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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well i must admit that i have attracted more women while in my forties than i ever did in my twenties or thirties. And I also admit i have felt a lot sexier and more confident in myself to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends how old the women are I suppose.
Actually, you're a little going for me. I'm a decent 51. I won't go below 44, just my personal preference.
I don't think it's when you look the best that counts. Nothing beats a bit if experience. |
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I think it just depends on how you feel within yourself... Some people focus on the getting older... I don't, it's just a number at the end of the day... My naughty-M is a bit older than me, am 43 and boy, he is the sexiest man I know 
We are both like a very good French wine... We get better or is it naughtier lol as we get older |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
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" I am 60 and still getting sexy women, some keeo coming back for more and more, so must be doing something right. "
That's right mate, i'm going down kicking & screaming lol! its the person's personality that makes them attractable to others & age goes out the window...well for most anyway lol!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im 47 now and after 40 odd years of sport my body is hurting everyday wich is leading me at the minute to put on a few pounds.
hence not feeling too great about myself
but far from unhappy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I am 28 years with 13 years experience in life!
I think i had more dates, picked up more girls in my 20s and 30s. But i don't know if being single and younger was the reason, or there was no internet so was more active going to nude beaches and bars.
But in my 40s i feel as if i am getting more quality in sex, and more experiences in the lifestyle. or open to other things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am 28 years with 13 years experience in life!
I think i had more dates, picked up more girls in my 20s and 30s. But i don't know if being single and younger was the reason, or there was no internet so was more active going to nude beaches and bars.
But in my 40s i feel as if i am getting more quality in sex, and more experiences in the lifestyle. or open to other things."
You are 28 and yet you talk about being in your forties!?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have to say ive had more fun in my 40s than I ever did  Ive been out a lot more recently and the amount of woman that are so upfront and just tell you they want to take you home is frightening, all ages too. Am glad am a fussy git its very rare a meet a single on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im 47 now and after 40 odd years of sport my body is hurting everyday wich is leading me at the minute to put on a few pounds.
hence not feeling too great about myself
but far from unhappy"
Trust me your a good looking 47year old  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think sexy is a disposition. You are either sexy or not,you don't becme sexy by changing your look. It's how you act and react "
well am told am approachable by woman whatever that means in there terms maybe the woman on here can explain lol remember we are from another planet |
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"Well i must admit that i have attracted more women while in my forties than i ever did in my twenties or thirties. And I also admit i have felt a lot sexier and more confident in myself to. "
This. I'm having literally such a fucking good time being 40 something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wandering as I'm 41 when woman think I guy is at there sexiest or us it all downhill from here x"
hell i hope now lol im hitting 43 soon and if thats the c ase im fooked and not in the way i wanna be fooked either   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am 28 years with 13 years experience in life!
I think i had more dates, picked up more girls in my 20s and 30s. But i don't know if being single and younger was the reason, or there was no internet so was more active going to nude beaches and bars.
But in my 40s i feel as if i am getting more quality in sex, and more experiences in the lifestyle. or open to other things.
You are 28 and yet you talk about being in your forties!? "
it's a joke saying...I feel like I'm 28 years old. 28+13=41 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've recently increased my age limit on here and so glad I did..I have met more experienced guys with more patience making for a whole new experience for me. I met a guy of 48 who certainly pushed buttons I didn't know I had. For years I had gone for younger guys..those days are behind me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've recently increased my age limit on here and so glad I did..I have met more experienced guys with more patience making for a whole new experience for me. I met a guy of 48 who certainly pushed buttons I didn't know I had. For years I had gone for younger guys..those days are behind me."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im 47 now and after 40 odd years of sport my body is hurting everyday wich is leading me at the minute to put on a few pounds.
hence not feeling too great about myself
but far from unhappy
Trust me your a good looking 47year old "
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I used to live in California and 40 is the beginning...
When looked after:
Experience
Confidence
Security
Freedom
Naturally developed muscle
Just watch your intake and at 40 you have it better than any 20yo.
Most of the people I hung around with out there were in there late 40s to 50s and I was 24-30 and always wished I was like them...
Just look after your body man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im 47 now and after 40 odd years of sport my body is hurting everyday wich is leading me at the minute to put on a few pounds.
hence not feeling too great about myself
but far from unhappy"
im the same played rugby and cycled and all manor of sports , worn my joints out but still try to keep ontop of the flab, I just creak a lot now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm 55 and have 3 women I regularly play with on a weekly basis & one is 17 yes younger than me,the other 2 are close to my age.... Keep the faith... Old guys rule.. Must go back to the stationers today....to continue my flirting with the 2 ladies there... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I turned 41 yesterday and feel no different certainly in mind than I did when I was 25, body could do with a refurb i think but! It could be worse though after all it's only a number . |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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I have usually gone for older men, did try with a younger guy (10 yrs my junior) and he drove me insane... nothing in common, self centred (and I know thats him and not his age) immature, and just not for me. I've found chatting to other younger guys has the same issues tho.
Older men, much better. My current boyfriend is only 4 years older, but definitely does it for me... biggest age gap has been 25 or so years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think sexy is a disposition. You are either sexy or not,you don't become sexy by changing your look. It's how you act and react "
totally agree with this statement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All I know is. When I was young the girls I fancied was only interested in older guys. And now all the girls I fancy are after younger guys  "
Yes, I agree with that statement because most 'seem' to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"look like they did in their 20s"
A lot of men in their 20s look good and have style,
I'm nearly 2 years away from my 40s and still look like i did in my 20s  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""look like they did in their 20s"
A lot of men in their 20s look good and have style,
I'm nearly 2 years away from my 40s and still look like i did in my 20s "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wandering as I'm 41 when woman think I guy is at there sexiest or us it all downhill from here x"
Mid 30s is best for guys but some guys in their 40s look far better than some 30yr olds so its more down to the guy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wandering as I'm 41 when woman think I guy is at there sexiest or us it all downhill from here x"
Believe me, it's not all downhill, sexy is a sate of mind....oh and a good bod.... Oh and a decent nob lol. Seriously , age doesn't seem that significant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with a lot of the guys on here, 40+ has been good for me too and I seem to attract from mid twenties upwards (all advances gratefully received lol  )
I think it has a lot to do with confidence, basic grooming skills (as in the wash, clean, brush up, type grooming skills, not the Saville/Harris kind) good manners and a lot of gratitude.
Young pretty people don't put in the effort (or need to) to impress that us 40+'s do!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Purely to answer your original question:
Based on data from a rival contact site (I don't think the forum rules allow me to give the name) men reach their attractive peak at about age 26, and drop below the mid-way line after age 36, from the point of view of women who are looking for men.
But these are averages, and an individual can never an average make. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's to do with attitude rather than age. In my past, one of my best lovers ever was 49 & turned 50 at the time. So I definitely don't think guys over 40 are past it. |
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