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over a year ago
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So in the past month, I've had three bi-curious ladies cancel at the last moment saying their nerves had got the better of them. We did the whole social/coffee meet first and all of them seemed really keen. I try to be as understanding as possible, but of course, it a little more than frustrating.
So, if you're a bi-curious lady, insomuch as you like the idea but have never tried it, what would help clam your nerves?
If you're a bi woman then what helped you get over those first time nerves.
I can't remember being nervous myself, I just knew I wanted to try it and dived straight in (so to speak!)
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I was super nervous first time, though Cant put my finger on why. Thankfully she was just lush and really at ease with it all. Haven't looked back since! Let us know if you're interested in a play date anytime ... Newcastle is my home despite being down south!  H Xx |
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"So in the past month, I've had three bi-curious ladies cancel at the last moment saying their nerves had got the better of them. We did the whole social/coffee meet first and all of them seemed really keen. I try to be as understanding as possible, but of course, it a little more than frustrating.
So, if you're a bi-curious lady, insomuch as you like the idea but have never tried it, what would help clam your nerves?
If you're a bi woman then what helped you get over those first time nerves.
I can't remember being nervous myself, I just knew I wanted to try it and dived straight in (so to speak!)
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I am past the curious stage but I have only had a couple of one on one girly meets the rest of the fun has been at a party or with a couples. I would be more nervous meeting a women on her own than going to a party and playing with a couple. I think a glass of wine and a girly chat would put me at ease though |
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"I don't think I'd be nervous. If I was attracted to a woman I'd want to get to the good part. I think I'm a man really"
You and me both then! If I want something I just tend to go out get it. |
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I am past the curious stage but I have only had a couple of one on one girly meets the rest of the fun has been at a party or with a couples. I would be more nervous meeting a women on her own than going to a party and playing with a couple. I think a glass of wine and a girly chat would put me at ease though"
I always suggest meeting for a few drinks and then seeing how the evening goes - no pressure and I'm happy with a good night out if that's all it comes to. |
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"I don't think I'd be nervous. If I was attracted to a woman I'd want to get to the good part. I think I'm a man really
You and me both then! If I want something I just tend to go out get it."
Me too!! Think I skipped the curious stage.  |
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"I don't think I'd be nervous. If I was attracted to a woman I'd want to get to the good part. I think I'm a man really
You and me both then! If I want something I just tend to go out get it.
Me too!! Think I skipped the curious stage. "
I think my curious stage lasted all of 3 seconds lol |
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"I don't think I'd be nervous. If I was attracted to a woman I'd want to get to the good part. I think I'm a man really
You and me both then! If I want something I just tend to go out get it."
I know what I want,when I find it I don't waste time |
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"I don't think I'd be nervous. If I was attracted to a woman I'd want to get to the good part. I think I'm a man really
You and me both then! If I want something I just tend to go out get it.
Me too!! Think I skipped the curious stage.
I think my curious stage lasted all of 3 seconds lol"
I didn't stop to be invited lol |
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