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What am i doing wrong ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it that i am unattractive to woman or is it that woman are fussy,could it be that i haven't been on fab for months on end or that i have no verification that i do in fact exist ? god knows but i can't get anywhere on fab and even with the fact i joined to hopefully meet and build up my confidence it seems that fab has done nothing but destroy the little confidence i had left,i now feel that i must be soo ugly looking to woman that practically no one wants to chat with me or do anything with me.
I am a clean strait easy going guy and i would consider my self a quiet mature type of guy,i drive,i do not take drugs or drink,i have a family and pay my bills but no one will give me a chance,it feels like a rat race to get in there and pull a womans interests rather than her eyes as this is like blind dating in a way but god dam it i am done.
The bad part is that everytime i get a deleted message or a strait out piss off reply i think to myself,dam not one of these woman will give me the time of day yet my mail box is loaded with strait guys who want to meet me of all people ! then i think,wait a minute maybe woman are fussy and there are soo many men trying it on with every woman that logs in that they will resort to fucking a guy or taking a blow job,yet they will also spread the love if they can to the woman on the site as well ? hmm maybe i am better off,maybe this is my lucky escape ! 
Anyway,sorry to ramble on,but yes i don't think i have ever felt so low about my self thanks to fab
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know you're gone and won't see this reply but I'll still write it as it may help others.
Some guys are young, muscular and well endowed apart from that they know what to say to the ladies so obviously they are going to get messages first. Let's be honest and look at it from the other side. We guys al see stunning ladies we want to fuck but realise it's not going to happen. What would the likes of you prefer in your inbox, messages from gorgeous ladies wanting to fuck you or ugly old women wanting the same thing?
Which would you respond to if you had the chance to sleep with any of them, obviously the young gorgeous ones, any man would so why would you think the ladies would think any different?
I'm an ugly bastard, old, only have a 7" cock not great confidence wise so I don't expect replies from young gorgeous ladies but it's fun trying just hoping somebody will see something genuine about me that they want, not much chance I know but when you give up hope you stand no chance.
Now you have left the site you stand no chance of a reply where as before you stood a slim chance like myself.
If a lady rejects you then accept it and don't spit the dummy out and quit the site blaming the ladies.
The only reason your messages get deleted is the same as mine, you don't have a lot going in your favour and like myself you can't be good at communicating. You need to learn to laugh at your short comings and hopefully somebody will take pity on you one day and you'll get the chance to prove that you have something to offer, oh sorry you can't because you quit the site blaming all the nasty ladies, step back and take a look at yourself before casting the blame on the females, surely they can't all be wrong.
As I say my post is no good to you but I hope it helps others not to take themselves too seriously.
Now if any young gorgeous female reads this and fancies a chance of being pleasured many times the good old fashioned way, by mouth, tongue and fingers then get it touch, not much chance but beauty is only skin deep and hopefully some kind lady will take a chance on what other things I have to offer, not a great deal but great oral, unfortunately you have to get between their legs first which the hard part but give up and you have no chance.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know you're gone and won't see this reply but I'll still write it as it may help others.
Some guys are young, muscular and well endowed apart from that they know what to say to the ladies so obviously they are going to get messages first. Let's be honest and look at it from the other side. We guys al see stunning ladies we want to fuck but realise it's not going to happen. What would the likes of you prefer in your inbox, messages from gorgeous ladies wanting to fuck you or ugly old women wanting the same thing?
Which would you respond to if you had the chance to sleep with any of them, obviously the young gorgeous ones, any man would so why would you think the ladies would think any different?
I'm an ugly bastard, old, only have a 7" cock not great confidence wise so I don't expect replies from young gorgeous ladies but it's fun trying just hoping somebody will see something genuine about me that they want, not much chance I know but when you give up hope you stand no chance.
Now you have left the site you stand no chance of a reply where as before you stood a slim chance like myself.
If a lady rejects you then accept it and don't spit the dummy out and quit the site blaming the ladies.
The only reason your messages get deleted is the same as mine, you don't have a lot going in your favour and like myself you can't be good at communicating. You need to learn to laugh at your short comings and hopefully somebody will take pity on you one day and you'll get the chance to prove that you have something to offer, oh sorry you can't because you quit the site blaming all the nasty ladies, step back and take a look at yourself before casting the blame on the females, surely they can't all be wrong.
As I say my post is no good to you but I hope it helps others not to take themselves too seriously.
Now if any young gorgeous female reads this and fancies a chance of being pleasured many times the good old fashioned way, by mouth, tongue and fingers then get it touch, not much chance but beauty is only skin deep and hopefully some kind lady will take a chance on what other things I have to offer, not a great deal but great oral, unfortunately you have to get between their legs first which the hard part but give up and you have no chance.
Jim"
Bullshit  Not all women want to meet young men, some of us prefer our own age group |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we all want the best this site has to offer. that`ll narrow all of our options down. some more than others depending on what you urself are bringing to the table
try somewhere like pof or tinder if fab does nowt for you |
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"I know you're gone and won't see this reply but I'll still write it as it may help others.
Some guys are young, muscular and well endowed apart from that they know what to say to the ladies so obviously they are going to get messages first. Let's be honest and look at it from the other side. We guys al see stunning ladies we want to fuck but realise it's not going to happen. What would the likes of you prefer in your inbox, messages from gorgeous ladies wanting to fuck you or ugly old women wanting the same thing?
Which would you respond to if you had the chance to sleep with any of them, obviously the young gorgeous ones, any man would so why would you think the ladies would think any different?
I'm an ugly bastard, old, only have a 7" cock not great confidence wise so I don't expect replies from young gorgeous ladies but it's fun trying just hoping somebody will see something genuine about me that they want, not much chance I know but when you give up hope you stand no chance.
Now you have left the site you stand no chance of a reply where as before you stood a slim chance like myself.
If a lady rejects you then accept it and don't spit the dummy out and quit the site blaming the ladies.
The only reason your messages get deleted is the same as mine, you don't have a lot going in your favour and like myself you can't be good at communicating. You need to learn to laugh at your short comings and hopefully somebody will take pity on you one day and you'll get the chance to prove that you have something to offer, oh sorry you can't because you quit the site blaming all the nasty ladies, step back and take a look at yourself before casting the blame on the females, surely they can't all be wrong.
As I say my post is no good to you but I hope it helps others not to take themselves too seriously.
Now if any young gorgeous female reads this and fancies a chance of being pleasured many times the good old fashioned way, by mouth, tongue and fingers then get it touch, not much chance but beauty is only skin deep and hopefully some kind lady will take a chance on what other things I have to offer, not a great deal but great oral, unfortunately you have to get between their legs first which the hard part but give up and you have no chance.
Jim
Bullshit Not all women want to meet young men, some of us prefer our own age group"
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I get really upset when I read about the desperation of some (esp young) males on this site..
Yes I know this is not for the faint hearted and we must toughen up and learn to deal with rejection/abusive messages,however I also think we should all try and be 'human' in our responses,letting fragile/vulnerable down gently.
This guy could easily have said fuck it and topped himself..maybe the Samaritans no could be provided alongside sex toys etc..Only my thoughts  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wow you nasty bunch scared him off already lol"
No we didn't, if you check, he posted his post 7 hrs ago and then deleted his profile, if you read the first comment, it does say that the guy had already left but he was posting his comment anyway |
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Oh FFS!
Another whinging, moany tosser gone?
Byeeeeeeeeeee.
I didn't see the OP, he had sulked off by the time I saw his post but this isn't a dating site, it's a lifestyle site.
Nobody on here DESERVES a meet. Having a cock is nothing special. Despite what Mr Kinky thinks....
If you're rubbish socially, dont think that coming on here will get you a sympathy shag!
I'm so fed-up of the (usually) younger guys moaning about why they can't get a meet.
It's simple - 95% of you are completely out of your depth and not wanted on here!
Sorry for the genuine ones, but most of you need to stop watching porn, get on a vanilla dating site, or go to an organised singles club or shock and horror - talk to real people and actually meet real people. That may lead to a relationship and if like Mr Kinky, you're very lucky, you may meet a saucy minx like me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[/I'm an ugly bastard, old, only have a 7" cock...hopefully somebody will take pity on you one day...unfortunately you have to get between their legs first which the hard part but give up and you have no chance.
Jim"
Although I agree with some of the things you've said, older men do appeal to women...a 7' cock isn't that tiny...we don't take pity on men to have sex with them...and the first thing to do is to understand how we feel in the head and not in-between our legs. The biggest female sex organ is the brain!
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