Hubby and I had this, A friend of hubby messaged us, I've fantasised about him to hubby before so we wanted to meet but held back, eventually told him we knew him, he said he'd like to meet and it was very nice when we did!!!   |
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Go for it!
We met a workmate of mine (Ric) years ago with his wife.
He and his wife split up some time later (not swinging related) and we both now have different jobs but we're still great friends with him and his new partner who knows all about our past exploits. 
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"Problem is the pics he has seen. I guess ultimate fear would be word being spread. No pretty sure hubby was as shocked as I am about it."
Has he seen face pictures and knows it's you?
It can work out well as people have said but it can go the other way. You are concerned already what pleasure would you get if you were worried about possible consequences? It's a decision only you can make but when we received a face picture of my colleague we blocked him straight away the old saying never mix business and pleasure might be a cliche but that doesn't mean there's no truth in it.  |
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"why the nastiness of blocking him when he did nothing wrong? why just not explain that you wont meet work-mates and carry on.
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blocking isn't nasty, it's a tool that can be used to protect your privacy. We automatically block anyone from our home area and we're not nasty.  |
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