me later to make up for it
fuck that am running after seeing ur feet!
i wasn't offering you one "
that sorta hurt  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That quite alright you can have a fabulous shag with me later to make up for it
fuck that am running after seeing ur feet!
i wasn't offering you one
that sorta hurt "
kiss my feet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anybody ever pretended they'd left something in their car and done a runner cos they didn't fancy the person/ people they had met when it got to the shall we go and play stage ?
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Never.
Too nice!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Absolutely would too x and your feeet are sexy. The rest is very nice too
do i take that as a compliment or an insult
confused.com "
compliment all the way
i may be shy till the monkey in me takes over.. You seem pretty fancieable.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a couple a few years ago, we met for a drink in a pub.
I set me alarm for an hour just in case there was nothing in comon or no atraction.
I get the impression that it was all the male halfs idea and suspected the female was only going along with it because thats what he wanted and she seemed quite awkward about it all.
So when the alarm went off I pretended it was a text and made my excuses and left saying family problems
did not contact them again as dont want to be fucking someone who is not really into it! |
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"I met a couple a few years ago, we met for a drink in a pub.
I set me alarm for an hour just in case there was nothing in comon or no atraction.
I get the impression that it was all the male halfs idea and suspected the female was only going along with it because thats what he wanted and she seemed quite awkward about it all.
So when the alarm went off I pretended it was a text and made my excuses and left saying family problems
did not contact them again as dont want to be fucking someone who is not really into it!"
That's very different to just going to your car and driving off though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I met a couple a few years ago, we met for a drink in a pub.
I set me alarm for an hour just in case there was nothing in comon or no atraction.
I get the impression that it was all the male halfs idea and suspected the female was only going along with it because thats what he wanted and she seemed quite awkward about it all.
So when the alarm went off I pretended it was a text and made my excuses and left saying family problems
did not contact them again as dont want to be fucking someone who is not really into it!"
I can understand that, but, I think you should of said sorry, it seems a bit half hearted this.
I understand as we have been in the same situation.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anybody ever pretended they'd left something in their car and done a runner cos they didn't fancy the person/ people they had met when it got to the shall we go and play stage ?
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Yep, but in my defence the photos she sent were not of her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, never done a runner as it's a little rude. Always chat and socialise first and if there is no attraction either way then it's a nice to have met you and leave. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anybody ever pretended they'd left something in their car and done a runner cos they didn't fancy the person/ people they had met when it got to the shall we go and play stage ?
Yep, but in my defence the photos she sent were not of her"
i don't get that, if you meet someone and don't like them it can be awkward to say sorry not for me, ive been there myself, but someone sending you fake pics is giving you a get out of jail free card to just say, you lied, I'm off |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anybody ever pretended they'd left something in their car and done a runner cos they didn't fancy the person/ people they had met when it got to the shall we go and play stage ?
Yep, but in my defence the photos she sent were not of her
i don't get that, if you meet someone and don't like them it can be awkward to say sorry not for me, ive been there myself, but someone sending you fake pics is giving you a get out of jail free card to just say, you lied, I'm off"
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