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Being lured to a paying house/ venue

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I have noticed a few profiles which seem to be singing the praises of particular venues but on closer look, they are actually the organisers parading as ordinary swingers and fun seekers. Headlines like ' yaay! It's Friday; will be fun at venue A or B' make me a little cautious. Has anyone, mainly single males, ever felt like they are being led or channeled to a particular place?

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"I have noticed a few profiles which seem to be singing the praises of particular venues but on closer look, they are actually the organisers parading as ordinary swingers and fun seekers. Headlines like ' yaay! It's Friday; will be fun at venue A or B' make me a little cautious. Has anyone, mainly single males, ever felt like they are being led or channeled to a particular place?

Hahaaahaaaa! You are very observant!

I know of a "single" lady on here who only meets in a certain club. Guess what; the club belongs to her and her husband!!! I found out the hard way, through experience.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've spoken to many men who have had this happen to them. Sucks. And makes those of us who are genuinely single and wanting to go to a club look awful. Be honest about it at least. Then the guys can decide themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes! There is a woman local to us who always posts about how great a certain club is here in Blackpool. She's always leaving glowing club reviews for the place. We found out that she works there! - seems like it's quite common to 'plug the clubs' on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Seems a few like that to the point I'm quite put off clubs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why is this such a bad thing? Lots of companies, bars,clubs etc use social media to get people through the door! Unless these poor poor single men are being offered sex if they go ( which I'm guessing they haven't been) I really don't see a problem with it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why is this such a bad thing? Lots of companies, bars,clubs etc use social media to get people through the door! Unless these poor poor single men are being offered sex if they go ( which I'm guessing they haven't been) I really don't see a problem with it"

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

If you see it and it's clear that's the intention? Don't respond or go! Simple!!

Of course it's also perfectly possible that there will be plenty of other people at the party/venue/club apart from that one lone single lady!

Businesses are businesses! They advertise.

It's naïve to think they don't.

So regardless of such status updates, posts and messages - just look at the club as a club rather than an opportunity to meet this one person - as that's obviously not what's on offer!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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Yes the north east page now looks like an advert for vivente and club f...we attended a social a short while ago in a back street bar where we were charged 20 quid entry..We refused a party invite this week as organisers were demanding 20 quid to open gates....seems people have seen a niche

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yet another reason why, as a single women, I wouldn't go near a club - any club!

Makes them all sound very bogus to be honest.

I'd much rather take my chances meeting a stranger one-on-one.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yup but it's obvious. Not a million miles away from Northamptonshire there is a club with a similar tactic. As the weekend nears they start posting about the same old plans and when you look closely it's either the owners bar staff door staff or driver etc.

If such tactics work for them and it's allowed on here then fair play you just have to look close so as not to get duped into attending thinking it's going to be busy.

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By *obbytupperMan over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

If you think the contribution asked for is profiteering report the profile to Admin.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

"Yup but it's obvious. Not a million miles away from Northamptonshire there is a club with a similar tactic. As the weekend nears they start posting about the same old plans and when you look closely it's either the owners bar staff door staff or driver etc.

If such tactics work for them and it's allowed on here then fair play you just have to look close so as not to get duped into attending thinking it's going to be busy. "

If these tactics are used and the club is never busy word will soon get round and it becomes counter productive.

I still consider that club staff, regulars and owners have the right to post whatever they want (within the rules!) regarding whether they'll be attending a club or not - common sense dictates that staff and owners always will be there! lol

many great, busy clubs do exactly the same thing and nobody complains.

Maybe it's just those clubs that are never busy that get viewed differently by people?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If such tactics work for them and it's allowed on here then fair play you just have to look close so as not to get duped into attending thinking it's going to be busy. "
Its normally the couples that play regularly in clubs that rave about them up here but if they enjoy it then fair play,We didnt when we visited but hey ho each aspect of swinging is not for everyone,we dont mind paying for decent facilities but dont like charges dropped on us that werent advertised until you get to the venue

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's no different than me posting about my plans on going to my local on face geek, yes I work there but I socialise there too and I want more people to come, whats the difference??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's no different than me posting about my plans on going to my local on face geek, yes I work there but I socialise there too and I want more people to come, whats the difference??"
The fact your charged at the door

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's no different than me posting about my plans on going to my local on face geek, yes I work there but I socialise there too and I want more people to come, whats the difference??The fact your charged at the door

A fair few pubs and clubs in town charge at the door.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A fair few pubs and clubs in town charge at the door....... "
pubs dont charge at the door in Newcastle,they organise bands and entertainment without springing a charge on you at the door you were not expecting

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

A fair few pubs and clubs in town charge at the door....... pubs dont charge at the door in Newcastle,they organise bands and entertainment without springing a charge on you at the door you were not expecting"

Yep. Not on.

We stick to 'club' clubs rather than those house parties that masquerade as clubs, or just parties at friends.

The former we will gladly pay for. The latter just involves taking a couple of bottles.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe it's a southern thing then?? Still surely most would check a website before going to a swingers club though??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nobody is forced to do anything. If you are asked for payment to attend a social you have two options: pay to get in or don't. (Make that three - don't and whinge about it).

Venues, especially for socials don't come cheap. Who should pay for this?? The organiser or everyone who attends? Nobody is holding a gun at your head. Vote with your feet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Although we have no affiliation with any club , when our local club was open , we always went to the socials every week and at least one of the party nights .

And we always put on our status we were , to try and get more to attend (for our reasons) , but on reflection we can see that people may have thought we were promoting the club as the op suggests .

Interestingly , since the club closed and we no longer post the fact we are attending any club , we have had way more meets !

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I club a lot and often put on my status where I'm going, I'm not affiliated with any club and enjoy attending a few.

I had people assuming I worked for one or profited from a social I had at a club, I didn't though, I just hosted and welcomed people and wanted a fun night which is what happened.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah loads of companies do use social media to advertise & that's totally fine. It's the people who are advertising the clubs in a misleading way. Sneaky by not claiming to be part of them or telling people that they are infact advertising. Technically 'luring' in people as the OP stated.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

& that is the joy of the forum - every person is allowed just that!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I club a lot and often put on my status where I'm going, I'm not affiliated with any club and enjoy attending a few.

I had people assuming I worked for one or profited from a social I had at a club, I didn't though, I just hosted and welcomed people and wanted a fun night which is what happened."

We are the same as you. We do host events but never lure.... We were at two different clubs Friday.. we stated we were going to each....clubs do charge entry.. if someone wants to go they pay.... We make no promises

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

& that is the joy of the forum - every person is allowed just that!

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Lol!!

Having read the the various comments, it is quite obvious who is involved. Heehee.

Be that as it may, I think it is misleading to make a poor guy believe that you are meeting him at a venue (mind u it costs an arm and a leg to get in) while in fact you simply part own the place.

How very wrong!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol!!

Having read the the various comments, it is quite obvious who is involved. Heehee.

Be that as it may, I think it is misleading to make a poor guy believe that you are meeting him at a venue (mind u it costs an arm and a leg to get in) while in fact you simply part own the place.

How very wrong!!!"

Ummm so you've come to the conclusion I part own a club

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"If you think the contribution asked for is profiteering report the profile to Admin.

Something tells me bobby does not own a place; or am I wrong??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe it's a southern thing then?? Still surely most would check a website before going to a swingers club though??"
Was not at a club..an organised social with no talk of a charge on the door until you arrived

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

plus,when you get there you're going to get what you are going for. Someone advertising they are going to be at a club should state you will be charged to get in but I'm not going to have sex with anyone I don't fancy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody is forced to do anything. If you are asked for payment to attend a social you have two options: pay to get in or don't. (Make that three - don't and whinge about it).

Venues, especially for socials don't come cheap. Who should pay for this?? The organiser or everyone who attends? Nobody is holding a gun at your head. Vote with your feet!"
If you have travelled 150 miles ,booked accomodation and made a significant effort then walking away when a fee is demanded is silly.....the point is if there was a charge on the door it should have been stated in the ad and not dropped on your toes upon arrival

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody is forced to do anything. If you are asked for payment to attend a social you have two options: pay to get in or don't. (Make that three - don't and whinge about it).

Venues, especially for socials don't come cheap. Who should pay for this?? The organiser or everyone who attends? Nobody is holding a gun at your head. Vote with your feet!If you have travelled 150 miles ,booked accomodation and made a significant effort then walking away when a fee is demanded is silly.....the point is if there was a charge on the door it should have been stated in the ad and not dropped on your toes upon arrival"

and now you know to ask in future. Assume nothing in life is free.

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Lol!!

Having read the the various comments, it is quite obvious who is involved. Heehee.

Be that as it may, I think it is misleading to make a poor guy believe that you are meeting him at a venue (mind u it costs an arm and a leg to get in) while in fact you simply part own the place.

How very wrong!!!

Ummm so you've come to the conclusion I part own a club !

How very enterprising would it be if you did! And may I add, even if you did, that would be great.

I was only making a general statement.

The point is simple: nothing wrong with owning/ part owning a club.

However if you make arrangements for a guy / or guys to come sleep with you and then get paid for it, ie 10 guys pay £30 or £40 so you get say 200 for a good job done, the dictionary calls you a certain name

Ya git me-picture ( in a Scottish accent, that sounds like music to my ears).

Hoohaah!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody is forced to do anything. If you are asked for payment to attend a social you have two options: pay to get in or don't. (Make that three - don't and whinge about it).

and now you know to ask in future. Assume nothing in life is free."
Thankyou for your worldly words of wisdom

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes the north east page now looks like an advert for vivente and club f...we attended a social a short while ago in a back street bar where we were charged 20 quid entry..We refused a party invite this week as organisers were demanding 20 quid to open gates....seems people have seen a niche "

20 pounds for a social!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody is forced to do anything. If you are asked for payment to attend a social you have two options: pay to get in or don't. (Make that three - don't and whinge about it).

Venues, especially for socials don't come cheap. Who should paying for this?? The organiser or everyone who attends? Nobody is holding a gun at your head. Vote with your feet!"

I'm sorry but I disagree, most pubs (which is what was referred to) charge a nominal amount, certainly nothing like the revenue £20 a person/couple would raise

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I must admit when I atrended a social earlier this year it was quite a revelation to discover how many 'regulars' eho at the time posted a ridiculous number of threads about the amazing nights they'd had or how much they were looking forward to the next night appeared to work there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Lol!!

Having read the the various comments, it is quite obvious who is involved. Heehee.

Be that as it may, I think it is misleading to make a poor guy believe that you are meeting him at a venue (mind u it costs an arm and a leg to get in) while in fact you simply part own the place.

How very wrong!!!

Ummm so you've come to the conclusion I part own a club !

How very enterprising would it be if you did! And may I add, even if you did, that would be great.

I was only making a general statement.

The point is simple: nothing wrong with owning/ part owning a club.

Ya git me-picture ( in a Scottish accent, that sounds like music to my ears).

Hoohaah!"

Sorry I thought you were referring to people that advertise where they will be going at the weekend

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By *eddonistikMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Nobody is forced to do anything. If you are asked for payment to attend a social you have two options: pay to get in or don't. (Make that three - don't and whinge about it).

Venues, especially for socials don't come cheap. Who should pay for this?? The organiser or everyone who attends? Nobody is holding a gun at your head. Vote with your feet!"

Exactly, no one forces you to go somewhere, if you don't want to pay don't go. I was out in the Village in Manchester last night, some places wanted to charge, others didn't. You just decide where you want to go, it's up to you

I don't go to clubs these days, as a single guy I think that paying out a lump of money for the possibility of a shag is a bit daft. However others think differently, it's up to people to make their own minds up.

If you are an adult and get 'lured' more fool you

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By *riskynriskyCouple over a year ago

Essex.

We have a regular club. We know that we will have a good night and see friends we have made going there.

Yes we put it on our profile update when we are going, that's just to let friends know we are going.

We post good reviews when we feel the need and will pm the club directly if we feel the need also. We feel it is only fair to give them a chance to reply if we are not happy with something.

There have been far more good reviews than pm's...

We have no link to the club. The better the club does, generally the more fun the customers have...

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

"Lol!!

Having read the the various comments, it is quite obvious who is involved. Heehee.

Be that as it may, I think it is misleading to make a poor guy believe that you are meeting him at a venue (mind u it costs an arm and a leg to get in) while in fact you simply part own the place.

How very wrong!!!"

Do people really fall for that? Honestly??

If so I'd suggest using a better approach to planning meets!

If people are willing to travel to a club (to enter which they'd have to pay whether meeting someone or not!) to meet someone they've had little prior interaction with, under the assumption that they're guaranteed sex - then to me that clearly highlights the attitude of some who don't understand the club scene!

And if the message says something along the lines of "meet me at the club and I'll fuck you" and you really believe that it'll happen? Heaven help you if you get a message saying you've won the Nigerian Lottery or that Great Aunt Ethel has died and left you millions!

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By *an_WoodMan over a year ago

Stafford

"Nobody is forced to do anything. If you are asked for payment to attend a social you have two options: pay to get in or don't. (Make that three - don't and whinge about it).

Venues, especially for socials don't come cheap. Who should pay for this?? The organiser or everyone who attends? Nobody is holding a gun at your head. Vote with your feet!"

see posts from a saucy lady for a local club. Know she is genuine so no problem. Clubs need promotional posts same as any other entertainment venue.

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Ok, ok, I have an idea: let's call it the litmus test.

Guy chats up girl, they BOTH agree to meet at club XYZ. Guy proposes to girl, how about we enter together so at least I pay less(for couples) instead of £30.

If girl is fake ie a canvasser, she will not agree to that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody is forced to do anything. If you are asked for payment to attend a social you have two options: pay to get in or don't. (Make that three - don't and whinge about it).

Venues, especially for socials don't come cheap. Who should paying for this?? The organiser or everyone who attends? Nobody is holding a gun at your head. Vote with your feet!

I'm sorry but I disagree, most pubs (which is what was referred to) charge a nominal amount, certainly nothing like the revenue £20 a person/couple would raise"

Depends what the £20 included - venue, buffet, entertainment. If that was inclued at £10 per head then that would be ok. I'd check with the organiser first tho and wouldn't assume anything was free and if I'm paying what am I getting for my money.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

"Ok, ok, I have an idea: let's call it the litmus test.

Guy chats up girl, they BOTH agree to meet at club XYZ. Guy proposes to girl, how about we enter together so at least I pay less(for couples) instead of £30.

If girl is fake ie a canvasser, she will not agree to that.

Or maybe she doesn't want to go as a couple and potentially be stuck with someone that she doesn't click with all night?

Couples entry at clubs means that if two singles go in as a couple they are expected to stay together as a couple - not just use the cheaper entry as a cash saving mechanism.

This is another reason why guys get bad press re clubs!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok, ok, I have an idea: let's call it the litmus test.

Guy chats up girl, they BOTH agree to meet at club XYZ. Guy proposes to girl, how about we enter together so at least I pay less(for couples) instead of £30.

If girl is fake ie a canvasser, she will not agree to that.

What??? Why should the woman pay more?? I would never do that! I'm happy to meet people IN a club not go with them as a money off voucher

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Ok, ok, I have an idea: let's call it the litmus test.

Guy chats up girl, they BOTH agree to meet at club XYZ. Guy proposes to girl, how about we enter together so at least I pay less(for couples) instead of £30.

If girl is fake ie a canvasser, she will not agree to that.

Or maybe she doesn't want to go as a couple and potentially be stuck with someone that she doesn't click with all night?

Couples entry at clubs means that if two singles go in as a couple they are expected to stay together as a couple - not just use the cheaper entry as a cash saving mechanism.

This is another reason why guys get bad press re clubs!

Sorry, I was not in the house when that bill was passed into law. Enter as a couple, play as a couple come what may.

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

"Ok, ok, I have an idea: let's call it the litmus test.

Guy chats up girl, they BOTH agree to meet at club XYZ. Guy proposes to girl, how about we enter together so at least I pay less(for couples) instead of £30.

If girl is fake ie a canvasser, she will not agree to that.

Or maybe she doesn't want to go as a couple and potentially be stuck with someone that she doesn't click with all night?

Couples entry at clubs means that if two singles go in as a couple they are expected to stay together as a couple - not just use the cheaper entry as a cash saving mechanism.

This is another reason why guys get bad press re clubs!

Sorry, I was not in the house when that bill was passed into law. Enter as a couple, play as a couple come what may.

Next time you go to a club - ask them their policy on singles entering as couples.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok, ok, I have an idea: let's call it the litmus test.

Guy chats up girl, they BOTH agree to meet at club XYZ. Guy proposes to girl, how about we enter together so at least I pay less(

for couples) instead of £30.

If girl is fake ie a canvasser, she will not agree to that.

Or maybe she doesn't want to go as a couple and potentially be stuck with someone that she doesn't click with all night?

Couples entry at clubs means that if two singles go in as a couple they are expected to stay together as a couple - not just use the cheaper entry as a cash saving mechanism.

This is another reason why guys get bad press re clubs!

Sorry, I was not in the house when that bill was passed into law. Enter as a couple, play as a couple come what may.

That's club etiquette, come in together and leave together

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Ok, ok, I have an idea: let's call it the litmus test.

Guy chats up girl, they BOTH agree to meet at club XYZ. Guy proposes to girl, how about we enter together so at least I pay less(for couples) instead of £30.

If girl is fake ie a canvasser, she will not agree to that.

What??? Why should the woman pay more?? I would never do that! I'm happy to meet people IN a club not go with them as a money off voucher"

NO, the woman pays nothing. The guy simply pays less. Everybody is a winner. Remember, we are not talking of a random fella who txts you on sat afternoon to say let's go to so and so club.

We are talking of a "hot" fella you have been chatting to for a while and who you are fairly comfortable with and really want to shag.

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Ok, ok, I have an idea: let's call it the litmus test.

Guy chats up girl, they BOTH agree to meet at club XYZ. Guy proposes to girl, how about we enter together so at least I pay less(

for couples) instead of £30.

If girl is fake ie a canvasser, she will not agree to that.

Or maybe she doesn't want to go as a couple and potentially be stuck with someone that she doesn't click with all night?

Couples entry at clubs means that if two singles go in as a couple they are expected to stay together as a couple - not just use the cheaper entry as a cash saving mechanism.

This is another reason why guys get bad press re clubs!

Sorry, I was not in the house when that bill was passed into law. Enter as a couple, play as a couple come what may.

That's club etiquette, come in together and leave together"

Leave together is easy. I am talking of fuck ONLY EACH OTHER.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok, ok, I have an idea: let's call it the litmus test.

Guy chats up girl, they BOTH agree to meet at club XYZ. Guy proposes to girl, how about we enter together so at least I pay less(

for couples) instead of £30.

If girl is fake ie a canvasser, she will not agree to that.

Or maybe she doesn't want to go as a couple and potentially be stuck with someone that she doesn't click with all night?

Couples entry at clubs means that if two singles go in as a couple they are expected to stay together as a couple - not just use the cheaper entry as a cash saving mechanism.

This is another reason why guys get bad press re clubs!

Sorry, I was not in the house when that bill was passed into law. Enter as a couple, play as a couple come what may.

That's club etiquette, come in together and leave together"

Some clubs you have to have a couple profile to enter (not sure what happens if you are not on here tho)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok, ok, I have an idea: let's call it the litmus test.

Guy chats up girl, they BOTH agree to meet at club XYZ. Guy proposes to girl, how about we enter together so at least I pay less(for couples) instead of £30.

If girl is fake ie a canvasser, she will not agree to that.

What??? Why should the woman pay more?? I would never do that! I'm happy to meet people IN a club not go with them as a money off voucher

NO, the woman pays nothing. The guy simply pays less. Everybody is a winner. Remember, we are not talking of a random fella who txts you on sat afternoon to say let's go to so and so club.

We are talking of a "hot" fella you have been chatting to for a while and who you are fairly comfortable with and really want to shag.

Because I personally only meet in clubs so nobodys time gets wasted if we don't click and so we can meet on equal ground, not equal if someone's paid for you and if you have to meet somewhere else first . I also think if a guys to tight to pay for his own entry fee he's probably not for me anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok, ok, I have an idea: let's call it the litmus test.

Guy chats up girl, they BOTH agree to meet at club XYZ. Guy proposes to girl, how about we enter together so at least I pay less(

for couples) instead of £30.

If girl is fake ie a canvasser, she will not agree to that.

Or maybe she doesn't want to go as a couple and potentially be stuck with someone that she doesn't click with all night?

Couples entry at clubs means that if two singles go in as a couple they are expected to stay together as a couple - not just use the cheaper entry as a cash saving mechanism.

This is another reason why guys get bad press re clubs!

Sorry, I was not in the house when that bill was passed into law. Enter as a couple, play as a couple come what may.

That's club etiquette, come in together and leave together

Leave together is easy. I am talking of fuck ONLY EACH OTHER. "

So what happens if you meet in a club and one person doesn't fancy fucking the other, then what?

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Ok, ok, I have an idea: let's call it the litmus test.

Guy chats up girl, they BOTH agree to meet at club XYZ. Guy proposes to girl, how about we enter together so at least I pay less(

for couples) instead of £30.

If girl is fake ie a canvasser, she will not agree to that.

Or maybe she doesn't want to go as a couple and potentially be stuck with someone that she doesn't click with all night?

Couples entry at clubs means that if two singles go in as a couple they are expected to stay together as a couple - not just use the cheaper entry as a cash saving mechanism.

This is another reason why guys get bad press re clubs!

Sorry, I was not in the house when that bill was passed into law. Enter as a couple, play as a couple come what may.

That's club etiquette, come in together and leave together

Leave together is easy. I am talking of fuck ONLY EACH OTHER.

So what happens if you meet in a club and one person doesn't fancy fucking the other, then what?"

NOTHING. Literally nothing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes and as you pay high price to get in £40 or more in some cases, you don't get to fuck anyone, that's why I don't go to them anymore

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Yes and as you pay high price to get in £40 or more in some cases, you don't get to fuck anyone, that's why I don't go to them anymore

Good man!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok, ok, I have an idea: let's call it the litmus test.

Guy chats up girl, they BOTH agree to meet at club XYZ. Guy proposes to girl, how about we enter together so at least I pay less(

for couples) instead of £30.

If girl is fake ie a canvasser, she will not agree to that.

Or maybe she doesn't want to go as a couple and potentially be stuck with someone that she doesn't click with all night?

Couples entry at clubs means that if two singles go in as a couple they are expected to stay together as a couple - not just use the cheaper entry as a cash saving mechanism.

This is another reason why guys get bad press re clubs!

Sorry, I was not in the house when that bill was passed into law. Enter as a couple, play as a couple come what may.

That's club etiquette, come in together and leave together

Leave together is easy. I am talking of fuck ONLY EACH OTHER.

So what happens if you meet in a club and one person doesn't fancy fucking the other, then what?

NOTHING. Literally nothing. "

Exactly, what a waste of time and money, if you went separately that leaves you free to explore other avenues. Much more logical

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Yes and as you pay high price to get in £40 or more in some cases, you don't get to fuck anyone, that's why I don't go to them anymore

Good man!

That is the more reason why a woman who proposes to meet you there and there only, should lessen the wallet shock by at least ' partnering' you at the gate . Somebody used the word voucher. That is no guarantee of a shag but at least the guy does not feel cheated if it does not happen.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes and as you pay high price to get in £40 or more in some cases, you don't get to fuck anyone, that's why I don't go to them anymore

Good man!

"
Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes and as you pay high price to get in £40 or more in some cases, you don't get to fuck anyone, that's why I don't go to them anymore

You go in with the wrong attitude and you'll get no where. Plenty of single guys go to clubs and have a great time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes and as you pay high price to get in £40 or more in some cases, you don't get to fuck anyone, that's why I don't go to them anymore

Good man!

"
Yes and u can have it as a couple meet to get in for less for less to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes and as you pay high price to get in £40 or more in some cases, you don't get to fuck anyone, that's why I don't go to them anymore

You go in with the wrong attitude and you'll get no where. Plenty of single guys go to clubs and have a great time"
I know, depends where you go as well.

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Ok, ok, I have an idea: let's call it the litmus test.

Guy chats up girl, they BOTH agree to meet at club XYZ. Guy proposes to girl, how about we enter together so at least I pay less(

for couples) instead of £30.

If girl is fake ie a canvasser, she will not agree to that.

Or maybe she doesn't want to go as a couple and potentially be stuck with someone that she doesn't click with all night?

Couples entry at clubs means that if two singles go in as a couple they are expected to stay together as a couple - not just use the cheaper entry as a cash saving mechanism.

This is another reason why guys get bad press re clubs!

Sorry, I was not in the house when that bill was passed into law. Enter as a couple, play as a couple come what may.

That's club etiquette, come in together and leave together

Leave together is easy. I am talking of fuck ONLY EACH OTHER.

So what happens if you meet in a club and one person doesn't fancy fucking the other, then what?

NOTHING. Literally nothing.

Exactly, what a waste of time and money, if you went separately that leaves you free to explore other avenues. Much more logical"

Much easier for you to say because, guess what: WOMEN GO IN FOR F R E E!!! Single guys pay £40 or £30. Couples go in at a DISCOUNT.

Am I the only guy who can see this?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Stop thinking with your cock and think with your brain is the simple answer

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes and as you pay high price to get in £40 or more in some cases, you don't get to fuck anyone, that's why I don't go to them anymore

Good man!

Why is up to a woman to lessen the shock!!! If you don't get laid that's your fault !! No one else's!!! How old are you??!! You make your own luck

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok, ok, I have an idea: let's call it the litmus test.

Guy chats up girl, they BOTH agree to meet at club XYZ. Guy proposes to girl, how about we enter together so at least I pay less(

for couples) instead of £30.

If girl is fake ie a canvasser, she will not agree to that.

Or maybe she doesn't want to go as a couple and potentially be stuck with someone that she doesn't click with all night?

Couples entry at clubs means that if two singles go in as a couple they are expected to stay together as a couple - not just use the cheaper entry as a cash saving mechanism.

This is another reason why guys get bad press re clubs!

Sorry, I was not in the house when that bill was passed into law. Enter as a couple, play as a couple come what may.

That's club etiquette, come in together and leave together

Leave together is easy. I am talking of fuck ONLY EACH OTHER.

So what happens if you meet in a club and one person doesn't fancy fucking the other, then what?

NOTHING. Literally nothing.

Exactly, what a waste of time and money, if you went separately that leaves you free to explore other avenues. Much more logical

Much easier for you to say because, guess what: WOMEN GO IN FOR F R E E!!! Single guys pay £40 or £30. Couples go in at a DISCOUNT.

Am I the only guy who can see this?

Yes but that's just how it is, accept it or don't go. It's really that simple. No one's going to supplement you when it means no fun for them either

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

If a single woman genuinely wanted to meet a single guy in a particular club, walking in together should not be a problem esp as this act DOES NOT bind her to the said guy. She can fuck whoever she desires.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If a single woman genuinely wanted to meet a single guy in a particular club, walking in together should not be a problem esp as this act DOES NOT bind her to the said guy. She can fuck whoever she desires.

Yes it does!!!! How can you not understand that??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had lots of guys think I work for clubs. They ask where I'm performing or how much I charge!

For the record; I don't charge. I'm not a prostitute. Im not an escort.

I'm just a trollop who feels safer meeting in clubs!!!!

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Ok, ok, I have an idea: let's call it the litmus test.

Guy chats up girl, they BOTH agree to meet at club XYZ. Guy proposes to girl, how about we enter together so at least I pay less(

for couples) instead of £30.

If girl is fake ie a canvasser, she will not agree to that.

Or maybe she doesn't want to go as a couple and potentially be stuck with someone that she doesn't click with all night?

Couples entry at clubs means that if two singles go in as a couple they are expected to stay together as a couple - not just use the cheaper entry as a cash saving mechanism.

This is another reason why guys get bad press re clubs!

Sorry, I was not in the house when that bill was passed into law. Enter as a couple, play as a couple come what may.

That's club etiquette, come in together and leave together

Leave together is easy. I am talking of fuck ONLY EACH OTHER.

So what happens if you meet in a club and one person doesn't fancy fucking the other, then what?

NOTHING. Literally nothing.

Exactly, what a waste of time and money, if you went separately that leaves you free to explore other avenues. Much more logical

Much easier for you to say because, guess what: WOMEN GO IN FOR F R E E!!! Single guys pay £40 or £30. Couples go in at a DISCOUNT.

Am I the only guy who can see this?

Yes but that's just how it is, accept it or don't go. It's really that simple. No one's going to supplement you when it means no fun for them either"

You are right, I stopped going ages ago.

But hey, it's not about me or you( if you are not one of the fakers).

The thread if I understand correctly, is about insiders who parade as genuine swingers but in fact are nothing short of sign posts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"
Good idea nothing wrong whit a white lie and the club wouldn't have a clue either, just brush up on different posibilties so you have the story right and keep the "relationship" as a go to club for cheaper meets

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unless the guy acts like a moron. Then it comes back on the lady who held hes hand on the way in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Clubs have rules. You obviously do not understand that. Going in as a couple and then going off and playing as singles is not allowed in all the clubs ive been to. You are just using her to get in cheap. Disrespectful!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok, ok, I have an idea: let's call it the litmus test.

Guy chats up girl, they BOTH agree to meet at club XYZ. Guy proposes to girl, how about we enter together so at least I pay less(

for couples) instead of £30.

If girl is fake ie a canvasser, she will not agree to that.

Or maybe she doesn't want to go as a couple and potentially be stuck with someone that she doesn't click with all night?

Couples entry at clubs means that if two singles go in as a couple they are expected to stay together as a couple - not just use the cheaper entry as a cash saving mechanism.

This is another reason why guys get bad press re clubs!

Sorry, I was not in the house when that bill was passed into law. Enter as a couple, play as a couple come what may.

That's club etiquette, come in together and leave together

Leave together is easy. I am talking of fuck ONLY EACH OTHER.

So what happens if you meet in a club and one person doesn't fancy fucking the other, then what?

NOTHING. Literally nothing.

Exactly, what a waste of time and money, if you went separately that leaves you free to explore other avenues. Much more logical

Much easier for you to say because, guess what: WOMEN GO IN FOR F R E E!!! Single guys pay £40 or £30. Couples go in at a DISCOUNT.

Am I the only guy who can see this?

Yes but that's just how it is, accept it or don't go. It's really that simple. No one's going to supplement you when it means no fun for them either

You are right, I stopped going ages ago.

But hey, it's not about me or you( if you are not one of the fakers).

The thread if I understand correctly, is about insiders who parade as genuine swingers but in fact are nothing short of sign posts. "

Well it is because your calling me a fake!!! Explain this to me..... Why would I not encourage people to go to a club I'm going to on the night I'm going??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hmmm, really? Fellas, as I said in another post elsewhere, we are here for INTELLECTUAL MASTURBATION, not a personal quest for supremacy!

I think some people need to be locked up in a room so they can sort each other out. I will supply the condoms.

Any helpers?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hmmm, really? Fellas, as I said in another post elsewhere, we are here for INTELLECTUAL MASTURBATION, not a personal quest for supremacy!

I think some people need to be locked up in a room so they can sort each other out. I will supply the condoms.

Any helpers?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hmmm, really? Fellas, as I said in another post elsewhere, we are here for INTELLECTUAL MASTURBATION, not a personal quest for supremacy!

I think some people need to be locked up in a room so they can sort each other out. I will supply the condoms.

Any helpers?

"
Make sure the room got lights on lol

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By *ice guy 44Man over a year ago

wrexham

Most is right some clubs do it on here but wil say this go to cupids and you dont get that at all but other clubs do adam and eves do try it the women from there wil tel you any thing to get you to go . I been to cupids few times and you feel at home

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Hmmm, really? Fellas, as I said in another post elsewhere, we are here for INTELLECTUAL MASTURBATION, not a personal quest for supremacy!

I think some people need to be locked up in a room so they can sort each other out. I will supply the condoms.

Any helpers?

Make sure the room got lights on lol

As long as there is plenty of lubrication, I am in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Most is right some clubs do it on here but wil say this go to cupids and you dont get that at all but other clubs do adam and eves do try it the women from there wil tel you any thing to get you to go . I been to cupids few times and you feel at home"

Ooooo advertising a club?!!!! Your clearly a fake!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hmmm, really? Fellas, as I said in another post elsewhere, we are here for INTELLECTUAL MASTURBATION, not a personal quest for supremacy!

I think some people need to be locked up in a room so they can sort each other out. I will supply the condoms.

Any helpers?

Make sure the room got lights on lol

As long as there is plenty of lubrication, I am in"
.

Going to answer my question then??

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Yes and as you pay high price to get in £40 or more in some cases, you don't get to fuck anyone, that's why I don't go to them anymore

Good man!

Cheated?

There's a serious air of entitlement in this thread.

I'm out.

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Fake fake fake. Hands up if you are fake and nothing short of a sign post.

And hands up if you have an opinion but are too timid to voice it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fake fake fake. Hands up if you are fake and nothing short of a sign post.

And hands up if you have an opinion but are too timid to voice it!

That will be a no then. Wonder why...

Good luck to you all..... I'm out too

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Fake fake fake. Hands up if you are fake and nothing short of a sign post.

And hands up if you have an opinion but are too timid to voice it!

Oo! You!!! Naughty corner. No pudding for you.

Now who wants to take me to a club? I want to verify for myself. Not you, put your hands down. You with the phat arse, what do you think?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes and as you pay high price to get in £40 or more in some cases, you don't get to fuck anyone, that's why I don't go to them anymore

"
fucking hell............the way forward!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We always post on our status if we are visiting a club

But certainly see what you mean about the same profiles posting the same stuff all the time

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fake fake fake. Hands up if you are fake and nothing short of a sign post.

And hands up if you have an opinion but are too timid to voice it!

That will be a no then. Wonder why...

Good luck to you all..... I'm out too"
CLUB OWNERS AND CLUB HANGERS ON TRY TO SELL SOMETHING THEY DONT HAVE....its called minge and only the ones that side to the other side of the argument help make it happen,its not swinging its using women that want to be used for financial gain help their cause...just look back at the posts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes and as you pay high price to get in £40 or more in some cases, you don't get to fuck anyone, that's why I don't go to them anymore

fucking hell............the way forward!!"
Yes it sure is lol, save it for the haribos on Saturdays

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't see why I should be used by a guy to get into a club cheaper, especially because I go to a club to play with multiple men, not just one.

Also, just because a woman attends a certain club regularly doesn't mean she's fake. She might just enjoy that club.

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By *MaleMan over a year ago

Noticed this and it seems the club owners/management have a mass of profiles or of friends. Forever promoting the club with status message updates & profile words.

It has an adverse effect on me. If the club was as good as the words I very much doubt they would be here incessantly to tell us how amazing and full up the club is tonight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Noticed this and it seems the club owners/management have a mass of profiles or of friends. Forever promoting the club with status message updates & profile words.

It has an adverse effect on me. If the club was as good as the words I very much doubt they would be here incessantly to tell us how amazing and full up the club is tonight

"
Some have noticed fab is a niche market..........they use it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Noticed this and it seems the club owners/management have a mass of profiles or of friends. Forever promoting the club with status message updates & profile words.

It has an adverse effect on me. If the club was as good as the words I very much doubt they would be here incessantly to tell us how amazing and full up the club is tonight

"
I agree yes, no daoubt each club have about 10 or so diferent profiles that will verify them every so often with wow such an amazing time tonight lol.

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By *MaleMan over a year ago

I'm not refering to marketing strategy lol.

It's the fact the clubs that full and an amazing night that they're mass of promotion profiles are all logged on here updating their status messages

For me logging on Fab when I'm enjoying a fullsome amazing night swinging doesnt come into the equation .

Each to their own of course

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thankgod I've never need to visit a club......

psss. They'll charging a handling fee before you know it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fake fake fake. Hands up if you are fake and nothing short of a sign post.

And hands up if you have an opinion but are too timid to voice it!

That will be a no then. Wonder why...

Good luck to you all..... I'm out tooCLUB OWNERS AND CLUB HANGERS ON TRY TO SELL SOMETHING THEY DONT HAVE....its called minge and only the ones that side to the other side of the argument help make it happen,its not swinging its using women that want to be used for financial gain help their cause...just look back at the posts"

You've argued this before and I think you need to accept that women, including those in couple go to clubs because they want to meet people and have sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always say when I am going to a club as I hope to meet someone tasty there ! So if I say I am going there then hopefully someone tasty will decide to go too lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not refering to marketing strategy lol.

It's the fact the clubs that full and an amazing night that they're mass of promotion profiles are all logged on here updating their status messages

"
Yes and good point

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fake fake fake. Hands up if you are fake and nothing short of a sign post.

And hands up if you have an opinion but are too timid to voice it!

That will be a no then. Wonder why...

You've argued this before and I think you need to accept that women, including those in couple go to clubs because they want to meet people and have sex. "
Clubs wont die ,theres a string of mugs use them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fake fake fake. Hands up if you are fake and nothing short of a sign post.

And hands up if you have an opinion but are too timid to voice it!

That will be a no then. Wonder why...

You've argued this before and I think you need to accept that women, including those in couple go to clubs because they want to meet people and have sex. Clubs wont die ,theres a string of mugs use them"

Yes we get it, you don't like clubs. That doesn't make those of us that do aren't 'mugs'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We organise a purely social event for around our area and have looked into hiring a private hall/bar for the night , but it's amazing how much people want for a place with late licence ( they normally charge Stupid amounts or have a huge minimum spend) so we keep ours to a public bar that's free. We don't think a social event should cost you ( or us)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fake fake fake. Hands up if you are fake and nothing short of a sign post.

And hands up if you have an opinion but are too timid to voice it!

That will be a no then. Wonder why...

Yes we get it, you don't like clubs. That doesn't make those of us that do aren't 'mugs'

"
So what really thinks you are not mugs?

you pay..you advertise yourselves,who gains from it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So are you saying that if you go I as a couple you must only play as a couple ???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fake fake fake. Hands up if you are fake and nothing short of a sign post.

And hands up if you have an opinion but are too timid to voice it!

That will be a no then. Wonder why...

Yes we get it, you don't like clubs. That doesn't make those of us that do aren't 'mugs'

So what really thinks you are not mugs?

you pay..you advertise yourselves,who gains from it?"

Sorry but I'm potentially missing your point - 'what really thinks you are not mugs' doesn;t make any sense.

We don't advertise beyond a possible 'meet today' and aren't so egotistical to think that any club benefits by us announcing our possible attendance. So I don;t understand the comment about advertising or about who benefits?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So are you saying that if you go I as a couple you must only play as a couple ???"

On a couples night that is the norm. And rightfully so in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I often want to go to clubs but don't have anyone to go with. They would have to realise that I would want to play as much as I could and wouldn't be just for him to play with. Greedy girl and proud!! Going to a club you know there will be a charge to get in. If a private party is at a hotel then you maybe asked to make a donation towards the cost of the room. The choice is yours but there isn't anything in this life which is free!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think I am a fat old woman . I go to loads of clubs and parties and I always say on the days leading up that I will be there so hopefully Soneone I would fancy will come !

I go alone

I buy my own drinks

I rarely play

I tell you who gains from "advertising " that you will be somewhere .... Me ! I do when a handsome man catches my eye and we arrange to meet up there !

You have issues I think

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So are you saying that if you go I as a couple you must only play as a couple ???

On a couples night that is the norm. And rightfully so in my opinion"

The question wasn't around which night you went in as a couple on, obviously on a couples night then the rules are stricter although still not set in concrete that you MUST play as a couple.

The person I replied too insinuated that it could be any night that you attend as a couple, that you just play as a couple - not themed night specific

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fake fake fake. Hands up if you are fake and nothing short of a sign post.

And hands up if you have an opinion but are too timid to voice it!

That will be a no then. Wonder why...

Yes we get it, you don't like clubs. That doesn't make those of us that do aren't 'mugs'

So what really thinks you are not mugs?

you pay..you advertise yourselves,who gains from it?"

If paying £10 and changing our status to which club we are visiting makes us a mug then we might as well get it tattooed on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Nobody is forced to do anything. If you are asked for payment to attend a social you have two options: pay to get in or don't. (Make that three - don't and whinge about it).

Totally agree

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

O o O oo

If you are going to join in the forum please do so without attacking people as a forum ban often follows.

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"I often want to go to clubs but don't have anyone to go with. They would have to realise that I would want to play as much as I could and wouldn't be just for him to play with. Greedy girl and proud!! Going to a club you know there will be a charge to get in. If a private party is at a hotel then you maybe asked to make a donation towards the cost of the room. The choice is yours but there isn't anything in this life which is free!!"

I beg your pardon?

Women get in free.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you are going to join in the forum please do so without attacking people as a forum ban often follows."

Just make them wear gloves and a gum shield then nobody will get hurt

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By *ugby 123Couple over a year ago
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O o O oo

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I beg your pardon?

Women get in free.

Some clubs charge women. I know because I am a woman and I have been charged.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I beg your pardon?

Women get in free.

Some clubs charge women. I know because I am a woman and I have been charged."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So are you saying that if you go I as a couple you must only play as a couple ???

On a couples night that is the norm. And rightfully so in my opinion

The question wasn't around which night you went in as a couple on, obviously on a couples night then the rules are stricter although still not set in concrete that you MUST play as a couple.

The person I replied too insinuated that it could be any night that you attend as a couple, that you just play as a couple - not themed night specific "

The 2 clubs we attend both have limited single men on Friday's so I suspect that they'd take the same view as on a couples night and not be overly impressed if people went their separate ways.

No idea about other clubs my guess is that it is frowned upon but harder to enforce

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I beg your pardon?

Women get in free.

Some clubs charge women. I know because I am a woman and I have been charged."

I've just read your post in the voice of the Cross dressing character David Walliams plays in little Britain

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By *lacksausageMan over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

I beg your pardon?

Women get in free.

Some clubs charge women. I know because I am a woman and I have been charged.

Charged a pound while single guys pay £ 40?

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By *londeCazWoman over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"Fake fake fake. Hands up if you are fake and nothing short of a sign post.

And hands up if you have an opinion but are too timid to voice it!

That will be a no then. Wonder why...

That could be construed as a tad offensive to those of us that choose to go to clubs (I've been to 7 or 8 different ones this year)...I always leave a review if it's a first visit, and have done an extra review on occasion as I've visited one particular club several times recently. I usually put it in my status too. I'm not that much of an egotist to think that my status of "Looking forward to Saturday at *insert club name here*" is going to have single men queuing round the block for a chance to shag me (although it would be nice)

If you don't like clubs then fair dos - that's entirely your prerogative, but it'd be nice if you held off the insults

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By *yrdwomanWoman over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I beg your pardon?

Women get in free.

Some clubs charge women. I know because I am a woman and I have been charged.

Charged a pound while single guys pay £ 40?"

Sure, if that's what makes you feel better about not going to clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Alright, ladies and gentlemen !

All I asked was this : have you ever felt that you are being reeled into a club or house or place just so you pay through the nose at the door?

I care less if you are phat, fat, slender, thin, a couple, a ts, TV, bi, straight, curious or whatever.

I feel there is a trend where single FEMs create the impression that they intend to meet up and play with you at a specific venue only for you to turn up and realise that they either own or part-own the place or even work there. Needless to say, the question of attraction does not even come in.

This, in my mind, is a con. My reason for starting this thread, among other things, is to make the unsuspecting single guy aware of such sharks and snakes.

I will say it again: INTELLECTUAL MASTURBATION is the spirit above all else. Peace be unto you; shalom!

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

"Alright, ladies and gentlemen !

All I asked was this : have you ever felt that you are being reeled into a club or house or place just so you pay through the nose at the door?

I care less if you are phat, fat, slender, thin, a couple, a ts, TV, bi, straight, curious or whatever.

This, in my mind, is a con. My reason for starting this thread, among other things, is to make the unsuspecting single guy aware of such sharks and snakes.

I will say it again: INTELLECTUAL MASTURBATION is the spirit above all else. Peace be unto you; shalom!"

To answer that?

When I was a single guy visiting clubs? No. I never felt like that.

And I visited several.

But maybe I just went because I wanted to. Rather than because I'd been lured into some kind of 'honeytrap'! And had somebody sent me such a message?

I may still have gone.

But it wouldn't have changed my expectancy about what, if anything, would have happened there.

I didn't work on the principle that because I'd been invited to try a club or because I'd paid an entry fee that I was guaranteed any kind of sexual activity at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Alright, ladies and gentlemen !

All I asked was this : have you ever felt that you are being reeled into a club or house or place just so you pay through the nose at the door?

I care less if you are phat, fat, slender, thin, a couple, a ts, TV, bi, straight, curious or whatever.

This, in my mind, is a con. My reason for starting this thread, among other things, is to make the unsuspecting single guy aware of such sharks and snakes.

I will say it again: INTELLECTUAL MASTURBATION is the spirit above all else. Peace be unto you; shalom!

To answer that?

When I was a single guy visiting clubs? No. I never felt like that.

And I visited several.

But maybe I just went because I wanted to. Rather than because I'd been lured into some kind of 'honeytrap'! And had somebody sent me such a message?

I may still have gone.

But it wouldn't have changed my expectancy about what, if anything, would have happened there.

I didn't work on the principle that because I'd been invited to try a club or because I'd paid an entry fee that I was guaranteed any kind of sexual activity at all.

Good answer! Well done . Now class, that is an answer devoid of personal vitriolics. Do you think you can manage that?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fake fake fake. Hands up if you are fake and nothing short of a sign post.

And hands up if you have an opinion but are too timid to voice it!

That will be a no then. Wonder why...

Why do you have to be so offensive about clubs and club users? ? So now if we go to clubs we are mugs? Highly offensive!

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By *eneral HysteriaMan over a year ago

Newcastle

"Fake fake fake. Hands up if you are fake and nothing short of a sign post.

And hands up if you have an opinion but are too timid to voice it!

That will be a no then. Wonder why...

Why do you have to be so offensive about clubs and club users? ? So now if we go to clubs we are mugs? Highly offensive!"

I don't agree with them entirely but if men were asked to pay more for anything else - food, drink, gig tickets, sports events, theatre tickets etc etc there'd be an outcry.

I don't agree that all club users are mugs.

I do think, however, that the guy who pays £30 - £40 when ladies and/or couples pay a fraction is a mug.

It's simply iniquitous.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Fake fake fake. Hands up if you are fake and nothing short of a sign post.

And hands up if you have an opinion but are too timid to voice it!

That will be a no then. Wonder why...

Why do you have to be so offensive about clubs and club users? ? So now if we go to clubs we are mugs? Highly offensive!

I don't agree with them entirely but if men were asked to pay more for anything else - food, drink, gig tickets, sports events, theatre tickets etc etc there'd be an outcry.

I don't agree that all club users are mugs.

I do think, however, that the guy who pays £30 - £40 when ladies and/or couples pay a fraction is a mug.

It's simply iniquitous.

It's been done to death. It's supply and demand. It would be a cockfest otherwise.

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By *eneral HysteriaMan over a year ago

Newcastle

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It's been done to death. It's supply and demand. It would be a cockfest otherwise."

Fair do's.

I have been to a club on more than one occasion, as a part of a couple, and enjoyed.

So maybe not for me methinks as a single guy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"...

It's been done to death. It's supply and demand. It would be a cockfest otherwise.

Fair do's.

I have been to a club on more than one occasion, as a part of a couple, and enjoyed.

So maybe not for me methinks as a single guy."

That's up to you. Ive played with single men in clubs. They are far from mugs as has been suggested. And I'm certainly not a mug for going to clubs.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some venues do use others to get people through the doors its up to you if you fall for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Mugsmanship (being a mug) is a matter of perspective and time. I have been to clubs as a single guy and also with a woman. Sometimes it was great; other times it was dry. After some time, i advised myself especially as i began to notice a trend. The trend of the single lady who will invite 15 other single guys but will not play with a single one of them because she was too busy behind the bar or simply put the husand would just not allow.

Whether or not you see this set up as wrong or right is up to you.

Women paying fuck all to enter a club while men pay through the nose is a different thing altogether.

If we all worked in a supermarket warehouse, we would see who goes to court for equal pay etc etc.

Each to himeself, i hear you screaming? By that logic are you sure you can tell the women to vote with their feet and go home if they dont like the pay inbalance? I hope not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" The trend of the single lady who will invite 15 other single guys but will not play with a single one of them because she was too busy behind the bar or simply put the husand would just not allow.

Out of interest are you willing to name the club?

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
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Cheeseville, Somerset

" The trend of the single lady who will invite 15 other single guys but will not play with a single one of them because she was too busy behind the bar or simply put the husand would just not allow.

Out of interest are you willing to name the club?"

I'm more curious as to the nature of the invite?

Is it "come to the club, i'll be there and I promise to fuck you" or is it "i'll be at xxxx club, it's a great venue that you might enjoy. Fancy giving it a try and i'll be happy to say hi and show you around!"

There's a huge difference.

If it's the former? Unless it's an advertised gang bang that says nobody will be refused (in which case I don't personally see that as swinging) then I see the reason to be disgruntled.

If it's the latter? It's an invite to a club. Not guaranteed company for the night and certainly not a guaranteed fuck.

If guys want guarantees - there are more suitable places to seek them than clubs!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

" The trend of the single lady who will invite 15 other single guys but will not play with a single one of them because she was too busy behind the bar or simply put the husand would just not allow.

Out of interest are you willing to name the club?

I'm more curious as to the nature of the invite?

There's a huge difference.

If it's the former? Unless it's an advertised gang bang that says nobody will be refused (in which case I don't personally see that as swinging) then I see the reason to be disgruntled.

If it's the latter? It's an invite to a club. Not guaranteed company for the night and certainly not a guaranteed fuck.

If guys want guarantees - there are more suitable places to seek them than clubs!

Shall we stop being petty and be realistic!

I mean who will use those words? Who on earth will say, " come fuck me at so and so club"?

Anyway, I think by now we all know the kind of profiles we are talking of.

And I am sure we all know what we want from the site and clubs if we end up going.

All who have followed this thread till now, I hope, have made up their own minds on the topic.

Big up to club goers! Big up to single guys! And big up to couples too! Big up to single FEMs! Big up to club owners and part owners also.

Opinions are like noses, everybody has one.

Whether you are from the south or north, respect all regions. ( if u read all the contributions, u will know what I mean).

Keep having fun.

Ooow, last but not the least, big up to TVs/ ts also. Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its getting like the strip in Ayia Napa lots of people promoting venues to get you through the door.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Surly you can't be forced to go where you don't want to,, have tried many clubs, and plan to try many more, don't go much on reviews, but decide to make my own fun, if the crowd takes my fancy,, the feeding don't think are fair, women should pay the same if you ask me,, and I don't believe in dress codes that certain clubs have, let's be honest most of the clothes end up on the floor anyway,, well when I'm around anyway

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Under the Sexual Offences Act 2003, it is an offence to cause or incite prostitution or control it for personal gain. The 1956 Sexual Offences Act bans running a brothel

This is why I dont attend clubs!!!!!!!!!!!!

Freedom of speech too !!!!!

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