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over a year ago
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"Nothing up with role play if there was I'm sure the sales of schoolgirl outfits would drop "
Nothing wrong with role play at all but to call the man that is just about to fuck me 'Daddy' turns my stomach
There is only one man in my world that Ive called Daddy and to sexualise that word seems just wrong to me
I know that people will come into this thread and say its not about incest,its about a very different dynamic,if thats the case use a different word for the 'responsible figure' in the relationship because the word Daddy is sacred to a father and daughter relationship as far as im concerned |
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"Nothing up with role play if there was I'm sure the sales of schoolgirl outfits would drop
Nothing wrong with role play at all but to call the man that is just about to fuck me 'Daddy' turns my stomach
There is only one man in my world that Ive called Daddy and to sexualise that word seems just wrong to me
I know that people will come into this thread and say its not about incest,its about a very different dynamic,if thats the case use a different word for the 'responsible figure' in the relationship because the word Daddy is sacred to a father and daughter relationship as far as im concerned"
Kinda my exact thoughts ? I can't help but think for the role play to work certain words would need to be said ?
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"Nothing up with role play if there was I'm sure the sales of schoolgirl outfits would drop
Nothing wrong with role play at all but to call the man that is just about to fuck me 'Daddy' turns my stomach
There is only one man in my world that Ive called Daddy and to sexualise that word seems just wrong to me
I know that people will come into this thread and say its not about incest,its about a very different dynamic,if thats the case use a different word for the 'responsible figure' in the relationship because the word Daddy is sacred to a father and daughter relationship as far as im concerned
Kinda my exact thoughts ? I can't help but think for the role play to work certain words would need to be said ?
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Yes and im not even going to type them
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"Anyone understand the daddy daughter roll play dynamic ? "
I understand it It does nothing for me but do smile at the people who say its creepy but have themselves dressed up as schoolgirls. I guess if the first is creepy then the second is double creepy. |
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"Anyone understand the daddy daughter roll play dynamic ?
I understand it It does nothing for me but do smile at the people who say its creepy but have themselves dressed up as schoolgirls. I guess if the first is creepy then the second is double creepy."
I don't recall asking my daddy to fuck me when I was a schoolgirl
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"[Removed by poster at 27/05/14 18:31:52]"
As has been mentioned by a couple of people on the thread, it's a deep dynamic. It goes far beyond 'spank me,daddy' or 'fuck me daddy'. It's a really psychological type of role play that deals far more with the Daddy providing a sense of security and safety to the baby. The age need not be a young child, though that roleplay does exist. The age may be an older teen, yet still fall within the dynamic. It's submission with a twist. The Daddy role is intrinsically care taking on every level, and to an arguably deeper level than D/s or M/s play. It's not for everyone, but it is obviously for some. |
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"Anyone understand the daddy daughter roll play dynamic ?
I understand it It does nothing for me but do smile at the people who say its creepy but have themselves dressed up as schoolgirls. I guess if the first is creepy then the second is double creepy."
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"[Removed by poster at 27/05/14 18:31:52]
As has been mentioned by a couple of people on the thread, it's a deep dynamic. It goes far beyond 'spank me,daddy' or 'fuck me daddy'. It's a really psychological type of role play that deals far more with the Daddy providing a sense of security and safety to the baby. The age need not be a young child, though that roleplay does exist. The age may be an older teen, yet still fall within the dynamic. It's submission with a twist. The Daddy role is intrinsically care taking on every level, and to an arguably deeper level than D/s or M/s play. It's not for everyone, but it is obviously for some. "
Hmm sounds deep complex mysterious beyond our understanding ?
The few ladies who have suggested this when I asked why all said because it seems naughty TABOO !
back to the above deep complex caring suggestions I don't buy it . A sense of security to my mind does not naturally come from a sexual interaction xx |
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"[Removed by poster at 27/05/14 18:31:52]
As has been mentioned by a couple of people on the thread, it's a deep dynamic. It goes far beyond 'spank me,daddy' or 'fuck me daddy'. It's a really psychological type of role play that deals far more with the Daddy providing a sense of security and safety to the baby. The age need not be a young child, though that roleplay does exist. The age may be an older teen, yet still fall within the dynamic. It's submission with a twist. The Daddy role is intrinsically care taking on every level, and to an arguably deeper level than D/s or M/s play. It's not for everyone, but it is obviously for some.
Hmm sounds deep complex mysterious beyond our understanding ?
The few ladies who have suggested this when I asked why all said because it seems naughty TABOO !
back to the above deep complex caring suggestions I don't buy it . A sense of security to my mind does not naturally come from a sexual interaction xx"
Two points
Firstly nothing is mysterious beyond understanding. It's not meant to be construed that way either, at least not by me.
Secondly, you're doing something that many do who don't understand fully bdsm type role play. It's quite common. You're thinking that everything is sexual. That's the smallest part of what the dynamic entails. Daddies tend to live with their babies, they take care of them on every level. It's not at all just about any type of sexual play. He provides a sense of well being and security in all areas of the baby's life and in every way he can. Absolute caretaking. There's an absolute respect between both parties that leads to a type of trust that I've never achieved, personally.
As i said, the dynamic isn't for everyone. But when it works, it WORKS. |
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"[Removed by poster at 27/05/14 18:31:52]
As has been mentioned by a couple of people on the thread, it's a deep dynamic. It goes far beyond 'spank me,daddy' or 'fuck me daddy'. It's a really psychological type of role play that deals far more with the Daddy providing a sense of security and safety to the baby. The age need not be a young child, though that roleplay does exist. The age may be an older teen, yet still fall within the dynamic. It's submission with a twist. The Daddy role is intrinsically care taking on every level, and to an arguably deeper level than D/s or M/s play. It's not for everyone, but it is obviously for some.
Hmm sounds deep complex mysterious beyond our understanding ?
The few ladies who have suggested this when I asked why all said because it seems naughty TABOO !
back to the above deep complex caring suggestions I don't buy it . A sense of security to my mind does not naturally come from a sexual interaction xx
Two points
Firstly nothing is mysterious beyond understanding. It's not meant to be construed that way either, at least not by me.
Secondly, you're doing something that many do who don't understand fully bdsm type role play. It's quite common. You're thinking that everything is sexual. That's the smallest part of what the dynamic entails. Daddies tend to live with their babies, they take care of them on every level. It's not at all just about any type of sexual play. He provides a sense of well being and security in all areas of the baby's life and in every way he can. Absolute caretaking. There's an absolute respect between both parties that leads to a type of trust that I've never achieved, personally.
As i said, the dynamic isn't for everyone. But when it works, it WORKS."
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Is it just a BDSM interest? Ive heard many a woman in porn use the word Daddy,ive seen it on profiles here with no mention of the BDSM relationship
I just think some people hear something,think ooooh thats a bit naughty and then incorporate it into their sex life for no other reason than as Taoist said,its taboo |
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No though I got asked by someone if I wanted to be Daddy's little slut, bit illogical given he was 40 so really he would be mummys little slut LOL
No thanks, not for me at all, as some have said, far too much of an incest type connotation  |
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"Is it just a BDSM interest? Ive heard many a woman in porn use the word Daddy,ive seen it on profiles here with no mention of the BDSM relationship
I just think some people hear something,think ooooh thats a bit naughty and then incorporate it into their sex life for no other reason than as Taoist said,its taboo "
As with anything else, there will be people who use their own version of any dynamic or activity to suit their interests, and for reasons ranging from taboo upwards. It is a bdsm dynamic though. A serious lifestyle choice that some make. |
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"Is it just a BDSM interest? Ive heard many a woman in porn use the word Daddy,ive seen it on profiles here with no mention of the BDSM relationship
I just think some people hear something,think ooooh thats a bit naughty and then incorporate it into their sex life for no other reason than as Taoist said,its taboo "
Ps, many on here don't mention their bdsm interests in their profile, myself included. Often, it's alluded to in some way instead of plainly stated, though i haven't even alluded to it on mine. |
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"Is it just a BDSM interest? Ive heard many a woman in porn use the word Daddy,ive seen it on profiles here with no mention of the BDSM relationship
I just think some people hear something,think ooooh thats a bit naughty and then incorporate it into their sex life for no other reason than as Taoist said,its taboo "
I call my husband daddy sometimes, he said to me once nothing i say ever surprises him.  the things i tell him i would never tell anyone else.
yes i do find certain taboo subjects exciting. |
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Being in a Daddy daughter relationship does not mean you want to fuck your Daddy or daughter. It's a way to describe the qualities you want to adopt in the dynamic of your relationship. They may include the daughter wanting a protector, a teacher, a provider, strength and discipline (I'm sure you can think of other qualities you might associate with a father like figure). The Daddy may want someone who is vulnerable, innocent, cute, sweet and playful (again, there are loads of other qualities you might associate with a daughter).
I get annoyed with people who assume that people who want to explore the Daddy daughter dynamic are doing it as it's as close to incest as they're going to get.
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I don't get annoyed by people who think its ok to sexualise wholesome family words because they want to use them to satisfy whatever relationship needs they desire,I just think they have deep issues and use the fetish scene to make it seem acceptable,but each to their own |
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People often comment and post their opinions on here without understanding or even thinking about what they are saying .
It is somewhat frustrating and at times annoying , but it's not going to change .
The op played a blinder on this thread , keeping hs cards close to his chest until seeing the reactions , then stated he knew nothing about it |
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"Being in a Daddy daughter relationship does not mean you want to fuck your Daddy or daughter. It's a way to describe the qualities you want to adopt in the dynamic of your relationship. They may include the daughter wanting a protector, a teacher, a provider, strength and discipline (I'm sure you can think of other qualities you might associate with a father like figure). The Daddy may want someone who is vulnerable, innocent, cute, sweet and playful (again, there are loads of other qualities you might associate with a daughter).
I get annoyed with people who assume that people who want to explore the Daddy daughter dynamic are doing it as it's as close to incest as they're going to get.
crystal"
It appears there is more than one "dynamic" the bdsm camp seem to wish to claim it for themselves yet it seems for some there is a definite sexual tabbo element and for them it's as exciting and valid dynamic as the one claimed by bdsm.
My question was genuine I know little including my own opinion . I did say role play suggesting a shorter term play rather than a long term relationship.
"I sometimes like to play daddies girl" is not an unusual phrase and I honestly wondered ,wonder the parameters this entails for I know there is no black or white here its grey scale
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"I actually put a lot of thought into what I have said
If you don't think I have then thats cool with me "
I don't think you haven't put a lot of thought into what you have written .
You are only seeing it from your initial 'cringe' perspective though .
Just as so any vanilla folk woukd see your desire for your choice of swinging !
Personally we have no desire to try the 'daddy' role-play either , but can see the attraction it has for those who do .
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"Being in a Daddy daughter relationship does not mean you want to fuck your Daddy or daughter. It's a way to describe the qualities you want to adopt in the dynamic of your relationship. They may include the daughter wanting a protector, a teacher, a provider, strength and discipline (I'm sure you can think of other qualities you might associate with a father like figure). The Daddy may want someone who is vulnerable, innocent, cute, sweet and playful (again, there are loads of other qualities you might associate with a daughter).
I get annoyed with people who assume that people who want to explore the Daddy daughter dynamic are doing it as it's as close to incest as they're going to get.
crystal
It appears there is more than one "dynamic" the bdsm camp seem to wish to claim it for themselves yet it seems for some there is a definite sexual tabbo element and for them it's as exciting and valid dynamic as the one claimed by bdsm.
My question was genuine I know little including my own opinion . I did say role play suggesting a shorter term play rather than a long term relationship.
"I sometimes like to play daddies girl" is not an unusual phrase and I honestly wondered ,wonder the parameters this entails for I know there is no black or white here its grey scale
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The only way you'll know what it entails to that person is to ask that person. It's as individual a response as 'what is meant by swinging, does 'this or that' make me gay, etc. |
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"I actually put a lot of thought into what I have said
If you don't think I have then thats cool with me
I don't think you haven't put a lot of thought into what you have written .
You are only seeing it from your initial 'cringe' perspective though .
Just as so any vanilla folk woukd see your desire for your choice of swinging !
Personally we have no desire to try the 'daddy' role-play either , but can see the attraction it has for those who do .
Sorry if you feel I was having a dig "
No I don't take it as a dig,I don't agree with some if what you say either,would be a dull forum if we all agreed
Just because im a swinger and throwing the comment about how non swingers may judge me doesn't mean that I have to accept all aspects of anything sexual
Im sure I have many kinks that would make other people including swingers cringe,but you know what? Im not about to get annoyed or upset about it,or tell them that they don't understand the whys and wherefores,there are some things that will never float their boats or that they want to understand,im the same with daddy/daughter role play and thats allowed,if it makes them happy then cool,Im happy having my opinion about it |
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"I actually put a lot of thought into what I have said
If you don't think I have then thats cool with me
I don't think you haven't put a lot of thought into what you have written .
You are only seeing it from your initial 'cringe' perspective though .
Just as so any vanilla folk woukd see your desire for your choice of swinging !
Personally we have no desire to try the 'daddy' role-play either , but can see the attraction it has for those who do .
Sorry if you feel I was having a dig
No I don't take it as a dig,I don't agree with some if what you say either,would be a dull forum if we all agreed
Just because im a swinger and throwing the comment about how non swingers may judge me doesn't mean that I have to accept all aspects of anything sexual
Im sure I have many kinks that would make other people including swingers cringe,but you know what? Im not about to get annoyed or upset about it,or tell them that they don't understand the whys and wherefores,there are some things that will never float their boats or that they want to understand,im the same with daddy/daughter role play and thats allowed,if it makes them happy then cool,Im happy having my opinion about it "
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"I actually put a lot of thought into what I have said
If you don't think I have then thats cool with me
I don't think you haven't put a lot of thought into what you have written .
You are only seeing it from your initial 'cringe' perspective though .
Just as so any vanilla folk woukd see your desire for your choice of swinging !
Personally we have no desire to try the 'daddy' role-play either , but can see the attraction it has for those who do .
Sorry if you feel I was having a dig
No I don't take it as a dig,I don't agree with some if what you say either,would be a dull forum if we all agreed
Just because im a swinger and throwing the comment about how non swingers may judge me doesn't mean that I have to accept all aspects of anything sexual
Im sure I have many kinks that would make other people including swingers cringe,but you know what? Im not about to get annoyed or upset about it,or tell them that they don't understand the whys and wherefores,there are some things that will never float their boats or that they want to understand,im the same with daddy/daughter role play and thats allowed,if it makes them happy then cool,Im happy having my opinion about it "
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"Nothing up with role play if there was I'm sure the sales of schoolgirl outfits would drop
Nothing wrong with role play at all but to call the man that is just about to fuck me 'Daddy' turns my stomach
There is only one man in my world that Ive called Daddy and to sexualise that word seems just wrong to me
I know that people will come into this thread and say its not about incest,its about a very different dynamic,if thats the case use a different word for the 'responsible figure' in the relationship because the word Daddy is sacred to a father and daughter relationship as far as im concerned"
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"Nothing up with role play if there was I'm sure the sales of schoolgirl outfits would drop
Nothing wrong with role play at all but to call the man that is just about to fuck me 'Daddy' turns my stomach
There is only one man in my world that Ive called Daddy and to sexualise that word seems just wrong to me
I know that people will come into this thread and say its not about incest,its about a very different dynamic,if thats the case use a different word for the 'responsible figure' in the relationship because the word Daddy is sacred to a father and daughter relationship as far as im concerned"
I totally agree it is sick. I'm open to a lot of things but this is more like bordering on a paedo type scenario.
I also think it's weird hearing of a guy liking a women dressed as a school girl but I know others do think differently there.
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