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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's the best position to try doing it in iv read it's all about the breathing and holding it there when u gag xxx"
That just sounds horrendous!! I have no desire to gag.... |
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Try to lay on your back. Head over the bed. Then open your mouth wide and stic your tounge out. It will open up you throat. Like some of the others habe said you'll know if you have a gag reflex then. Although the sound of you gagging could turn him on. Xx |
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"Try to lay on your back. Head over the bed. Then open your mouth wide and stic your tounge out. It will open up you throat. Like some of the others habe said you'll know if you have a gag reflex then. Although the sound of you gagging could turn him on. Xx"
If you need to practice I am very close to you. |
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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago
Northampton |
try it with a toy first. lie on your back on the bed with your head hanging slightly off the edge to straighten your throat out, slide the toy in (make sure its lubricated), when you start to hit the gag point hold it for a few secs and pull out and keep trying.
can take weeks to learn to ignore your gag reflex.
or try and make a fist with your left hand with your thumb inside the fist. don't laugh, it works for some!! (google 'why does a fist help stop a gag reflex')
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"What's the best position to try doing it in iv read it's all about the breathing and holding it there when u gag xxx"
being honest - if a woman doesnt have an overly sized mouth, It isn't a even a thought in my head. I'd think it'd help if it was thoroughly soaked first though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find working my way down his penis helps. Opening my mouth more the further down the shaft I go. Him lying on his side in a 69 position is a very good way too, I find personally... Not so much pressure on the roof of my mouth to implement the gag reflex. The tongue brushing idea from further up the thread is good advice too. It really does work  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Random fact but if you tuck you thumb in like when you form a fist it will make your gag reflex less sensitive.
I don't know why but it really does work |
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By *NaughtyCouple
over a year ago
St Albans |
Its practice practice practice - also agree with brushing tongue. I taught myself how to do it with a flexible dildo.
some positions are easier but don't worry about that learn to do it whatever position |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always on an empty stomach. Gagging is a reflex,you can't help it,vomiting can be reduced by having nothing in your stomach. First time I did it it slipped down easy. Correct angle and not a fat cock. Take a bit at a time and go in and out slowly with his cock. Don't let him put his hands on your head. He might get the urge to take control. Take a deep breath and let it out before you block your airway. Once you are used to it he can fuck your throat |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
Practice. Pausing when you feel the gag refex until you get more used to it and can get a modicum of control. And angles. Either lying on your back with your head on the edge of the bed or kneeling on the bed while he stands are good places to start since gravity will work in your favour then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If his cock has a curve toward the body, then the best is 69 with you on top. Your in control and it aligns easy. You can overcome your reflex by thought alone, but it takes practice. I can manage 9" to the balls. I have even managed 6" AND both balls! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I this the best positions are:
1) the 69, if the curve is good...because it is you going down on it, you will feel much more in control and will gag less
2) on your back with your head hanging on the hedge as suggested by others
But I really believe that you need to have the right cock to learn how to do it: the thicker it is, the less you gag x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been deepthroated by a fair few women, but it never crossed my mind to ask them how they actually do it - I'd imagine that relaxation, and an enjoyment on the part of the person giving the blowjob would be essential. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jeez I'm all for giving a guy pleasure..... I'm just wondering what efforts guys have to put in for us girls??"
I know. A blowjobs nice, but wouldnt want a girl to go thru that much effort to please me. As for men pleasing women, i put in alot, i eat pussy for hours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jeez I'm all for giving a guy pleasure..... I'm just wondering what efforts guys have to put in for us girls??"
great point lol my guy does thank god. Could never be with a guy who was all about him x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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or try and make a fist with your left hand with your thumb inside the fist. don't laugh, it works for some!! (google 'why does a fist help stop a gag reflex')
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I can confirm that the fist trick works! Use it everytime I suck and never had any problems taking the big ones down my throat |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Jeez I'm all for giving a guy pleasure..... I'm just wondering what efforts guys have to put in for us girls??
What would you like them to do???
If you never ask how can he try?"
There isn't anything I can think of that I would like a guy to do that involves him nearly vomiting or having to learn to control a natural reflex. .... |
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Mastery of most behavioural skills requires repetition and improvement,and I think that cock sucking is like this. I was a poorer cock sucker when I started out. Sometimes I like to direct the positions we're in a litte, as it does have a major effect on how easily all 12 inches can go down. Thickness and shape have an influence, but sometimes where there's a will, there's a definite way.
I generally warm up - we're using muscles, so just as with all exercise, let the blood seep in, and stretch appropriately. I wouldn't have ice cream immediately prior, as I think it would tense them, though a mcdonalds shake is often a nice sensation around a guys cock in my mouth.
Not a massive fan of over the bed, I like to keep my head and neck as flexible as possible, so that I adjust according to need.
Breathing is the major essential element - make sure you're breathing readily, and put conscious attention on it at strenuous points, as it will facilitate good deep throat relaxation. Not tried the squeezed thumb, but generally my ongoing practice has allowed me to be largely comfortable and relaxed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"id rather get a nice blowjob without worrying if im going to get covered in what she had for tea .. "
I've never had a man ask or tell me to deepthroat him. The first time I did it I just did it because I wanted to. It slipped down very easily. I like doing it because it feels good for me and him. If it's a struggle I wouldn't enjoy it and neither would he. Same with anal |
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I can confirm that the fist trick works! Use it everytime I suck and never had any problems taking the big ones down my throat "
Didnt think it possible to fancy you more than I did .....
Swoon, swoon, shoot, faint  |
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"id rather get a nice blowjob without worrying if im going to get covered in what she had for tea ..
I've never had a man ask or tell me to deepthroat him. The first time I did it I just did it because I wanted to. It slipped down very easily. I like doing it because it feels good for me and him. If it's a struggle I wouldn't enjoy it and neither would he. Same with anal "
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I can't always do it. But be the one in control. Nothing worse than someone making it their mission to push it down your throat. I think I like to be in control of the cock I'm sucking, then once I'm taking it well then they can take some control back.
I'm more likely to deep throat with the man laying down and me going down on to them.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Is it hitting the back of your throat? Is he trying to push it in? That never works for me. You have to be in control,it's your throat. I find with a fat cock I can't open my mouth wide enough so I run out of breath before I've managed to wriggle it in. I worry about my teeth too |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yer it just feals dead tight and I'm scared to try and wriggle it in further he hasn't tried to push it in I'd kill him lol but it gets so far and I feel like I can't breath anymore xx |
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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago
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i love doing it. ive been told my obvious enjoyment makes it good. treat each cock individually. each has its own curve thin or thick tip that effects how it slips down. gain control over it. that way u can control ur breath n gag. empty stomach big help. just enjoy and push urself in a controlled sexy way |
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But yes learning to ignore a gag reflex helps massively 
