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"I dare not say anything in case im charged as being 'biphobic' 
if there was a 'small' chance that we as a couple may be slightly male biphobic what would the sentance be  "
One with a capital letter and a full stop.  |
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over a year ago
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"dont get why people hate bi guys so much on here. -_- x"
I don't think people hate them at all. Just some don't want to meet them as a preference which then gets translated to hatred by people who should know better.
We are more than happy to meet Bi guys and socialise just not for sex.
Anyway I'm getting out of here before the Bi sexual Batman comes along to right the wrongs!!!! |
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"dont get why people hate bi guys so much on here. -_- x
I don't think people hate them at all. Just some don't want to meet them as a preference which then gets translated to hatred by people who should know better.
We are more than happy to meet Bi guys and socialise just not for sex.
Anyway I'm getting out of here before the Bi sexual Batman comes along to right the wrongs!!!! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"dont get why people hate bi guys so much on here. -_- x
I don't think people hate them at all. Just some don't want to meet them as a preference which then gets translated to hatred by people who should know better.
We are more than happy to meet Bi guys and socialise just not for sex.
Anyway I'm getting out of here before the Bi sexual Batman comes along to right the wrongs!!!! "
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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago
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"dont get why people hate bi guys so much on here. -_- x
I don't think people hate them at all. Just some don't want to meet them as a preference which then gets translated to hatred by people who should know better.
We are more than happy to meet Bi guys and socialise just not for sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer bi men "
And that is the beauty of choice and the freedom that we have in this society to choose and not have choice forced upon us.
There is someone on this site for everyone.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer bi men
And that is the beauty of choice and the freedom that we have in this society to choose and not have choice forced upon us.
There is someone on this site for everyone.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"dont get why people hate bi guys so much on here. -_- x
I don't think people hate them at all. Just some don't want to meet them as a preference which then gets translated to hatred by people who should know better.
We are more than happy to meet Bi guys and socialise just not for sex.
Anyway I'm getting out of here before the Bi sexual Batman comes along to right the wrongs!!!!
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Mummy made him sleep in this morning because he was up late on the internet!   |
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"dont get why people hate bi guys so much on here. -_- x"
I don't hate bi guys at all. In fact, some of them are totally lush and I am probably doing myself out of some great meets because of it. I have thought about taking that step to meeting a bi guy and may well do one day. I did say yesterday that the issue as to why I wouldn't meet them was my own. Until then, I will continue doing what I'm doing cos that's what makes me happy.  |
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Some people meet bi guys, some don't
Some people meet guys with a beer belly, some don't
Some people meet guys with ginger hair, some don't
Some people meet guys with glasses, some don't.
I'm all the above and I gave zero shits what people think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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but, that doesn't answer why people are so against it? They're just guys regardless of who they sleep with? What puts people off if the meet was soley you and him lets say? meh.. i dont get it, but yeah lol |
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"but, that doesn't answer why people are so against it?"
I don't think people are against bi guys, they are just using it as a "thing" to moan about because they can't get meets.
There are some people I don't meet, not because I hate them, it's because it's my personal preference.
Except people who use text speak.... I DO hate them |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Can I just point out how inordinately chuffed I am to have had the last word on the previous thread?
I can?
Thank you!
You did make me chuckle with your comment."
Sometimes, someone upstairs just gifts you openings like that and it would be a shame not to make the best use of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but, that doesn't answer why people are so against it?
I don't think people are against bi guys, they are just using it as a "thing" to moan about because they can't get meets.
There are some people I don't meet, not because I hate them, it's because it's my personal preference.
Except people who use text speak.... I DO hate them "
OMG me too! My pet hate!
"Hi u ok" "Wat u doin" haha!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So could somebody enlighten me as to what makes a bi guy a potential leper as opposed to a bi lady.
Some may see us as more of a STD risk."
As opposed to a bi lady ??? |
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there are so many levels of bi. some say they don't meet bi.guys because they don't like the idea your cock has been up a man's bum not all bi or even gay men do anal. not all bi men like sucking cock not all women like it either. just trying to point out bi is not 1 type |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got no probs with bi guys posting in the forum after all it is perfectly ok for bi females, thought this is meant to be an equal nation "
I don't think anybody has ever had a problem with Bi guys posting???!?
If I saw that I would report.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So could somebody enlighten me as to what makes a bi guy a potential leper as opposed to a bi lady."
Some people don't like the thought of two guys together. It hardly makes a bi guy a leper.
Bi guys, straight guys, ginger guys, married guys, tall guys etc etc should just find people that do want to meet them. Simple.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"but, that doesn't answer why people are so against it? They're just guys regardless of who they sleep with? What puts people off if the meet was soley you and him lets say? meh.. i dont get it, but yeah lol"
Everyone has and is entitled to their own reasons.
Previous partners do matter. I, for example, wouldn't want to have sex with, say, one of my best friends previous partners. It doesn't mean there is anything wrong with that bloke, heck if he was right for her he's probably lovely, but I just would feel odd doing it! |
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"but, that doesn't answer why people are so against it? They're just guys regardless of who they sleep with? What puts people off if the meet was soley you and him lets say? meh.. i dont get it, but yeah lol
Everyone has and is entitled to their own reasons.
Previous partners do matter. I, for example, wouldn't want to have sex with, say, one of my best friends previous partners. It doesn't mean there is anything wrong with that bloke, heck if he was right for her he's probably lovely, but I just would feel odd doing it!"
That's a brilliant analogy!!! That explains it perfectly!
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"there are so many levels of bi. some say they don't meet bi.guys because they don't like the idea your cock has been up a man's bum not all bi or even gay men do anal. not all bi men like sucking cock not all women like it either. just trying to point out bi is not 1 type"
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"dont get why people hate bi guys so much on here. -_- x
I don't hate bi guys at all. In fact, some of them are totally lush and I am probably doing myself out of some great meets because of it. I have thought about taking that step to meeting a bi guy and may well do one day. I did say yesterday that the issue as to why I wouldn't meet them was my own. Until then, I will continue doing what I'm doing cos that's what makes me happy. "
I'm bi and think this is balanced, fair and quite sane. Some folk get a bit uppity when they find out I'm bi as if I'm diseased or something but the vast majority politely take it or leave it as per their preference. No big deal really. |
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"dont get why people hate bi guys so much on here. -_- x
I don't hate bi guys at all. In fact, some of them are totally lush and I am probably doing myself out of some great meets because of it. I have thought about taking that step to meeting a bi guy and may well do one day. I did say yesterday that the issue as to why I wouldn't meet them was my own. Until then, I will continue doing what I'm doing cos that's what makes me happy.
I'm bi and think this is balanced, fair and quite sane. Some folk get a bit uppity when they find out I'm bi as if I'm diseased or something but the vast majority politely take it or leave it as per their preference. No big deal really."
Now see, you have proved my earlier point about bi guys being lush. I need to have a rethink! lol |
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By *af105Man
over a year ago
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At least the ones with bi on profile are honest the amount of straight men who I get contacting me is unreal
personally I thiink the problem some cpls have is the male is worried were going to ravish him lol or we are a std risk |
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"dont get why people hate bi guys so much on here. -_- x
I don't hate bi guys at all. In fact, some of them are totally lush and I am probably doing myself out of some great meets because of it. I have thought about taking that step to meeting a bi guy and may well do one day. I did say yesterday that the issue as to why I wouldn't meet them was my own. Until then, I will continue doing what I'm doing cos that's what makes me happy.
I'm bi and think this is balanced, fair and quite sane. Some folk get a bit uppity when they find out I'm bi as if I'm diseased or something but the vast majority politely take it or leave it as per their preference. No big deal really.
Now see, you have proved my earlier point about bi guys being lush. I need to have a rethink! lol "
I had a nosey at your profile. Liked it; I like the idea of good friends with benefits. Sadly I'm but a young'un Shame since we are so close. |
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"dont get why people hate bi guys so much on here. -_- x
I don't hate bi guys at all. In fact, some of them are totally lush and I am probably doing myself out of some great meets because of it. I have thought about taking that step to meeting a bi guy and may well do one day. I did say yesterday that the issue as to why I wouldn't meet them was my own. Until then, I will continue doing what I'm doing cos that's what makes me happy.
I'm bi and think this is balanced, fair and quite sane. Some folk get a bit uppity when they find out I'm bi as if I'm diseased or something but the vast majority politely take it or leave it as per their preference. No big deal really.
Now see, you have proved my earlier point about bi guys being lush. I need to have a rethink! lol
I had a nosey at your profile. Liked it; I like the idea of good friends with benefits. Sadly I'm but a young'un Shame since we are so close."
I did say something about having a young lover lol! On saying that, I really should go and read your profile properly! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I prefer bi men
And that is the beauty of choice and the freedom that we have in this society to choose and not have choice forced upon us.
There is someone on this site for everyone
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And so sayeth the Lord.Oh happy days! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At least the ones with bi on profile are honest the amount of straight men who I get contacting me is unreal
personally I thiink the problem some cpls have is the male is worried were going to ravish him lol or we are a std risk"
Does it really matter what the reason is? The answer is "no", they don't want to meet bi men.
Why not just respect their wishes? |
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if couples want to meet me, and me them then it happens, if they or I are not interested we say so, it is all about freedom of choice, not what is pc, or other peoples _iews. I don't get up set about what others might think, if I am happy with it then whats the problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"but, that doesn't answer why people are so against it?
I don't think people are against bi guys, they are just using it as a "thing" to moan about because they can't get meets.
There are some people I don't meet, not because I hate them, it's because it's my personal preference.
Except people who use text speak.... I DO hate them
OMG me too! My pet hate!
"Hi u ok" "Wat u doin" haha!! "
OMG is of course accepted BBC. English |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"quite happy to sit down and chat with Bi guys ,,,, no problem at all but Mindy will have nothing to do with anal at all so end of story ,,,, if that makes us biphobic then so be it "
what is the link between bi guys and anal with women
I am cool with your choice but I am a wee bit lost |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some people meet bi guys, some don't
Some people meet guys with a beer belly, some don't
Some people meet guys with ginger hair, some don't
Some people meet guys with glasses, some don't.
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I'm all the above and I gave zero shits what people think "
What's wrong with gingers? Lol. Or in my wording fiery redheads! |
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"I don't think bi guys should be allowed to post. Some appear to think they are right smart alecs - always posting some supposedly witty reply and not taking the whole thing seriously. "
*sigh* and a weary one at that. Can anyone spot the irony? |
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"quite happy to sit down and chat with Bi guys ,,,, no problem at all but Mindy will have nothing to do with anal at all so end of story ,,,, if that makes us biphobic then so be it
what is the link between bi guys and anal with women
I am cool with your choice but I am a wee bit lost "
yup I'm lost as well didn't realise anal with a woman made u bi. oh well learn something New everyday |
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"quite happy to sit down and chat with Bi guys ,,,, no problem at all but Mindy will have nothing to do with anal at all so end of story ,,,, if that makes us biphobic then so be it
what is the link between bi guys and anal with women
I am cool with your choice but I am a wee bit lost "
Mindy doesnt really want to have anything to do with blokes that like anal ,,,, its her choice at the end of the day and im not going to risk losing a other wise very willing partner in this lifestyle over something that doesnt worry me ,,,, still enough fish in the sea for us |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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"quite happy to sit down and chat with Bi guys ,,,, no problem at all but Mindy will have nothing to do with anal at all so end of story ,,,, if that makes us biphobic then so be it
what is the link between bi guys and anal with women
I am cool with your choice but I am a wee bit lost
Mindy doesnt really want to have anything to do with blokes that like anal ,,,, its her choice at the end of the day and im not going to risk losing a other wise very willing partner in this lifestyle over something that doesnt worry me ,,,, still enough fish in the sea for us "
sorry, I misread it... it is anal between the guys, not anal with her.
cool |
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"not all bi guys engage in anal with guys as not all gay men do anal"
that is a very fair comment ,,, I suppose for us swinging is a couples thing and we enjoy doing what we do with the folk we choose to play with
as said many times before ,,, we do what we want to do and have no problem with what other folk want to do ,, live and let live |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For obvious reasons I love bi-guys especially those that look hot in a dress!
And Ive chatted with women who love bi-guys.
And with a bi-guy, generally speaking, you get someone a little more broadminded and easy to chat to, after all, I get a lot of messages from 'straight' guys. It would probably put women off to know they message transvestites, but they keep it quiet.
At least openly bi-guys are open and honest and mature enough about about sex and attraction. |
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