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why do I feel distant after sex..

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I give 100% whilst having sex and totally adore it etc. But as soon as I cum...I need to almost distance myself for a short time ...WHY!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I give 100% whilst having sex and totally adore it etc. But as soon as I cum...I need to almost distance myself for a short time ...WHY!!!"

Your a man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Same here, havent fucked anyone since february.. I need a brake lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you not like being touched right after? Some people are very sensitive

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I give 100% whilst having sex and totally adore it etc. But as soon as I cum...I need to almost distance myself for a short time ...WHY!!!"

That would be them pesky chemicals mate, nothing you can do about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think of a werewolf turning back to human

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Panda bear.

Eats shoots and leaves.

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

nooo . thank god i dont want any distance between me and my partner .. your missing out on lovely cuddles lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Occasionally yes. It is very dependant on who you have just done the deed with for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I give 100% whilst having sex and totally adore it etc. But as soon as I cum...I need to almost distance myself for a short time ...WHY!!!"

Your connection has been purely sexual by the sounds of it. If you connect on other levels with your sexual partner you may find different.

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By *uited staffs guyMan over a year ago

staffordshire

I agree, if it's a Dom/ sub partnership then cumming definitely isn't the end, nor indeed in loving non swinging relationships where's there's often lots of cuddling etc afterwards

But as above a lot of that is neurotransmitter related with prolactin thought to be one of the main post ejaculation hormones released

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I agree, if it's a Dom/ sub partnership then cumming definitely isn't the end, nor indeed in loving non swinging relationships where's there's often lots of cuddling etc afterwards

But as above a lot of that is neurotransmitter related with prolactin thought to be one of the main post ejaculation hormones released "

Whereas you want oxytocin released.

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By *nigmatic1Woman over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

"nooo . thank god i dont want any distance between me and my partner .. your missing out on lovely cuddles lol "

I have to agree there

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By *uited staffs guyMan over a year ago

staffordshire

Yes if I remember right oxytocin is linked to bonding etc so in this case he needs some of that!

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By *picyspiregirlCouple over a year ago

chesterfield

You may enjoy phone sex more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm not much of a cuddler after sex. I don't want that part of it from here. I would rather a nice cup of tea to warm down

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yes if I remember right oxytocin is linked to bonding etc so in this case he needs some of that!"

Oxytocin and Viagra.... hmmmmm could be a good night.

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By *heWolfMan over a year ago

warwickshire

Better still, Oxycontin...

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By *opinovMan over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I find the post-ejaculation torpor only lasts about ten or fifteen minutes, during which I love the continued physical closeness of cuddling and caressing, before I'm overcome by lust once more.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's your post orgasm guilt..

Must be something to do with what you are doing, perhaps you shouldn't be doing it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I used to feel a bit guilty as a child hammering the old peck!!

I was a good boy...that was easily corrupted..

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