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Nervous on your 1st meet

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well... I have had lots of sex with lots of different guys but I want more... However I so nervous because I am afraid of I met a couple or two men they would laugh at my body and not enjoy what I have to offer...

Does/ has anyone else felt like this?? X

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By *oeyleicesterMan over a year ago

Leicester

"Well... I have had lots of sex with lots of different guys but I want more... However I so nervous because I am afraid of I met a couple or two men they would laugh at my body and not enjoy what I have to offer...

Does/ has anyone else felt like this?? X"

Laugh at a gorgeous body like yours, only an idiot would do that, trust me anyone that you would meet will love everything you have to offer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There is absolutely nothing wrong with your body at all.

I'm very body conscious also and also thought the same as you but I've learnt that people are more concerned about how they feel their own self.

You'll be fine, and you'll learn to relax

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Also I get worried that I wouldn't know what to do ... I need sine serious help lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The first meet will always be a little weird but if you meet a couple, boundaries are always put in place. Just go with the flow and if you're not happy with certain things then say.

We are all respectful here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Also I get worried that I wouldn't know what to do ... I need sine serious help lol"

I'm sure you're going to get inundated with messages from guys offering 'their help'.

Btw - you look lovely.

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By *SweetVioletxWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

I always feel that way - even give people a ten minute get out window in case they're not happy with a curvy 6 foot girl - no one has ever taken it but I always offer lol x

I'd happily meet you but you're a little young for me cutie x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm always anxious, nervous and filled with self-doubt.

However, I am a hideous troll with a tiny cock, so there's a clear train of thought at work here.

You've probably got a little less to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm simply amazed that some girls don't realise just how stunning they are - Molly you are GORGEOUS! You don't need to worry about how you look girl, and as for what you do - enjoy yourself, show don't hold back - a true man is aroused by a woman's sexual arousal.

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

im sure everyone is nervous on a first meet to some extent ... thats part of the fab swing buzz

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"im sure everyone is nervous on a first meet to some extent ... thats part of the fab swing buzz "

thia guy speaks sense. I have meet a fair few different ladies of the net over the years and always get nervous when meeting someone new for the first time.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jeezus your gorgeous .. what you worried about ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dunno who would laugh at your body, id looove a body like yours! What I told my friend that tried swinging - take a deep breathe and jump in head first, and remember you can say no.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hun your body should not be seen by anyone. Anyone but ME!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I said you had a great body would you hold it against me

Look look stunning nothing to worry about and like the other said we all be pre meet nerves its human nature but once the fun starts we are all of and running.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you take the time to choose the right playmate, get to know them and establish mutual attraction then there would be no reason why they'd laugh at you.

On a site of this nature, you'll take knocks, rejection, criticism or maybe even abuse from some people. The mark of the successful people on here is how they handle those situations, use your filters, block and the report functions for the people that displease you.

Most important if all is you're here to have fun so enjoy yourself, stay safe and have loads of fun.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you take the time to choose the right playmate, get to know them and establish mutual attraction then there would be no reason why they'd laugh at you.

Most important if all is you're here to have fun so enjoy yourself, stay safe and have loads of fun."

some great advice here...there is nothing wrong with being choosy.

always remember your in control and if it don't feel right say no!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Oh! Trust that they will have much more on their minds than picking out/ laughing at anything you choose to dislike about yourself... Embrace you for you! We are all unique in our own individual way, confidence is the key... Enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does/ has anyone else felt like this?? X"

*Has a look...*

Hello.

Everyone gets nervous but how much depends on the person. But trust me, you have absolutely nothing to worry about!

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

I still get nervous and have the same concerns... Worry that they'd just walk away or laugh.

Learning to relax and I'm lucky that my boy has more confidence in me than I do in myself.

Nerves are a part of it, but relax and have fun, you are stunning

Ruby x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Any one who jubst grabs without asking needs a good slap just bring out your Dom side and cane the shit out of them but then again the chances that sum woman grabbing me and having her way with me are slim at best lol

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By *uslaffMan over a year ago

manchester

Mission accomplished

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By *awty MaxWoman over a year ago

Edinburgh

A lot of us get nervous and are body conscious. I like wearing something that makes me feel sexy and that my naughty boy finds sexy too, it boosts me and settles my nerves and my naughty boy holds my hand too so am lucky that way.

The anticipation is part of the fun too

Have fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mission accomplished

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does/ has anyone else felt like this?? X"

Well i dont think you would have any problems ur really cute and your pics show u have a nice figure. No man would honestly laugh at you. You are beautiful

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

we all have insecurities, but on a site like this of course there will be those that dont find you attractive, and those that will fuck anything etc.

If you ever stop having first meet nerves there is something wrong with you!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thank you that sounds very enthusiastic... I'll let you know how I get on... Really... Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Mission accomplished

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm usually very confident in all aspects of my life but I was extremely nervous on my very first meet. I was totally new to this whole thing, I was accommodating and it was my first experience with an older woman with her husband there as well. Nerves got the better of me and my performance was less than stellar shall we say.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only one I have been nervous was with Gimp ( first online meet) but with others if I didn't fit the bill face to face its life, accept it as reality.

Her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Looking at your pics you have a lovely figure, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. Hope you enjoy the site.

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By *issLissCouple over a year ago

south east

I know exactly how you feel, I still get nervous on 2nd or 3rd meets... And most definitely have that fear of "you look nothing like your photos" kinda scenario lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I feel like that every time I meet someone new, have nearly chickened out before now....

Could be worse, you could be me

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By *o new WinksMan over a year ago

BSE

Have a few nerves but, the worst that can happen is, meet a new friend......!

So, bring it on

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