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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi all,
I was wondering whether particularly older women had any preconceptions about young guys on swingers sites?
And what they want or hope to get from them?
I understand that many are timewasters but could you please answer this genuinly to help myself!
Thankyou xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all,
I was wondering whether particularly older women had any preconceptions about young guys on swingers sites?
And what they want or hope to get from them?
I understand that many are timewasters but could you please answer this genuinly to help myself!
Thankyou xx"
You have plagerised one of my very good friends profiles...so my opinion is...try writing your own profile....is that to do with your age...???????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Young guys no, str8 professional males experienced no what they want, can hold a conversation without answering their mob every second.
Look the part, interesting not just in bed, and tend not to waste your time.
Jackie x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And here is a perfect example of why singel men get negative Feedbags lol"
I only know what I've read here but I'm a great believer in there being at least 2 sides to a story!
Another side to this one is that this is a young guy who tried to be smart, got found out, but has now held his hands up, admitted his mistake, and done something about it.
So why not give him a break, there are far older guys on here doing a lot worse than he's done! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So many old slappers on here!!!"
AAAaaaahhh....how kind...and so many charming young gentlemen...like yourself...and hey... slapper is fine ...but less of the OLD..
Now where DID that thread go about TWATS...????
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And here is a perfect example of why singel men get negative Feedbags lol
I only know what I've read here but I'm a great believer in there being at least 2 sides to a story!
Another side to this one is that this is a young guy who tried to be smart, got found out, but has now held his hands up, admitted his mistake, and done something about it.
So why not give him a break, there are far older guys on here doing a lot worse than he's done! "
WW..was referring to the comment by the delightful Chief..about old slappers.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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wow, if i was the op i'd close this thread down and try start again....as usual a reasonable question gets a lambasting instead of some constructive feedback. why can't people respond in good faith instead of trying to look clever?!
any guy, young or old, i want the same thing, stamina, endurance and some light-hearted fun....i just find younger guys can deliver all three. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"wow, if i was the op i'd close this thread down and try start again....as usual a reasonable question gets a lambasting instead of some constructive feedback. why can't people respond in good faith instead of trying to look clever?!
any guy, young or old, i want the same thing, stamina, endurance and some light-hearted fun....i just find younger guys can deliver all three. "
Hear hear! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"wow, if i was the op i'd close this thread down and try start again....as usual a reasonable question gets a lambasting instead of some constructive feedback. why can't people respond in good faith instead of trying to look clever?!
any guy, young or old, i want the same thing, stamina, endurance and some light-hearted fun....i just find younger guys can deliver all three. "
I was going to reply in a very constructive way to his thread..and agree if someone asks a reasonable question they should not get lambasted.
But I always check out the O.P profile before responding...he had copied the profile of a close friend of mine...so pointed it out to him....he has changed it now...and I wish him luck... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"wow, if i was the op i'd close this thread down and try start again....as usual a reasonable question gets a lambasting instead of some constructive feedback. why can't people respond in good faith instead of trying to look clever?!
any guy, young or old, i want the same thing, stamina, endurance and some light-hearted fun....i just find younger guys can deliver all three.
I was going to reply in a very constructive way to his thread..and agree if someone asks a reasonable question they should not get lambasted.
But I always check out the O.P profile before responding...he had copied the profile of a close friend of mine...so pointed it out to him....he has changed it now...and I wish him luck..."
ok, but it's a public site and there's many profiles that are copied...some folk just don't know what to write...doesnt mean that what he copied didnt reflect him. may be that it said everything he wanted it to say. it's a compliment really.
besides....how many times have you been in a club and heard the same chat line over and over? it's not really any different...the profile is, in a way, a chat up line
it's just nice to consider someones feelings before you launch an attack...even your issue of plageurism could have been addressed in a less agressive manner...i would have suggested a pm rather than a public lashing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"wow, if i was the op i'd close this thread down and try start again....as usual a reasonable question gets a lambasting instead of some constructive feedback. why can't people respond in good faith instead of trying to look clever?!
any guy, young or old, i want the same thing, stamina, endurance and some light-hearted fun....i just find younger guys can deliver all three.
I was going to reply in a very constructive way to his thread..and agree if someone asks a reasonable question they should not get lambasted.
But I always check out the O.P profile before responding...he had copied the profile of a close friend of mine...so pointed it out to him....he has changed it now...and I wish him luck...
ok, but it's a public site and there's many profiles that are copied...some folk just don't know what to write...doesnt mean that what he copied didnt reflect him. may be that it said everything he wanted it to say. it's a compliment really.
besides....how many times have you been in a club and heard the same chat line over and over? it's not really any different...the profile is, in a way, a chat up line
it's just nice to consider someones feelings before you launch an attack...even your issue of plageurism could have been addressed in a less agressive manner...i would have suggested a pm rather than a public lashing x"
Probably an issue for the mods to bring up...if my tone is "aggressive"...and maybe you should have p.m me instead of giving me a public lashing...just a suggestion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Having read through this thread I don't see any agression pointed towards the OP
Something was pointed out to him about his profile which he changed and apologised for not only on here but via pm
He was then wished good luck in finding fun and I hope he finds lots
It was someone else jumping in with a comment that was more than likely a wind up that provoked a strong reaction
time to get back on track I think xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all,
I was wondering whether particularly older women had any preconceptions about young guys on swingers sites?
And what they want or hope to get from them?
I understand that many are timewasters but could you please answer this genuinly to help myself!
Thankyou xx"
There is nothing wrong with the polite younger ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I find it sad that 19 year olds are on sites like this and wouldn't play with someone younger than my children.
There are many women who have no such worries so stick with it...one of them will be along to share their erm wisdom!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally I find it sad that 19 year olds are on sites like this and wouldn't play with someone younger than my children.
There are many women who have no such worries so stick with it...one of them will be along to share their erm wisdom!! "
That is true 19 year old shd find a Girlfreind and start there.But as for you saying about younger Guys and older woman iam sure you have meet younger guys then yourself or even older once that have children your age.Age shd never come into it just what your prefrence is.As after reading your profile you know what you want and dont want.So if a 19 year old wants to find expierence on here then good luck to him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many old slappers on here!!!"
says the man with a meet with a 96 yr old on his profile.........
silly boys should only be allowed to post once they have the capability to engage their brains and not the ones stored in their trousers.....
sad part is if he got such a dislike about "old slappers" why did he post on a thread about cougars?? and should someone with such great moral judegement really be on an adutl orientated site??
oh and to the op, cougars is yet another shitty american term used to describe something! if you are in to people older than you please for the love of god dont send a message with the openin line "Hey i dig older chicks/cougars etc its so bloody annoyin!! x
apart from that good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many old slappers on here!!!
says the man with a meet with a 96 yr old on his profile.........
silly boys should only be allowed to post once they have the capability to engage their brains and not the ones stored in their trousers.....
sad part is if he got such a dislike about "old slappers" why did he post on a thread about cougars?? and should someone with such great moral judegement really be on an adutl orientated site??
oh and to the op, cougars is yet another shitty american term used to describe something! if you are in to people older than you please for the love of god dont send a message with the openin line "Hey i dig older chicks/cougars etc its so bloody annoyin!! x
apart from that good luck x"
Must say, I'm not a fan of those pm's that start...oooh, I love an older/bigger/mature woman, it's the equivalent of saying "your arse looks huge in that"...it's not a compliment! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many old slappers on here!!!
says the man with a meet with a 96 yr old on his profile.........
silly boys should only be allowed to post once they have the capability to engage their brains and not the ones stored in their trousers.....
sad part is if he got such a dislike about "old slappers" why did he post on a thread about cougars?? and should someone with such great moral judegement really be on an adutl orientated site??
oh and to the op, cougars is yet another shitty american term used to describe something! if you are in to people older than you please for the love of god dont send a message with the openin line "Hey i dig older chicks/cougars etc its so bloody annoyin!! x
apart from that good luck x
Must say, I'm not a fan of those pm's that start...oooh, I love an older/bigger/mature woman, it's the equivalent of saying "your arse looks huge in that"...it's not a compliment!"
yeah pointing out flaws never usually gets you into someones knickers lol!! xx |
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