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By *r_BigHead OP   Man  over a year ago

The Naughty Step (aka Northampton)

I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham

i think its great that they feel comfortable in their sexuality and sexual relationship that they can go out and buy things to experiment with.

I think its sad that some thing they have the kinky high ground and mock peoples sexual preferences but hey....each to their own as the saying goes.

I wonder which one is more secure in who they are?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I think that's what makes this site so good There is such a variety of people with different interests and perspectives on sex. Jim

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By *r_BigHead OP   Man  over a year ago

The Naughty Step (aka Northampton)

Good for them for trying things.

I just think that its funny how different some peoples definition of kinky can be.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oh yes this site and chatting to others has opened our eyes to how kinky some can be x x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman  over a year ago

evesham


"Good for them for trying things.

I just think that its funny how different some peoples definition of kinky can be."

yep...just as different as peoples definitions of good looking, VWE, Curvy, funny, intelligent, easy going, and any other descriptive term people use on their profiles

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

As someone unspeakably ugly, with no profile pic, or veri's, I find this site a very comfortable place to be.There is a great diversity of people here. Best of all, there are plenty stranger than me out there after all........

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By *-4pleasureCouple  over a year ago

Belfast


"i think its great that they feel comfortable in their sexuality and sexual relationship that they can go out and buy things to experiment with.

I think its sad that some thing they have the kinky high ground and mock peoples sexual preferences but hey....each to their own as the saying goes.

I wonder which one is more secure in who they are?"

Agreed - such posts speak volumes about the op, not the 'vanilla' people he mocks. And it is 'perspective', not 'prospective' seeing that he's being 'smart'....

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Good for them for trying things.

I just think that its funny how different some peoples definition of kinky can be."

And because your on a swingers site, you really think your more kinky than vanillas out in nilla land? Really?

Get real!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

whilst I have to say that most Ann Summers stuff is not much good, it is good that people want to experiment and explore who they are..

As for what is kinky and how different people define it? Simple answer is FUN..lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe"

In just about every activity we take part in there is an elitist fraction. Swinging, boating, caravaning, golf, shooting........really bores us that people think they are more qualified or have a superceding right over others because they are 'timed served ' .

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By *a-ra-ra-boom-de-ayCouple  over a year ago

Wish it was the Algarve! Aberdeenshire

I go into Ann Summers just to get picked up!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe"

What is your idea of kinky?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I go into Ann Summers just to get picked up! "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yep, that would work!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

What is your idea of kinky?"

When the garden hose gets in a knott..lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe"

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

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By *extoysareusCouple  over a year ago

kinky heaven

No one really knows what goes on behind closed doors, in their thoughts or under the bed.

Who's there to judge?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues "

Do you really believe that is true?

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By *ristofskiTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues "

And you base this on what exactly?

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By *oodyshere2011Man  over a year ago

Midlands

Everyone does things at different times in there life and sexual encounters of different levels are taken at different times so if it helps them try something then gain more confidence they may explore a wider world when it feels right to them.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

And you base this on what exactly?"

Stereotypes

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues "

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual? "

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

And you base this on what exactly?

Stereotypes "

Thank you so much, I have been wondering what the driving force is behind our lifestyle CHOICE.. We have issues.. lol

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos "

If it's just an impression you have, I would suggest keeping quiet unless you have experience and fact to back up what you say!

What's the saying? Better keeping your mouth shut and let others think your an idiot than I opening it and proving them right!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos

If it's just an impression you have, I would suggest keeping quiet unless you have experience and fact to back up what you say!

What's the saying? Better keeping your mouth shut and let others think your an idiot than I opening it and proving them right! "

Well what makes you so qualified?

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By *ristofskiTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

And you base this on what exactly?

Stereotypes "

Exactly. I generally find it best not to form my opinions from baseless stereotypes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos "

Where was the party?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos "

With ref to you profile.. What is filling a ladies bum with crean and watching squirt it back out again.. Oh yes that would be KINK..lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I go into Ann Summers. Nobody in there would have any idea of what I get up to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Agree it's all a perspective thing......best vanilla oooops I came across was about a year back. Had organised a party following on from social at local pub in Malvern. A vanilla fem on next table managed to 'lose' her friends. She then overheard that we were heading back to just around the corner from where she lived...so asked if she could get a lift/share taxis etc.... Ok we said.

She also picked up on fact we were having a party and kinda invited herself.....OMG her face when two couples started playing on sofa and on floor.....

Best bet was, when we told her it was a swinging party she asked me to take het upstairs, close door and "look after her".... She should be a swinger lol....insatiable!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

And you base this on what exactly?

Stereotypes

Exactly. I generally find it best not to form my opinions from baseless stereotypes. "

Yeah that's true

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos "

Wondering what they thought you

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By *ristofskiTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos "

There does seem to be a strong kinky/geek crossover, doesn't mean we're messed up though. Plus there's been studies that have shown mental health issues are less prevalent in the bdsm community than in the general population.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

And you base this on what exactly?

Stereotypes

Exactly. I generally find it best not to form my opinions from baseless stereotypes.

Yeah that's true "

Then why do it? And calling people weird is not the way forward!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

And you base this on what exactly?

Stereotypes

Thank you so much, I have been wondering what the driving force is behind our lifestyle CHOICE.. We have issues.. lol"

I am talking about heavy kinks not all kink

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos

If it's just an impression you have, I would suggest keeping quiet unless you have experience and fact to back up what you say!

What's the saying? Better keeping your mouth shut and let others think your an idiot than I opening it and proving them right!

Well what makes you so qualified? "

That's my business and I feel no need to inform all and sundry on here, needless to say I was never bullied, or whatever other tripe you want to sprout in future!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

And you base this on what exactly?

Stereotypes

Thank you so much, I have been wondering what the driving force is behind our lifestyle CHOICE.. We have issues.. lol

I am talking about heavy kinks not all kink"

Kink is kink... what is heavy kink? Could you please define heavy kink?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos

There does seem to be a strong kinky/geek crossover, doesn't mean we're messed up though. Plus there's been studies that have shown mental health issues are less prevalent in the bdsm community than in the general population."

I don't believe in studies. Like I said, I went to bdsm party and most were kinda what I imagined them to be. I mean there was a human dog. Bloke on all fours, Barking on a leash, going around sniffing arses drinking out of a dog bowl. I mean come on, he must of had a screw missing

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

And you base this on what exactly?

Stereotypes

Thank you so much, I have been wondering what the driving force is behind our lifestyle CHOICE.. We have issues.. lol

I am talking about heavy kinks not all kink

Kink is kink... what is heavy kink? Could you please define heavy kink?"

Like those into crazy stuff which I can't mention without getting ban

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By *ristofskiTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

And you base this on what exactly?

Stereotypes

Thank you so much, I have been wondering what the driving force is behind our lifestyle CHOICE.. We have issues.. lol

I am talking about heavy kinks not all kink"

What do you define as "heavy"?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos

There does seem to be a strong kinky/geek crossover, doesn't mean we're messed up though. Plus there's been studies that have shown mental health issues are less prevalent in the bdsm community than in the general population.

I don't believe in studies. Like I said, I went to bdsm party and most were kinda what I imagined them to be. I mean there was a human dog. Bloke on all fours, Barking on a leash, going around sniffing arses drinking out of a dog bowl. I mean come on, he must of had a screw missing "

My dear boy, in future I would stay away from events that mention anything other than suck fuck & go...!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos

If it's just an impression you have, I would suggest keeping quiet unless you have experience and fact to back up what you say!

What's the saying? Better keeping your mouth shut and let others think your an idiot than I opening it and proving them right!

Well what makes you so qualified?

That's my business and I feel no need to inform all and sundry on here, needless to say I was never bullied, or whatever other tripe you want to sprout in future! "

I was talking about heavy kinks. I am sure you not one of them

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By *ristofskiTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos

There does seem to be a strong kinky/geek crossover, doesn't mean we're messed up though. Plus there's been studies that have shown mental health issues are less prevalent in the bdsm community than in the general population.

I don't believe in studies. Like I said, I went to bdsm party and most were kinda what I imagined them to be. I mean there was a human dog. Bloke on all fours, Barking on a leash, going around sniffing arses drinking out of a dog bowl. I mean come on, he must of had a screw missing "

Well yes, a scientific investigation with a broad range of subjects pales into insignificance when compared to random prejudice

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos

If it's just an impression you have, I would suggest keeping quiet unless you have experience and fact to back up what you say!

What's the saying? Better keeping your mouth shut and let others think your an idiot than I opening it and proving them right!

Well what makes you so qualified?

That's my business and I feel no need to inform all and sundry on here, needless to say I was never bullied, or whatever other tripe you want to sprout in future!

I was talking about heavy kinks. I am sure you not one of them "

And how would you know? You've no idea what I class as light kink or heavy kink, and just because you have your own definitions, doesn't mean they match everyone else's

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos

There does seem to be a strong kinky/geek crossover, doesn't mean we're messed up though. Plus there's been studies that have shown mental health issues are less prevalent in the bdsm community than in the general population.

I don't believe in studies. Like I said, I went to bdsm party and most were kinda what I imagined them to be. I mean there was a human dog. Bloke on all fours, Barking on a leash, going around sniffing arses drinking out of a dog bowl. I mean come on, he must of had a screw missing

Well yes, a scientific investigation with a broad range of subjects pales into insignificance when compared to random prejudice "

I wouldn't say it's prejudice. Do you think this human dog was right in the head? He lived like that too. Not just party thing. According to owner anyway

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos

If it's just an impression you have, I would suggest keeping quiet unless you have experience and fact to back up what you say!

What's the saying? Better keeping your mouth shut and let others think your an idiot than I opening it and proving them right!

Well what makes you so qualified?

That's my business and I feel no need to inform all and sundry on here, needless to say I was never bullied, or whatever other tripe you want to sprout in future!

I was talking about heavy kinks. I am sure you not one of them

And how would you know? You've no idea what I class as light kink or heavy kink, and just because you have your own definitions, doesn't mean they match everyone else's "

Yeah that's true

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By *ristofskiTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos

There does seem to be a strong kinky/geek crossover, doesn't mean we're messed up though. Plus there's been studies that have shown mental health issues are less prevalent in the bdsm community than in the general population.

I don't believe in studies. Like I said, I went to bdsm party and most were kinda what I imagined them to be. I mean there was a human dog. Bloke on all fours, Barking on a leash, going around sniffing arses drinking out of a dog bowl. I mean come on, he must of had a screw missing

Well yes, a scientific investigation with a broad range of subjects pales into insignificance when compared to random prejudice

I wouldn't say it's prejudice. Do you think this human dog was right in the head? He lived like that too. Not just party thing. According to owner anyway "

Well, not knowing him and not being a mental health professional, I really don't think I'm in a position to say.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos

There does seem to be a strong kinky/geek crossover, doesn't mean we're messed up though. Plus there's been studies that have shown mental health issues are less prevalent in the bdsm community than in the general population.

I don't believe in studies. Like I said, I went to bdsm party and most were kinda what I imagined them to be. I mean there was a human dog. Bloke on all fours, Barking on a leash, going around sniffing arses drinking out of a dog bowl. I mean come on, he must of had a screw missing

Well yes, a scientific investigation with a broad range of subjects pales into insignificance when compared to random prejudice

I wouldn't say it's prejudice. Do you think this human dog was right in the head? He lived like that too. Not just party thing. According to owner anyway

Well, not knowing him and not being a mental health professional, I really don't think I'm in a position to say."

I am not a mental health expert either but I can tell you that guy was well and truly nuts

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos

There does seem to be a strong kinky/geek crossover, doesn't mean we're messed up though. Plus there's been studies that have shown mental health issues are less prevalent in the bdsm community than in the general population.

I don't believe in studies. Like I said, I went to bdsm party and most were kinda what I imagined them to be. I mean there was a human dog. Bloke on all fours, Barking on a leash, going around sniffing arses drinking out of a dog bowl. I mean come on, he must of had a screw missing

Well yes, a scientific investigation with a broad range of subjects pales into insignificance when compared to random prejudice

I wouldn't say it's prejudice. Do you think this human dog was right in the head? He lived like that too. Not just party thing. According to owner anyway

Well, not knowing him and not being a mental health professional, I really don't think I'm in a position to say.

I am not a mental health expert either but I can tell you that guy was well and truly nuts "

Why is he "well and truly nuts"? Just because he does something you don't agree with?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos

There does seem to be a strong kinky/geek crossover, doesn't mean we're messed up though. Plus there's been studies that have shown mental health issues are less prevalent in the bdsm community than in the general population.

I don't believe in studies. Like I said, I went to bdsm party and most were kinda what I imagined them to be. I mean there was a human dog. Bloke on all fours, Barking on a leash, going around sniffing arses drinking out of a dog bowl. I mean come on, he must of had a screw missing

Well yes, a scientific investigation with a broad range of subjects pales into insignificance when compared to random prejudice

I wouldn't say it's prejudice. Do you think this human dog was right in the head? He lived like that too. Not just party thing. According to owner anyway

Well, not knowing him and not being a mental health professional, I really don't think I'm in a position to say.

I am not a mental health expert either but I can tell you that guy was well and truly nuts

Why is he "well and truly nuts"? Just because he does something you don't agree with?"

Well how crazy do you have to be before you think someone is nuts?

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos

There does seem to be a strong kinky/geek crossover, doesn't mean we're messed up though. Plus there's been studies that have shown mental health issues are less prevalent in the bdsm community than in the general population.

I don't believe in studies. Like I said, I went to bdsm party and most were kinda what I imagined them to be. I mean there was a human dog. Bloke on all fours, Barking on a leash, going around sniffing arses drinking out of a dog bowl. I mean come on, he must of had a screw missing

Well yes, a scientific investigation with a broad range of subjects pales into insignificance when compared to random prejudice

I wouldn't say it's prejudice. Do you think this human dog was right in the head? He lived like that too. Not just party thing. According to owner anyway

Well, not knowing him and not being a mental health professional, I really don't think I'm in a position to say.

I am not a mental health expert either but I can tell you that guy was well and truly nuts "

And yet again some people just never know or learn when to keep their mouths shut! FFS!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos

There does seem to be a strong kinky/geek crossover, doesn't mean we're messed up though. Plus there's been studies that have shown mental health issues are less prevalent in the bdsm community than in the general population.

I don't believe in studies. Like I said, I went to bdsm party and most were kinda what I imagined them to be. I mean there was a human dog. Bloke on all fours, Barking on a leash, going around sniffing arses drinking out of a dog bowl. I mean come on, he must of had a screw missing

Well yes, a scientific investigation with a broad range of subjects pales into insignificance when compared to random prejudice

I wouldn't say it's prejudice. Do you think this human dog was right in the head? He lived like that too. Not just party thing. According to owner anyway

Well, not knowing him and not being a mental health professional, I really don't think I'm in a position to say.

I am not a mental health expert either but I can tell you that guy was well and truly nuts

And yet again some people just never know or learn when to keep their mouths shut! FFS! "

On ill shut up. Only till I am back from gym though X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

WOW Sometimes I really wonder about you!

Do you really believe that or just 'trying' to be controversial as usual?

Just impression I get. I went to bdsm party and most of them were weirdos

There does seem to be a strong kinky/geek crossover, doesn't mean we're messed up though. Plus there's been studies that have shown mental health issues are less prevalent in the bdsm community than in the general population.

I don't believe in studies. Like I said, I went to bdsm party and most were kinda what I imagined them to be. I mean there was a human dog. Bloke on all fours, Barking on a leash, going around sniffing arses drinking out of a dog bowl. I mean come on, he must of had a screw missing

Well yes, a scientific investigation with a broad range of subjects pales into insignificance when compared to random prejudice

I wouldn't say it's prejudice. Do you think this human dog was right in the head? He lived like that too. Not just party thing. According to owner anyway

Well, not knowing him and not being a mental health professional, I really don't think I'm in a position to say.

I am not a mental health expert either but I can tell you that guy was well and truly nuts

Why is he "well and truly nuts"? Just because he does something you don't agree with?

Well how crazy do you have to be before you think someone is nuts?"

Who is crazy? People's kinks don;t make them crazy...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ive done Ann Summers for 23 years now....over that time ive met so my ladies all different in their own little way. some quiet...some not so quiet. confident and non confident. i can honestly say thru experience Ann Summers has opened a whole new world for alot of women, not only in confidence but also in attitude towards sex. The parties are ideal for the lady who cldnt feel they can walk into a

shop. The shops are well equipped with a good selection of items and separate section to view and check out toys. Staff are very approachable and give as much accurate information to customers through training. Yes some people may think AS is non kinky but everyones perception to kinky is different. Over the years women are openly talking about sex more and more...to the point that they know what they want and what they like. I think the likes of Ann Summers shops and the likes have helped an awful lot of people...men included

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By *issHottieBottieWoman  over a year ago

Kent


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues "

You do come out with some utter rubbish sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

You do come out with some utter rubbish sometimes. "

I love fake tots though so I don't always talk rubbish

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I always find it slightly amusing when someone vanilla goes to Ann Summers, buys some novelty items and thinks that they are being all kinky. I know it's a prospective thing but still ... hehehe

Light kink is fine too. Most heavy kinks are just people who got bullied at school and have issues

You do come out with some utter rubbish sometimes.

I love fake tots though so I don't always talk rubbish "

Tits not tots lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I just read a Sid Vicious quote on twitter - "It's not really my problem if they think I'm weird"

Struck me as somewhat relevent to this thread, both in regards to the way the thread has evolved but also substitute vanilla for weird and it's equally applicable to the OP.

Ultimately does it matter? Why judge other people's preferences?

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By *ristofskiTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol

On the subject of Anne summers, I find their stuff is pretty crap quality and seems more about fantasy than actual use. But then most sex shops are like that, and I guess it's a good intro for a lot of people

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The funny thing is that you can get much better quality for less money...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The funny thing is that you can get much better quality for less money..."

Clothes pegs and shoe laces are evil in the right hands.

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The funny thing is that you can get much better quality for less money...

Clothes pegs and shoe laces are evil in the right hands.

crystal "

We totally agree...

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By *ristofskiTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol


"The funny thing is that you can get much better quality for less money...

Clothes pegs and shoe laces are evil in the right hands.

crystal "

You can do amazing things with a pack of bulldog clips

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By *oxy_minxWoman  over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"On the subject of Anne summers, I find their stuff is pretty crap quality and seems more about fantasy than actual use. But then most sex shops are like that, and I guess it's a good intro for a lot of people"

I agree, but I will stick with my specialist sites rather than home made

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"On the subject of Anne summers, I find their stuff is pretty crap quality and seems more about fantasy than actual use. But then most sex shops are like that, and I guess it's a good intro for a lot of people

I agree, but I will stick with my specialist sites rather than home made "

Mix and match... that's our way

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By *ristofskiTV/TS  over a year ago

Bristol


"On the subject of Anne summers, I find their stuff is pretty crap quality and seems more about fantasy than actual use. But then most sex shops are like that, and I guess it's a good intro for a lot of people

I agree, but I will stick with my specialist sites rather than home made "

Well, my point is there are much better specialist shops than Aine summers! They are pretty hard to find though

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"On the subject of Anne summers, I find their stuff is pretty crap quality and seems more about fantasy than actual use. But then most sex shops are like that, and I guess it's a good intro for a lot of people

I agree, but I will stick with my specialist sites rather than home made

Well, my point is there are much better specialist shops than Aine summers! They are pretty hard to find though"

There are loads online, not to mention fairs etc

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