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Do you message people you have no interest in?
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
Somewhere in North Norfolk |
Probably not.
So why would anyone sending a message to someone suddenly expect people to do exactly this, just because they've sent a message?
Isn't thinking you have a right to dictate how someone else uses their time, which may be very limited, rude and entitled? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it not nice just to chat sometimes?
Sure, but I don't really have time to chat to people I'm never going to meet 
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Exactly this  I can chat to people making it clear that's all it will be then sometimes they'll ask about meeting. One guy got so stroppy when he kept asking to meet after I'd made it clear I wasn't interested in more than chatting that I had to block him so I don't see the point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'll sometimes message someone if they have posted an interesting status - it's not that I want to meet them, it's more like they've started a conversation with the FAB community and I'm adding to it.
I'm not being rude or trying to dictate anything. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes we get messages reference a subject on the forum we chat about it for a bit then that's it. It is quite nice to have a chat sometimes and it's easy to spot those using it as an angle to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sometimes we get messages reference a subject on the forum we chat about it for a bit then that's it. It is quite nice to have a chat sometimes and it's easy to spot those using it as an angle to meet. "
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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Is it not nice just to chat sometimes?
Sure, but I don't really have time to chat to people I'm never going to meet
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I have neither the time or the inclination.
My chat time is spent on those I do want to meet and my friends. |
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I think it's annoying and the people who do it are chancers but not sure about rude and entitled.
