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"Does this piss anyone else off??? Why do people have a couples profile and only have pics of the women???? X" Including private pics..... | |||
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"I think it's because a lot get the impression that people are only interested in the Female half...The male feels almost like a spare part."  | |||
"Does this piss anyone else off??? Why do people have a couples profile and only have pics of the women???? X" A majority of yours are of the female | |||
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"Certainly not bothered enough to be pissed off by it. Seems a tad extreme?? " | |||
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"Does this piss anyone else off??? Why do people have a couples profile and only have pics of the women???? X" No we are happy for people to put up what they want if you don't like ignore them its not a hard thing to do. | |||
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"I think it's because a lot get the impression that people are only interested in the Female half...The male feels almost like a spare part."
Though not the case for all couples it seems to be the case that the woman is the lure and if the male half happens to be hot too that's a bonus. Seem to be more and more couples coming our way are mainly interested in soft swap and lots of girl on girl. Which frustrates me, because C is hot!!!  | |||
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But if you's wanna see more I'm happy to put pics public. | |||
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"I think it's because a lot get the impression that people are only interested in the Female half...The male feels almost like a spare part.
Though not the case for all couples it seems to be the case that the woman is the lure and if the male half happens to be hot too that's a bonus. Seem to be more and more couples coming our way are mainly interested in soft swap and lots of girl on girl. Which frustrates me, because C is hot!!! "Surely there has to be an attraction all round. Not just toward one partner. Nothing better than a fit guy to look at lol x | |||
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"Pics of both are essential to us. Preferably both in the same shot too - helps identify them as a real couple! A" Exactly. Couldn't agree more. | |||
"I think it's because a lot get the impression that people are only interested in the Female half...The male feels almost like a spare part.
Though not the case for all couples it seems to be the case that the woman is the lure and if the male half happens to be hot too that's a bonus. Seem to be more and more couples coming our way are mainly interested in soft swap and lots of girl on girl. Which frustrates me, because C is hot!!!
Surely there has to be an attraction all round. Not just toward one partner. Nothing better than a fit guy to look at lol x"but then what if you havent got a 'fit' guy for people to look at? why inundate a profile with pics of an average bloke, when the female half of the couple is more able to dress up sexy. 1 or 2 pics, just showing the bloke, is usually more than enough. and our face pic is of both of us together. we dont get the opportunity to take many of us together as one of us is usually behind the camera. | |||
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"To add our opinion. We simply thing 'fit' is a personal view. What is fit to one is not fit to another. And as for photos, we think it is the choice of the people posting them. We don't post photos to please other people, just to please ourselves. Opinion given, not criticising anyone else's, just giving ours. Have fun" I agree as everybody's idea of attractive/fit isn't the same. It's an "each to their own" scenario. | |||
"I think it's because a lot get the impression that people are only interested in the Female half...The male feels almost like a spare part.
Though not the case for all couples it seems to be the case that the woman is the lure and if the male half happens to be hot too that's a bonus. Seem to be more and more couples coming our way are mainly interested in soft swap and lots of girl on girl. Which frustrates me, because C is hot!!!
Surely there has to be an attraction all round. Not just toward one partner. Nothing better than a fit guy to look at lol x
but then what if you havent got a 'fit' guy for people to look at?
why inundate a profile with pics of an average bloke, when the female half of the couple is more able to dress up sexy.
1 or 2 pics, just showing the bloke, is usually more than enough.
and our face pic is of both of us together. we dont get the opportunity to take many of us together as one of us is usually behind the camera."
Our pictures to 'prove' that we are a couple are friends only. If people want to see them they can ask! Similarly we don't have many photos together and don't really want what is often a facbook profile pic plastered all over here! | |||
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"Does this piss anyone else off??? Why do people have a couples profile and only have pics of the women???? X" Yes Indeed | |||
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"Maybe the husband wants to watch the wife playing with a.n. Other?" | |||
"We have found that its only morrigans pictures that get comments, although we do have pics of both of us we haven't bothered posting pics of me on my own but Morrigan wants me to I just need to pluck up the courage "Do so.... us women also like to see the profiles and the pics. It shouldn't be all one sided. | |||
"Does this piss anyone else off??? Why do people have a couples profile and only have pics of the women???? X Yes Indeed" Yay. I'm not on my own then... | |||
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"We have found that its only morrigans pictures that get comments, although we do have pics of both of us we haven't bothered posting pics of me on my own but Morrigan wants me to I just need to pluck up the courage "this is another point. pics of V=hundreds of fabs. pics of me=a couple, and im certain some of them are just to butter me up so we will meet them lol | |||
"You are certainly not on your own Kay. We are all entitled to our own opinions and so it should be! As long as we do not try to stamp it on others, then all is good." I'm with you there. It was just an observation. Maybe I could have worded it differently but hey ho. I'm all for freedom of speech. | |||
"I think it's because a lot get the impression that people are only interested in the Female half...The male feels almost like a spare part." I agree with you, its not fair, come together warts and all lol I would love more interest from the female half in our case, it shows a true interest I think, more interaction aside pics, I will show any female his pics with good interaction. Her | |||
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"We've tried to make our profile an even spread of pics of us both. Neither of us like posing for the camera. I enjoy posing as my alter ego (Tgirl) but posting those just caused confusion as no one ever reads profiles. " Funnily enough it's the first thing I go to, then the pics. If it doesn't read right with similar interests then what's the point... | |||
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"I do like to see at least one couple pic rather than lots of the woman. Not meaning action pics, I mean erotic or cuddle together on front page also when im sent face pics I prefer one together rather than seperate which I often get" | |||
"Does this piss anyone else off??? Why do people have a couples profile and only have pics of the women???? X" That's perfectly easy to explain in our case. Mrs J is gorgeous whilst I am bloody ugly  | |||
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"lets be real and honest here shall we. its only going to be gym bunnies that show off their torso. fact its only going to be well endowed guys that have their dick out. fact the rest of us just show a clothed picture, and face pic when required, and thats it. whereas, a woman could be 50stone and have tits sliding around the floor, and there will still be men that tell them they are the sexiest thing since woman first discovered the bikini. fact"
A clothed pic of a guy can be sexy. At least it shows the guy exists, and it's not some single woman with a couple profile pretending there's a guy but she just wants to meet on her own first. | |||
"lets be real and honest here shall we. its only going to be gym bunnies that show off their torso. fact its only going to be well endowed guys that have their dick out. fact the rest of us just show a clothed picture, and face pic when required, and thats it. whereas, a woman could be 50stone and have tits sliding around the floor, and there will still be men that tell them they are the sexiest thing since woman first discovered the bikini. fact
A clothed pic of a guy can be sexy. At least it shows the guy exists, and it's not some single woman with a couple profile pretending there's a guy but she just wants to meet on her own first."and, of course, that would put couples off too, wouldnt it lol | |||
"I think it's because a lot get the impression that people are only interested in the Female half...The male feels almost like a spare part." Which is true in most cases, let's be honest | |||
"lets be real and honest here shall we. its only going to be gym bunnies that show off their torso. fact its only going to be well endowed guys that have their dick out. fact the rest of us just show a clothed picture, and face pic when required, and thats it. It would us. whereas, a woman could be 50stone and have tits sliding around the floor, and there will still be men that tell them they are the sexiest thing since woman first discovered the bikini. fact
A clothed pic of a guy can be sexy. At least it shows the guy exists, and it's not some single woman with a couple profile pretending there's a guy but she just wants to meet on her own first.
and, of course, that would put couples off too, wouldnt it lol" | |||
"I think it's because a lot get the impression that people are only interested in the Female half...The male feels almost like a spare part. Which is true in most cases, let's be honest " It would us! No interest in single females. | |||
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"we have pics of both, you know what your going to get before you make cantact, nothing worse than messaging and chatting then finding out you don't like the look of one or both of the cple when you get pics later" | |||
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If we do play together with another couple(can't remember the last time)it would be a spur of the moment thing in a club - so pics on a profile don't come into it then | |||
"Maybe because for most couples the males are totally ignored by the majority of people that message them. We do have pics of both of us on ours and also on our old account as well" W likes to see pics of the bloke as well-hes fussy on my behalf | |||
ok I may be a bit harsh on my self but although we have been in the lifestyle for a year or so we soon found out the for us the best place to meet was in a club ,straight away the other couple can see you for who you are , no pulling wool over folks eyes and to be honest we have met some fantastic couples this way and had a lot of fun | |||
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"for us the main reason is that I am so butt fucking ugly ,,,, as those who have met me will confirm
ok I may be a bit harsh on my self but although we have been in the lifestyle for a year or so we soon found out the for us the best place to meet was in ap club ,straight away the other couple can see you for who you are , no pulling wool over folks eyes and to be honest we have met some fantastic couples
this way and had a lot of fun"why are people cruel to say that to you, if your having a good time, onwards and upwards
Her | |||
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"for us the main reason is that I am so butt fucking ugly ,,,, as those who have met me will confirm
ok I may be a bit harsh on my self but although we have been in the lifestyle for a year or so we soon found out the for us the best place to meet was in ap club ,straight away the other couple can see you for who you are , no pulling wool over folks eyes and to be honest we have met some fantastic couples
this way and had a lot of fun why are people cruel to say that to you, if your having a good time, onwards and upwards
Her"We said hello to one couple in a club once whilst standing at a bar and you could see the horror on her face ,,,, she muttered the words 'ughhhh' to her partner and pulled him away from the bar ,,,,,, funny thing was they went and sat on their own with their heads up their own arses not chatting to any one and soon left afterwards we had a great time thank you 
usually find that if we can have a few minutes chatting to couples I can work my charm  | |||
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"for us the main reason is that I am so butt fucking ugly ,,,, as those who have met me will confirm
ok I may be a bit harsh on my self but although we have been in the lifestyle for a year or so we soon found out the for us the best place to meet was in ap club ,straight away the other couple can see you for who you are , no pulling wool over folks eyes and to be honest we have met some fantastic couples
this way and had a lot of fun why are people cruel to say that to you, if your having a good time, onwards and upwards
Her
We said hello to one couple in a club once whilst standing at a bar and you could see the horror on her face ,,,, she muttered the words 'ughhhh' to her partner and pulled him away from the bar ,,,,,, funny thing was they went and sat on their own with their heads up their own arses not chatting to any one and soon left afterwards
we had a great time thank you
usually find that if we can have a few minutes chatting to couples I can work my charm "There you go, she was the ugly one if you think about, even if you wasn't her preference, no need for that. And personality and a good laugh goes a long way, a lot want brad pitts, but can lose out on so much. I would rather have a happy person, that's a good laugh, than someone up their own arse looking in the mirror type. | |||
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"It is anointing when a couples profile either has only male pics or only female pics on there. Makes us wonder what they are hiding, surely just one pic of the other party could be posted? If a profile had one pic of each party we would probably give it a more positive response then a profile with an invisible party. Even if the pictures are faceless it gives you an idea of how they look (body wise/dress sense), and do they match what they have put in their profile. As for Face pics, if they are in the private gallery that's fine, ours are, we need privacy and respect others." FFS predictive text annoying not anointing!!!! | |||
"It is anointing when a couples profile either has only male pics or only female pics on there. Makes us wonder what they are hiding, surely just one pic of the other party could be posted? If a profile had one pic of each party we would probably give it a more positive response then a profile with an invisible party. Even if the pictures are faceless it gives you an idea of how they look (body wise/dress sense), and do they match what they have put in their profile. As for Face pics, if they are in the private gallery that's fine, ours are, we need privacy and respect others." Exactly! All our pics of Gimp, are in friends all are face pics, so no they won't be on full view, they will be shown when I have had good interaction. Her | |||
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"for us the main reason is that I am so butt fucking ugly ,,,, as those who have met me will confirm
ok I may be a bit harsh on my self but although we have been in the lifestyle for a year or so we soon found out the for us the best place to meet was in ap club ,straight away the other couple can see you for who you are , no pulling wool over folks eyes and to be honest we have met some fantastic couples
this way and had a lot of fun why are people cruel to say that to you, if your having a good time, onwards and upwards
Her
We said hello to one couple in a club once whilst standing at a bar and you could see the horror on her face ,,,, she muttered the words 'ughhhh' to her partner and pulled him away from the bar ,,,,,, funny thing was they went and sat on their own with their heads up their own arses not chatting to any one and soon left afterwards
we had a great time thank you
usually find that if we can have a few minutes chatting to couples I can work my charm "see, now we found the club scene to be the complete opposite to your general experience. we find that most you start talking to are usualy looking past you to see if anything better comes along. point in fact, last time we were sat with you both at xtasia, V was chatting with a guy sat next to her, seemed to be getting on well, then his missus came back with another couple, and he turned his back on her, without so much as a 'chat ya later' or anything. find a lot of people at clubs can be extremely ignorant, but thats not the point of this thread, obviously | |||
"for us the main reason is that I am so butt fucking ugly ,,,, as those who have met me will confirm
ok I may be a bit harsh on my self but although we have been in the lifestyle for a year or so we soon found out the for us the best place to meet was in ap club ,straight away the other couple can see you for who you are , no pulling wool over folks eyes and to be honest we have met some fantastic couples
this way and had a lot of fun why are people cruel to say that to you, if your having a good time, onwards and upwards
Her" | |||
"It is anointing when a couples profile either has only male pics or only female pics on there. Makes us wonder what they are hiding, surely just one pic of the other party could be posted? If a profile had one pic of each party we would probably give it a more positive response then a profile with an invisible party. Even if the pictures are faceless it gives you an idea of how they look (body wise/dress sense), and do they match what they have put in their profile. As for Face pics, if they are in the private gallery that's fine, ours are, we need privacy and respect others. Exactly! All our pics of Gimp, are in friends all are face pics, so no they won't be on full view, they will be shown when I have had good interaction. Her" | |||
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"We could put 50 pics up of Mr and 1 of jools. Guaranteed we would get 50 replies asking to meet jools and non of Mr. Fact is plain and simple it's all about the ladies on here. " disagree | |||
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"We could put 50 pics up of Mr and 1 of jools. Guaranteed we would get 50 replies asking to meet jools and non of Mr. Fact is plain and simple it's all about the ladies on here. disagree " I disagree too. I have to like what I'm looking for just as much as he does. We both take as much interest in the site and need to want to meet both parties otherwise is a no go. | |||
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"We could put 50 pics up of Mr and 1 of jools. Guaranteed we would get 50 replies asking to meet jools and non of Mr. Fact is plain and simple it's all about the ladies on here. disagree I disagree too. I have to like what I'm looking for just as much as he does. We both take as much interest in the site and need to want to meet both parties otherwise is a no go. " | |||
"We could put 50 pics up of Mr and 1 of jools. Guaranteed we would get 50 replies asking to meet jools and non of Mr. Fact is plain and simple it's all about the ladies on here. disagree I disagree too. I have to like what I'm looking for just as much as he does. We both take as much interest in the site and need to want to meet both parties otherwise is a no go. "Maybe should have said So far in our experience it seems to only be about the ladies. But maybe that's just us? | |||
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"We agree with the OP that it does save a lot of fannying around if there is at least one picky in the private gallery of both party's. Just common sense really that we'd make the assumption that if the male part of a couple is a bit shy he is probably not going to be our cup of tea for one reason or another. No picture, No likey. Sorry." | |||
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"Why should it piss you off?? Maybe anger management would be more beneficial " I stated earlier in the thread that maybe it wasn't the correct use of language. I was under the assumption that couple meant 2 as in 2 people.... Was I incorrect? | |||
"Does this piss anyone else off??? Why do people have a couples profile and only have pics of the women???? X" why would any one want to see my hubby as he does not play ? | |||
"Why should it piss you off?? Maybe anger management would be more beneficial I stated earlier in the thread that maybe it wasn't the correct use of language. I was under the assumption that couple meant 2 as in 2 people.... Was I incorrect? " yes but its their profile and they can do what they want, just like you do in yours. I've even seen pics of womans feet in profiles. Each to their own. We all have our own paths. | |||
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ive always accepted from the word go that I would not be every ladies idea for a fair swop and hope that I portray that well in our profile ,,,, hence I need a few minutes to work my charm at a bar ,,,, | |||
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"Our profile is a teaser, we want people who read our profile to be interested in us and our pictures on our profile are similarly there to add to the intrigue. It's our filter and works for us. If we have contact from people who we believe we might want to take things further, then we swap pictures. Those who pass us by because we haven't got facial pictures of us in our public profile on here, we'll never know or they'll never know what fun we might have had. "I agree but my gripe was more with the couples that ask to see our private pics and don't have any of the male at all. We are here for both of us and not to make notches in the bed post but for more odd a long term thing | |||
