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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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who should supply them?
Had this out with a guy lastnight, apparently we should have them (condoms) if we're wanting a guy to meet us. Whereas another guy we met already had them. Which is right in our eyes,if your a man/couple going to meet a single/couple then you should make sure you have protection. Not presume the the other party have some for you!
same goes for us,we have taken our own when meeting couples in the past! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"who should supply them?
Had this out with a guy lastnight, apparently we should have them (condoms) if we're wanting a guy to meet us. Whereas another guy we met already had them. Which is right in our eyes,if your a man/couple going to meet a single/couple then you should make sure you have protection. Not presume the the other party have some for you!
same goes for us,we have taken our own when meeting couples in the past!"
if he wants sex then he should supply |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"who should supply them?
Had this out with a guy lastnight, apparently we should have them (condoms) if we're wanting a guy to meet us. Whereas another guy we met already had them. Which is right in our eyes,if your a man/couple going to meet a single/couple then you should make sure you have protection. Not presume the the other party have some for you!
same goes for us,we have taken our own when meeting couples in the past!"
Each to there own but I'd personally bring my own I wouldn't expect the lady to x |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Everyone should look after their own sexual health therefore the onus is on all parties to being condoms to the meet. "
Its not as if they weigh lots. I carry a few with me all the time, just in case.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"who should supply them?
Had this out with a guy lastnight, apparently we should have them (condoms) if we're wanting a guy to meet us. Whereas another guy we met already had them. Which is right in our eyes,if your a man/couple going to meet a single/couple then you should make sure you have protection. Not presume the the other party have some for you!
same goes for us,we have taken our own when meeting couples in the past!"
I always use my own I get decent quality ones not cheap shit a quid spent saves 18 years of thousands of quids. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"who should supply them?
Had this out with a guy lastnight, apparently we should have them (condoms) if we're wanting a guy to meet us. Whereas another guy we met already had them. Which is right in our eyes,if your a man/couple going to meet a single/couple then you should make sure you have protection. Not presume the the other party have some for you!
same goes for us,we have taken our own when meeting couples in the past!
if he wants sex then he should supply"
surely same applies to you as you wanting sex too. But i always take some as matter of course. |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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I always have condoms on me...there's half a dozen in my handbag as I speak, there's a shedload in my bedside cabinet and my shag bag has plenty. I'd never go on a meet without them. I occasionally meet a couple who prefer bareback and the male half usually "forgets" my insistence on safe so I make sure I have some to hand. I think all parties should have them but as I'm always prepared it's no big deal if the other party hasn't got any |
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"who should supply them?
Had this out with a guy lastnight, apparently we should have them (condoms) if we're wanting a guy to meet us. Whereas another guy we met already had them. Which is right in our eyes,if your a man/couple going to meet a single/couple then you should make sure you have protection. Not presume the the other party have some for you!
same goes for us,we have taken our own when meeting couples in the past!
if he wants sex then he should supply"
And the couple he is meeting don't want sex so shouldn't have to supply?? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"who should supply them?
Had this out with a guy lastnight, apparently we should have them (condoms) if we're wanting a guy to meet us. Whereas another guy we met already had them. Which is right in our eyes,if your a man/couple going to meet a single/couple then you should make sure you have protection. Not presume the the other party have some for you!
same goes for us,we have taken our own when meeting couples in the past!
if he wants sex then he should supply
surely same applies to you as you wanting sex too. But i always take some as matter of course."
as we put, when we meet we take our own. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think every man involved should supply their own. If a single woman wants to have some to hand as well then that's great, but condoms do vary in size and shape - each man should equip himself with something that's a good fit. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"as we put, when we meet we take our own.
So what's the problem? You had some, so can play with impunity."
the fact is was trying to arrange ameet with a guy and was saying he hasnt got any and we should supply them. We think not.
as for past events,yes we have like everyone else |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum |
"as we put, when we meet we take our own.
So what's the problem? You had some, so can play with impunity.
the fact is was trying to arrange ameet with a guy and was saying he hasnt got any and we should supply them. We think not.
as for past events,yes we have like everyone else"
If he was being an arse about then you are within your rights to tell him to sling his hook. But I would never use lack on condoms to prevent a meet that might be an awesome shag. The amount the GUM clinic throws at me for free I have enough to last me for several really good nights.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think every man involved should supply their own. If a single woman wants to have some to hand as well then that's great, but condoms do vary in size and shape - each man should equip himself with something that's a good fit."
This, unless he's a standard fit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am responsible for myself so I always have condoms with me,plus I use specific ones that don't irritate me so prefer to use my own
I don't rely on anyone else to provide my protection  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I always bring my own. On one occasion I was caught out as we had planned a social meet that quickly got heated, but after speaking to the couple they had some anyway, I think the onus is on both parties to have condoms. I know plenty of single girls prefer to use their own which is fine by me. They feel better knowing how they've been stored, but out of respect for any lady I'd always bring them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I put a clean one on every morning. Always best to be prepared, dib, dib, dib.  "
Do not jest,I came across a man last week at a club who had done just that |
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"Everyone should look after their own sexual health therefore the onus is on all parties to being condoms to the meet. "
Totally agree with this. Behave like an adult if doing adult activities! !!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I put a clean one on every morning. Always best to be prepared, dib, dib, dib.
Do not jest,I came across a man last week at a club who had done just that "
No way lmao |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always take a few different varieties of my own but find that most men like to supply their own as they have a fave type to use that works best for them.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think every man involved should supply their own. If a single woman wants to have some to hand as well then that's great, but condoms do vary in size and shape - each man should equip himself with something that's a good fit.
This, unless he's a standard fit"
Not me, I'm afraid, mine bulges in the middle |
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At Monday's party we had a small bowl that the hosts had put some condoms in. The rest of us attending all put some of our own in so with all the different brands it looked like a pic-n-mix selection |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get a supply of them free from the sexual health clinic so if a guy asks I always tell him I have them, if he doesn't ask then I'd expect him to bring some with him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know of a case man turns ur to meet couple slips condom on opps he cums in her turns out he had done it before he tampered with his so maybe both and make him wear 2 |
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"I know of a case man turns ur to meet couple slips condom on opps he cums in her turns out he had done it before he tampered with his so maybe both and make him wear 2 "
 wearing 2 condoms increases the risk of them breaking due to the friction! |
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"Both should have them. But if someone turned up without any, saying they though I should provide them, I wouldn't be very happy! That's just rude. "
Please I don't have a condom can you get one before I arrive. Thank you |
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