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Most of my friends are swingers. My best friends are, that's how I met them. My immediate family do. My Dad was my safety contact at one point.
No one at work knows. In previous jobs they have, but this job is government based, and they are a bit pissy about disrepute and stuff! |
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over a year ago
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I've never told anyone outside of fab, although had my profile outed a couple of years ago where I used to work which was word cos no one said anything to me about it except another colleague who was on there. I was only thinking the other day if love to be able to tell my friends about it but I just don't think they'd get it... They have quite traditional views on sex and sexual partners  |
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over a year ago
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Just about everyone at work...including the directors. Most of my friends round here but not all. My sister but not the rest of my family.
I know a few peeps on here whose kids know...just depends how open and honest you are... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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most people i know. friends, family blah blah blah....i don't have many faces particularly, i try to stick to being one person....
i get why some people do though, i brought it up on anther thread ages ago and got some fair reasons as to why some people were more secretive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My best female friends, my best male friends (some of whom I met on Fab), my lovely Pob and my sister.
Work is not an issue as I am self employed.
My Dad has no idea. He thinks I am on Match.com  |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
One friend who is no longer on here encouraged me to sign up. So they know. Some friends of one of my Fab friends know (if that makes any sense!) but if my friend trusts them then I do too. |
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family know
some on street know
friends know infact im sat here crunching on a black rock cock bought by them and given to us by them and there kids and i didnt start the naughty rock gifts in first place
but did bring rock back from seaside trips and now its my turn again to get even as she got the rock cocks to suck on and he got the pussy rock to lick upon
so its now revenge time again |
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By *ubybabyCouple
over a year ago
lincoln ish |
Some folks in my village know im on here they keep talking behind my back and making dirty remarks ALL thanks to some twat off here down loading my photos and putting them on the notice board in my local pubs .happy days |
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My friends, some family and work colleagues know I swing but not necessarily where I do it! I've been recognised off site quite a few times by my tattoos I think, usually in tesco! But had quite a few site seers at my workplace, which is slightly awkward at times, but it all comes with the territory I think, somebody, somewhere is going to know, so just tell em!  |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria |
All my mates know and a couple of work colleagues are aware - not of any details, just that I meet folk off t'interweb and may have recreational sex with them, and it may be more than 1:1
My Dad thinks I do internet dating like match dot com but he's also aware that one of the people I "date" is a TV as he spotted her pictures when he and my cuz where mucking round googling "Arse End swingers", so he may have an idea that my life is not quite so vanilla but he's far too discreet to say anything to me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most of my friends are swingers. My best friends are, that's how I met them. My immediate family do. My Dad was my safety contact at one point.
No one at work knows. In previous jobs they have, but this job is government based, and they are a bit pissy about disrepute and stuff!"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no-one knows I don't think but if someone asked I,d tell them, its not sleazy or illegal to be here, I do keep myself to myself in all honesty but I don't feel I,m keeping a secret from anyone by not telling them !!  |
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"Just about everyone at work...including the directors. Most of my friends round here but not all. My sister but not the rest of my family.
I know a few peeps on here whose kids know...just depends how open and honest you are..."
Now you see, I don't get this. I don't discuss my bank balance, how many times I open my bowels a day, how often I give my other half a blow job etc: it's private!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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people at work know I attend a swingers club locally, and it causes interest amongst them, but they don't know about here, but if I was asked I wouldn't deny it  |
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One couple (our closest friends) know pretty much everything we get up to and what we do on meets, but doesn't get details of who they are, obviously.
A mate of 'A' gets told when we meet a single girl for a threesome, but doesn't know we meet couples. But he's an intelligent bloke and probably guesses what we haven't told him lol
One of 'E's friends knows we played with a couple once.
No family know anything. (As far as we know!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No one, my own dirty little secret lol
Mmm...love a dirty secret.... 
Shall we share one, I'm good at keeping secrets "
Ok.... You go first..... I'm shy...  |
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The safety reasons I kind of get, do people us that when they go on a vanilla first date too??
It's something that has never occurred to us.
Probably a bit naive.
I think for us, the people who know, know because it's come up in conversations such as has anyone had a threesome kind of thing. But they are all pretty liberal minded.
I can't see why sex would come up at work, so not something really we'd discuss.
Family, well again like work not sex is not really a topic of conversation we have with either of our families.
If it came up with anyone new, then the context would be the deciding factor as to whether we would tell them. ie people gossiping about possible swingers, then no we would not tell them. People talking about their own sex lives and then asking, well maybe.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It was a friend who put me on here so she knew and she was my contact. I told my best friends because I thought 2 of them would like it for themselves. And they wanted to know how I'd ended up with some gorgeous male friends and such a hot young bf
These are people I have been friends with since childhood, not just 'mates'.
Before Fab I was very inhibited and couldn't even say words like cock out loud. Being on Fab has allowed me to accept that I love sex and I should not be ashamed of that. So, although I won't shout about being on here, I wouldn't deny it if asked |
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