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You meet the girl/guy/couple you've been waiting for to meet for sometime now. They are genuine and who they said they were. But what's the ultimate deal breaker? What's turning you off? |
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"If the lady half is going along with things for her partner in a couple
Dry as a bone.
Her
Yep, we would go so far as to say if either partner is just going along with it. "
yes we had a social meet like this, didn't know until we got there obviously, luckily very local,I just don't understand this going along with it. |
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"If the lady half is going along with things for her partner in a couple
Dry as a bone.
Her
Yep, we would go so far as to say if either partner is just going along with it. yes we had a social meet like this, didn't know until we got there obviously, luckily very local,I just don't understand this going along with it."
We've had several. Very sad that someone feels they have to do it and that the initiating partner doesn't realise. If it's obvious to strangers why isn't obvious to the person who should know them best....or don't they care. |
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I know, no need, we look at it if its not going to happen, as long as all has had a good laugh, a good evening, shake hands much more attractive than all that. |
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Could be as simple as some of their views about general things which come up in conversation, perhaps more shyness face to face than in emails (if they don't loosen up it's a problem for me because I like the guy to take the lead - although I will often go for a second chance if it just looks like nerves) too much charm and smarm in person, bad breath/BO/no effort made re appearance for the meet, or incompatibility when kissing goodbye! |
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"I know, no need, we look at it if its not going to happen, as long as all has had a good laugh, a good evening, shake hands much more attractive than all that."
Us too. We have met far more people where both are fully in to it though, I should point out  .
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"I know, no need, we look at it if its not going to happen, as long as all has had a good laugh, a good evening, shake hands much more attractive than all that.
Us too. We have met far more people where both are fully in to it though, I should point out .
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yes you are a lovely pair, I just sometimes think there maybe the odd one or two we may not click with |
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"If the lady half is going along with things for her partner in a couple
Dry as a bone.
Her
Yep, we would go so far as to say if either partner is just going along with it. yes we had a social meet like this, didn't know until we got there obviously, luckily very local,I just don't understand this going along with it.
We've had several. Very sad that someone feels they have to do it and that the initiating partner doesn't realise. If it's obvious to strangers why isn't obvious to the person who should know them best....or don't they care."
Because people only see what they want to see  |
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"If the lady half is going along with things for her partner in a couple
Dry as a bone.
Her
Yep, we would go so far as to say if either partner is just going along with it. yes we had a social meet like this, didn't know until we got there obviously, luckily very local,I just don't understand this going along with it.
We've had several. Very sad that someone feels they have to do it and that the initiating partner doesn't realise. If it's obvious to strangers why isn't obvious to the person who should know them best....or don't they care.
Because people only see what they want to see "
sometimes when a guy is horny blood rushes to his twig and giggle Berry's rendering the brain useless.... Never happened to me tho.....  |
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