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over a year ago
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our first time was with a couple, but seeing as I was so nervous, pissed and unable to perform, it might have well been a threesome 
I thought it would be a turn on, but it was only like watching her dancing with someone at a disco
A bit of an anticlimax, but that's how it was  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"what was it like 1st time to watch your wife /partner get fucked and touched by complete stranger as a threesome"
Was an utter turn on for me, i stepped back for a min to watch before diving back in. your never sure till you see it for real though.
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"what was it like 1st time to watch your wife /partner get fucked and touched by complete stranger as a threesome Was an utter turn on for me, i stepped back for a min to watch before diving back in. your never sure till you see it for real though. "
You are so right, with your last comment. You don't know until you do it.
As a result of that experience and a few others, we now prefer to play in seperate rooms.
Kate doesn't enjoy watching me, in fact she doesn't like watching anyone, she prefers to do it  |
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This is the bit i like, you have be very observant, as the third, you not only have read what the beautiful lady's body language (sorry about the pun) is saying but also the man there with you... I have found that sitting and watching them together first can sometimes reduce any first time tensions...
others probably find other methods...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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One thing Mandy and myself will do is when we are with others we switch off, we see the other people or person as a toy to be played with rather than a person or persons, think that helps us a lot to enjoy what's going on. We have a Fab us which our friends and family will never see and an us us side that people from Fab will never see, we keep both worlds well apart and always will. |
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i must say that it took a few hours to get going the first time we had a meet as i was especially nervous i kept saying to hubby not tonite lets just get to no him but we knew the 3rd party wanted to so i said fuck it lets just do it,, hubby enjoyed it and thought he was very calm |
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I think its fair to say that our very first 3sum was neither a turn on or turn off. We expected it to be a lot more exciting than it was actually was, in fact the anticipation leading up to it was a lot more exciting than the actual event.
On the night we were feeling sexy and indeed we all had sex together but it seemed some how ‘mechanical’ more like we were demonstrating what we do if that makes sense?
Since then things are very different if its with some one we are familiar with as in ‘on-going’ or even on a first time if its with a person or persons that we really gel with then its all sexy and erotic, the sights, the sounds, and the activity.
Slightly off topic but I think its funny looking back… I was 15 when I very first had sex and she was 16, we really knew nothing about sex and so after we did it the very first time she said to me…
“Was that IT?”
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“I think so”  |
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"i must say that it took a few hours to get going the first time we had a meet as i was especially nervous i kept saying to hubby not tonite lets just get to no him but we knew the 3rd party wanted to so i said fuck it lets just do it,, hubby enjoyed it and thought he was very calm "
I'm glad hubby enjoyed it, I hope that your did and continue to do so now, thou looking at your fine pics you don't appear to be an un wiliing participant thankfully!
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"She was nervous and wasnt sure she could go through with it,and didn"t want me to leave them alone at all, after a while I had to leave the room twice to go the toilet, and get some water, for several minutes each time, on my return I was like "what the butler saw" as I watched from the side of the door, she hadnt noticed I had gone  ,
She thouroughly enjoyed it as I had a feeling she would, and yes it was a turn on,  "
The first time we had an MMF was quite nervous for all 3 of us, but we soon settled into it, and for me, male, seeing another guy's cock penetrating my wife, and her obviously loving both the act and the fact I was watching her, turned us both on incredibly!
Subsequent 3 somes with the same guy have been just as good, and, on one occasion, as above, I left the room to clean up, at a time when the other 2 were just resting, and returned to find them fucking like bunnies!!! Possibly the most sexciting thing I've ever witnessed!
We've chatted since about engineering a scenario where I 'find' her shagging another guy, by me turning up 'late' to the meet... |
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"She was nervous and wasnt sure she could go through with it,and didn"t want me to leave them alone at all, after a while I had to leave the room twice to go the toilet, and get some water, for several minutes each time, on my return I was like "what the butler saw" as I watched from the side of the door, she hadnt noticed I had gone ,
She thouroughly enjoyed it as I had a feeling she would, and yes it was a turn on, "
In fact I am sure I could have left the room and watched the footy on TV and they wouldnt have noticed
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