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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I've just been talking to a lady who did not like the fact I am bisexual, going as far as saying I'm messed up and being abusive to me when I pointed out she was bisexual.
What's that about? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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In thick skinned but find it strange to be so judge mental and abusive when you are bisexual yourself. I appreciate opinions but I feel this is complete hypocrisy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It sounds to me like you simply entered into conversation with someone who finds your sexual leaning doesn't match their idea of acceptable behaviour....
Which is no big deal |
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"So I've just been talking to a lady who did not like the fact I am bisexual, going as far as saying I'm messed up and being abusive to me when I pointed out she was bisexual.
What's that about? "
how do you know she is bisexual?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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She didn't like that you're bi, that's her choice and she's fully entitled to it. Reading between the lines, it sounds like you then tried to reason/argue with her choice by pointing out that she was bi too - which would rile anyone.
She's entitled to be bisexual and to be turned off by bisexual men without having to justify or rationalise her choice to anyone. Click 'back' and forget about it! |
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"It was on the profile and also a picture showing this. I'm fazed by this person just really wanting too see other peoples thoughts."
ahhh right.....bit hypocritical then innit??
does nowt for me, and tend not to meet bisexual men but everyone is entitled to their choices and shouldn't get grief for it xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was not looking to get into an argument with her, but after a not so nice email I just wanted to point out she was tarring herself. I thanked her for her feedback and left it at that.
I'm nice guy and will take no do an answer and respect others opinions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For some insane reason it seems the norm for a woman being bisexual to be accepted, but when the role is reversed it seems to be frowned on. I just wish I knew why"
This. Just block her. There will always be people who don't agree with your sexual preferences, political opinions, colour of your shirt etc. Ultimately this is a stranger on a website so not worth a second thought. Hit block and find someone who likes you for who you are. |
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"For some insane reason it seems the norm for a woman being bisexual to be accepted, but when the role is reversed it seems to be frowned on. I just wish I knew why
This. Just block her. There will always be people who don't agree with your sexual preferences, political opinions, colour of your shirt etc. Ultimately this is a stranger on a website so not worth a second thought. Hit block and find someone who likes you for who you are."
Totally agree
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For some insane reason it seems the norm for a woman being bisexual to be accepted, but when the role is reversed it seems to be frowned on. I just wish I knew why"
Oddly enough I found it the other way when friends were told I was bisexual because having a gay friend was found but not a dirty disgusting bisexual woman, I put it down to the fact that she was an immature child  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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role reversed..try being cd/tv that seems to be one step short of axe murderer or molestor in a more than a few peoples views.
and on the other foot..its "ok" for a guy to shag around in the general view but if a girl does so..she is a "tart".
Its all a bit mixed up, always has been and probably will be for some time to come too!
good luck, whatever anyone's persuasion.
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"It sounds to me like you simply entered into conversation with someone who finds your sexual leaning doesn't match their idea of acceptable behaviour....
Which is no big deal"
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It would be dull if we all agreed.... with the exception of those agreeing to meet me and then I think they are fantastic 
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