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over a year ago
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Why are some people so ignorant? I've been arranging a meet with someone all day then when it comes to the actual meet they just ignore you? How frustrating is that? |
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"Why are some people so ignorant? I've been arranging a meet with someone all day then when it comes to the actual meet they just ignore you? How frustrating is that?"
no need for that!
if you dont want to meeet is say no thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why are some people so ignorant? I've been arranging a meet with someone all day then when it comes to the actual meet they just ignore you? How frustrating is that?"
It happens I guess just put it behind you ignore and move on. |
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over a year ago
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Unfortunately, some people like to play games. If you haven't heard from them for several days before the meet and they don't reply to a confirmation text on the day, assume the meet is off. Although sometimes life does get in the way...
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"Arrange a meet in a cafe then when they don't turn up, you can finish your coffee and go shopping. No big loss, really. It is frustrating but it happens. "
Sorry but it is a big loss. When we have to make expensive child care arrangements for a rare weekend of adult fun & then it is spoilt by some timewasting wanker I can assure you it is not covered by a large cappuccino.
That is why we have virtually stopped meeting people from fab. We now prefer clubs & organised parties.
If many single guys struggle to get meets that is one of the causes. |
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Try actually turning up at their house at the arranged time for the met and then, after three hours of chatting (I'm a patient soul!) she says she doesn't feel well and backs out - now that's frustrating.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Arrange a meet in a cafe then when they don't turn up, you can finish your coffee and go shopping. No big loss, really. It is frustrating but it happens.
Sorry but it is a big loss. When we have to make expensive child care arrangements for a rare weekend of adult fun & then it is spoilt by some timewasting wanker I can assure you it is not covered by a large cappuccino.
That is why we have virtually stopped meeting people from fab. We now prefer clubs & organised parties.
If many single guys struggle to get meets that is one of the causes."
We can really appreciate that one. Child care ain't cheap. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Try actually turning up at their house at the arranged time for the met and then, after three hours of chatting (I'm a patient soul!) she says she doesn't feel well and backs out - now that's frustrating. "
Better have her back out than go through with something she doesn't want to |
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Seems to be quite common, think a lot of people just enjoy the chase rather than the actual meet but don't be upfront about it. Frustrating as honesty costs nothing but travel etc does. |
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"Why are some people so ignorant? I've been arranging a meet with someone all day then when it comes to the actual meet they just ignore you? How frustrating is that?
no need for that!
if you dont want to meeet is say no thanks "
 very true I actually went out of my way too to meet them tut |
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"Better have her back out than go through with something she doesn't want to "
Agree 100% the lady should have the right to say no at any point.
Some want to try it and chicken out at the last minute not leaving enough time to inform the other person.
Not nice but personally I couldn't enjoy it knowing the lady wasn't 100% sure! then again I don't get the chance to show how much of a gentleman I am 
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