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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never done a social , and don't intend starting now .
We should clarify though , 90% of our meets are in clubs .
The other 10% are either with those we have met before , hotel meets , or through pics and messages .
Simply on here to play , not too socialise  |
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Every meet is different.
Every couple are different.
Sometimes it is straight down to business. No messing about, straight upstairs, and get your kit off!
But far nicer to socialise, chat, have a laugh, some outrageous flirting, building up the excitement and anticipation, unhurried and leisurely, letting things happen naturally!
Whatever is right for the lady or the couple, I am happy to go with the flow!
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By *uzzybeWoman
over a year ago
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I prefer a social first to see if we click and to also make sure I'm protecting myself. Heard too many stories about people being in dodgy situations and being lucky myself to have met in a public place. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never done a social , and don't intend starting now .
We should clarify though , 90% of our meets are in clubs .
The other 10% are either with those we have met before , hotel meets , or through pics and messages .
Simply on here to play , not too socialise "
do you chat to the people you meet at clubs before getting down to business? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Should have read the OP properly first 
We have met for purely a social if people are close enough to us and we have met at clubs and parties,no guarantee of sex at any venue,its normally logistics that prevent too many socials |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Social first definatly !
A good laugh and a bit of banter makes a meet complete .
Not into just fukin like robots .
Plus they might be a minger ?
I mean c'mon weve all met someone who looks nothing like there pics ?
Those pics were usually taken before she had 4 kids and a cream cake habit on holiday in toromolinos in 1982 ! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never done a social , and don't intend starting now .
We should clarify though , 90% of our meets are in clubs .
The other 10% are either with those we have met before , hotel meets , or through pics and messages .
Simply on here to play , not too socialise "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Played by ear every time.....sometimes its a social, sometimes its more....either way I'm happy....I'm a people person so love a good natter and a laugh anyhow so its all good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely a social first . Im not on here just to fuck any one I meet , plus there has to be chemistry there , I have meet a couple people who turned out to be the most boring people ever , and that was after messaging for a while and still expected to fuck me , I think not  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Definitely a social first . Im not on here just to fuck any one I meet , plus there has to be chemistry there , I have meet a couple people who turned out to be the most boring people ever , and that was after messaging for a while and still expected to fuck me , I think not "
Ooohhhh been there!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never done a social , and don't intend starting now .
We should clarify though , 90% of our meets are in clubs .
The other 10% are either with those we have met before , hotel meets , or through pics and messages .
Simply on here to play , not too socialise "
if you're chatting through messages or at clubs, you're still socialising |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never done a social , and don't intend starting now .
We should clarify though , 90% of our meets are in clubs .
The other 10% are either with those we have met before , hotel meets , or through pics and messages .
Simply on here to play , not too socialise
do you chat to the people you meet at clubs before getting down to business?"
Most of the time , yes , but at clubs like Chams we often just connect and play with little or no chat first |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We meet and play the social is having a chat and a drink before hand then on to play if we get on if not we say our good byes and leave. We on a swingers site to play and have fun not to test the coffee and hub nobs lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Never done a social , and don't intend starting now .
We should clarify though , 90% of our meets are in clubs .
The other 10% are either with those we have met before , hotel meets , or through pics and messages .
Simply on here to play , not too socialise
do you chat to the people you meet at clubs before getting down to business?
Most of the time , yes , but at clubs like Chams we often just connect and play with little or no chat first "
Done that before too. When meeting as a couple it's different than when I meet on my own, for obvious reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always want a social and if all parties get on then can always play that night but never expect it to happen. Chatting on phone, messaging, pic swap doesn't mean you will click face to face. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we are happy to meet at home first, have the brew and chat and see where it goes, no pressure to play, usually us girls have had a phone chat prior to this anyway, equally happy to meet in a coffee shop/bar - have done both all good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest. Majority of my meets haven't really been social meets but that's usually because i used to meet people from the chatrooms and we'd be speaking for a while before we met up.
Usually i've gone round to their place and we have built up a level of trust with each other - i am still a stranger she is letting in to her home (which is a big thing. For me anyway).
The expectation is always for a social meet and if things don't go how we would have wanted or there's no sexual chemistry we can still chill as good friends and have a laugh.
But, i have been lucky. The meets tend to last a bit longer and sweatier than i would have thought 
I have had purely social meets. But, that's been with those who i'm good friends with but where we both know there'd be nothing more.
Like i say. It depends how and what you're using the site for.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Like a few said I do prefer a social first as you get to gauge the person you are potentially going to have fun with and if there not fun over a social whats going to be different later on?
Plus from a ladies point of view I would be happier knowing she felt safe and relaxed in my company.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we like a nice chat over a couple of drinks, although we dont rule out taking things further on a first date, it helps to ensure all 4 parties click.
its easy for those that are messaging to hit it off, but its extremely rare to get all 4 people to message at the same time lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont bother with socials.
Wot if u meet and they got bad breath or b.o. or something?!  "
Before you meet you tell them,if you stink of BO or have grotty teeth and bad breath you aren't getting your fuck. If they aren't friendly with soap and toothpaste I don't think they will be offended if you tell them that. Be honest,you want a good time as much as they do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i dont bother with socials.
Wot if u meet and they got bad breath or b.o. or something?!
Before you meet you tell them,if you stink of BO or have grotty teeth and bad breath you aren't getting your fuck. If they aren't friendly with soap and toothpaste I don't think they will be offended if you tell them that. Be honest,you want a good time as much as they do "
In such cases, no kissing, just fuck them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I almost always have a social meet first, ever since I had an unfortunate meet where the woman I was meeting had clearly gone to an awful lot of trouble, but looked nothing like her pictures and I politely made my excuse feeling somewhat guilty. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont bother with socials.
Wot if u meet and they got bad breath or b.o. or something?!
Before you meet you tell them,if you stink of BO or have grotty teeth and bad breath you aren't getting your fuck. If they aren't friendly with soap and toothpaste I don't think they will be offended if you tell them that. Be honest,you want a good time as much as they do In such cases, no kissing, just fuck them "
And put a peg on your nose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont bother with socials.
Wot if u meet and they got bad breath or b.o. or something?!
Before you meet you tell them,if you stink of BO or have grotty teeth and bad breath you aren't getting your fuck. If they aren't friendly with soap and toothpaste I don't think they will be offended if you tell them that. Be honest,you want a good time as much as they do In such cases, no kissing, just fuck them "
Or get your mouth on his stinky cock then go for a snog with a mouth full of cock cheese. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't mind having a social.The main problem is finding a venue where you can talk openly otherwse you never get past the usual holidays, hobbies and house prices. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont bother with socials.
Wot if u meet and they got bad breath or b.o. or something?!
Before you meet you tell them,if you stink of BO or have grotty teeth and bad breath you aren't getting your fuck. If they aren't friendly with soap and toothpaste I don't think they will be offended if you tell them that. Be honest,you want a good time as much as they do In such cases, no kissing, just fuck them
Or get your mouth on his stinky cock then go for a snog with a mouth full of cock cheese. "
yummy... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't mind having a social.The main problem is finding a venue where you can talk openly otherwse you never get past the usual holidays, hobbies and house prices. "
have never had a problem discussing this kind of thing openly on a social meet.
you just dont shout from the top of your voice.
its not really that difficult |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always suggest a social meet first, seems to me a lot less pressure on each party and you can tell very quickly if there is a connection/ attraction. I would not meet again if there was no chemistry between us. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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Always meet in a public place first, always tell my text buddy where I'm at and profile name and any other info I have, sometimes play on first meet, always tell text buddy when meet is over. Works for me, I'd say do whatever feels right for you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont bother with socials.
Wot if u meet and they got bad breath or b.o. or something?!
Before you meet you tell them,if you stink of BO or have grotty teeth and bad breath you aren't getting your fuck. If they aren't friendly with soap and toothpaste I don't think they will be offended if you tell them that. Be honest,you want a good time as much as they do "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't mind having a social.The main problem is finding a venue where you can talk openly otherwse you never get past the usual holidays, hobbies and house prices.
have never had a problem discussing this kind of thing openly on a social meet.
you just dont shout from the top of your voice.
its not really that difficult"
I've had social meets with couples in busy pubs. We discussed allsorts! No-one paid any attention.
Apart from one time we were talking about bondage and the tables next to us went quiet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't mind having a social.The main problem is finding a venue where you can talk openly otherwse you never get past the usual holidays, hobbies and house prices.
have never had a problem discussing this kind of thing openly on a social meet.
you just dont shout from the top of your voice.
its not really that difficult
I've had social meets with couples in busy pubs. We discussed allsorts! No-one paid any attention.
Apart from one time we were talking about bondage and the tables next to us went quiet. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't mind having a social.The main problem is finding a venue where you can talk openly otherwse you never get past the usual holidays, hobbies and house prices.
have never had a problem discussing this kind of thing openly on a social meet.
you just dont shout from the top of your voice.
its not really that difficult"
I find it quite a naughty turn on talking about such things in public places...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont bother with socials.
Wot if u meet and they got bad breath or b.o. or something?! "
You probably wouldnt notice if they were smelly just meeting them for a drink, not until you get right up close to them, usualy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't mind having a social.The main problem is finding a venue where you can talk openly otherwse you never get past the usual holidays, hobbies and house prices.
have never had a problem discussing this kind of thing openly on a social meet.
you just dont shout from the top of your voice.
its not really that difficult
I find it quite a naughty turn on talking about such things in public places...lol "
Yes with hindsight one or two I have met seemed to get very aroused over such topics.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Socials should be like the 14 day cooling off period x if you don't like the goods. ...return them x unused and in the same packaging x if sharks fly. ..why not fuck like rabbits x too many people with rules in here. ...become a traffic warden you get the uniform too |
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"How many meet for socials first?
Or is messaging and pic swaps enough?
Just curious."
Social meet everytime for me....i want to see if there's a spark and an attraction plus i have found so many pics dont match the actual person.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely a social first . Im not on here just to fuck any one I meet , plus there has to be chemistry there , I have meet a couple people who turned out to be the most boring people ever , and that was after messaging for a while and still expected to fuck me , I think not "
This and I've also had a couple of guys who were serious odd bods and nothing like their pictures or messages, plus one guy who could have been my very out of shape uncle 
I will do straight play meets but they are rare |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Different for a bloke I guess but, because I'm meeting single women it's usually somewhere public, drink, coffee etc, most of the time it's been straight off somewhere for sex anyway. Always be safe. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't mind having a social.The main problem is finding a venue where you can talk openly otherwse you never get past the usual holidays, hobbies and house prices.
have never had a problem discussing this kind of thing openly on a social meet.
you just dont shout from the top of your voice.
its not really that difficult"
we start off talking quietly but as we get more comfy with who we are chatting with - tend to forget ourelves - |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Social first definatly !
A good laugh and a bit of banter makes a meet complete .
Not into just fukin like robots .
Plus they might be a minger ?
I mean c'mon weve all met someone who looks nothing like there pics ?
Those pics were usually taken before she had 4 kids and a cream cake habit on holiday in toromolinos in 1982 ! Lol"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We usually say social meet first, sometimes you just can't get a feel for the person even through pix and messaging.
Last week, my mind was changed a bit, when I was tricked by a charming guy from the UK here on work, we had been chatting for a while and he asked if we could have a social meet, I agreed,and all I have to say is his idea of social is a lot different than mine  lol
First time for everything |
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