I'd tread as carefully as if you were in a minefield. Holiday bar, couple of drinks, flirting does not indicate that they want a threesome it just means they're relaxed having a couple of drinks and enjoying their holiday.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'd tread as carefully as if you were in a minefield. Holiday bar, couple of drinks, flirting does not indicate that they want a threesome it just means they're relaxed having a couple of drinks and enjoying their holiday. "
yes was thinking the same. they asked me if i was going to come back the next day, said looking forward meeting again. and that they are leaving in 2 days.
i think i will take chance tonight, by asking asking the man of the cpl, in discretion and not to take offense of me asking... something in line of are you on fabswingers?  |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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Before you do that, check your medical insurance covers you for any eventuality, as if you asked my other half that on a relaxed holiday night with no invitation, he'd likely punch you in the nose.
When does a friendly flirt and chat on holiday, with a few drinks does not mean they are up for anything more than a flirt and a laugh. |
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Don't ask .... don't get .
Go for it ...highly unlikely they would get violent and they may feel complimented at worst .... If they weren't before the offer may be tempting .
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thanks for all the advice and comments, most likely i will play it by ear. first of all i ll be a gent, flirt a bit, buy them around of drinks, and see where it goes. if they are into 3 somes or lifestyle i'll let them bring up conversation. they will get the hints of me chatting them up and buying them drinks. |
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Hmm now I'm thinking you're gonna sit back and do too little. There's nothing wrong with pushing things...don't just flirt and buy drinks...that's unlikely to make them start thinking horny thoughts. I'd definitely try and put sex on the conversation...perhaps say you've got a mate you we're always jealous of because he was into this thing called swinging. You don't need to implicate yourself or come across as pervy, pretend you don't know much about it...and don't mention fab or else you'll land yourself right in it...just bend the conversation in the general direction of sexy thinking...start sharing sexy stories.
Sexy stories, flirting, and buying drinks...that should do it...then...if they don't bring up having a threesome...it's because they're not into it.
As you're on holiday and unlikely to ever meet them again you could think of the evening as a crescendo that's either gonna end in a threesome or in you proposing a threesome. If you've got em all naughty and sexy your proposal shouldn't come as too much of a surprise to them...but yes...it would be much much better if you managed to get them to propose it...but if they don't...go for it!!! you're on holiday and you only live once...nothing to loose...good luck mate |
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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago
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"Before you do that, check your medical insurance covers you for any eventuality, as if you asked my other half that on a relaxed holiday night with no invitation, he'd likely punch you in the nose."
And does your other half have a suitable medical insurance as well, in the event he makes an invitation to another bloke to join you for a threesome and gets a punch in the nose?
Or are you assuming there's no risk to him getting a punch in the nose, but he can dish out a punch to someone for asking him a question that he feels safe asking someone else? |
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I think people are going to all think differently in this one. However we are not swingers 24/7 and even though we both really enjoy threesomes we aren't on the look out all the time, of someone misread friendly chatting in a bar we wouldn't be offended but we wouldn't be happy either so unless you can be 100% sure you will get a positive or neutral answer I would suggest leaving this to fantasy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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So? Fess up...did you?
A) Bottle it
B) Get a black eye
C) Have your face thrust into a pair of lovely boobies and get ransacked back to theirs for a thorough shagging
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Went out last night, late though because I was having drinks with friends before. As I walk in I saw them there talking to an older gent.
I went on other side of them, where the man was. I believe you have gain trust and respect of the m before can even think of any fun... so he calls my name right away. And we said our hellos...we drank and laughed like teenagers...I mean I cant remember if the bar was full or some people or just us. I asked them if the were nudist in reference to them saying skinny dipping the night before. He was cracking up saying to wife and people near us trim or bush time to head for nude beach lol
They are not nudist though...at end of night we sat at table talking...I got an email and invite to stay if I ever visit them in uk.
Last thing remember of that night before road home was going to the wc and him there to talking away...I can't recall what we were talking about...or even if we said good bye before partying ways.
Tonight is the last night...I guess will have a lot to talk about filling in the blanks. 
I dont even rember if I paid my tab...
Still see where it goes.I love meeting cpls at random become friends and see if leads to a 3 some.
Sorry for typos using my phone |
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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago
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"Before you do that, check your medical insurance covers you for any eventuality, as if you asked my other half that on a relaxed holiday night with no invitation, he'd likely punch you in the nose.
And does your other half have a suitable medical insurance as well, in the event he makes an invitation to another bloke to join you for a threesome and gets a punch in the nose?
Or are you assuming there's no risk to him getting a punch in the nose, but he can dish out a punch to someone for asking him a question that he feels safe asking someone else?"
He doesn't do the asking - he's not actually fussed about swinging - its my thing more than his, but I have his permission to meet without him, and I wouldn't approach someone I wasn't sure was interested in swinging, either via fab or from friends I already know. |
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