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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I love going to swingers clubs and I've met some absolutely wonderful people, I feel fairly confident there and I'll introduce myself and chat to people no problem, and unless I've got it all wrong and they're just humouring me I think people receive me fairly well.
In the 'outside' world I might as well be a pane of glass!! I work in a pub where I'm just as chatty and confident but generally get ignored or looked at like I should be sectioned!! I admit I'm not entirely normal and I laugh alot plus bizzare things happen to me more than I'd like them to but still. If I tone it down and keep quiet everyone wants to know what's wrong and to stop being miserable!! I can't actually win!!
Socio any tips on how to make my pub into more of a swingers club!!! Lol!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why would you want the pub to be like the swingers club?
What I mean is this, keep the two separate so your vanilla life is just that, but your secret Swinging life is exciting and fun so every time you visit a club it's special and fun.
If pub's were the same then nothing would be fun.
Also there is nothing wrong with blending in and being invisible.
Unless you strive constant attention? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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That part was meant to be tongue in cheek!! I don't wish for my pub to be a swingers club!! Although it would make work more interesting!!
I don't mind blending in and I don't strive for constant attention but it does get rather tiresome of being ignored 98% of the time!!
Maybe swingers are just nicer people!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Also (and I'm not trying to cause an argument just pointing it out) who says my swinging life is a secret?? It's not something I shout from the roof tops but I don't hide it. I am who I am. I'm a single girl that likes to have sex but doesn't want a boyfriend. I'm kinkier than most and go to clubs to fulfil my needs if you like. I'm not ashamed of it |
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but once tis ur keys and mine i dont mind 
that's exactly what I do 
