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I like this one
Just got a reply from a message I sent saying that they would not meet me because I messed some friends around in the past
Now here is my point, i haven't had many meets since joining here and everyone I've arranged to meet I have
Apart from that I've just had the odd chit chat with members that haven't led to anything, hardly what I would call the actions of a time waster |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like this one
Just got a reply from a message I sent saying that they would not meet me because I messed some friends around in the past
Now here is my point, i haven't had many meets since joining here and everyone I've arranged to meet I have
Apart from that I've just had the odd chit chat with members that haven't led to anything, hardly what I would call the actions of a time waster"
Mate your a bloke anything you say and do on here take on the chin as us blokes seem to get a hard time for being men. Morale of the story is fuck em and keep ya chin up |
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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago
Limavady |
I was arranging a meet. No date set, no address given yet. He kept providing excuses why he couldn't give me a phone number or arrange a time to call.
No meet agreed but I still classify him as a timewaster. |
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"I like this one
Just got a reply from a message I sent saying that they would not meet me because I messed some friends around in the past
Now here is my point, i haven't had many meets since joining here and everyone I've arranged to meet I have
Apart from that I've just had the odd chit chat with members that haven't led to anything, hardly what I would call the actions of a time waster
Mate your a bloke anything you say and do on here take on the chin as us blokes seem to get a hard time for being men. Morale of the story is fuck em and keep ya chin up "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like this one
Just got a reply from a message I sent saying that they would not meet me because I messed some friends around in the past
Now here is my point, i haven't had many meets since joining here and everyone I've arranged to meet I have
Apart from that I've just had the odd chit chat with members that haven't led to anything, hardly what I would call the actions of a time waster
Mate your a bloke anything you say and do on here take on the chin as us blokes seem to get a hard time for being men. Morale of the story is fuck em and keep ya chin up "
Err I don't think he will be fucking them somehow.... |
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"I was arranging a meet. No date set, no address given yet. He kept providing excuses why he couldn't give me a phone number or arrange a time to call.
No meet agreed but I still classify him as a timewaster."
Well I have always given my number and arranged meets, I have nothing to hide
But if no date is given and no place to meet how is that classed as time wasting?
Should I just turn up on a random date , time and location and hope for the best????
What a stupid thing to say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I can do that, but makes me wonder if some people class you as a time waster if you just have a chat and nothing comes of it?"
Just tell them to bog off and go and sit in the garden with a beer!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like this one
Just got a reply from a message I sent saying that they would not meet me because I messed some friends around in the past
Now here is my point, i haven't had many meets since joining here and everyone I've arranged to meet I have
Apart from that I've just had the odd chit chat with members that haven't led to anything, hardly what I would call the actions of a time waster
Mate your a bloke anything you say and do on here take on the chin as us blokes seem to get a hard time for being men. Morale of the story is fuck em and keep ya chin up
Err I don't think he will be fucking them somehow...."
I think your right lol |
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"Yeah I can do that, but makes me wonder if some people class you as a time waster if you just have a chat and nothing comes of it?
Just tell them to bog off and go and sit in the garden with a beer! "
I prefer cider and its absolutely pissing down in my neck of the woods but that's a great plan lol |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"Yeah I can do that, but makes me wonder if some people class you as a time waster if you just have a chat and nothing comes of it?"
If that is the case I must be one of the biggest timewasters on here, as it is very rare I meet the men that message me!  |
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And this is the reason why Fab doesn't allow us to name and shame so called time wasters. The definition can be so broad, but I would class a time waster as someone who arranges to meet me and then just doesn't turn up, without a word of explanation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like this one
Just got a reply from a message I sent saying that they would not meet me because I messed some friends around in the past
Now here is my point, i haven't had many meets since joining here and everyone I've arranged to meet I have
Apart from that I've just had the odd chit chat with members that haven't led to anything, hardly what I would call the actions of a time waster"
Ignore it sounds like someone with an axe to grind people who can't make their own mind up are probably best avoided anyway. |
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"And this is the reason why Fab doesn't allow us to name and shame so called time wasters. The definition can be so broad, but I would class a time waster as someone who arranges to meet me and then just doesn't turn up, without a word of explanation. "
Thank you
That is exactly my point of view
I have met everyone I have agreed to meet, doesn't always end in sex but fuck it at least I've had a chat and a drink |
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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago
Limavady |
"I was arranging a meet. No date set, no address given yet. He kept providing excuses why he couldn't give me a phone number or arrange a time to call.
No meet agreed but I still classify him as a timewaster.
Well I have always given my number and arranged meets, I have nothing to hide
But if no date is given and no place to meet how is that classed as time wasting?
Should I just turn up on a random date , time and location and hope for the best????
What a stupid thing to say"
Would have replied privately to you Stuart but can't because of your filters. I was trying to point out that not all time wasting happens after a meet is agreed. If someone keeps on saying that they want to meet but never actually give information to enable a meet to happen I would call them a timewaster. I am not saying you are one!'' |
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"I was arranging a meet. No date set, no address given yet. He kept providing excuses why he couldn't give me a phone number or arrange a time to call.
No meet agreed but I still classify him as a timewaster.
Well I have always given my number and arranged meets, I have nothing to hide
But if no date is given and no place to meet how is that classed as time wasting?
Should I just turn up on a random date , time and location and hope for the best????
What a stupid thing to say
Would have replied privately to you Stuart but can't because of your filters. I was trying to point out that not all time wasting happens after a meet is agreed. If someone keeps on saying that they want to meet but never actually give information to enable a meet to happen I would call them a timewaster. I am not saying you are one!''"
Point taken and I do apologise for being rude |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was arranging a meet. No date set, no address given yet. He kept providing excuses why he couldn't give me a phone number or arrange a time to call.
No meet agreed but I still classify him as a timewaster.
Well I have always given my number and arranged meets, I have nothing to hide
But if no date is given and no place to meet how is that classed as time wasting?
Should I just turn up on a random date , time and location and hope for the best????
What a stupid thing to say
Would have replied privately to you Stuart but can't because of your filters. I was trying to point out that not all time wasting happens after a meet is agreed. If someone keeps on saying that they want to meet but never actually give information to enable a meet to happen I would call them a timewaster. I am not saying you are one!''"
I've exchanged messages with a few like that but you can soon realise that they are never going to meet.
In my opinion timewasters are the people that arrange a meet then don't turn up or let you down at the very last minute. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of game players on here. As a single man you have to accept that you are always going to be the one to get the worst end of it.
Block and move on is my motto. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone on here seems to have a different definitions of a timewaster: from some who messages which doesn't lead to anywhere or disappears off the face of the earth, to arranging a meet and doesn't turn up with no valid explanation. For us it's the latter, as it takes time to get ready and attend the meet, and costs money for travelling, arranging a hotel, etc. We've been lucky not to have any timewasters, except one on my single profile.
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By *orvidMan
over a year ago
Birmingham |
I was asked if I was free on a certain day and replied that I was sorry but wouldn't be back in that city till the next week.
Instantly accused of being a time wasted and blocked.
What confused me is I'd already said before hand I was away for a bit. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I can do that, but makes me wonder if some people class you as a time waster if you just have a chat and nothing comes of it?"
This happens to us, as if you're going to meet absolutely everyone you bloody chat to! |
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By *inkyrikMan
over a year ago
chorleywood |
blimey join the que the amount of arranged meets with women or so called couples that ive had ive turned up at the arranged meeting point and none has ever turned up messaged them politely asking if id got my day/time mixed up BLOCKED.
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