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letting other men cum in your wife/girlfriends mouth
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we were just wondering how many swingers who are involving another guy in their play let the "other guy" cum in the wifes mouth, as you can see on our verifications my wife is no stranger to letting another man spunk in her mouth and often swallows, but is it this same for other people, and secondly does the "other man" consider it a special treat if it happens considering a lot of wives dont even let their own husbands do that in everyday relationships? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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I wouldn't need permission from the OH if I wanted to do something, but we have discussed preferences and anything that will turn the other off....so everything is normally a joint decision.
For me, the only mans cum I want in my mouth is the OH. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The way we play, we are in charge of our own bodies. I don't tell Kate what she can and can't do, and neither does she with me.
We all have different boundries, and this is something that should be bought up before you play.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wouldn't need permission from the OH if I wanted to do something, but we have discussed preferences and anything that will turn the other off....so everything is normally a joint decision.
For me, the only mans cum I want in my mouth is the OH."
Hmm, runs off to change username to 'the OH'  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to watch my OH sucking another penis, but - at present - I don't want another man coming in her mouth.
She let's me do it on occasion, but I suspect she does it more as a 'treat' for me than because she enjoys it.
So, I wouldn't be happy about another man spunking in her mouth.
I'd be more than happy for anyone to spunk over her though!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to watch my OH sucking another penis, but - at present - I don't want another man coming in her mouth.
She let's me do it on occasion, but I suspect she does it more as a 'treat' for me than because she enjoys it.
So, I wouldn't be happy about another man spunking in her mouth.
I'd be more than happy for anyone to spunk over her though! "
Can I ask if you would mind if she actually wanted the guy to come in her mouth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest, this isn't an issue because I know she's not a great lover of a mouthful of cum, but if she wanted a guy to come in her mouth I'd tell her I wasn't comfortable with that.
Do you think this shows a darker side of my character that I am unaware of?
Serious question.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be honest, this isn't an issue because I know she's not a great lover of a mouthful of cum, but if she wanted a guy to come in her mouth I'd tell her I wasn't comfortable with that.
Do you think this shows a darker side of my character that I am unaware of?
Serious question.
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No, I think it shows you dont want another man to cum in your wifes mouth.
But it would be pretty darn awful IF your wife was being influenced unduly by your not wanting another guy to come in her mouth!!
I think if she did like a mouthful of come you would just have to be comfortable with it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But it would be pretty darn awful IF your wife was being influenced unduly by your not wanting another guy to come in her mouth!!
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Shouldn't couples be able to set reasonable limits on their partner's behaviour?
I see nothing awful about this; I am far from being any sort of control freak; in fact I try to be the opposite (believe me).
And in our general life together we often have to compromise and adjust our desires to be compatible with our partners, so given your hypothetical example, why would me not wanting another man to come into her mouth be so 'darn awful'?
There's plenty of other ways Mrs H can satisfy her lustful wants; and I'm more than happy to go along with them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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oooooooooooooo id love that!!
If i was with a lass who was into hardcore swinging----id say yes go 4 it!! mmmmmmmmmmmm nice---fire away my son fire away my son..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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did it with my x and it was the horniest id ever been, i think id let it happen again if i had a missis, saying that though, if i meet "the one" then it could be different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But it would be pretty darn awful IF your wife was being influenced unduly by your not wanting another guy to come in her mouth!!
Shouldn't couples be able to set reasonable limits on their partner's behaviour?
I see nothing awful about this; I am far from being any sort of control freak; in fact I try to be the opposite (believe me).
And in our general life together we often have to compromise and adjust our desires to be compatible with our partners, so given your hypothetical example, why would me not wanting another man to come into her mouth be so 'darn awful'?
There's plenty of other ways Mrs H can satisfy her lustful wants; and I'm more than happy to go along with them."
You only quoted part of what I said, and I did say IF.
I dont set limits on my husbands behaviour, nor does he set limits on my behaviour.
I didnt suggest you were a control freak , only you have used that term.
Heres what I said, please read it again.
But it would be pretty darn awful IF your wife was being influenced unduly by your not wanting another guy to come in her mouth!!
I ask again, wouldnt it be awful IF your wife didnt let another guy come in her mouth because YOU didnt want him to and just maybe she did.
You talk of compromise, if your wife ever does say she would like to experience a guy coming in her mouth I hope you remember that, and compromise
Maybe she could spit, and not swallow,
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe she could spit, and not swallow,
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Mrs H would respect my feelings and this will not be an issue. But, if she wanted to do it, and I was happy to let her, she's Welsh so she'd probably gargle with it.
I've enjoyed the conversation!
Can I ask what you and your OH feelings are on this subject? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe she could spit, and not swallow,
Mrs H would respect my feelings and this will not be an issue. But, if she wanted to do it, and I was happy to let her, she's Welsh so she'd probably gargle with it.
I've enjoyed the conversation!
Can I ask what you and your OH feelings are on this subject?"
Oh he is sort of bi so we both swallow!! |
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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago
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"did it with my x and it was the horniest id ever been, i think id let it happen again if i had a missis, saying that though, if i meet "the one" then it could be different"
if u met "the one" ??????????????????????????????????  |
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I would respect whatever the person doing the sucking said, if they wanted to swallow then thats a treat....but then all you ladies who don't want to swallow thats fine just form an orderly queue!
i wish........  |
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By *averiMan
over a year ago
Swindon to bristol |
"we were just wondering how many swingers who are involving another guy in their play let the "other guy" cum in the wifes mouth, as you can see on our verifications my wife is no stranger to letting another man spunk in her mouth and often swallows, but is it this same for other people, and secondly does the "other man" consider it a special treat if it happens considering a lot of wives dont even let their own husbands do that in everyday relationships?"
how about letting another bloke cum in your husbands/partners mouth? |
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By *averiMan
over a year ago
Swindon to bristol |
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But it would be pretty darn awful IF your wife was being influenced unduly by your not wanting another guy to come in her mouth!!
Shouldn't couples be able to set reasonable limits on their partner's behaviour?
I see nothing awful about this; I am far from being any sort of control freak; in fact I try to be the opposite (believe me).
And in our general life together we often have to compromise and adjust our desires to be compatible with our partners, so given your hypothetical example, why would me not wanting another man to come into her mouth be so 'darn awful'?
There's plenty of other ways Mrs H can satisfy her lustful wants; and I'm more than happy to go along with them."
maybe you could contact me??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep have and do, do this on occaision, enjoy doing it. We have set limits to things, and know some things are special between us only. Other than that we enjoy ourselves to the full, lifes to short to hold back from something you just might enjoy. xxxxxx |
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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago
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Its got noothing to do with letting another man cum. Karen is woman enough to make up her own mind, I don't own her!
She has in the past let others cum in her mouth if she is feeling that horny/dirty, likes it on her face also.
But she much prefers to give a handjob to finish, she gets a kick out of seeing how far a bloke can spurt, if it lands on her she isn't bothered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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don't mind guys spunking in my mouth but don't swallow so hope the guy dont mind if I spit out. love to be spunked over any where on my body as it takes good pics |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
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I dont like a man to cum on my mouth
I don't have a partner to say yes or no
But I never liked it in both or my marriages and I dont like it now
I might have a new bf any day now and he also knows I dont like it already |
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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago
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"Its got noothing to do with letting another man cum. Karen is woman enough to make up her own mind, I don't own her!
She has in the past let others cum in her mouth if she is feeling that horny/dirty, likes it on her face also.
But she much prefers to give a handjob to finish, she gets a kick out of seeing how far a bloke can spurt, if it lands on her she isn't bothered."
I prefer to finish off with a handjob
I love to watch a man spurt too  |
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We talked about boundries when we first got into swinging. I told my wife she can do anything she wants as i have no hang up. She has only let about 3 or 4 guys cum in her mouth so far, and has only swallowed twice, although 1 guy has cum in her mouth on for than a few occasions. She says she was comfortable with him and his cum was not as bitter as some so she swallowed his all the time. I find it a turn on but i realise its not everyones cup of tea. Claire says as long as she can control when someone does it she is comfortable, but if someone tries without asking thats it meet over dont cum back lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"To be honest, this isn't an issue because I know she's not a great lover of a mouthful of cum, but if she wanted a guy to come in her mouth I'd tell her I wasn't comfortable with that.
Do you think this shows a darker side of my character that I am unaware of?
Serious question.
No, I think it shows you dont want another man to cum in your wifes mouth.
But it would be pretty darn awful IF your wife was being influenced unduly by your not wanting another guy to come in her mouth!!
I think if she did like a mouthful of come you would just have to be comfortable with it."
Let's reverse this, so he would have to accept it because it's not fair for the lady to accept it? complete nonsense.
We all have our boundaries, as a couple swinging together then those boundaries must be decided together, if one partner says no to any risky experience then both should agree or not play, with risky I'm aiming at bareback and taking a mouthful of cum, both can be a risk to ones health, so a couple needs to agree whatever they do.
Swinging as a couple is about sharing exciting adult experiences together, not one person having to be comfortable with it.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's been very interesting reading the posts on this thread.
I have what I quaintly call a "special friend". He uses words like commitment and sees only me, not just sexually but socially, and in fact we are best friends.
His is the only cum I swallow, in fact it's a major turn on for both of us me literally draining him of his bodily fluids!
I don't have the desire to let other men cum in my mouth, it's getting to the stage I seldom have penetrative sex with anyone else now, I just indulge my dominant side! |
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At the risk of digressing from the actual topic…
When we first decided to venture into this hobby of course we talked about boundaries, such things as ‘the privacy and intimacy of our bedroom’ should it be off-limits. ‘Kissing’ is that too intimate? ‘separate rooms’ too intimate? Are certain places for spunk off-limits? And so the list went on.
There was indeed a bit of a list at the start but in practice it progressively eroded and here’s the rationalisation… what we have as a couple is to us totally unique and very special and NO AMOUNT of sucking, fucking, spunking here there or anywhere else is ever going to get anywhere near it. Any activities that we indulge in under the heading of the swinging hobby is ‘recreational sex’ and nothing more. When we as a couple have sexual activities we MAKE LOVE and that makes EVERYTHING special, intimate and personal regardless of the fact that it will include activities we indulge in with swinging partners.
We have a regular bi-guy we’ve known for some years now. When we first went to his place for a session he greeted us at the door, he and I shook hands, and he gave H a hug and a peck on the cheek. As we were leaving his house 4 hours later having fucked and sucked everything on everyone, he gave H a hug and a peck on the cheek. Then as he and I shook hand I actually said, “This shaking hands thing seems so lame and pathetic after what we have all just done”.
So that is our resolve, we don’t put barriers on any specific activity in a bid to keep it special, we don’t need to as we have enough faith in our relationship to know that everything is special to us alone.
Dave & Helen |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It all really depends from 1 guy to the next for me, most of the time i have had guys whisper in my ear "do you swallow?" and the answer is 99 times yes please but on the rare occasion i have had them cum over me somewhere
My other half knows how much i enjoy a mouthfull of cum and i pretty much make my own mind up at the time as he is bi curious aswell we have even shared the experience a couple of times with a certain guy, the only time hubby gets involved with what im doing during a 1-2-1 meet is if im alone in the bedroom to come and check from time to time xxx Lois xxx |
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carol does not like cum in her mouth except really horny times but most guys are not bothered as they cum all over her 38dds this seems to be ok (lol)for some reason we think once a guys cumming he couldnt give a fuck where it goes |
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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago
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"for some reason we think once a guys cumming he couldnt give a fuck where it goes"
Not me, I like to leave without having my clothes thrown out of the window and with my testicles still attached, so I ALWAYS make sure I'm clear on what's allowed and what's not. Once the eruption starts though......I cannot be held responsible for any shrapnel, friendly fire, whatever, it's pretty much impossible to direct it accurately.
Oh, and ladies, if you are warned that a gentleman is about to tip his filthy concrete, if he asks if it is OK to cum in your mouth, the answer is not "HmmmNNNyyymmmhhhNomNom". Remove the member momentarily from your gob and say "Yes" or "No", nice and clearly, then there can be no question. Thank you. |
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We have a simple rule - we don't do with others anything that we don't do alone.
For the record I have always swallowed when with a partner. When with others it really depends on how horny I am, but my husband doesn't mind. In fact he gets a real kicj out of me being extra naughty. |
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"wish i lived in or near wrexham!!!!
Damn, you guys are easily pleased!  "
If you think being pleased by a very sexy intellegent, complicated, together couple who clearly know what the're looking for (which Unfortunately doesn't include 50 yr old single male in surrey) is EASY then yes I'm easily pleased...
all the same it's a pleasure to be able to talk openly in a forum with you and all the others.
enough fawning..... lol |
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when we started swinging i had never thought of P even being with another guy before. We began swinging as she is bi, but she does still seem to favour guys over girls, which wasnt what we set on this journey for lol
But i dont mind, anal sex is always our thing, so if she wanted a guy to CIM it really wouldnt be an issue, we have played with guys before and we just let the fun go with the flow x
mabye if these things were an issue between couples, it could mean there are underlying issues within the relationship?
Gx |
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"when we started swinging i had never thought of P even being with another guy before. We began swinging as she is bi, but she does still seem to favour guys over girls, which wasnt what we set on this journey for lol
But i dont mind, anal sex is always our thing, so if she wanted a guy to CIM it really wouldnt be an issue, we have played with guys before and we just let the fun go with the flow x
mabye if these things were an issue between couples, it could mean there are underlying issues within the relationship?
Gx"
Paul would never say to me a man isnt allowed to cum in my mouth and i love guys cumming in my mouth,in fact he has never said to me you can only do this or that x |
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"wish i lived in or near wrexham!!!!
Damn, you guys are easily pleased!
If you think being pleased by a very sexy intellegent, complicated, together couple who clearly know what the're looking for (which Unfortunately doesn't include 50 yr old single male in surrey) is EASY then yes I'm easily pleased...
all the same it's a pleasure to be able to talk openly in a forum with you and all the others.
enough fawning..... lol"
That at us? Aw bless ya! |
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"when we started swinging i had never thought of P even being with another guy before. We began swinging as she is bi, but she does still seem to favour guys over girls, which wasnt what we set on this journey for lol
But i dont mind, anal sex is always our thing, so if she wanted a guy to CIM it really wouldnt be an issue, we have played with guys before and we just let the fun go with the flow x
mabye if these things were an issue between couples, it could mean there are underlying issues within the relationship?
Gx"
Agreed, but things are never that simple. I think sometimes people set boundaries for things they THINK they may not like as a precaution? Better than it going tits up on the night I guess, but I would hope that through discussion it wouldn't get that far.
I would never dictate what the other half could or could not do and would expect the same in return, unless of course it was something that we didn't actually do ourselves. Fair enough? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I Mrs of the profile love my other half cumming in my mouth and always Swallow that been said I wouldn't want anyone else cumming in my mouth they can cum on my face or boobs but not in my mouth. |
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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago
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When I first started swinging with ex wife it was a no no for her. But then like all the best sex it's spur of the moment.
She did swallow a ple of guys cum..
T b h I prefer seeing a man's cum on her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's all Greedys choice, and however the mood takes us all. Wr have safe words of boss isn't happy, but it's all about the moment and what's happening at the time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In reality I don’t need Fire to give “permission”, but our play dynamic is that I love him “offering” me to others so during play he will “allow” guys to cum in my mouth and then “tell” me to swallow ( not that I’d need telling - I hate to waste any )
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't need permission from the OH if I wanted to do something, but we have discussed preferences and anything that will turn the other off....so everything is normally a joint decision.
For me, the only mans cum I want in my mouth is the OH."
Yes, the same for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely everything for swinging couples depends on what a couple is comfortable with.
Not one side forcing the other to something they wouldnt like or want to reserve for themselves or deciding they want to do something the other asks them not to.
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V says nothing is off limits, so guys can do whatever they want as long as I'm happy.
He likes to see me with either a facial or creampie rather than in my mouth as I swallow all of it so he can't see anything anyway  |
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"Why do so many ask the man what he likes his wife to do? Why not ask the wife?"
THIS. When I'm in sub mode, cum in my mouth is what I expect and love and I don't care what my bf thinks of that really. Lx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not sure about the possessive terminology of "letting" someone cum in a gf's mouth, me? I would certainly encourage her to!!! "
Agree with this. However no encouragement needed for Mrs BB. |
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Idea: how would guys feel if this topic was titled "letting other men cum in your husband/boyfriend's mouth"? I'm guessing that the guys will be wondering why it is any of their partner's beeswax really. Lxx |
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By *weeteamCouple
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"Zoe takes it in her mouth and swallows, her choice and she says its heightens the moment.
Same here. L decides each time where it will go. I enjoy watching whatever the choice. "
She swallows mine afterwards so its all good |
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