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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering how many messages land in yr inbox daily. i can get anything between zero and ten...which is quite low...very low compared to some who say they get hundreds
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering how many messages land in yr inbox daily. i can get anything between zero and ten...which is quite low...very low compared to some who say they get hundreds
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Ha!! Most I've ever had on here was 4!! Beat that!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I think at best probably 3 maybe 4?
Its incredible the amount some get on here. I met with a woman from another site and she showed me some messages it was beyond ridiculous the sheer volume. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its quite often, when I'd be lucky to get even one in a week. The joy of living in nowhere land...
I feel your pain! "
I receive hundreds...from myself |
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I think I have probably got less than 10 out of the blue messages in the whole year Mind you my profile was mad and I had crap pics, I have tamed it considerably. But its still fun being on here even if not many people are interested in meeting you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes days without. Sometimes a fair few but never an insurmountable amount.
When we had a single female account on here for just her it got to very silly levels even with no profile text or pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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From new men none if my age range is low and I block all others. If it's open to anyone I could get a hundred as I don't sign out and live in a highly populated area |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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All interesting comments. i may just message you all now so you can say youve had one from little missie today haha
must admit half my messages are from people that dont read profile n just say hi...im horny today...you?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Since I put the new picture up then the message count has gone up also
Eye catching
And I'm one who saw the pic and suddenly just HAD to message "
And you got a reply |
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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Just wondering how many messages land in yr inbox daily. i can get anything between zero and ten...which is quite low...very low compared to some who say they get hundreds
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About the same here. Unless it's a Friday night or long weekend! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"At the moment our filters are quite strict so barely any unsolicited ones. From experience relaxing the filters ups the numbers considerably."
i may just reduce the filters on.my profile to see if that changes anything |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just wondering how many messages land in yr inbox daily. i can get anything between zero and ten...which is quite low...very low compared to some who say they get hundreds
About the same here. Unless it's a Friday night or long weekend!" another bank hol on its way we may be bombarded lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"1-10 a day.
I often get lovely messages complimenting my 'great rack' or 'awesome tits' !
At least I think they're aimed at me?
Filters do help!
must admit i get some really nice complimentary messages bout my tittie n bottie and the otherss are thanking me for replying to them even though ive said they were not my type
A"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most we have had in a day was 22. We usually get 5-10 a day. Most are just one liners or cut and pasted generic messages they send to everyone.
We reply to the odd one if someone has taken time to pen a decent mail or just say thanks if someone has complimented jools. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Noone here had three hundred in a day yet?
i often read in profiles that they cant reply to all messages as theres just not enough time to as they get far too many. just curious who gets that.amount as id like to copy their profile lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a single profile a while back within a week it had 1500 messages and that was with filters on and asking for winks instead of messages,it was a complete nightmare so I deleted it,it does happen but id rather have no messages than 100s of rubbish ones,or even look and message myself |
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"Noone here had three hundred in a day yet?
i often read in profiles that they cant reply to all messages as theres just not enough time to as they get far too many. just curious who gets that.amount as id like to copy their profile lol x"
When I first joined there were about a hundred within an hour. That's without having pics up or anything! Then I learnt how to use filters and that the block button was my new best friend lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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depends....fresh messages from folk i don't regularly talk to....one a week perhaps....i used to have peppa pig as my avatar and the numbers were definately higher, now i have this artsy fartsy face pic its dropped...
ah well, sticking with my artsy fartsy face pic for now... |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
Over the rainbow, under the bridge |
"Yeah I think at best probably 3 maybe 4?
Its incredible the amount some get on here. I met with a woman from another site and she showed me some messages it was beyond ridiculous the sheer volume. "
Was that in one day or had she not opened them for a while? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest, I'm really shocked, I thought you gorgeous girlies got hundreds, I've found a new lease of life all of a sudden. For the record, 3 a day on a good day x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering how many messages land in yr inbox daily. i can get anything between zero and ten...which is quite low...very low compared to some who say they get hundreds
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About the same for me and at least half are from my friends list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and as crystal is working away tonight we will inevitably get some from people who spot our profile on who's near."
same here as I'm working away in Plymouth at the moment we are getting a good few a day from horny sailors and marines asking if we want to meet they would be slightly upset if I turned
up alone in a dress , also amazing how many can't read !!
fozzie |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"Just wondering how many messages land in yr inbox daily. i can get anything between zero and ten...which is quite low...very low compared to some who say they get hundreds
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Same here. It's closer to 0 though most days. |
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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago
Up North |
"I have never looked at my winks and been on here two or three weeks now. Have nearly six hundred, that's a lot of winks, bless! Xxxx"
When you first join the numbers are silly. Until you learn about filters. They are a god send |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Before I applied pretty much every message filter known to man, I used to get upwards of 50 a day, now I get a far more managable 10 to 20!"
Haha! Ditto. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh and as crystal is working away tonight we will inevitably get some from people who spot our profile on who's near.
same here as I'm working away in Plymouth at the moment we are getting a good few a day from horny sailors and marines asking if we want to meet they would be slightly upset if I turned
up alone in a dress , also amazing how many can't read !!
fozzie " i think a trip to.plymouth cld be fun...who fancies an old fashioned sharrabang (coach trip) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"(m) We've had 1 message in the last 9 months. Don't know why. Sometimes I wonder why we even bother, but she is still hopefull. "
You can send messages yourselves,its allowed if you like the look of someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and as crystal is working away tonight we will inevitably get some from people who spot our profile on who's near.
same here as I'm working away in Plymouth at the moment we are getting a good few a day from horny sailors and marines asking if we want to meet they would be slightly upset if I turned
up alone in a dress , also amazing how many can't read !!
fozzie i think a trip to.plymouth cld be fun...who fancies an old fashioned sharrabang (coach trip)"
every girls dream is a royal marine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and as crystal is working away tonight we will inevitably get some from people who spot our profile on who's near.
same here as I'm working away in Plymouth at the moment we are getting a good few a day from horny sailors and marines asking if we want to meet they would be slightly upset if I turned
up alone in a dress , also amazing how many can't read !!
fozzie i think a trip to.plymouth cld be fun...who fancies an old fashioned sharrabang (coach trip)
every girls dream is a royal marine "
Nah every royal marines fantasy is man in a tutu |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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midweek is usually slow and we might get 3 a day max, the weekends are usually busier for messages and especially if we have a status, new pics or a meet listed! |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
I once counted mine. I had nigh on 200. Feel free to doubt it, as it is a silly amount, but it was true on that day. A lot were from friends, a few were on-going conversations and a lot were from people who had seen me in the forum or seen my pics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We used to get upwards of 70 per day - mostly from guys who totally ignored the preferences outlined on our profile.
Since then we have sharpened up the profile & blocked wholesale all those repeat offenders who still ignore it & wont take a polite no for an answer.
Probably down to a couple per day. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here maybe between 1-5 a day apart from ongoing conversations.
On my single profile which I can't filter it can be 0 it can be 180, feel feel to read that out in Tony Greens voice. That day I had put lots of pics up though and it did test whether I was willing to say no thanks to everyone (I did)
Average is about 30 a day during the week. |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
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"On here maybe between 1-5 a day apart from ongoing conversations.
On my single profile which I can't filter it can be 0 it can be 180, feel feel to read that out in Tony Greens voice. That day I had put lots of pics up though and it did test whether I was willing to say no thanks to everyone (I did)
Average is about 30 a day during the week."
What's your single profile username. I wouldn't mind having a perve... oops I mean read |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On here maybe between 1-5 a day apart from ongoing conversations.
On my single profile which I can't filter it can be 0 it can be 180, feel feel to read that out in Tony Greens voice. That day I had put lots of pics up though and it did test whether I was willing to say no thanks to everyone (I did)
Average is about 30 a day during the week.
What's your single profile username. I wouldn't mind having a perve... oops I mean read "
It's not on Fab. Soz. |
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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago
In Your Bush |
"On here maybe between 1-5 a day apart from ongoing conversations.
On my single profile which I can't filter it can be 0 it can be 180, feel feel to read that out in Tony Greens voice. That day I had put lots of pics up though and it did test whether I was willing to say no thanks to everyone (I did)
Average is about 30 a day during the week.
What's your single profile username. I wouldn't mind having a perve... oops I mean read
It's not on Fab. Soz."
Scoots off to creativeknitting.com for a peruse |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On here maybe between 1-5 a day apart from ongoing conversations.
On my single profile which I can't filter it can be 0 it can be 180, feel feel to read that out in Tony Greens voice. That day I had put lots of pics up though and it did test whether I was willing to say no thanks to everyone (I did)
Average is about 30 a day during the week.
What's your single profile username. I wouldn't mind having a perve... oops I mean read
It's not on Fab. Soz.
Scoots off to creativeknitting.com for a peruse "
Woollen crotchless knickers, all the rage. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh and as crystal is working away tonight we will inevitably get some from people who spot our profile on who's near.
same here as I'm working away in Plymouth at the moment we are getting a good few a day from horny sailors and marines asking if we want to meet they would be slightly upset if I turned
up alone in a dress , also amazing how many can't read !!
fozzie i think a trip to.plymouth cld be fun...who fancies an old fashioned sharrabang (coach trip)
every girls dream is a royal marine
Nah every royal marines fantasy is man in a tutu"
I'm not going to explain myself again , I was quite d*unk and it wasn't a tutu ,you would never catch me wearing one of those. it was in fact a womens court jesters dress !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went through a brief phase a few weeks ago where my inbox was fairly active, alas it's gone very quiet again now. I've found the site has pretty much been stuck in the winter for close to a year now, very few prospects of opportunities to pursue. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"(m) We've had 1 message in the last 9 months. Don't know why. Sometimes I wonder why we even bother, but she is still hopefull.
You can send messages yourselves,its allowed if you like the look of someone "
We've sent quite a few messages since we joined but have had no replies to any of them, not 1. Our 1st contact messages usually go along the lines of saying hello, read their profile & would be interested in chatting to them. We also like to mention something from their profile text because that should prove to them that we did read it & not just saying we did. The 1 message we did get said she was interested, we sent a reply & never heard from her again either. What are we doing wrong? Is our profile that bad? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On here maybe between 1-5 a day apart from ongoing conversations.
On my single profile which I can't filter it can be 0 it can be 180, feel feel to read that out in Tony Greens voice. That day I had put lots of pics up though and it did test whether I was willing to say no thanks to everyone (I did)
Average is about 30 a day during the week.
What's your single profile username. I wouldn't mind having a perve... oops I mean read
It's not on Fab. Soz." awww poor ryan is gonna miss out now on his afternoon read. oooops i mean perve x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get a few but since we've blocked non verified people not as much. We done a dirty cam show and got loads ha ha. We've only been on a week though, newbies!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to get around 100 a day - most I received was around 300 in a day after posting a few new pics - keeping your status fresh and posting new pics keeps em coming ! X I get around 10 a day now as its clear Im not looking at the moment xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We generally don't get a lot of mail out of nowhere, it's usually responses to forum posts or if we've winked/fabbed someone. "
this is the same as us - we would mail you but too old |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get about 10 a week. I do send nice considerate messages and very rarely get replies. But hey I suppose it's not to be. We all have different tastes. But can I say fair shout to all of you that admit to only getting a handful of messages. |
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"Just wondering how many messages land in yr inbox daily. i can get anything between zero and ten...which is quite low...very low compared to some who say they get hundreds
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Compared to others fems I know that sure sounds low however have you thought it may be relative to your profile....no verifications and been on here over a year. A previous thread said most couples etc reading such would dismiss on that basis, harsh but appears true. |
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Ok you don't need to show them that's your choice hence the veri summary is for but hey was offering a potential explanation based on another thread whereby if a single fem in that position people are very sceptical until proven otherwise I guess.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Noone here had three hundred in a day yet?
i often read in profiles that they cant reply to all messages as theres just not enough time to as they get far too many. just curious who gets that.amount as id like to copy their profile lol x"
We have 300 unread in our box at the moment but we didn't get them all today lol. We do get lots everyday though and some people get very arsey when we don't reply x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering how many messages land in yr inbox daily. i can get anything between zero and ten...which is quite low...very low compared to some who say they get hundreds
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be careful what you wish for ;o) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Ok you don't need to show them that's your choice hence the veri summary is for but hey was offering a potential explanation based on another thread whereby if a single fem in that position people are very sceptical until proven otherwise I guess...."
fair point, thanks |
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