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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes
Your a very very very bad boy!!
Now bend over and let me spank your bum...
Don't feel guilty OP, the lady may have discovered that the site wasn't for her. |
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over a year ago
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad? "
I didn't leave...I'm still here...  |
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad? "
I wonder if it'll mention you in her suicide note? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad?
I wonder if it'll mention you in her suicide note?"
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad? "
You may or may not be bad but perhaps your ego might need a reduction?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a guy for a social last weekend, he asked me on the spot what I thought & I really politely told him that although he was lovely he wasn't for me. He said could he still message me & keep in touch, I said yes of course, just no play. We parted on good terms, I thought.
I got home 15 minutes later, logged on & he'd left the site   |
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad? "
'Incredibly guilty'?? Oh would you ever get over yourself!!!
Some people really think they're gods gift .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad?
'Incredibly guilty'?? Oh would you ever get over yourself!!!
Some people really think they're gods gift ...."
Ah stop, he's obviously not an arse if he feels guilty is he? |
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad?
'Incredibly guilty'?? Oh would you ever get over yourself!!!
Some people really think they're gods gift ....
Ah stop, he's obviously not an arse if he feels guilty is he?"
Incredibly guilty I think you'll find .... |
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad?
I wonder if it'll mention you in her suicide note?
um... "
Just think his ego is so funny. The profile and photos chosen made me laugh, I think it says something. Others could say the same of my profile and photos but at least I show my face, it stops people wasting their time contacting me only to find out I'm ugly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol wish i could turn women away haha! There more like running away from me lol! Buggers And i cant believe he has received a message from a women!! Think im yet to here from a women first lol! Always me being a annoying twat messaging haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad?
I wonder if it'll mention you in her suicide note?
um...
Just think his ego is so funny. The profile and photos chosen made me laugh, I think it says something. Others could say the same of my profile and photos but at least I show my face, it stops people wasting their time contacting me only to find out I'm ugly "
Good job he's looking for women then isn't it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad?
'Incredibly guilty'?? Oh would you ever get over yourself!!!
Some people really think they're gods gift ...."
Techincally I am that's what my name means in Hebrew I just haven't worked out to what I'm gifted it ain't ladies I tell thee |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad?
'Incredibly guilty'?? Oh would you ever get over yourself!!!
Some people really think they're gods gift ...."
Or they have a conscience |
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad?
I wonder if it'll mention you in her suicide note?
um...
Just think his ego is so funny. The profile and photos chosen made me laugh, I think it says something. Others could say the same of my profile and photos but at least I show my face, it stops people wasting their time contacting me only to find out I'm ugly
Good job he's looking for women then isn't it "
Yes and for someone from East Anglia he's being quite adventurous. Good chance he'll meet somebody on here who isn't his mother, daughter, sister or cousin |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad?
I wonder if it'll mention you in her suicide note?
um...
Just think his ego is so funny. The profile and photos chosen made me laugh, I think it says something. Others could say the same of my profile and photos but at least I show my face, it stops people wasting their time contacting me only to find out I'm ugly
Good job he's looking for women then isn't it
Yes and for someone from East Anglia he's being quite adventurous. Good chance he'll meet somebody on here who isn't his mother, daughter, sister or cousin "
was that a stab at being funny? Because it really wasn't |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's the female equivalent of a white knight?"
just say my name if you want. I'm grown up,I can take it. I'd like to be totally honest to some of the people who commented here but mods wouldn't like it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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With the choice woman have on here I wouldn't have thought that one guy politely saying "not my type" would have made no difference to their decision to leave the site. |
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad?
'Incredibly guilty'?? Oh would you ever get over yourself!!!
Some people really think they're gods gift ....
Or they have a conscience "
Conscience. ?? What are you talking about?? How is 'having a conscience' even remotely relevant???
Just another self promoting bore...
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad? "
You probably weren't the reason they left the site. Lots of people come and go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad? "
It was probably a man. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad?
It was probably a man."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad? "
Ever thought it was a fake? |
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By *ohndelMan
over a year ago
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Us fellas are sensitive also, but doubt there would be any of us left on the site, if we left every time we got a knock back.
If there was a competition for knock backs, think I would be in the premier league, but the fun of it all ( or stupidity) just keeps you coming back for more.
Am I stupid, to keep trying?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's the female equivalent of a white knight?
Cindafuckingrella
I can't wear heels
My response wasn't directed at you..."
I wasn't taking it personally |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad?
'Incredibly guilty'?? Oh would you ever get over yourself!!!
Some people really think they're gods gift ....
Or they have a conscience
Conscience. ?? What are you talking about?? How is 'having a conscience' even remotely relevant???
Just another self promoting bore...
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errr can you not look it another way as a topic of conversation sort of what forums are about....negative people or what...!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad? "
It's guys like you that spoil the site....why couldn't you just take one for the team! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad?
It was probably a man."
Yep. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad?
It's guys like you that spoil the site....why couldn't you just take one for the team! "
I'll remember you said that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad?
It was probably a man.
Yep."
Or maybe the same woman keeps joining and hoping you'll eventually meet one of her persona's?! |
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"I'm feeling incredibly guilty. I have just politely said thank you but no thank you to a lady who is not my type, only to find that she has left the site and I feel like it's my fault, this is not the first time this has happened, and I feel upset that I might have hurt her feelings. I was very polite and kind ... Your lovely but not for me... But I feel quite upset by it. Am I bad?
'Incredibly guilty'?? Oh would you ever get over yourself!!!
Some people really think they're gods gift ....
Or they have a conscience
Conscience. ?? What are you talking about?? How is 'having a conscience' even remotely relevant???
Just another self promoting bore...
errr can you not look it another way as a topic of conversation sort of what forums are about....negative people or what...!!"
Well said |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Cheers guys. Having a moment of weakness. Just that I know how it feels to be turned down, I'm no Johnny Depp, and no matter how you dress it up, it's a knock. Funny enough, although I'm on here for NSA sex like the majority of us, I actually do care about other peoples feelings. Anyway, I'm over myself now. Btw I'm a North London boy, invaded East Anglia 10 years ago and love it. And, I do think I deserve a good spanking |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cheers guys. Having a moment of weakness. Just that I know how it feels to be turned down, I'm no Johnny Depp, and no matter how you dress it up, it's a knock. Funny enough, although I'm on here for NSA sex like the majority of us, I actually do care about other peoples feelings. Anyway, I'm over myself now. Btw I'm a North London boy, invaded East Anglia 10 years ago and love it. And, I do think I deserve a good spanking "
nothing wrong with caring about other peoples feelings and as usual the forum provides an eye opener in the responses made )x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Cheers guys. Having a moment of weakness. Just that I know how it feels to be turned down, I'm no Johnny Depp, and no matter how you dress it up, it's a knock. Funny enough, although I'm on here for NSA sex like the majority of us, I actually do care about other peoples feelings. Anyway, I'm over myself now. Btw I'm a North London boy, invaded East Anglia 10 years ago and love it. And, I do think I deserve a good spanking "
We like North Londoners round ere son
I'm sure she only left because she found her dream guy in message No.2 don't lose any sleep over it  |
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i know i sometimes feel guilty because i dont answere my messages then notice they have left the site.