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Personal circumstances can also dictate the cant accommodate/travel .....
Not everyone has transport of their own home as some can't drive/don't have a car and some share a home with a.n other....sometimes of course that is a partner or could be a friend/family members.... best not to judge without knowing personal circumstance.... chat to them and ask... |
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"fcuk letting someone you just met online into ur home 
tell me about it to many trusting ppl "
Hang on - they're ok to fuck but not ok to let inside the house? Both require trust and intimacy?
"I think they want a local meet normally not at their home."
Bang on! This is the case for me. I don't have time to travel, and I love it when people invite me in their home! |
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"fcuk letting someone you just met online into ur home
tell me about it to many trusting ppl
Hang on - they're ok to fuck but not ok to let inside the house? Both require trust and intimacy?
I think they want a local meet normally not at their home.
Bang on! This is the case for me. I don't have time to travel, and I love it when people invite me in their home! "
How do you get to their homes without travelling? |
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with me its because I don't accom due to family and I can't travel very far due to time, so it has to be a hotel near me or someone local who can accom. The last thing I want is to rely on someone else for transport.....I might want to make a quick getaway |
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How do you get to their homes without travelling?
If you say you can travel people expect you to travel miles"
Simpler to say on your profile that you travel great distances, (give an idea, 10 miles 20 etc). |
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How do you get to their homes without travelling?
If you say you can travel people expect you to travel miles"
This 
I can't accom due to children. However, I do drive and have my own car - but I don't want to travel too far for meets because time spent travelling is less time spent doing more fun stuff. 
I also mainly meet at clubs - and would hardly ever pair up with a guy from fab to do so - I'll meet them in there and that way if there's no spark we can easily move on  |
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How do you get to their homes without travelling?
If you say you can travel people expect you to travel miles
Simpler to say on your profile that you travel great distances, (give an idea, 10 miles 20 etc)."
I find there is no need for that....it also changes how far I can travel depending on what time I have...and also who it is |
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"I don't have time to travel, and I love it when people invite me in their home!
How do you get to their homes without travelling?"
I can manage 30' on the bus Sometimes I walk there! So basically, 5 mile radius - not what I would call travelling. |
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How do you get to their homes without travelling?
If you say you can travel people expect you to travel miles
Simpler to say on your profile that you travel great distances, (give an idea, 10 miles 20 etc).
I find there is no need for that....it also changes how far I can travel depending on what time I have...and also who it is"
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I know it's not just me but I and others get put off by can't 'accommodate / can't travel'. It seems to say possibly a bit of a messer. Personally I would rather see 'I'll only travel within (whatever radius) and work it out from there. |
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"I know it's not just me but I and others get put off by can't 'accommodate / can't travel'. It seems to say possibly a bit of a messer. Personally I would rather see 'I'll only travel within (whatever radius) and work it out from there. "
if it puts people off messaging then thats fine by me.....I prefer to find my own anyway  |
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"fcuk letting someone you just met online into ur home
tell me about it to many trusting ppl
Hang on - they're ok to fuck but not ok to let inside the house? Both require trust and intimacy?
I think they want a local meet normally not at their home.
Bang on! This is the case for me. I don't have time to travel, and I love it when people invite me in their home! "
If you came to my house I may never let you out |
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"I know it's not just me but I and others get put off by can't 'accommodate / can't travel'. It seems to say possibly a bit of a messer."
A bit concerned about this? It is all about life circumstances. If I read this on someone's profile, I pity them because they've made their pool of potentials *so* much smaller (I definitely suffer from this).
"If you came to my house I may never let you out"
Your ironing pile is that high?!  |
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