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over a year ago
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In what way have a separate category for bareback ???
it's already listed as an option for likes etc unless you mean in the search options for "Interested in" criteria  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In what way have a separate category for bareback ???
it's already listed as an option for likes etc unless you mean in the search options for "Interested in" criteria "
Is it?  not noticed that ...off to look |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's an option to state you like safe sex, but no option to tick you like bareback as far as I can see.
I was looking at some profiles recently of people in forum who openly say they do bareback, but they always nearly have the safesex box ticked on their profile, so I think the OP might be onto something with his suggestion  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now i hate bareback i think its wrong for anyone to do ... Now does anyone. Think there should be a separate category. For bareback"
So it's wrong for me to bareback my wife? 
Protect yourself and just let others live their lives as they wish without vilification. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now i hate bareback i think its wrong for anyone to do ... Now does anyone. Think there should be a separate category. For bareback
So it's wrong for me to bareback my wife?
Protect yourself and just let others live their lives as they wish without vilification."
I don't think it's about vilification. Others can do what they want, but when some are happy to be honest and open about that, why not have it as something you can filter in or out as a preference. |
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"There's an option to state you like safe sex, but no option to tick you like bareback as far as I can see.
I was looking at some profiles recently of people in forum who openly say they do bareback, but they always nearly have the safesex box ticked on their profile, so I think the OP might be onto something with his suggestion "
Can people not indulge in both?
But I think that if you have the option then many people will still not use it as there are too many nannies/holier than thou/trolls/keyboard warriors on this site who do judge and do attempt to vilify what is a very normal, if not necessarily safe, sexual practice.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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To many people. Turning. Up for fun and the opposite saying oh you can ware that ... That's what im getting at..make it clear from the start. Enjoy the love don't share. It |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's an option to state you like safe sex, but no option to tick you like bareback as far as I can see.
I was looking at some profiles recently of people in forum who openly say they do bareback, but they always nearly have the safesex box ticked on their profile, so I think the OP might be onto something with his suggestion "
Yes you're right, there's no option at all for it anywhere, ignore me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now i hate bareback i think its wrong for anyone to do ... Now does anyone. Think there should be a separate category. For bareback
So it's wrong for me to bareback my wife?
Protect yourself and just let others live their lives as they wish without vilification.
I don't think it's about vilification. Others can do what they want, but when some are happy to be honest and open about that, why not have it as something you can filter in or out as a preference. "
That's it, people looking for bareback would find it helpful I guess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now i hate bareback i think its wrong for anyone to do ... Now does anyone. Think there should be a separate category. For bareback"
You hate bareback? You saying you have never had sex ever without a condom or you have and did not like it?
If so you are very unique!!!!  |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"There's an option to state you like safe sex, but no option to tick you like bareback as far as I can see.
I was looking at some profiles recently of people in forum who openly say they do bareback, but they always nearly have the safesex box ticked on their profile, so I think the OP might be onto something with his suggestion
Can people not indulge in both?
But I think that if you have the option then many people will still not use it as there are too many nannies/holier than thou/trolls/keyboard warriors on this site who do judge and do attempt to vilify what is a very normal, if not necessarily safe, sexual practice.
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me personally... I'd just rather that someone was honest....
so if they bareback with random strangers... just say so.... that way at least other people can make up their minds with all the information known to them....
so if more "information/options" are available to help people make an informed decision... i'm all for that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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but does anyone on here REALLY believe what people say on here and wouldn't you just presume everyone barebacks and simply use protection for your own requirement.
If there was two people I was going to meet, one says they bareback and the other says they don't, I'd use protection with both and presume they both bareback strangers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but does anyone on here REALLY believe what people say on here and wouldn't you just presume everyone barebacks and simply use protection for your own requirement.
If there was two people I was going to meet, one says they bareback and the other says they don't, I'd use protection with both and presume they both bareback strangers."
Perhaps the OP could form a sort of Anti bareback police force ready to drop in and make sure rubbers are in use. Can I join please if you are successful. We could have a system of random spot checks on all fabswingers, making sure they are being good and not having bareback sex with anyone except their own partners. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's an option to state you like safe sex, but no option to tick you like bareback as far as I can see.
I was looking at some profiles recently of people in forum who openly say they do bareback, but they always nearly have the safesex box ticked on their profile, so I think the OP might be onto something with his suggestion
Can people not indulge in both?
But I think that if you have the option then many people will still not use it as there are too many nannies/holier than thou/trolls/keyboard warriors on this site who do judge and do attempt to vilify what is a very normal, if not necessarily safe, sexual practice.
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Yes of course people can indulge in both. But for those that do not want to bareback or meet others that regularly do with strangers, maybe to have a filter in place would help both sets of people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course it's down to the individuals in whether thru want to go bareback or not.
But on a swingers site and potential many meet partners etc I would consider bare back a no no personally.
Rubber stamp safety!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These barback bashing threads make me laugh bareback in swinging not the best idea I think Defo too high risk but how much of your past partners have you had tested before having bareback sex the risk is the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"These barback bashing threads make me laugh bareback in swinging not the best idea I think Defo too high risk but how much of your past partners have you had tested before having bareback sex the risk is the same"
That's true, I have had bareback sex with more women I have met in the pub than I have swinging. Never caught anything either. |
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