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Would like to hear other peoples _iews on paying for a hotel.
For all but our last meet, we have met the full cost of a room. On our last meet we payed for the room, but our guest was kind enough to pay for a meal.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends meet to meet
if a guy mails me as he is in my area on business i don't pay anything as he has the room anyway which will ne paid for by the company he works for
if we meet and get a room as a result of that meet i will pay half
i have on a few occasions paid the full cost |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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When I did hotel meets it was usually on a work trip so of course I paid. If its in York I will offer to pay half, but not for the most expensive hotel in York. Its got to be a Travelodge or equivalent cos I'm not made of money! |
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When we book an apartment (for gangbangs) we divide the cost between everyone that attends.
If I meet a single guy where I've booked a room, he's given me half when he gets there.
Same if the guy(s) book the room, I pay them my half when I get there.
On occasion where I've been skint  I've been up front and told the guy that I would like to meet still but can't afford any cost, it's up to him whether he wants to pay for the room still... With a promise that I'll pay for the room next time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If im meeting a couple split 3ways
if meeting a single 50/50
If im on annual leave and booked it myself like this weekend its like getting blood out of a stone.i always get the skint blokes  |
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I got contacted by a delghtful couple who requested:
I book and pay for a Hotel room at an expensive Hotel they would choose
I was to book it in their name
We would meet downstairs for a drink first and if we didn't click I would leave and they would use the room
If we did click we would go to the room after which I would leave to let them meet others if they wished.
It was such a shame that I had something else to do that night  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If im meeting a couple split 3ways
if meeting a single 50/50
If im on annual leave and booked it myself like this weekend its like getting blood out of a stone.i always get the skint blokes "
But meeting them is not compulsory!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got contacted by a delghtful couple who requested:
I book and pay for a Hotel room at an expensive Hotel they would choose
I was to book it in their name
We would meet downstairs for a drink first and if we didn't click I would leave and they would use the room
If we did click we would go to the room after which I would leave to let them meet others if they wished.
It was such a shame that I had something else to do that night "
You should have agreed, let them turn up but explain later that the room is to be paid in the morning |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got contacted by a delghtful couple who requested:
I book and pay for a Hotel room at an expensive Hotel they would choose
I was to book it in their name
We would meet downstairs for a drink first and if we didn't click I would leave and they would use the room
If we did click we would go to the room after which I would leave to let them meet others if they wished.
It was such a shame that I had something else to do that night "
Do really think people will bevthat gullable?!  |
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Thanks for the quick response already. We certainly don't book expensive hotels, Holiday inn, tends to have good offers on. We would never intend our guest to pay the full cost.
We teenage children, our home is out of bounds. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got contacted by a delghtful couple who requested:
I book and pay for a Hotel room at an expensive Hotel they would choose
I was to book it in their name
We would meet downstairs for a drink first and if we didn't click I would leave and they would use the room
If we did click we would go to the room after which I would leave to let them meet others if they wished.
It was such a shame that I had something else to do that night
You should have agreed, let them turn up but explain later that the room is to be paid in the morning "
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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago
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"I got contacted by a delghtful couple who requested:
I book and pay for a Hotel room at an expensive Hotel they would choose
I was to book it in their name
We would meet downstairs for a drink first and if we didn't click I would leave and they would use the room
If we did click we would go to the room after which I would leave to let them meet others if they wished.
It was such a shame that I had something else to do that night "
I don't bloody blame you!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got contacted by a delghtful couple who requested:
I book and pay for a Hotel room at an expensive Hotel they would choose
I was to book it in their name
We would meet downstairs for a drink first and if we didn't click I would leave and they would use the room
If we did click we would go to the room after which I would leave to let them meet others if they wished.
It was such a shame that I had something else to do that night
You should have agreed, let them turn up but explain later that the room is to be paid in the morning "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the situation.
If I'm meeting someone who has already booked to stay there and I'm not then I wouldn't normally offer to pay.
If it's a joint venture then I would offer to pay half or for something else like dinner, drinks, club entrance etc.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got contacted by a delghtful couple who requested:
I book and pay for a Hotel room at an expensive Hotel they would choose
I was to book it in their name
We would meet downstairs for a drink first and if we didn't click I would leave and they would use the room
If we did click we would go to the room after which I would leave to let them meet others if they wished.
It was such a shame that I had something else to do that night "
Pays your money, takes your choice. If you are desperate for a shag you might agree to that, because, who knows they may turn up and you will have a cracking night. I find it hard to believe that a genuine (that word again!) couple would chance their arm like that for a poxy hotel room for the night??? If you pay by credit card you always have your card providers responsibility to refund if you were not provided with the service or goods paid for as well  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would like to hear other peoples _iews on paying for a hotel.
For all but our last meet, we have met the full cost of a room. On our last meet we payed for the room, but our guest was kind enough to pay for a meal.
What do others do about sharing costs when having some fun."
always shared cost |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only done it a few times but depends on circumstances....as others have said - like who arranged or who invited who?
Last time I paid room she paid meal all very happy. We even had breakfast together before we left.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I never been at hotel meets, doesn't mean I'm not open to the idea of it. Splitting 50/50 would be ideal, especially due to my financial circumstances. :/ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Broke as a joke.. lovely to be "treated" and paid for.. in an ideal world "
I would love to treat you to a night of passion in a hotel. If only I was closer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would like to hear other peoples _iews on paying for a hotel.
For all but our last meet, we have met the full cost of a room. On our last meet we payed for the room, but our guest was kind enough to pay for a meal.
What do others do about sharing costs when having some fun."
50/50 seems fair, but on regular meets it becomes more flexible, for example, someone pays for the room and the other gets a meal and drinks. With fair minded people it all tends to work out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If im meeting a couple split 3ways
if meeting a single 50/50
If im on annual leave and booked it myself like this weekend its like getting blood out of a stone.i always get the skint blokes
But meeting them is not compulsory!! "
of course its not compulsory so what do you mean?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Broke as a joke.. lovely to be "treated" and paid for.. in an ideal world
I usually bring cakes or choccies too "
I usually bring something to nibble and sip ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Broke as a joke.. lovely to be "treated" and paid for.. in an ideal world
I would love to treat you to a night of passion in a hotel. If only I was closer. "
If only .. sigh  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Broke as a joke.. lovely to be "treated" and paid for.. in an ideal world
I would love to treat you to a night of passion in a hotel. If only I was closer.
If only .. sigh "
Maybe one day. |
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Many times I have offered or tried to give them some money but been refused.
Other times I've paid and stayed in the room after.
But if they're going to be in the hotel anyway (eg for work) then I don't suggest it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have rarely paid tbh. thats not me being stingy i just dont have the funds at all. so if they dont book and pay for a hotel we cant meet.  "
I always offer but most guys wont take money off me
If I've met someone for a drink and we have got on to the point we want to have sex I'm not going to kill the mood by arguing over a few quid, I offer, if they say no, I ask if they are sure, if they say yes I leave it at that, if I have booked the room I never ask them for their half, if they offer I take it if they don't offer I let it go, I just think discussing money is a real passion killer |
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"If im meeting a couple split 3ways
if meeting a single 50/50
If im on annual leave and booked it myself like this weekend its like getting blood out of a stone.i always get the skint blokes "
I'd class the couple as 1 as part of the meet so 50/50 would be fairer. If it was meeting two others who arent a couple then 1/3 each is fair. Beyond 1/2 or 1/3 and fractions get messy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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the gentleman should always pay, and in all honesty I prefer that, if the lady wants to leave then she can, leaving me to chill alone or go to the bar or whatever, cost isn't important in these things in my opinion, discussing money cheapens the meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have only met at the others house, however if I was to meet at a hotel I would be happy to pay the costs if it was to meet a single and spilt if it was a couple where I would assume they would want the room for the night |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the gentleman should always pay, and in all honesty I prefer that, if the lady wants to leave then she can, leaving me to chill alone or go to the bar or whatever, cost isn't important in these things in my opinion, discussing money cheapens the meet. "
Am with you on that one, am up for treating them well and make them feel special.. Unless they want to be used and abused I guess have to meet there needs ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends if anyone is staying overnight or the room is just being used for the meet. With the later id expect 50/50 and this would be discussed and agreed before hand. With the former it would be up to the person who is staying to arrange and finance the room, but again this would be discussed before hand. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got contacted by a delghtful couple who requested:
I book and pay for a Hotel room at an expensive Hotel they would choose
I was to book it in their name
We would meet downstairs for a drink first and if we didn't click I would leave and they would use the room
If we did click we would go to the room after which I would leave to let them meet others if they wished.
It was such a shame that I had something else to do that night "
There are a few like this, I expext they blocked you as a timewaster....
I generally offer half if I am meeting a couple. Single girls, where I have arranged the meet, I expect to pay and if they offer a contribution, thats a bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If im meeting a couple split 3ways
if meeting a single 50/50
If im on annual leave and booked it myself like this weekend its like getting blood out of a stone.i always get the skint blokes
I'd class the couple as 1 as part of the meet so 50/50 would be fairer. If it was meeting two others who arent a couple then 1/3 each is fair. Beyond 1/2 or 1/3 and fractions get messy "
I see your point ive only met one couple at a hotel, we discussed it at social all 3 of us work and to me it was fairer, as 3 individuals and they had no problem with this. Generally I meet couples at partys so it dosent come up often
I can count my hotel meets on one hand not something I do often |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I got contacted by a delghtful couple who requested:
I book and pay for a Hotel room at an expensive Hotel they would choose
I was to book it in their name
We would meet downstairs for a drink first and if we didn't click I would leave and they would use the room
If we did click we would go to the room after which I would leave to let them meet others if they wished.
It was such a shame that I had something else to do that night
You should have agreed, let them turn up but explain later that the room is to be paid in the morning "
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I personally will not spend money on a hotel. If a person can not accommodate then generally I ssy there is no point as neither of us accommodate. If he is willing to pay for a hotel then that is his choice. I will not spend money on my guilty pleasure as it takes away from my children. If I had more disposable income than I do then things would be different and I would be willing to go halves |
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"I got contacted by a delghtful couple who requested:
I book and pay for a Hotel room at an expensive Hotel they would choose
I was to book it in their name
We would meet downstairs for a drink first and if we didn't click I would leave and they would use the room
If we did click we would go to the room after which I would leave to let them meet others if they wished.
It was such a shame that I had something else to do that night
There are a few like this, I expext they blocked you as a timewaster....
I generally offer half if I am meeting a couple. Single girls, where I have arranged the meet, I expect to pay and if they offer a contribution, thats a bonus."
I agree with the 3 way split as not all couples on here are couples outside of this. There are 3 people involved so a 3 way split is very fair even if the couple are a couple outside of swinging.
Only time I would consider an exception is if only one from tue couple worked |
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"Depends meet to meet
if we meet and get a room as a result of that meet i will pay half
i have on a few occasions paid the full cost"
There is no way you should pay full cost......and not just because you're hot either.
They must have been exceptional guys or you are a great philanthropist.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Maybe I'm old fashioned, but if a lady is good enough to travel to meet me and have a good time etc. The least I can do is pay for the room
Not the Ritz or Hilton mind you!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would like to hear other peoples _iews on paying for a hotel.
For all but our last meet, we have met the full cost of a room. On our last meet we payed for the room, but our guest was kind enough to pay for a meal.
What do others do about sharing costs when having some fun."
Always offer to pay half but it's difficult to get the men I've met to accept that!
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By (user no longer on site)
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We prefer hotel meets as we don't have to clean up after - although I do sometimes feel sorry for housekeeping!
We don't stay/do overnight.
If we are meeting a couple we would expect to go 50/50 x
Sara x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"the gentleman should always pay, and in all honesty I prefer that, if the lady wants to leave then she can, leaving me to chill alone or go to the bar or whatever, cost isn't important in these things in my opinion, discussing money cheapens the meet. "
Absolutely I'm very old fashioned if a man started talking about money for hotels there wouldn't be any chance I'd meet him , if he was skint I'd understand but still wouldn't pay I'd feel desperate to pay for a hotel unless I was actually already staying in it for something else
I am the man opens door brigade and its the only way for me even with a tgirl I wouldn't feel right paying I'd bring gifts |
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"I got contacted by a delghtful couple who requested:
I book and pay for a Hotel room at an expensive Hotel they would choose
I was to book it in their name
We would meet downstairs for a drink first and if we didn't click I would leave and they would use the room
If we did click we would go to the room after which I would leave to let them meet others if they wished.
It was such a shame that I had something else to do that night
I don't bloody blame you!!!"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Arranged to meet a lad at mine
And in his jest he asked for fuel money
We never met! thought it rather rude
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What? The cheek, I can't even imagine thinking about asking that  |
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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago
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"Depends on the situation.
If I'm meeting someone who has already booked to stay there and I'm not then I wouldn't normally offer to pay.
If it's a joint venture then I would offer to pay half or for something else like dinner, drinks, club entrance etc.
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This ^^^
If im travelling and have booked a room, regardless of work or me paying for it, i wouldn't expect or accept anyone going halfs with me. If i've arranged a specific meet at a hotel then i may consider halfs or call it evens with a drink |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Earlier today I was trying to arrange a meet with a couple and I was asked to pay a £40 "reward" to her
I think that's prostitution??"
It did seem very odd to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Earlier today I was trying to arrange a meet with a couple and I was asked to pay a £40 "reward" to her
I think that's prostitution??"
•. Couldn't agree more with that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Would like to hear other peoples _iews on paying for a hotel.
For all but our last meet, we have met the full cost of a room. On our last meet we payed for the room, but our guest was kind enough to pay for a meal.
What do others do about sharing costs when having some fun."
The rich ones pay however that can be a bit of a problem here.  |
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