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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
Personally I am only looking for hot, rampant, deliriously messy sex on here, but there are people who are looking to hook up, and there are people who have succeeded. Good for them! |
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Given that some people use dating sites as a way to get NSA sex, Fab is probably the best place to be where things are out in the open. I'm not looking for love, but if it finds me, I'm not going to say no because I'm not on a "dating site" lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its not about dating.
pof is a dating site"
so...the one guy I met on POF was after NSA sex, not a relationship and several others have told me it is a good place to meet women for sex. At least, as one poster said earlier, here on FAB it is more transparent |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"its not about dating.
pof is a dating site"
And plenty of men on here are on POF and lie about looking for a relationship in order to get laid!
It's all swings and roundabout so just use your common sense!
As someone else said, I'm not looking but no one knows what or who is round the corner  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its not about dating.
pof is a dating site"
And plenty of people use pof to get laid 
Surely the simplest solution is not to meet people who use the site in a way that you feel in incompatible with you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its not about dating.
pof is a dating site"
and????????
people can use the site however they wish as long as it's within the site rules! if they don't want to meet people, that's fine, if they want to find a partner, that's fine and if they want to cheat, that's fine too, don't like how people use the site? move on! |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"mmm but have you read how long some of there profiles are. the amount of do's and donts"
You don't have to read them. Move on to profiles more suited to what you are looking for. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
its a "people make of it what they want to make of it" site....
thats what i like about it... its all encompassing
can't think of anything more condescending then than people thinking they know better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I'm on both and can say I've seen 4 fab ladies so far..
Although I'm looking for different things on both sites if that makes sense - sex on here but simply looking to meet new girls on there (but not to get laid with them). |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's a swinger site but only a few real swingers End of the day we are all looking for something and at least if the profile is honest does it matter "
What are 'real swingers'? |
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"its not about dating.
pof is a dating site
so...the one guy I met on POF was after NSA sex, not a relationship and several others have told me it is a good place to meet women for sex. At least, as one poster said earlier, here on FAB it is more transparent"
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"its not about dating.
pof is a dating site
And plenty of people use pof to get laid
Surely the simplest solution is not to meet people who use the site in a way that you feel in incompatible with you? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a lot of females seem to be looking for a partner!"
thats not what about"
Well at least you'll know who to avoid if it's not what you are looking for. Although where are the rules that say people have to use the site in a certain way? |
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"mmm but have you read how long some of there profiles are. the amount of do's and donts
well they aren't gonna shag just anyone that messages them "
I have ended up adding to my profile over the years because of the behaviour of some men on here! Just wanting to make it clear what I want and hopefully meet guys who want the same things. |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire Moorlands |
"mmm but have you read how long some of there profiles are. the amount of do's and donts
well they aren't gonna shag just anyone that messages them "
I have a long list and I have no intention of changing that! Just coz I am on here doesn't mean I don't have standards....I won't shag anything, rather go without!  |
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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago
from a town near you |
the amount of men on pof that are also on here,at least on here they are being honest,on pof they are supposedly looking for a relationship or want to date,then when you actualy start talking to them all they want is nsa sex,its the same for a lot of the women on pof as well, because according to the men they have loads of sex on pof and no luck on here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd be happy if I were to meet someone off here, at least there wouldn't be any awkward discussions around sex! 
And I think I've just fallen in love  Shame about the distance boohoo!"
Aye, Glenrothes is a wee bit far......god damn it!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site is for shagging.. relationships is so 90's lol x.
Its not just for shagging....its for swinging! That's different!  "
Just call me Jungle VIP lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This site is for shagging.. relationships is so 90's lol x.
Its not just for shagging....its for swinging! That's different! "
Yes it is.. I gues sex is involved in both acts unless, its about watching fotbal lol x. |
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"mmm but have you read how long some of there profiles are. the amount of do's and donts"
That's good though. It means one can make an informed decision about whether or not to make contact. A long profile still only takes seconds to read. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Given that some people use dating sites as a way to get NSA sex, Fab is probably the best place to be where things are out in the open. I'm not looking for love, but if it finds me, I'm not going to say no because I'm not on a "dating site" lol "
My sentiments exactly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many people on here looking for many different things. Some want a quick shag, no questions asked, some want more of a connection to have NSA fun, some seek an FB, others a more in depth friend with benefits. I've dated 2 of my FB's over the last 5 years, if the other person feels the same then why not? I'm not looking for a date but wouldn't turn it down if I found someone on here. We all have choices and we can all use this site how we want provided its within the site rules. As with any profile that doesn't float your boat, move on. |
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"its not about dating.
pof is a dating site"
Tescos isn't a dating site but people meet in there.
Work isn't a dating site but people meet there
You use the site how you want to and others will do the same. Providing you set your stall out from the outset you should remain uncoupled. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the amount of men on pof that are also on here,at least on here they are being honest,on pof they are supposedly looking for a relationship or want to date,then when you actualy start talking to them all they want is nsa sex,its the same for a lot of the women on pof as well, because according to the men they have loads of sex on pof and no luck on here "
Indeed, just as I have been told. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a lot of females seem to be looking for a partner!"
thats not what about"
Facebook isn't a dating site either but I know a couple who met on there and recently got married...
I met my husband on here over 8 years ago, we weren't looking for a relationship just some NSA fun....
It happens, just because it's a swing site does not mean that people can't form a relationship.
Also in your OP you say it's the females who are on here looking for a partner....
How did you come to that conclusion?
Because from my experiance on here as a single and with my husband it's the single guys who are the needy ones, the ones who want to meet behind hubby's back without him knowing ect x |
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"Given that some people use dating sites as a way to get NSA sex, Fab is probably the best place to be where things are out in the open. I'm not looking for love, but if it finds me, I'm not going to say no because I'm not on a "dating site" lol "
Well said |
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By *issy louWoman
over a year ago
Staffordshire Moorlands |
I met a FB on here 2 years ago. Yes, we do meet for sex, which is more incredible every time, but we also text or speak every day and sometimes we just go out for lunch and a chat with no sex at all. He is a true 'friend with benefits' and I am so glad I met him. So, this site is surely what you want it to be and what you make of it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its not about dating.
pof is a dating site
Tescos isn't a dating site but people meet in there.
Work isn't a dating site but people meet there
You use the site how you want to and others will do the same. Providing you set your stall out from the outset you should remain uncoupled. "
Ditto...
Nothing more annoying than someone dictating how people should use the site, start a thread with random comments and don't even come back to defend their comments x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its not about dating.
pof is a dating site"
Seriously deluded. Pof isn't about dating! It's more about getting fucked than on here!
I met the love of my life on here. What's your problem? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So what if it's not a dating site? If you've had girlfriends / partners / wives, where did you first meet them? Only at a singles club presumably? Because God forbid you meet a potential partner in a SUPERMARKET (they're for shopping, dammit!) or at the BUS STOP (public transport pickup point, for fuck's sake, not for dating!) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So what if it's not a dating site? If you've had girlfriends / partners / wives, where did you first meet them? Only at a singles club presumably? Because God forbid you meet a potential partner in a SUPERMARKET (they're for shopping, dammit!) or at the BUS STOP (public transport pickup point, for fuck's sake, not for dating!)"
Your completely missing the point, of course people can date on here but it's not a dating site, there are many other better alternatives for that. For example, would you go to the butchers to buy bread? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not "
You can, but it's not a dating site, if people do start to date on here good luck to them but it's not realy the best place to start looking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not "
not all are truthful, can lead you on for months on end and then tell you they didn't really know what they wanted |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I am only looking for hot, rampant, deliriously messy sex on here, but there are people who are looking to hook up, and there are people who have succeeded. Good for them!"
I'm in Durham. Come and find me xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not
not all are truthful, can lead you on for months on end and then tell you they didn't really know what they wanted "
Where is my violin??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I am only looking for hot, rampant, deliriously messy sex on here, but there are people who are looking to hook up, and there are people who have succeeded. Good for them!
I'm in Durham. Come and find me xx"
don't think that was classed as an invitation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not
not all are truthful, can lead you on for months on end and then tell you they didn't really know what they wanted
Where is my violin???"
haha! but it is like a kick in the teeth when it happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not
not all are truthful, can lead you on for months on end and then tell you they didn't really know what they wanted
Where is my violin???
haha! but it is like a kick in the teeth when it happens"
Shit happens, to quote the old adage on here, move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Given that some people use dating sites as a way to get NSA sex, Fab is probably the best place to be where things are out in the open. I'm not looking for love, but if it finds me, I'm not going to say no because I'm not on a "dating site" lol "
Couldn't have said it better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally I am only looking for hot, rampant, deliriously messy sex on here, but there are people who are looking to hook up, and there are people who have succeeded. Good for them!
I'm in Durham. Come and find me xx
don't think that was classed as an invitation"
Well it was worth a try
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not
not all are truthful, can lead you on for months on end and then tell you they didn't really know what they wanted
Where is my violin???
haha! but it is like a kick in the teeth when it happens
Shit happens, to quote the old adage on here, move on"
definitely, i've got too much shit to concentrate on than men! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not
not all are truthful, can lead you on for months on end and then tell you they didn't really know what they wanted
Where is my violin???
haha! but it is like a kick in the teeth when it happens
Shit happens, to quote the old adage on here, move on
definitely, i've got too much shit to concentrate on than men!"
Dysentery |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not
not all are truthful, can lead you on for months on end and then tell you they didn't really know what they wanted
Where is my violin???
haha! but it is like a kick in the teeth when it happens
Shit happens, to quote the old adage on here, move on
definitely, i've got too much shit to concentrate on than men!
Dysentery "
pmsl  |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
I'm going not go on a limb here (and am open to correction) but I think what the OP is implying is that a lot of people (not just ladies) are on fab looking for a monogamous relationship.
Given a bit of personal experience, for anyone (guy or girl) looking for anything monogamous.. PLEASE don't do it!
Its not fair on you as you're the equivalent of a vegetarian at an all-meat BBQ, and its not fair on the prospect who wants to be as promiscuous if all you have to offer is monogamy... and hell's scorn if that "rule" is broken. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I got lucky to meet someone I'd not pass the chance by just because I generally prefer No Strings. on POF my time was wasted a lot, only one actual proper BF from it. And besides, most of the pussies, sorry 'men' on POF when i said what I wanted and really liked in bed looked like they wanted to run away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm certainly not looking for a relationship, but if I stumble across 'the one' on here then so be it. If I were to be looking though, then here would probably be one of the better places to start as I don't want to leave this lifestyle. I may change how I play, but I'd still like to keep exploring with new people and if I was with someone then I'd want to share it with them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm going not go on a limb here (and am open to correction) but I think what the OP is implying is that a lot of people (not just ladies) are on fab looking for a monogamous relationship.
Given a bit of personal experience, for anyone (guy or girl) looking for anything monogamous.. PLEASE don't do it!
Its not fair on you as you're the equivalent of a vegetarian at an all-meat BBQ, and its not fair on the prospect who wants to be as promiscuous if all you have to offer is monogamy... and hell's scorn if that "rule" is broken."
Fair point! If people are looking for monogamy surely they are (at best) deluded.
If they are looking for a swinging partner then fair enough. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"it should be just sex on here.
its that easy.!!!!"
Where is that written in the site rules?
Why does it even matter to you what other people want. Look for what suits you and let others concern themselves with what they want.
The site isn't here to cater solely for what you want. |
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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm going not go on a limb here (and am open to correction) but I think what the OP is implying is that a lot of people (not just ladies) are on fab looking for a monogamous relationship.
Given a bit of personal experience, for anyone (guy or girl) looking for anything monogamous.. PLEASE don't do it!
Its not fair on you as you're the equivalent of a vegetarian at an all-meat BBQ, and its not fair on the prospect who wants to be as promiscuous if all you have to offer is monogamy... and hell's scorn if that "rule" is broken."
True, but the prospect doesn't have to go along with it.
It takes two and either can say no thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it should be just sex on here.
its that easy.!!!!"
Why?
My opinion is that people can use the site however they like. If you read a profile and it's not for you....don't message that person and move on to one of the thousands of other profiles.
I'm not looking for a relationship, but if much more consider one with someone from a site like this then pof as I'd want to continue in this life style with my partner.
Each to their own when it comes to using this site. |
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Well op you are correct in stating its a swingers site, but it gets used by all sorts including people looking to date, cheat among other things, the best option is to use it for what you are looking for and ignore everything else that doesnt interest you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah but on here you can be open and be truthfull as to what you want so why not
You can, but it's not a dating site, if people do start to date on here good luck to them but it's not realy the best place to start looking "
That's YOUR opinion and a lot of people will totally disagree with it. Myself included. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the single guys mostly sign up for a shag
the couples sign up to add a lil spice to their sex lives
the single fems sign up to try and bag a bloke
standard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I will be honest I came on here to try my bi side out, with success.
It's now grown into a social life for us both, and enjoy it very much.
But looking for a husband on here erm no
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Poor OP 