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Is switching more of a male thing?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ive only been on here for about a week, and so far ive noticed (from the profiles ive read) that most women prefer to be either sub or domme! Is switching more of a male thing?  |
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Don't know if it is or isn't. If I had to give myself a label it would be switch. I get messages every day asking if I'm sub and when I say no it's invariably. 'oh so you're domme then.' can't two people just meet for a good old fashioned fuck anymore? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Each to their own I guess, Do feel abit of a freak though when I get replies saying things like "I could never domme a man" or "Its un-manly to be dommed" lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very few profiles on here admit to a D/s preference. Call me a cynic I suspect some men will claim to identify as switches in an attempt to cover all bases
Amongst our friends on the kink scene I've never viewed switching as gender specific. Some people switch, some don't. |
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"Don't know if it is or isn't. If I had to give myself a label it would be switch. I get messages every day asking if I'm sub and when I say no it's invariably. 'oh so you're domme then.' can't two people just meet for a good old fashioned fuck anymore? "
I'm Dom and don't switch so accept that those who want a sub/ switch aren't going to be interested in me
However I can, and do meet for non D/S meets as well and enjoy them loads and suspect many Doms out there do exactly the same |
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"I just do what I feel like doing in the right situation
That's two of us then "
And a third - I do a little bit of sub (once), a little bit of Dom, a little bit of switch and a huge amount of just getting on with sex and fucking |
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"I just do what I feel like doing in the right situation
That's two of us then
And a third - I do a little bit of sub (once), a little bit of Dom, a little bit of switch and a huge amount of just getting on with sex and fucking "
I'm generally in this category too... But then I've only dabbled. I had a recent sub experience that really whet my appetite for it, perhaps because I normally assume a more dominant role.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You do what you enjoy and feel good doing. I'm a sub that has no inclination to switch, its not me at all. One of my doms is a switch and it's great because he knows it from both sides. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had always been sub but recently found I have a Domme side by accident. A "Dom" pissed me off and I totally switched on him. Have played Domme few times now and liking it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a switch but only sub on fab as I have enough sub males to keep me happy for 2 life times but finding a Dom is hard work. I seem to be a lot more choosy. I would need a connection with a Dom but I can be Dom with anyone. |
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