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Waiting to recieve messages rather than sending them
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So we have decided instead of propositioning people over messages and us trying to start the convo. We have decided to add new pics tonight and just wait for the messages to start coming in, if they do.
what do you fellow forumites think of this cunning plan? x |
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"So we have decided instead of propositioning people over messages and us trying to start the convo. We have decided to add new pics tonight and just wait for the messages to start coming in, if they do.
what do you fellow forumites think of this cunning plan? x"
nearly every post you guys put on is about other people doing stuff while you sit back and wait  your green arrow nearly had us believing that this site must owe you guys a meet?? it might sound negative but its there in black n white  |
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"So we have decided instead of propositioning people over messages and us trying to start the convo. We have decided to add new pics tonight and just wait for the messages to start coming in, if they do.
what do you fellow forumites think of this cunning plan? x"
I think both approaches work although by taking the initiative with others you can be sure theyre "Your type" and save yourself a hatful of "Thanks but no thanks" stock replies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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as cunning as a fox what used to be Professor of Cunning at Oxford University, but has moved on, and is now working for the UN at the High Commission of International Cunning Planning? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So we have decided instead of propositioning people over messages and us trying to start the convo. We have decided to add new pics tonight and just wait for the messages to start coming in, if they do.
what do you fellow forumites think of this cunning plan? xnearly every post you guys put on is about other people doing stuff while you sit back and wait your green arrow nearly had us believing that this site must owe you guys a meet?? it might sound negative but its there in black n white "
this time we arent relyig on someone else to do the work. we are using the site in one of the many ways it can be used. Its only because we think if women get bombarded with messages so mcuh surely it must put them off reading them. SO we thought why not let people message us instead that way we know they are interested instead of waiting for a reply |
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"as cunning as a fox what used to be Professor of Cunning at Oxford University, but has moved on, and is now working for the UN at the High Commission of International Cunning Planning?"
great guy, bad d*unk. ruined KFC the last time we took him out |
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"Great plan, waiting for things to happen for you...........let us know how that goes won't you.  "
Its only because sending ou message after message doesnt seem to be working at the moment. We know our best bet is to go straight to a club. Which we will when we are both of work have the money to get there and sort a place to stay. |
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"Great plan, waiting for things to happen for you...........let us know how that goes won't you.
Its only because sending ou message after message doesnt seem to be working at the moment. We know our best bet is to go straight to a club. Which we will when we are both of work have the money to get there and sort a place to stay."
whats the rush though guys?? |
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"Great plan, waiting for things to happen for you...........let us know how that goes won't you.
Its only because sending ou message after message doesnt seem to be working at the moment. We know our best bet is to go straight to a club. Which we will when we are both of work have the money to get there and sort a place to stay.whats the rush though guys?? "
No rush at all we like to take it slow, just we want to find a method that works. We seem to just come across loads of fakes or couples who want us to help them out with a fantasy that we aren't willing to do. |
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Seems they (or the singleton!) decided the site wasn't for them nor working how them they wanted...
We all use this site in various ways. If people decide to settle on a method and it's working for them, then what's the harm?
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"So we have decided instead of propositioning people over messages and us trying to start the convo. We have decided to add new pics tonight and just wait for the messages to start coming in, if they do.
what do you fellow forumites think of this cunning plan? x"
I think the plan is doomed to failure. If you press the red button, your profile will go and you won't be on the site any longer so think carefully.... |
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"Seems they (or the singleton!) decided the site wasn't for them nor working how them they wanted...
We all use this site in various ways. If people decide to settle on a method and it's working for them, then what's the harm?
P"
If very rare that I message someone first, and that works very well for me. was it not Ralph Walldo Emerson who said "Build a better mousetrap, and the world will beat a path to your door". Well substitute mantrap for mousetrap and you have my profile.
While others are happy that their profile in hidden away in the equivalent of B&Ms stockroom covered in cobwebs, mine is on show in Harrods main window on Oxford Road.
So put some effort into your profile and pictures and it will pay off.  |
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